Yes, you are right on. I agree 100 %. I don't have to take on the problems, I let them go through a process and they do the work And they get well. Well, those who want to. I let those who don't want to be where and what they want to be, be. I still respect and value them. LaVona
--- Elizabeth <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > >> more feeling and the more kind sort of people who > do > >> not flee...able to be here... > > Reducing the stress in the > > situation was most useful. Talking calmly, being > > reassuring, asking if there is some way of BEING > > HELPFULL are way better ways to approach people > who > > are obviously having problems. > > Yes, that's the sort of person who doesn't flee > inside themselves nor > literally on foot, nor criticize/attack either. > I was counselor to people in the nursing home for a > few years, also to > men and women in prison. Being with the elders > through their difficulties > and some joys and a few through their deaths was a > great gift to me, that > they allowed me in. > > http://www.picturetrail.com/lavonasherarts __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com To unsubscribe, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Mailinglist from Sztuka Fabryka http://www.sztuka-fabryka.be/ Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ma-network/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/