I have some family member that are older and of the old school. Some of them are embarrassed about a son or daughter divorcing and don't want it to become gossip or rumor. I have one family member's daughter whose husband left her after many years. Did I record it? Yes. But, when I uploaded to the website, I took out the divorce details and it still shows them married. Once the initial pain and wound heals, then I may add the divorce information online. I do it out of respect for a family member's feelings. I wouldn't do anything to hurt them.
Do I upload the names and details of living members to the website? You bet I do! BUT! The GEDCOM's are password protected and they have to register and I have to approve each request only allowing family members and I limit their viewings to 3 relationships out. Paul NKS On Wed, 2008-10-15 at 16:44 -0700, JLB wrote: > My family tree is a bit 'messy' in places. What I try to do is take > care about what I send to whom in the meantime, in the way of charts and > pictures. I keep it all because it's all part of the history and I've > heard it all and I'm the collector of it all for better or worse. I > just try not to offend anyone who's still living even if I strongly > disagree with their sensitivities about whatever and think they should > /*get over it.*/ > ----- > JL
