What we have in this instance is a failure to take responsibility for ones actions.

Kenneth Waller
http://www.pentaxphotogallery.com/kennethwaller

----- Original Message ----- From: "Luiz Felipe" <luiz.fel...@techmit.com.br>

Subject: OT: Kids are Dying in Cars


Paul has written:
.Thanks Frank. It always seemed inconceivable to me as well. But I
.think back to when Grace first came to live with us. One day my wife
.and I were empty nesters. The next day we were forgetful old people
.with an 11-month infant in the back seat. I had to constantly remind
.myself that she was with us. Never came close to forgetting her, but I
.can see how it could happen.
.Pul

I have a fair understanding of how easy is to lose attention for a moment and come close to disaster.

As much as I believe every help is welcome in safety matters, I'm positive those warning devices are going to be questioned in court as soon as installed. Translating the matter to a diff world, I've seen those who blame the gun safety that failed, instead of admitting they had their fingers at the wrong place - pressing the trigger when they didn't mean to shoot. No, that should not prevent their release.

Once a diver, I'm familiar with many cases where scuba gear manufacturers were sued and even decided to settle out of court, cases where the problems were caused by fatal mistakes of the deceased or crippled divers. Sadly there are lots that just blame others for their mistakes. Not to mention those that will seek profit at every possible situation.

I'm for the warning systems. But there is NO substitute for full and complete attention in those moments. I got the habit of talking endlessly to my son every time he's in the car with me - after the day I skipped the way to the school, and only noticed my mistake when I arrived at my workplace with him. Not a risky situation as it happened, but scared me silly. That should never have happened. Soon he was "helping" me to choose the way, look for parking places - a perfect co-pilot, rather than a sleepy passenger. It's more fun, also.

A very well placed article, and in my prejudiced point of view covered that sad situation very well indeed.

Luiz Felipe
luiz.felipe at techmit.com.br
http://www.techmit.com.br/luizfelipe


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