Mmm.. Mmm...  Good.

Jarrad



On Oct 29, 2008, at 2:59 PM, Jay Wilson wrote:

> I think that America will stop being lazy when parents, who  
> perpetuate the cycle, learn to treat their children in a way that  
> encourages active self-motivation.
>
> Perhaps there is some truth to "spare the rod"... and all the "child  
> rights" movements have limited parenting in such a way that the  
> child now thinks they have a right to disrespect and disobey. I'm  
> not saying that we should all go out and beat our children, or even  
> that spanking / physical reprimand is the appropriate coursre of  
> action. But when a mother who is trying to "do her best" gets hauled  
> off to jail for child abuse because she spanks her 7 year old child  
> in the parking lot of walmart after discovering the child picked up  
> a candy bar at the checkout stand...  the children begin to learn  
> that they can use the system to "protect" themselves. "Mommy can't  
> spank me when I steal candy bars" turns into "McDonalds needs to pay  
> me a million dollars becuase I spilt hot coffee in my lap".   
> "McDonalds needs to pay me a million" turns into "The government  
> needs to take care of my needs becuase I don't want to" (welfare  
> comes to mind, and perhaps global healthcare shortly after that?).
>
> When we can teach our children that there are unpleasant  
> consequences for their actions, it leads to a more respoinsible  
> child... which leads to a more responsible, and potentially less  
> lazy adult.
>
> ~Jay
>
> On Wed, Oct 29, 2008 at 11:35 AM, clowkun <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>  
> wrote:
>
> I guess I would have to agree with you there. There are some things
> that the government should not do for you, I am for a united America
> but not a dependent America. I guess this goes back to something Lance
> and I discussed before that I did not understand when we first talked
> about it but when will Americans learn to stop being lazy and fend for
> themselves.
>
> "If we ask like children, we will be treated like children."
>
> That is all.
>
>
>
> >


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