[FairfieldLife] Re: I quit -- question for Rick or the other moderators (since he's away)

2008-07-19 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 
  Hey, Rick, Alex, gullible_fool, et al,
  
  The following claim by Judy has me curious. Has anyone
  unsubscribed or stalked off of FFL in a snit citing me 
  as a reason recently?
 
 The only info I receive are system-generated notices that someone has
 unsubscribed. I have received no private emails containing reasons for
 unsubscribing.

Thanks for replying. I was curious.

  And Jim's still finishing up his latest two
  weeks in the penalty box, 
 
 Jim unsubscribed a couple days ago.

That must be what Judy is referring to. Obviously, Jim
is staying in contact via email with her. I formally 
apologize if he actually believes or said that he chose 
to bail because of my nastiness and dishonesty. But I 
suspect that Judy made that up. Jim doesn't talk that 
way, and she does.

I wasn't trying to be nasty, and I was never in the least
dishonest when dealing with him, or with anyone else here. 
The only thing I deal in is opinion, my own. I did, and do, 
have an opinion about anyone who claims the mantle of 
enlightenment and who doesn't walk the walk that history 
associates with enlightenment. And I have nothing to 
apologize for for feeling that way.

  Edg Duveyoung last posted back in May, but left with-
  out a goodbye or stating a reason for taking off, as 
  I remember.
 
 Edg is still subscribed and config'd with the no email option.

Hope he's doing well. Hope Jim is, too. 





[FairfieldLife] Re: I quit -- question for Rick or the other moderators (since he's away)

2008-07-19 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 snip
  If my memory isn't faulty, t'would seem that Judy felt 
  the need to...uh...stretch the truth a bit (if not...
  dare I say it...actually LIE) in the fervor of one of
  her Gotta Trash Barry moments. I'll be interested to 
  see what she has to say about this claim when she 
  returns.
 
 I don't have anything to say about it, other than
 that of course I stand by it. Unless Barry's
 REELY REELY STOOOPID, he ought to have
 been able to come up with an additional possibility,
 in which what I wrote is 100% accurate and the 
 faultiness of his memory is completely irrelevant.

In other words, either Judy's information 
came from Jim in email, and she reformulated
his words about unsubscribing into her own
claims of my nastiness and dishonesty, or
she made it up and now resents being called
on having made it up. You decide.

Have you *ever* seen Judy shirk from providing
a reference to back up what she'd claimed when
there really was such a reference? 






[FairfieldLife] Re: I quit -- question for Rick or the other moderators (since he's away)

2008-07-19 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 snip
  If my memory isn't faulty, t'would seem that Judy felt 
  the need to...uh...stretch the truth a bit (if not...
  dare I say it...actually LIE) in the fervor of one of
  her Gotta Trash Barry moments. I'll be interested to 
  see what she has to say about this claim when she 
  returns.
 
 I don't have anything to say about it, other than
 that of course I stand by it. Unless Barry's
 REELY REELY STOOOPID, he ought to have
 been able to come up with an additional possibility,
 in which what I wrote is 100% accurate and the 
 faultiness of his memory is completely irrelevant.

Ok, I think that there will be no complaint from
anyone here if I characterize Judy as the person
who has most often demanded that people back up
their claims on this forum. It's almost her trade-
mark. Well, turnabout is fair play.

Judy, please produce two things to back up the
following claim:

 We recently lost an
 extremely valuable long-time poster because of
 Barry's nastiness and dishonesty.

1. Please supply the name or screen name of the 
poster you claim left FFL because of Barry's 
nastiness and dishonesty.

2. Please supply documentation that this is the 
reason they gave for leaving. If it's a message on
FFL, please give us the message number. If it is
a private email, please ask for permission to repost
that email here verbatim. (Or, when you give us the 
person's name, we can simply write to the person and 
ask them whether your representation of why they 
left FFL is accurate.)

I'm really curious as to how you will respond to 
this, Judy. It really IS doing a Judy on YOU, and
turnabout is fair play. Above you stand by the 
claim, but with no backup. I think everyone here knows 
that if anyone else did that when YOU had challenged 
them to back up one of their claims, the next words 
out of your mouth would be a variant of, See...I 
told you so...he/she is LYING!

