jim>>when I said that the professed love between listers "vanishes when the rubber hits the road" stems from the fact that some of the same individuals who are lovey-dovey with one another at times can then engage in unpleasantries when the going gets tough.<<
first off i have to say how great it is to have you posting again jim! & am so happy to hear you will be contributing more of your thoughts on your days off...i always enjoy your posts this kind of thing you speak of above also happens between people who love each other on a daily basis in face to face relationships...in fact, i have noticed that it is often those who we love most (& trust) that we feel most comfortable expressing our other less attractive emotions... *************************************** Kate Bennett: www.katebennett.com Sponsored by Polysonics/Atlantis Sound Labs Over the Moon- "bringing the melancholy world of twilight to life almost like magic" All Music Guide ******************************************** "Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world, indeed it is the only thing that ever has." Margaret Mead
