Dear all,  B & V (iji)!! Really nice to know that these comedies (even
calamities!!) occur when it comes to names..Whats in a name after all?

When I was new to joynet, I used to receive mails from people asking what my
name meant! I explained to many the research & technology done before the
manufacturing of my name..I give the same here for u all.

My parents wanted to call me Mariadas! that name didn't go well with grand
parents and others:) so they had to put their heads together and come up
with something else. That's when thought of making a new name for they're
first born..This is the formula they invented ... me is the son of Jose &
Susan so Jo+Su, the N is the first letter of our family name, Nellanikat:) +
also I was born on a Sunday therefore SUN..

That's how it  is Jo+Su+N = me

Heres a bit more, like Viji & Biji  there was a time I too I hated my name
coz most of my peers branded me as "Josoon in the cocoon", some used to say
sine theta + cosine theta = Josun the whole fool:), still others use to say
Josun Jose, Gadha ka boss! (Josun Jose Donkeys boss!) etc etc.. Those times
I really wondered, were my parents so impoverished for names that they had
to concoct such a lousy name??! I didn't know any of the legal wrangles
involved but I wanted another name, so I went to a loving priest told him
about it. He's the one who helped me like my name:). He said, have u met any
other person with ure name? I said no ( I swear till now I haven't!) then he
went on, that's what u are, a unique, un-repeatable gift of God, never again
will there be another u!  what a beautiful name u have!,.. that was one of
my first lessons in self acceptance..

To sum it all, this morning when I got up, I got up with a wonderful
feeling.. that of being Josun Jose:).

Make it a gr8 day, Each of u is unique with no carbon copies!!

Love and prayers in Jesus,


Josun Jose


----- Original Message -----
From: George, Vijy <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: 'Joynet' <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Cc: 'biji james' <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Sent: Thursday, November 29, 2001 10:55 AM
Subject: RE: [JOYnet] My real identity!!!!!!!!!!!!!


> Dear all and Biji
> This is  form an equally disturbed person ...my name is Viji, Biji its a
> matter of one letter, we are same.
> Even though I didn't recd any Joynet mails enquiring about my identity,I
> have something interesting to share .I had an Email friend. He used to
write
> me letters thinking I'm a girl and I also didn't revealed my identity for
a
> long time .But accidentally once it was revealed and my friend disappeared
> for ever
>
> One more incident... when I entered into my pre-degree class there was a
> person to welcome me ...a girl called Biji, when ever the teacher calls my
> name  , I can hear a giggling sound from the girls bench...this made me
> furious and my struggle(freedom struggle) to change my name reached its
> height .As a result there was a long debate in my house regarding my name
> and one of my uncle came up  with a new meaning(only meaning) to my name
.He
> said if you split your name  that is Vi - ji , Vi stands for Vihayas(sky)
> and ji stands for Jigneshu(person who seeks knowledge). So he declared the
> meaning of my name as person who seeks knowledge even beyond the sky. So I
> tried  to console my self thinking this and whenever my parents shouted at
> me for not studying well I put my name as a shield .....
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: biji james [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
> Sent: Thursday, November 29, 2001 7:12 AM
> To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
> Subject: [JOYnet] My real identity!!!!!!!!!!!!!
>
>
> Dear all beloved of Jesus,
>
> I am getting lot of mails starting with something like
> this "At the outset it self i would like to clarify
> something, r u a guy or a gal? i've heard both
> versions of u in joynet
> (some
> say she others he!!) Whats u're gender dear?".( due
> apologies to the sender of this mail).
>
> I am afraid as to what kind of image will all
> Joynetter friends will be having about me. Those who
> know me well will be thinking after reading all this
> kind of mails whether I have undergone a "sex change".
>
> I am very happy that atleast my name is exciting the
> curiosity and raising the eyebrows of eligible and
> non-eligible bachelors of Joynet.
>
> I won't be surprised even if I get mails asking me for
> a date.
>
> But Sorry Guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
>
> I am a guy. Fortunately or unfortunately, my parents
> gave me the name Biji, which is mostly used for naming
> gals in Kerala, without my knowledge. I thought of
> changing my name several times but the fear of going
> through the elaborate procedure of following Indian
> government system for changing my name in all of my
> certificates motivated me not to go ahead with this.
>
> So, by God's grace I am happy with my name "Biji"
>
> For any further clarification or doubt clearance in
> this regard you can contact me directly through e-mail
> to me.
>
> Your' loving (brother),
> With love and prayers,
> Biji James
> Bangalore
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