Try as I might, I am unable to substantiate your claim
using the Yahoo Search Engine. Alex has failed to sub-
stantiate it. The only references to 'nastiness' on 
this forum since June 1 (other than in this thread) 
have been one case of someone referring to the TMO, 
and another case of someone using that term to refer 
to YOU.

Similarly, I can find no references to anyone bailing
from FFL, citing me as a reason, even IF that reason
was not precisely because of Barry's nastiness and 
dishonesty.

You made a claim, Judy. And now the only thing you have
to say when that claim is challenged is that you stand
by it. I suppose we're supposed to take your word for
it, because as you say so often, you never lie.

Uh-huh. Aren't you the person who claimed that if Obama
secured the nomination that as a good Democrat you would 
support him fully? Given some of the things you've said
on this forum since and the negative nature of the articles
you repost, I cannot help but assume that either you have 
a different definition of what support means than I do, 
or you have a different definition of what I never lie 
means than I do.

Two simple questions, Judy. Questions that YOU would be
asking of anyone who made a similarly negative claim
about YOU to produce. If the person YOU challenged failed
to respond to two such questions, you would assume that
they were lying, and call them a LIAR! here. We've seen
it happen dozens of times, if not hundreds.

If you fail to answer these two questions, I think we
have the right to respond similarly to you.

Remember -- it has to be recent, it has to have been a 
long-time poster, and you have to be able to document
that we lost them because of my nastiness and
dishonesty. 

That was what you said. Back it up.





[FairfieldLife] Re: I quit -- question for Rick or the other moderators (since he's away)

2008-07-19 Thread nablusoss1008
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
   And Jim's still finishing up his latest two
   weeks in the penalty box, 
  
  Jim unsubscribed a couple days ago.

 
 I wasn't trying to be nasty, and I was never in the least
 dishonest when dealing with him, or with anyone else here. 

Quote of the week !





[FairfieldLife] Re: I quit -- question for Rick or the other moderators (since he's away)

2008-07-19 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ 
wrote:
  snip
   If my memory isn't faulty, t'would seem that Judy felt 
   the need to...uh...stretch the truth a bit (if not...
   dare I say it...actually LIE) in the fervor of one of
   her Gotta Trash Barry moments. I'll be interested to 
   see what she has to say about this claim when she 
   returns.
  
  I don't have anything to say about it, other than
  that of course I stand by it. Unless Barry's
  REELY REELY STOOOPID, he ought to have
  been able to come up with an additional possibility,
  in which what I wrote is 100% accurate and the 
  faultiness of his memory is completely irrelevant.
 
 Ok, I think that there will be no complaint from
 anyone here if I characterize Judy as the person
 who has most often demanded that people back up
 their claims on this forum. It's almost her trade-
 mark. Well, turnabout is fair play.
 
 Judy, please produce two things to back up the
 following claim:
 
  We recently lost an
  extremely valuable long-time poster because of
  Barry's nastiness and dishonesty.
 
 1. Please supply the name or screen name of the 
 poster you claim left FFL because of Barry's 
 nastiness and dishonesty.
 
 2. Please supply documentation that this is the 
 reason they gave for leaving. If it's a message on
 FFL, please give us the message number. If it is
 a private email, please ask for permission to repost
 that email here verbatim. (Or, when you give us the 
 person's name, we can simply write to the person and 
 ask them whether your representation of why they 
 left FFL is accurate.)
 
 I'm really curious as to how you will respond to 
 this, Judy. It really IS doing a Judy on YOU, and
 turnabout is fair play. Above you stand by the 
 claim, but with no backup. I think everyone here knows 
 that if anyone else did that when YOU had challenged 
 them to back up one of their claims, the next words 
 out of your mouth would be a variant of, See...I 
 told you so...he/she is LYING!

Actually, usually I just note that the person
refuses to back up the claim and let others come
to their own conclusions.

In this case, I'd have to reveal a private
communication, which I'm not going to do. And I
can't recall ever having demanded that anybody
else do so.

 Try as I might, I am unable to substantiate your claim
 using the Yahoo Search Engine.

How much time have you spent on this so far, Barry?

giggle

snip
 You made a claim, Judy. And now the only thing you have
 to say when that claim is challenged is that you stand
 by it. I suppose we're supposed to take your word for
 it, because as you say so often, you never lie.

