>I'll confess I find it difficult to look at her, I should be lying if I did not.
>annsan Okay, I'll add one thing, because I finally figured out how to word it, annsan. By trying to "protect" her you are coming from the place that she NEEDS protection. I.E. That there is something "wrong" with her, something defective, something less than, something disabled, or maybe something even obscene, in a sense. Get it? Lots of people don't like other people protecting them, because of the downside implication of that protection. I've encountered disabled people (wheel chair types) who don't like people falling all over them to help them just for that reason. Some do, of course, because opening a door or something may be difficult for them. But others do not. No one likes to be pitied. It was an honest portrayal. I am now seriously tempted to go out and do street photography, and especially do unflattering, honest portrayals of fat people, ugly people, disabled people, homeless people, etc., just to confront our own inherent prejudices. Of which we all have some. Later, Marnie aka Doe No more. I got other things to do than PDMLing. This honestly has been taking too much of my time. Don't be surprised if there are no posts from me for a while. Someone can take what I have said wrong, that's okay.