Re: [AsburyPark] Re: Upperclass boardwalk and downtown?

2011-08-22 Thread cbrianwatkins
Wasn't Oak


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My daughter was married by Judge Apostolou.  Her Air Force husband
was relocating to New Mexico to Cannon AFB and he wore his dress
uniform and she, her wedding gown.  He asked them, if it was okay
to introduce them to the vermin waiting to be seen and they said okay.  He 
is serving Uncle Sam and this flower, has agreed to join
him!  You could hear a pin drop.  The atmosphere was worse than 
Night Court, if you remember the series.

I haven't had so much as a parking ticket in over 15 years, knock wood
and I live such a corny, square life, that unless I read the papers
or watch the news, I wouldn't have a clue.  When I think about it,
all of the people I know are pretty much like myself.

After you've reached about 50, you begin to reassess your life.
I'm good.  The only thing I miss is being around other adults, like
a Senior Center.  I rant and rave in this group, but seriously, I'm
a corn ball!  

Some of you call certain groups undeserving names out of their despair
to lash out for real or perceived injustices.  Police brutality,
profiling, lack of opportunity and other disparities lead to persons
getting involved in gangs, where they discuss the disparities.  Why?
Deprivation is why.  This country speaks of democracy but it isn't
here for all.  Depravity leads to depression and drug dependency that
leads to some to take their anger out on otherwise innocent
bystanders.

Unless you're willing to get involved, more incidents are going
to occur.  Be ready.

--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, oakdorf oakdorf@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, 2fast4u sharon_b283@ wrote:
 
 All I know is the rich and famous go to rehab
 over and over while the poor get locked up and they throw away
 the key and in some cases like gangs and drugs, it should be!
 
 
 Spend a few hours in AP Muni court. I believe in the court room there are 
 drug counselors, reverends, interpreters, court appointed lawyers, etc. If 
 you get convicted in M county, the first time, there are many opportunities 
 to get clean. That includes Pre Trial Intervention.
 
 I know someone working there. They get to interview lawyers, doctors, drug 
 dealers, first time buyers, murders gang members, moms, dads, grandmoms and 
 everything in between. And tons of money are spend on rehab at that point as 
 well. Even for some - their second time looking to get pre-trial relief. And 
 again - there are rich people, poor people white and black.






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RE: [AsburyPark] Re: Upperclass boardwalk and downtown?

2011-08-19 Thread Jenni
Is this group really that bent on color now?  I don't understand why this is
an issue...

I also thought that this group was not only for people who currently live in
Asbury Park, but anyone who has concerns about it and loves the town.  Since
we're posting online, and don't see one another (unless anyone knows another
outside of this group), we don't see what one another look like, which
really shouldn't matter.

So, here's me.

I currently live in Charleston, SC
I grew up on Unami Ave in Wanamassa, just a few blocks from the Sunset
Bridge.
I spent much of my youth at or near the Asbury boardwalk.
I lived as a young adult in Asbury, at 301 Sunset (the beige/brown house on
the corner of, I think, Webb)
I have always loved the character and architecture of Asbury Park, and have
always greatly wished for it to become safe and restored to its original
beauty
I miss Asbury Park, and wish that it were safe (and affordable) for me to
move back there.
I still think of this area as home

Oh, and for those of you who are really particular about what color
someone's skin is, I happen to be white.  Personally, I could care less what
your skin looks like as long as you are a decent person.

That's me.  Anything else you want to know, please ask.  I'm on this group
because I care about this city.  I miss it, too.

Namaste~

Jenni

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Subject: [AsburyPark] Re: Upperclass boardwalk and downtown?

Wow! ... Did I post it in the wrong spot?  No it was attributed to you. I
was answering the group itself ... Questions about the shooting, about
Springwood Ave, and about the job program. 

It has been publicized.. in the coaster .. in the press .. and even in the
Asbury Blog! We don't boast for a purpose but we are well known where it
counts ... with those that need help. 

I didn't think I was ranting I was answering all the assumptions. 

As far as following the group .. why not? I appreciate all the ideas and
opinions everyone has but now everyone seems ANGRY all of a sudden, all of
the comments about white vs. black etc 

I finally decide to take the chance and join in ... and I'm getting blasted!
 
