Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration/sensitive

[Stacy Harim]

Title: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration/sensitive

Well Houston,  I guess you are just different than some of us and women are drawn to you, however it's not that way with me and I am sure others here can tell you the same.  I have said it so many times, but I'll say it again.  I think I am fairly attractive.  I am very outgoing (just as much as before).  I do not let others see me sweat or worry about my disability.  I initiate conversations.  I smile at people and have a positive outlook.  I have everything to offer someone as long as it doesn't include material things.  I know this about myself, however it seems that men don't like girls in chairs because I used to get hit on all the time and I don't look any different aside from being in a chair.  I’m glad that you can still get women, but that's you and you are a rare case it seems after talking to others on the list.   Stacy ----- Original Message ----- From: Houston809 To: Stacy Harim ; quadlist ; Greg Sent: Saturday, January 08, 2005 7:18 PM Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration/sensitive Stacy, I’m not thinking that it’s really that difficult 2 find a person that’ll be there in a meaningful relationship. I have some problems but some of them it’s more me than them. So don’t think that I’m going against anything I’ve said. But I know that a big part of not having someone is my doing... It could also be others now sometimez we have 2 step back (ROLL BACK) and look at ourselves in the mirror. Would I want 2 be with me if the circumstances were reversed? Houston On 1/8/05 1:13 PM, "Stacy Harim" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Your right in the aspect of everyday life.  Of course I know that.  The statement was related to relationships.  Para's are still seen as paralyzed.  In the aspect of getting looked at as a sexual being is just as hard for para's to face.  To the opposite sex paralyzed is paralyzed.   Stacy ----- Original Message -----   From: Greg <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>     To: quad-list@eskimo.com   Sent: Saturday, January 08, 2005 12:20  PM   Subject: Re: [QUAD-L]  Frustration/sensitive       That statement shouldn't hurt anyone. It's true... Paras  have it easier than quads. Just like a C5 like me has it easier than a C4. The  more moement you have, the more you can do for yourself. If it's not a fact,  than show me someone who would volunteer to break their spine a few levels  higher.   Greg       "Stacy I wasn't implying that para's have it easier I was just saying if  I had a good "Grip" I could help myself!"