>  (Besides which,even if I had told the whole world, how many people do
>you know that find a real live horse under their tree
>Christmas morning? Some of us really do set ourselves
>up for the fall, don't we?)

Almost as funny as a real live baby.  When I was about five or six I sat on 
Santa's lap and when he asked me what I wanted for Christmas, I told him a 
baby.  "What kind of baby doll do you want,little girl?"  "No,not a doll,I 
want a real baby."  I can't remember his response after this, but I was off 
his lap in a hurry.  I can understand everyone's sentiments concerning the 
commercialism;I hate it as well.  I like giving gifts and I don't like 
receiving?  And I warned family and friends this year NOT to give me 
anything.  But I went all out this year because I had a few extra dollars.  
Next year I will probably be broke and they won't get a thing..... except my 
love.  My point is it's not so much the gift,but a gesture of remembering a 
certain perfume someone likes or a certain sweater with just the right 
color.  It's a remembrance.  My family and friends will continue to love me 
regardless if I give them a gift or not.  I do agree that gift-giving at 
Christmas has as much to do with Christ as a piece of salami does.  
BTW,gifts and giving does not stem from the three wise men.  IT comes from 
the Romans......the Romans giving gifts of gratitude to their underlings.

I enjoyed your post.

Bree







>
>So, I want a quiet and simple Christmas and it seems,
>as years go by, that that is more likely to happen.
>My family (that is, my sisters, brother and I) have
>drifted more apart since our parents died, and we all
>have families of our own.  I would like to drift very
>far apart from the ex, except that he keeps on hanging
>around, trying to do things "as a family" (speaking of
>un-clued-in), so that I have to be extremely blunt and
>nasty with him telling him he's free to do things with
>the kids but I don't want to be there (and he still
>doesn't get it - anyone got a sledge hammer?)
>
>I suppose it's part of midlife crisis.  One of these
>days, it'll all pass and maybe Christmas will be
>simple again.
>
>As far as Christmas music goes, I love some of it,
>hate some of it - most of what I hate is the stuff
>that you hear in every shopping mall and elevator from
>Nov 1 on, way too cloying and overdone.  Still,
>there's some lovely stuff out there and fortunately,
>as of December 26, it usually disappears for another
>ten months!
>
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