Sorry I don't remember or recognize the name and I have been involved since
2006. If you still want to be a part ... invitation is still open. 

Let me help you out. 

I am black, if you need me to get technical Black and Indian. 
I have lived and worked in town since 2005.
I use to live in town in my 20's .. rented from Walter Wester if you need a
reference. 
I am raising 2 children here. 
Can't really answer for my family and their thoughts about Asbury .. but my
father, aunt, uncle all live in town too. Long Branch Thornton's are my
relatives too but I am not that close with them.

As for my mindset that is your personal opinion and your entitled to it. I
won't let it stop me from doing my part in moving Asbury Forward. 

Thank you for the encouragement and yes I will put my full name again.

Ramona Thornton


--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, 2fast4u sharon_b283@... wrote:

 
 #1, I didn't post this part, yet it appears attributed to me!
 
   Well sharon your points, comments and life experiences (and the
 success of raising your family) are well taken.
  
   Once again, it's that be ready...cause trouble is waiting..
  
   That's the scary part - for lack of better words.
  
   So why don't the community leaders - all these organizations that
 ARE there to help, take action. Talk to the kids and parents.
  
   What are the REAL issues?
  
   - Is it housing
   - quality of life
   - lack of work - what kind of work would one accept
   ...
  
   Employment:
   - What kind of programs are in place within the city with city and
 surrounding employers.
  
  
   For example: Are there any intern programs with Jersey Shore
Medical
 - between the HS and JS?? If not, why not? Seems like a natural.
  
   - does the city have any interns? How about the chamber of
 commerce?
   How about Madison Marquette. I call them interns, but if the
 business can't afford to pay for it, I'd say take it from the school $
 or other grant money. The kids can work 25 hours per week, $9 per
hour.
 That's 225 per week gross. 10 weeks - each kid gets $2250. Take 200
 kids. Pennies for such a program. Can you get kids to work $9.00? IS
it
 worth more to keep them off the street - then go for it. $12 hour?
  
   - how about kids that graduated from AP High? Where did they go,
 what are they doing now? Anyone know? Does anyone track their careers?
 Can they come back and talk to other kids
  
   What kinds of employment programs exist in the school system with
a
 $90 million budget. (as for employment programs

Re: [AsburyPark] Re: Upperclass boardwalk and downtown?

2011-08-15 Thread cbrianwatkins
Constantly spending money on my house here. Fixing it up and maintaining it. 
The lawn is always cut. Constantly pick up garbage on the streets. I dont care 
who lives here or next to me as long as you take care of your property and are 
civil and law abiding. If you are not, I don't give a flying f$ck what happens 
to you but I will do whatever I can to get you out of here.

I would have to agree with this 100%


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 Tell me one thing please - where were all these people, charities etc  - that 
 all had the opportunity to help and rebuild their own community - but didn't.

They had decades to do it but didnt. Now its our turn. 
 
 Is it a sin to have people coming into town, investing and fixing up homes 
 that were boarded up, illegally converted and ridden with code violations - 
 and not paying taxes??

The time for tears is over. I see new immigrants (be they documented or not), 
coming to town, going to work every day and spending money. They better 
themselves. I'd be at the border handing out visas if I could.

 As a reward, they (the gentrefires) get blasted by the community - for 
 what? Trying to make it a safer place, paying taxes, opening businesses and 
 spending money all around town. Add to that - developing programs, adding 
 diversity and volunteering. 

Constantly spending money on my house here. Fixing it up and maintaining it. 
The lawn is always cut. Constantly pick up garbage on the streets. I dont care 
who lives here or next to me as long as you take care of your property and are 
civil and law abiding. If you are not, I don't give a flying f$ck what happens 
to you but I will do whatever I can to get you out of here.





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Re: [AsburyPark] Re: Upperclass boardwalk and downtown?

2011-08-15 Thread cbrianwatkins
Jack

I don't think the SPCA will do much until you see a dead animal on the 
property. Since the owner is providing food and shelter to these cats, they are 
not technically feral. 