Exactly.

 Uh-huh. Aren't you the person who claimed that if Obama
 secured the nomination that as a good Democrat you would 
 support him fully? Given some of the things you've said
 on this forum since and the negative nature of the articles
 you repost, I cannot help but assume that either you have 
 a different definition of what support means than I do, 
 or you have a different definition of what I never lie 
 means than I do.

Well, one difference in our definition of lie,
apparently, is that if one changes one's mind for
some reason, that doesn't mean what one said to
start with was a lie.

Oh, and by the way, you've now documented that
you're REELY REELY STOOOPID.





[FairfieldLife] Re: I quit -- question for Rick or the other moderators (since he's away)

2008-07-19 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
snip
 I wasn't trying to be nasty, and I was never in the least
 dishonest when dealing with him, or with anyone else here.

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA!



[FairfieldLife] Re: I quit -- question for Rick or the other moderators (since he's away)

2008-07-19 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ 
 wrote:
   snip
If my memory isn't faulty, t'would seem that Judy felt 
the need to...uh...stretch the truth a bit (if not...
dare I say it...actually LIE) in the fervor of one of
her Gotta Trash Barry moments. I'll be interested to 
see what she has to say about this claim when she 
returns.
   
   I don't have anything to say about it, other than
   that of course I stand by it. Unless Barry's
   REELY REELY STOOOPID, he ought to have
   been able to come up with an additional possibility,
   in which what I wrote is 100% accurate and the 
   faultiness of his memory is completely irrelevant.
  
  Ok, I think that there will be no complaint from
  anyone here if I characterize Judy as the person
  who has most often demanded that people back up
  their claims on this forum. It's almost her trade-
  mark. Well, turnabout is fair play.
  
  Judy, please produce two things to back up the
  following claim:
  
   We recently lost an
   extremely valuable long-time poster because of
   Barry's nastiness and dishonesty.
  
  1. Please supply the name or screen name of the 
  poster you claim left FFL because of Barry's 
  nastiness and dishonesty.
  
  2. Please supply documentation that this is the 
  reason they gave for leaving. If it's a message on
  FFL, please give us the message number. If it is
  a private email, please ask for permission to repost
  that email here verbatim. (Or, when you give us the 
  person's name, we can simply write to the person and 
  ask them whether your representation of why they 
  left FFL is accurate.)
  
  I'm really curious as to how you will respond to 
  this, Judy. It really IS doing a Judy on YOU, and
  turnabout is fair play. Above you stand by the 
  claim, but with no backup. I think everyone here knows 
  that if anyone else did that when YOU had challenged 
  them to back up one of their claims, the next words 
  out of your mouth would be a variant of, See...I 
  told you so...he/she is LYING!
 
 Actually, usually I just note that the person
 refuses to back up the claim and let others come
 to their own conclusions.
 
 In this case, I'd have to reveal a private
 communication, which I'm not going to do. And I
 can't recall ever having demanded that anybody
 else do so.

I note that Judy has refused to back up her claim.

Others may draw their own conclusions.





[FairfieldLife] Re: I quit -- question for Rick or the other moderators (since he's away)

2008-07-19 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 
  I suppose we're supposed to take your word for
  it, because as you say so often, you never lie.
 
 Exactly.
 
  Uh-huh. Aren't you the person who claimed that if Obama
  secured the nomination that as a good Democrat you would 
  support him fully? Given some of the things you've said
  on this forum since and the negative nature of the articles
  you repost, I cannot help but assume that either you have 
  a different definition of what support means than I do, 
  or you have a different definition of what I never lie 
  means than I do.
 
 Well, one difference in our definition of lie,
 apparently, is that if one changes one's mind for
 some reason, that doesn't mean what one said to
 start with was a lie.

When I first encountered Judy Stein I thought,
and said, that I considered her a shrewish old
schoolmarm who argued incessantly about anything
she could sucker people into arguing about because
she was still trying to impress her dead Daddy with
how strong she is. And she was a TM True Believer.

In the years since, I have changed my mind. I now
believe that she argues incessantly about anything
she can lure people into arguing about because she
is insane. And a TM True Believer.

