[AsburyPark] Re: Community Food Bank Needs Food

2008-12-15 Thread oakdorf
--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, marioa...@... wrote:

  
 I just spoke with Laurie at the Foodbank of Monmouth and Ocean
 She concurred with the Wegmans' executives I spoke with last year:  
 Year-round appeals tend to result in compassion fatigue, and people 
then tend to  
 ignore the appeals.


I thought Wegs was y round. I'll say ok to a $1 or more at checkout 
based on guilt.

 - if you buy candy, ice cream or soda (things you really don't need...)
 - or if you're buying things you do need -like veggies or milk 
 - or if you went there and got yourself a nice lunch...

Look at it as a tip to the cashier who in turns donates it.

We tip more for booze and lousy food.

Imagine tipping the food bank 15% of your food order.






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Re: [AsburyPark] Community Food Bank Needs Food

2008-12-15 Thread MarioAPNJ
 
I just spoke with Laurie at the Foodbank of Monmouth and Ocean  Counties.
 
At the website, you can find lots of ways to help:foodbankmoc.org 
 
The video specific to Monmouth/Ocean is here:  
http://tinyurl.com/5846ua
 
But I had a few specific questions for her:
 
1. What's preferable: cash or food donations?
 
2. How efficient/effective are the local supermarket programs which  provide 
the option to donate at checkout.
 
3. Why are those options available only during the holiday season when  
hunger knows no season?
 
4. Why is it that the appeal for cash donations isn't emphasized on the web  
site as much as several intermediate fund raisers are?
 
In brief, her answers:
The FoodBank can purchase more food per dollar donated than we can by  
donating food items.
 
The supermarket donations at check out are very effective and go directly  to 
the Monmouth/Ocean chapters.  High praise,especially, for Wegmans  employees 
who actively promote the drive.
 
She concurred with the Wegmans' executives I spoke with last year:  
Year-round appeals tend to result in compassion fatigue, and people then tend 
to  
ignore the appeals.
 
Regarding question 4 above, no direct answer, but I inferred the following  
from our discussion:  The mall gift-wrapping, the gift tags, et al. appeal  to 
many people who want to help in some visible way; however, cash remains  king.
 
 
Mai l'esprit de la saison restera dans votre coeur toujours.   (Thanks to 
Sharon for the French lesson.)
 
 
_The FoodBank of Monmouth and  Ocean Counties_ 
(http://foodbankmoc.org/index.html)  
 
 
 
 
 
 


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[AsburyPark] Community Food Bank Needs Food

2008-12-15 Thread justifiedright
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Re: [AsburyPark] Re: Community Food Bank Needs Food

2008-12-15 Thread MarioAPNJ
In a message dated 12/15/2008 10:33:00 A.M. Eastern Standard Time,  
oakd...@yahoo.com writes:

--- In  AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, marioa...@... wrote:  
I just spoke  with Laurie at the Foodbank of Monmouth and Ocean  She 
concurred with the  Wegmans' executives I spoke with last year:  Year-round 
appeals 
tend  to result in compassion fatigue, and people then tend to  ignore the  
appeals.

I thought Wegs was y round. I'll say ok to a $1 or more at  checkout based on 
guilt.
- if you buy candy, ice cream or soda (things you  really don't need...)

We tip more for booze and lousy food. Imagine  tipping the food bank 15% of 
your food order.
 
===
 
 
Wegs'  has posted that their donate-at-checkout service ends  around 12/22.  
I had a go-around with them last year, and vented about it  here.
 
But now FoodBank's Laurie has confirmed the compassion fatigue syndrome  that 
Wegs mentioned back then.
Everything is a syndrome these days.  Some seem bogus to me, like  Restless 
Leg Syndrome which sounds like a drug company marketing  invention.
 
But I can identify with compassion fatigue; I first experienced it thanks  to 
Sally Struthers' appeals on late night TV.
Now, thanks to Wiki, I learn that I was not alone: The ironic disparity  
between her activism for starving children and her own weight gain was 
parodied  
in South Park's Starvin' Marvin episodes.
 
You're right about the guilt thing about unnecessary purchases,
so I figure the sting of pointing to the $5 bar code is more humane  and a 
technological improvement over the pain of self-flagellation or the  discomfort 
in wearing a hair shirt in Press Plaza.
 
It's also more effective than saying three Hail Marys.;-)
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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[AsburyPark] Killbrand opens in AP....

2008-12-15 Thread oakdorf
http://www.killbrand.com  or on Emory in AP.

This Tuesday: Secondhand Serenade this Tuesday, December 16th.  

The info is as follows:
Secondhand Serenade LIVE In-Store Performance
at the Killbrand Store
408 Emory Street 8p.m.FREE ADMISSION 

Killbrand will also be having a special holiday sale, with some shirts 
as low as $5!






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