If you do see one who seems dead or close to it, you could call the police for 
animal neglect/abuse

That house smells like ass all the time, especially if its a windy day



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I have a question about a bungalow on 1st Ave, near Kingsley. This property has 
been horribly maintained for at least as long as I've lived in AP. The only 
activity I see there is the owner stopping by to feed the family of feral cats 
and kittens that live there. It's both a health hazard and an eyesore, and 
cruel to the cats.

How can this highly visible property sit there like that for so long. Over the 
years, I had to call the ASPCA once because there was a dying cat on the 
property.

What action should I take to do something about this and it's inconsiderate 
owner?

--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, cbrianwatkins@... wrote:

 Constantly spending money on my house here. Fixing it up and maintaining it. 
 The lawn is always cut. Constantly pick up garbage on the streets. I dont 
 care who lives here or next to me as long as you take care of your property 
 and are civil and law abiding. If you are not, I don't give a flying f$ck 
 what happens to you but I will do whatever I can to get you out of here.
 
 I would have to agree with this 100%
 
 
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  Tell me one thing please - where were all these people, charities etc  - 
  that all had the opportunity to help and rebuild their own community - but 
  didn't.
 
 They had decades to do it but didnt. Now its our turn. 
  
  Is it a sin to have people coming into town, investing and fixing up homes 
  that were boarded up, illegally converted and ridden with code violations - 
  and not paying taxes??
 
 The time for tears is over. I see new immigrants (be they documented or not), 
 coming to town, going to work every day and spending money. They better 
 themselves. I'd be at the border handing out visas if I could.
 
  As a reward, they (the gentrefires) get blasted by the community - for 
  what? Trying to make it a safer place, paying taxes, opening businesses and 
  spending money all around town. Add to that - developing programs, adding 
  diversity and volunteering. 
 
 Constantly spending money on my house here. Fixing it up and maintaining it. 
 The lawn is always cut. Constantly pick up garbage on the streets. I dont 
 care who lives here or next to me as long as you take care of your property 
 and are civil and law abiding. If you are not, I don't give a flying f$ck 
 what happens to you but I will do whatever I can to get you out of here.
 
 
 
 
 
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Re: [AsburyPark] Re: Upperclass boardwalk and downtown?

2011-08-15 Thread cbrianwatkins
Those homes are condemned, well a lot of them are at least



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There's housing, ready to move in, left by the military of Ft. Monmouth.  It's 
going to waste, now that everything moved to MD.
It would house thousands, right off Hope Rd. in Eatontown. It's
unbelievable what problems this would solve if AP residents,
the disabled and retired military could just move in, this housing
is fairly new.

--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, fancypaaantz fancypaaantz@... wrote:

 To have section 8 or housing vouchers you need rental properties. Many NJ 
 towns do not have rentals. See Wyckoff, Franklin Lakes, Skillman, or very few.
 
 I would prefer public assistance benefits be contingent on job/career 
 training and job placement.
 
 Abbot districts do have free preschool at age 3, in other towns nothing and 
 there is nothing I know of from 0-3. There are some subsidies available in 
 poorer areas like Jersey City.
 
 My friends are applying for the NJ health insurance for their children bc her 
 husband lost his job. Problem is, they live in Ridgewood and those doctors 
 don't take the insurance.
 
 There is a segregation, poverty is concentrated. So, while there are services 
 available in those areas, the same are not available elsewhere. I think that 
 the concentration of poverty and forced segregation is a big part of the 
 problem.
 
 --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, oakdorf oakdorf@ wrote:
 
  Thank you. 
  
  However this:
  
  Provide affordable
  (Section 8) housing in every town allowing people to choose where they want 
  to live
  
  Note: This exists today in some form. I am a section 8 landlord. In Ocean 
  Township. 1 - 2 family and 4 single family homes. All good people - maybe 
  rough around the edges. They have kids. Go ot OT schools etc.
  
  provide real job training and career counseling
  
  Isn't that afford today?
  
  
  
  in addition to welfare benefits, public daycare facilities so that moms 
  can
  return to work
  
  Isn't that afford today? Shouldn't that be for all moms?
  
  
  
  along with affordable healthcare
  
  again, healthcare exists in some form, right? What about affordable for you 
  and me?
  
   mental healthcare, addiction
  counseling, and reproductive healthcare/counseling.
  
  ALL afford today. Especially if you face jail time vs. counseling.
  