According to Judy, the fact that I have changed my 
mind does not make the first statement a lie.  :-)


And now, a fun comparison:

I have in my hands a list of 205 [government
employees] that were made known to the Secretary
of State as being members of the Communist Party
and who nevertheless are still working and shaping
policy in the State Department. 
-- Senator Joseph McCarthy, 1950 

The list was never made available to the Secy of 
State, or to anyone else. McCarthy later claimed 
that he could not reveal it because he had to 
protect a communication from a private source, 
exactly the same argument used by Judy Stein when 
refusing to back up the following quote:

We recently lost an extremely valuable long-time 
poster because of Barry's nastiness and dishonesty.
-- Judy Stein, 17 July 2008

Photo of Joe:
http://www.theage.com.au/ffximage/2005/02/04/icon_topic3_feb4,0.jpg

Photo of Judy:
http://ph.groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/photos/view/4c65?b=27

Coincidence? Illicit affair? People coming to look
like their heroes? You decide.  :-)





[FairfieldLife] Re: I quit -- question for Rick or the other moderators (since he's away)

2008-07-19 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
snip
   I'm really curious as to how you will respond to 
   this, Judy. It really IS doing a Judy on YOU, and
   turnabout is fair play. Above you stand by the 
   claim, but with no backup. I think everyone here knows 
   that if anyone else did that when YOU had challenged 
   them to back up one of their claims, the next words 
   out of your mouth would be a variant of, See...I 
   told you so...he/she is LYING!
  
  Actually, usually I just note that the person
  refuses to back up the claim and let others come
  to their own conclusions.
 
 I note that Judy has refused to back up her claim.
 
 Others may draw their own conclusions.

  In this case, I'd have to reveal a private
  communication, which I'm not going to do. And I
  can't recall ever having demanded that anybody
  else do so.

Note that Barry *has* made that very demand.

Snipped by Barry:

  You made a claim, Judy. And now the only thing you have
  to say when that claim is challenged is that you stand
  by it. I suppose we're supposed to take your word for
  it, because as you say so often, you never lie.

 Exactly.

Also snipped by Barry:

  Try as I might, I am unable to substantiate your claim
  using the Yahoo Search Engine.

 How much time have you spent on this so far, Barry?

 giggle

He's now wasted a good six posts on it, in addition
to all the time he's taken to search and rack his
brains (for evidence of something he could easily
have figured out was a private communication and
therefore not reflected either in his brains--such
as they are--or the FFL traffic or emails to the
moderators).

Hope everybody is having as much fun with this latest
meltdown of Barry's as I am...

Oh, heck, let's just rub it in a little further. From
an earlier post in the sequence:

 I wasn't trying to be nasty, and I was never in the least
 dishonest when dealing with him, or with anyone else here.

Hey, Barry, I'll be *delighted* to provide evidence
that you're being dishonest here about your chronic 
dishonesty. Whaddya say, would you like me to do that?

Let's start with this:

[Judy] follows me from Internet forum to Internet
forum [trying to lure me into arguments]. She has
done the same with several folks here, as they
would be more than willing to tell you.

Want more, Barry?




[FairfieldLife] Re: I quit -- question for Rick or the other moderators (since he's away)

2008-07-19 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Hope everybody is having as much fun with this latest
 meltdown of Barry's as I am...
 
 Oh, heck, let's just rub it in a little further. From
 an earlier post in the sequence:
 
  I wasn't trying to be nasty, and I was never in the least
  dishonest when dealing with him, or with anyone else here.
 
 Hey, Barry, I'll be *delighted* to provide evidence
 that you're being dishonest here about your chronic 
 dishonesty. Whaddya say, would you like me to do that?
 
 Let's start with this:
 
 [Judy] follows me from Internet forum to Internet
 forum [trying to lure me into arguments]. She has
 done the same with several folks here, as they
 would be more than willing to tell you.
 
 Want more, Barry?


If it's of this quality, sure.

Please note the way that Judy responded to this
assertion of mine when it was first posted:

 This is a very old, tired lie Barry's told over and
 over, but, again, one he feels secure in telling
 Ruth because she has no way to know it's a lie.
 The ONLY Internet forum I ever followed Barry to
 was this one--and that was *at his invitation* to
 the folks on alt.m.t when he started posting here.

