Dear all, B & V (iji)!! Really nice to know that these comedies (even calamities!!) occur when it comes to names..Whats in a name after all?
When I was new to joynet, I used to receive mails from people asking what my name meant! I explained to many the research & technology done before the manufacturing of my name..I give the same here for u all. My parents wanted to call me Mariadas! that name didn't go well with grand parents and others:) so they had to put their heads together and come up with something else. That's when thought of making a new name for they're first born..This is the formula they invented ... me is the son of Jose & Susan so Jo+Su, the N is the first letter of our family name, Nellanikat:) + also I was born on a Sunday therefore SUN.. That's how it is Jo+Su+N = me Heres a bit more, like Viji & Biji there was a time I too I hated my name coz most of my peers branded me as "Josoon in the cocoon", some used to say sine theta + cosine theta = Josun the whole fool:), still others use to say Josun Jose, Gadha ka boss! (Josun Jose Donkeys boss!) etc etc.. Those times I really wondered, were my parents so impoverished for names that they had to concoct such a lousy name??! I didn't know any of the legal wrangles involved but I wanted another name, so I went to a loving priest told him about it. He's the one who helped me like my name:). He said, have u met any other person with ure name? I said no ( I swear till now I haven't!) then he went on, that's what u are, a unique, un-repeatable gift of God, never again will there be another u! what a beautiful name u have!,.. that was one of my first lessons in self acceptance.. To sum it all, this morning when I got up, I got up with a wonderful feeling.. that of being Josun Jose:). Make it a gr8 day, Each of u is unique with no carbon copies!! Love and prayers in Jesus, Josun Jose ----- Original Message ----- From: George, Vijy <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: 'Joynet' <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Cc: 'biji james' <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Thursday, November 29, 2001 10:55 AM Subject: RE: [JOYnet] My real identity!!!!!!!!!!!!! > Dear all and Biji > This is form an equally disturbed person ...my name is Viji, Biji its a > matter of one letter, we are same. > Even though I didn't recd any Joynet mails enquiring about my identity,I > have something interesting to share .I had an Email friend. He used to write > me letters thinking I'm a girl and I also didn't revealed my identity for a > long time .But accidentally once it was revealed and my friend disappeared > for ever > > One more incident... when I entered into my pre-degree class there was a > person to welcome me ...a girl called Biji, when ever the teacher calls my > name , I can hear a giggling sound from the girls bench...this made me > furious and my struggle(freedom struggle) to change my name reached its > height .As a result there was a long debate in my house regarding my name > and one of my uncle came up with a new meaning(only meaning) to my name .He > said if you split your name that is Vi - ji , Vi stands for Vihayas(sky) > and ji stands for Jigneshu(person who seeks knowledge). So he declared the > meaning of my name as person who seeks knowledge even beyond the sky. So I > tried to console my self thinking this and whenever my parents shouted at > me for not studying well I put my name as a shield ..... > > -----Original Message----- > From: biji james [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] > Sent: Thursday, November 29, 2001 7:12 AM > To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > Subject: [JOYnet] My real identity!!!!!!!!!!!!! > > > Dear all beloved of Jesus, > > I am getting lot of mails starting with something like > this "At the outset it self i would like to clarify > something, r u a guy or a gal? i've heard both > versions of u in joynet > (some > say she others he!!) Whats u're gender dear?".( due > apologies to the sender of this mail). > > I am afraid as to what kind of image will all > Joynetter friends will be having about me. Those who > know me well will be thinking after reading all this > kind of mails whether I have undergone a "sex change". > > I am very happy that atleast my name is exciting the > curiosity and raising the eyebrows of eligible and > non-eligible bachelors of Joynet. > > I won't be surprised even if I get mails asking me for > a date. > > But Sorry Guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!! > > I am a guy. Fortunately or unfortunately, my parents > gave me the name Biji, which is mostly used for naming > gals in Kerala, without my knowledge. I thought of > changing my name several times but the fear of going > through the elaborate procedure of following Indian > government system for changing my name in all of my > certificates motivated me not to go ahead with this. > > So, by God's grace I am happy with my name "Biji" > > For any further clarification or doubt clearance in > this regard you can contact me directly through e-mail > to me. > > Your' loving (brother), > With love and prayers, > Biji James > Bangalore > Everything you'll ever need on one web page from News and Sport to Email and > Music Charts > http://uk.my.yahoo.com > > **************************************************************** > This mail is generated from JOYnet, a Jesus Youth mailing list. > To unsubscribe, send a mail to [EMAIL PROTECTED] > To subscribe to this mailing list, visit > http://www.jesusyouth.org/joynet > For automatic help, send a mail to [EMAIL PROTECTED] > In case of any issue related to the mailing list contact > [EMAIL PROTECTED] > **************************************************************** > > [demime 0.98e removed an attachment of type application/ms-tnef] > > **************************************************************** > This mail is generated from JOYnet, a Jesus Youth mailing list. > To unsubscribe, send a mail to [EMAIL PROTECTED] > To subscribe to this mailing list, visit > http://www.jesusyouth.org/joynet > For automatic help, send a mail to [EMAIL PROTECTED] > In case of any issue related to the mailing list contact > [EMAIL PROTECTED] > **************************************************************** **************************************************************** This mail is generated from JOYnet, a Jesus Youth mailing list. 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