  
  A mother of 3 section 8 benefit - in the area of !700 per month.
   -  Does that count as affordable? 
   - Daycare.
   - free post HS and preschool education, food, medical. 
  
  
  Add it up.
  
  Im all for programs to help. The trick is getting people to make it worth 
  their while. 
  
  Trust me. I've spoken to many people who RATHER NOT get off the benefit 
  package - it simply doesn't pay enough.
  
  And true, there are thousands of people on wait lists for section 8. The 
  correct term is HOUSING VOUCHERS. The voucher enables a person to take it 
  anywhere - so I have a middletown check every month, a long branch check 
  every month and a couple from the state every month.
  
  Get inspected each year by whatever program and have to fix whatever my 
  tenant may have broken. it could get crazy. 
  
  NOt much an incentive, is it?
 






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Re: [AsburyPark] Re: Upperclass boardwalk and downtown?

2011-08-15 Thread cbrianwatkins
Most of its condemned and not livable


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Actually, most of that housing is rotting away. There's mold everywhere. I grew 
up in Eatoncrest apts. which is surrounded by that development. It's been 
fenced in for years, and is currently home to a herd of deer.

Right around the corner at the Ft. Monmouth golf course, there were acres of 
abandoned homes. All got bulldozed.

--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, 2fast4u sharon_b283@... wrote:

 There's housing, ready to move in, left by the military of Ft. Monmouth.  
 It's going to waste, now that everything moved to MD.
 It would house thousands, right off Hope Rd. in Eatontown. It's
 unbelievable what problems this would solve if AP residents,
 the disabled and retired military could just move in, this housing
 is fairly new.
 
 --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, fancypaaantz fancypaaantz@ wrote:
 
  To have section 8 or housing vouchers you need rental properties. Many NJ 
  towns do not have rentals. See Wyckoff, Franklin Lakes, Skillman, or very 
  few.
  
  I would prefer public assistance benefits be contingent on job/career 
  training and job placement.
  
  Abbot districts do have free preschool at age 3, in other towns nothing and 
  there is nothing I know of from 0-3. There are some subsidies available in 
  poorer areas like Jersey City.
  
  My friends are applying for the NJ health insurance for their children bc 
  her husband lost his job. Problem is, they live in Ridgewood and those 
  doctors don't take the insurance.
  
  There is a segregation, poverty is concentrated. So, while there are 
  services available in those areas, the same are not available elsewhere. I 
  think that the concentration of poverty and forced segregation is a big 
  part of the problem.
  
  --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, oakdorf oakdorf@ wrote:
  
   Thank you. 
   
   However this:
   
   Provide affordable
   (Section 8) housing in every town allowing people to choose where they 
   want to live
   
   Note: This exists today in some form. I am a section 8 landlord. In Ocean 
   Township. 1 - 2 family and 4 single family homes. All good people - maybe 
   rough around the edges. They have kids. Go ot OT schools etc.
   
   provide real job training and career counseling
   
   Isn't that afford today?
   
   
   
   in addition to welfare benefits, public daycare facilities so that moms 
   can
   return to work
   
   Isn't that afford today? Shouldn't that be for all moms?
   
   
   
   along with affordable healthcare
   
   again, healthcare exists in some form, right? What about affordable for 
   you and me?
   
mental healthcare, addiction
   counseling, and reproductive healthcare/counseling.
   
   ALL afford today. Especially if you face jail time vs. counseling.
   
   
   A mother of 3 section 8 benefit - in the area of !700 per month.
-  Does that count as affordable? 
- Daycare.
- free post HS and preschool education, food, medical. 
   
   
   Add it up.
   
   Im all for programs to help. The trick is getting people to make it worth 
   their while. 
   
   Trust me. I've spoken to many people who RATHER NOT get off the benefit 
   package - it simply doesn't pay enough.
   
   And true, there are thousands of people on wait lists for section 8. The 
   correct term is HOUSING VOUCHERS. The voucher enables a person to take it 
   anywhere - so I have a middletown check every month, a long branch check 
   every month and a couple from the state every month.
   
   Get inspected each year by whatever program and have to fix whatever my 
   tenant may have broken. it could get crazy. 
   
   NOt much an incentive, is it?
  
 






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