A quick search of the following Google groups for posts
made by '[EMAIL PROTECTED]' containing the word 'Barry' 
will find will find posts there from her responding to 
my posts to those groups, in most cases for no other 
purpose than to trash me.  

alt.religion.gnostic
alt.meditation
sci.skeptic
comp.ai.philosophy
alt.magick.tantra

Her game seemed to have been that whenever I would 
get into a conversation with someone from one of 
these other groups that was cross-posted to alt.
meditation.transcendental, she would follow up on 
the thread, even if she wasn't interested in the 
subject matter, and -- Surprise! -- attempt to 
undermine my credibility on the new forum. 

Add to that Fairfield Life and the TM-Free blog,
where she did exactly the same thing, and I think 
you've got a few more groups that she's followed 
me to than this one. And yet she claimed in no 
uncertain terms that this was the only one. Go 
figure, eh?

Want more, Judy?





[FairfieldLife] Re: I quit -- question for Rick or the other moderators (since he's away)

2008-07-19 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 
  Hope everybody is having as much fun with this latest
  meltdown of Barry's as I am...
  
  Oh, heck, let's just rub it in a little further. From
  an earlier post in the sequence:
  
   I wasn't trying to be nasty, and I was never in the least
   dishonest when dealing with him, or with anyone else here.
  
  Hey, Barry, I'll be *delighted* to provide evidence
  that you're being dishonest here about your chronic 
  dishonesty. Whaddya say, would you like me to do that?
  
  Let's start with this:
  
  [Judy] follows me from Internet forum to Internet
  forum [trying to lure me into arguments]. She has
  done the same with several folks here, as they
  would be more than willing to tell you.
  
  Want more, Barry?
 
 If it's of this quality, sure.
 
 Please note the way that Judy responded to this
 assertion of mine when it was first posted:

This was hardly the first time you'd posted it,
Barry, as you well know. The first time was back
in May 2005, and you've done so any number of
times since.

  This is a very old, tired lie Barry's told over and
  over, but, again, one he feels secure in telling
  Ruth because she has no way to know it's a lie.
  The ONLY Internet forum I ever followed Barry to
  was this one--and that was *at his invitation* to
  the folks on alt.m.t when he started posting here.
 
 A quick search of the following Google groups for posts
 made by '[EMAIL PROTECTED]' containing the word 'Barry' 
 will find will find posts there from her responding to 
 my posts to those groups, in most cases for no other 
 purpose than to trash me.  
 
 alt.religion.gnostic
 alt.meditation
 sci.skeptic
 comp.ai.philosophy
 alt.magick.tantra
 
 Her game seemed to have been that whenever I would 
 get into a conversation with someone from one of 
 these other groups that was cross-posted to alt.
 meditation.transcendental, she would follow up on 
 the thread, even if she wasn't interested in the 
 subject matter, and -- Surprise! -- attempt to 
 undermine my credibility on the new forum.

Ah, now we see Barry's definition of follows from
Internet forum to Internet forum: He includes
participation in cross-posted conversations, even
if the posts in question all came from a single
forum.

Of course, cross-posted conversations were standard
on Usenet; nobody except Barry would ever try to
portray participation in them as following someone
from forum to forum.

 Add to that Fairfield Life and the TM-Free blog,
 where she did exactly the same thing

Uh, no. I was posting to TMFree well before Barry
was; and as I noted, I came to FFL *at Barry's
invitation* on alt.m.t. (Besides which, I was
already a member but had been only lurking; I
didn't post to FFL until Barry and Vaj started
lying about what went on on alt.m.t. My second
post ever to FFL, #52346, has a good overview
of what happened.)

, and I think 
 you've got a few more groups that she's followed 
 me to than this one. And yet she claimed in no 
 uncertain terms that this was the only one. Go 
 figure, eh?

It *is*, of course, the only one in terms of what
virtually everyone except Barry would understand by
the phrase he used. And again, even that was *at 
his explicit invitation*.

And I might also note that this is the *first* time
he's attempted to justify his lie by resorting to
this definition, even though I've challenged him on
it many times. So it's not as if he had this peculiar
definition in mind all along. He just felt the need,
finally, to come up with *something*.

