my ex also changed my cath when needed but was by far the best hair dresser 
ever……….and I’m serious!

Nicki

 

From: diannal...@aol.com [mailto:diannal...@aol.com] 
Sent: Tuesday, March 12, 2013 6:40 PM
To: wheelch...@aol.com; quad-list@eskimo.com
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] AD

 

Thank you W. Yes, a nurse is suppose to do it here (Ohio). It's done on 'his 
time'. That is how my care plan is written. Care Star, the program through Ohio 
that deals with Medicaid Waivers and home health care is actually paying 
Independent Care Providers to change foleys and bowel programs. He hasn't 
submitted the paperwork. They consider an aide different because an an agency 
would never permit that.

He's a wonderful caregiver but certainly no angel! (smiling)

Diannal, your husband is also an angel.  I hear they come in various shapes, 
sizes and sexes. I applaud him for accepting the responsibility to change your 
cath.  In most areas, only registered nurses are allowed to do that, not health 
aides.  Just let him know that cath'ing males is still easier.

-----Original Message-----
From: wheelchair <wheelch...@aol.com>
To: diannal767 <diannal...@aol.com>; quad-list <quad-list@eskimo.com>
Sent: Tue, Mar 12, 2013 6:53 pm
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] AD

Diannal, your husband is also an angel.  I hear they come in various shapes, 
sizes and sexes. I applaud him for accepting the responsibility to change your 
cath.  In most areas, only registered nurses are allowed to do that, not health 
aides.  Just let him know that cath'ing males is still easier.

 

Best Wishes

 

In a message dated 3/12/2013 5:36:02 P.M. Central Daylight Time, 
diannal...@aol.com writes:

I have been very fortunate. My ex-husband (Dave), lives with me and has been my 
only long-term care-giver. We tried a few agencies but the help wasn't 
adequate. He changes my cath twice a month. He's been around the few times I 
went in to A.D. (blocked foleys). Those headaches are so bad one can not move 
fast enough to relieve the pain. I always get sleepy after AD. He's a 
independent health care provider.

22 yrs post.

Your Mom is an Angel.  That deed was not easy from all sides of the issue.  I'm 
sure you were barking out orders while she was doing her best.  Men, come with 
instructions and a landing strip.  Women sitting have a fort with bunkers all 
the way around.  Again, not an easy task, but I'm glad everything worked out.

Best Wishes

 

In a message dated 3/11/2013 3:49:10 P.M. Central Daylight Time, 
zoocr...@windstream.net writes:

Yes I would normally agree but today we had no choice but to deflate the 
balloon and get it out while I was sitting in my chair. My mom is 68 and 
recently had wrist surgery (no possible way to get me to the bed and keep me 
elevated because of blood pressure) so sometimes, you do what you have to and 
clean up later J  

-----Original Message-----
From: wheelchair <wheelch...@aol.com>
To: zoocrew1 <zoocr...@windstream.net>; quad-list <quad-list@eskimo.com>
Sent: Mon, Mar 11, 2013 4:57 pm
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] AD

Your Mom is an Angel.  That deed was not easy from all sides of the issue.  I'm 
sure you were barking out orders while she was doing her best.  Men, come with 
instructions and a landing strip.  Women sitting have a fort with bunkers all 
the way around.  Again, not an easy task, but I'm glad everything worked out.

Best Wishes

 

In a message dated 3/11/2013 3:49:10 P.M. Central Daylight Time, 
zoocr...@windstream.net writes:

Yes I would normally agree but today we had no choice but to deflate the 
balloon and get it out while I was sitting in my chair. My mom is 68 and 
recently had wrist surgery (no possible way to get me to the bed and keep me 
elevated because of blood pressure) so sometimes, you do what you have to and 
clean up later J  

 

From: wheelch...@aol.com [mailto:wheelch...@aol.com 
<mailto:wheelch...@aol.com?> ] 
Sent: Monday, March 11, 2013 3:36 PM
To: quad-list@eskimo.com
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] AD

 

Nicki, I'm glad to read your story ending and hopefully the issue gets better.

 

Remember, when changing an indwelling cath... even in an emergency...... one 
has to maintain a sterile or clean area to remove the old cath and allow urine 
to pass and then install a new sterile cath.  I'm sure you will agree with that.

Best Wishes

 

Just wanted to share that if no urine is leaking out remove the catheter 
because it’s stopping up the body’s natural route for urine to come out! May 
have saved me from stroking out today!!

 

Nicki

c5/6

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