Oh, and one more thing: When I mentioned on alt.m.t
that I had discovered Barry had been trashing me on
FFL well before he'd issued his invitation for us to
join him there, he threatened to accuse me of being
a cyberstalker if I dared to speak up about it on
FFL.




[FairfieldLife] Re: I quit -- question for Rick or the other moderators (since he's away)

2008-07-19 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
snip
  Add to that Fairfield Life and the TM-Free blog,
  where she did exactly the same thing
 
 Uh, no. I was posting to TMFree well before Barry
 was

Plus which, as I recall--I could be wrong, but I don't
think so--my first comment addressed to Barry at TMFree
was in response to one of his *trashing me*.





[FairfieldLife] Re: I quit -- question for Rick or the other moderators (since he's away)

2008-07-19 Thread geezerfreak

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@
 wrote:
   snip
If my memory isn't faulty, t'would seem that Judy felt
the need to...uh...stretch the truth a bit (if not...
dare I say it...actually LIE) in the fervor of one of
her Gotta Trash Barry moments. I'll be interested to
see what she has to say about this claim when she
returns.
  
   I don't have anything to say about it, other than
   that of course I stand by it. Unless Barry's
   REELY REELY STOOOPID, he ought to have
   been able to come up with an additional possibility,
   in which what I wrote is 100% accurate and the
   faultiness of his memory is completely irrelevant.
 
  Ok, I think that there will be no complaint from
  anyone here if I characterize Judy as the person
  who has most often demanded that people back up
  their claims on this forum. It's almost her trade-
  mark. Well, turnabout is fair play.
 
  Judy, please produce two things to back up the
  following claim:
 
   We recently lost an
   extremely valuable long-time poster because of
   Barry's nastiness and dishonesty.
 
  1. Please supply the name or screen name of the
  poster you claim left FFL because of Barry's
  nastiness and dishonesty.
 
  2. Please supply documentation that this is the
  reason they gave for leaving. If it's a message on
  FFL, please give us the message number. If it is
  a private email, please ask for permission to repost
  that email here verbatim. (Or, when you give us the
  person's name, we can simply write to the person and
  ask them whether your representation of why they
  left FFL is accurate.)
 
  I'm really curious as to how you will respond to
  this, Judy. It really IS doing a Judy on YOU, and
  turnabout is fair play. Above you stand by the
  claim, but with no backup. I think everyone here knows
  that if anyone else did that when YOU had challenged
  them to back up one of their claims, the next words
  out of your mouth would be a variant of, See...I
  told you so...he/she is LYING!

 Actually, usually I just note that the person
 refuses to back up the claim and let others come
 to their own conclusions.

 In this case, I'd have to reveal a private
 communication, which I'm not going to do. And I
 can't recall ever having demanded that anybody
 else do so.

  Try as I might, I am unable to substantiate your claim
  using the Yahoo Search Engine.

 How much time have you spent on this so far, Barry?

 giggle

 snip
  You made a claim, Judy. And now the only thing you have
  to say when that claim is challenged is that you stand
  by it. I suppose we're supposed to take your word for
  it, because as you say so often, you never lie.

 Exactly.

  Uh-huh. Aren't you the person who claimed that if Obama
  secured the nomination that as a good Democrat you would
  support him fully? Given some of the things you've said
  on this forum since and the negative nature of the articles
  you repost, I cannot help but assume that either you have
  a different definition of what support means than I do,
  or you have a different definition of what I never lie
  means than I do.

 Well, one difference in our definition of lie,
 apparently, is that if one changes one's mind for
 some reason, that doesn't mean what one said to
 start with was a lie.

 Oh, and by the way, you've now documented that
 you're REELY REELY STOOOPID.





[FairfieldLife] Re: I quit -- question for Rick or the other moderators (since he's away)

2008-07-19 Thread nablusoss1008
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 snip
  I wasn't trying to be nasty, and I was never in the least
  dishonest when dealing with him, or with anyone else here.
 
 BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

The interesting thing is that this Turk fellow actually believes 
everything he writes. As if he has a Mission, which ofcourse makes him 
believe he is a very, very important person. 
HaHaHa




[FairfieldLife] Re: I quit -- question for Rick or the other moderators (since he's away)

2008-07-19 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Just for the fun of it:

 When I first encountered Judy Stein I thought,
 and said, that I considered her a shrewish old
 schoolmarm who argued incessantly about anything
 she could sucker people into arguing about because
 she was still trying to impress her dead Daddy with
 how strong she is. And she was a TM True Believer.

Not in those words, you didn't. Google Groups
search has no record of your ever having referred
to me as shrewish (or a shrew), and you didn't
get around to suggesting I was a schoolmarm 
until 2003.

Plus which, I don't believe I had occasion to
mention anything on alt.m.t about my father's death
for some years. (And I'd be astonished if I'd ever
referred to him on alt.m.t as Daddy.)

In other words, Barry made this whole tale up, at
least in terms of what he actually *said* about me.

Oh, and he knows I'm not a True Believer, too.




[FairfieldLife] Re: I quit -- question for Rick or the other moderators (since he's away)

2008-07-18 Thread TurquoiseB
Hey, Rick, Alex, gullible_fool, et al,

The following claim by Judy has me curious. Has anyone
unsubscribed or stalked off of FFL in a snit citing me 
as a reason recently?

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 And if you look back, you'll find that more than
 anyone else on FFL, it's been Barry who has
 attempted--and frequently succeeded--in driving
 people off the forum. We recently lost an
 extremely valuable long-time poster because of
 Barry's nastiness and dishonesty.

I'm trying to figure out what on EARTH Judy could be
talking about here. Marek seems to be taking a break,
but he and I were on the best of terms last time I 
checked. And Jim's still finishing up his latest two
weeks in the penalty box, so it can't be him she's 
referring to. 

The last person that I remember who stalked off in a 
snit citing me as a reason was Lou Valentino. And yes,
in that case, I plead guilty, and express some remorse.
I took Lou to task over some incredibly sexist and
misogynist things he said here, suggesting that this
'tude might explain his recent divorce, and he went
ballistic and unsubscribed. For the record, Lou, I
apologize for the personal inferences, but stand firm
on calling you on your misogynist bullshit.

But Lou bailed back in August 2007, hardly recently.
Edg Duveyoung last posted back in May, but left with-
out a goodbye or stating a reason for taking off, as 
I remember.

But other than that, I really can't remember anyone
bailing from FFL citing my nastiness and dishonesty 
as a reason for bailing, especially recently. If 
my memory is faulty, please clue me in so that I can 
post the appropriate Mea culpas and apologies. I 
*do* tend to be abrasive at times. 

If my memory isn't faulty, t'would seem that Judy felt 
the need to...uh...stretch the truth a bit (if not...
dare I say it...actually LIE) in the fervor of one of
her Gotta Trash Barry moments. I'll be interested to 
see what she has to say about this claim when she 
returns. 





[FairfieldLife] Re: I quit -- question for Rick or the other moderators (since he's away)

2008-07-18 Thread Alex Stanley
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Hey, Rick, Alex, gullible_fool, et al,
 
 The following claim by Judy has me curious. Has anyone
 unsubscribed or stalked off of FFL in a snit citing me 
 as a reason recently?

The only info I receive are system-generated notices that someone has
unsubscribed. I have received no private emails containing reasons for
unsubscribing.
 
 And Jim's still finishing up his latest two
 weeks in the penalty box, 

Jim unsubscribed a couple days ago.

 Edg Duveyoung last posted back in May, but left with-
 out a goodbye or stating a reason for taking off, as 
 I remember.

Edg is still subscribed and config'd with the no email option.
 




[FairfieldLife] Re: I quit -- question for Rick or the other moderators (since he's away)

2008-07-18 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
snip
 If my memory isn't faulty, t'would seem that Judy felt 
 the need to...uh...stretch the truth a bit (if not...
 dare I say it...actually LIE) in the fervor of one of
 her Gotta Trash Barry moments. I'll be interested to 
 see what she has to say about this claim when she 
 returns.

I don't have anything to say about it, other than
that of course I stand by it. Unless Barry's
REELY REELY STOOOPID, he ought to have
been able to come up with an additional possibility,
in which what I wrote is 100% accurate and the 
faultiness of his memory is completely irrelevant.