[FairfieldLife] Re: More Cult News

2013-02-09 Thread navashok
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
>

> > > If you are honest, you'll have to acknowledge that you
> > > have been doing precisely this since I called you on
> > > your psychiatric pseudo-diagnosis of Robin last December.
> > 
> > I haven't.
> 
> Yes, navashok, you have.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O6kRqnfsBEc




[FairfieldLife] Re: More Cult News

2013-02-08 Thread Ann


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, navashok  wrote:
>
> 
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27"  wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, navashok  wrote:
> > >> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27"  wrote:
> > 
> > > > As I've noted before, you do not hear complaints about financial, or
> > > > sexual impropieties with Robin.
> > >
> > > No? What then was the story with Caitlin and Matthew?  Robins advances
> > to Caitlin were interpreted by him as her evil power of seduction later,
> > when she had refused to give in, when at the same time he had asked her
> > husband Matthew to give up the marriage and become a priest, as he
> > himself wanted to become. (names in the book the CULT, pages 325.)
> > 
> > Sorry, didn't read the book.  I am going by what's been reported on this
> > site both by detractors and supporters.  But even still, if this is your
> > solitary example, it sounds  a little weak.  Usually the sexual
> > improprieties tend to be a  little more rampant.
> >
> I think you should read it, you can easily obtain a copy, I was trying to 
> spare you the details, because I don't want to get into another dog fight 
> here.Surely the sexual component was not the dominant with Robin, but what he 
> tried to do with Caitlin wasn't between two consenting adults, as far as the 
> story goes. But I wasn't there, I have to depend on what is written in the 
> book. Just if you say there is no accusation of sexual misbehavior, it is not 
> true, there is.

I can pretty much tell you straight out that Robin was no sexual predator. 
There was no sexual exploitation, activity, innuendo, occurrence or suggestion 
between Robin and the rest of us. What he did behind closed doors with his 
girlfriend, later to become his wife, was private and confined to the privacy 
of his home. Not only did he not touch anyone physically I never caught a 
single vibe from him that suggested any sort of come on or flirtation let alone 
invitation to his boudoir. Sorry if that is not what you wanted to hear but 
that is that. Whatever occurred in that Chicago hotel room between him and the 
woman there will only truly be known to them and I think they have both moved 
on. It was at the end of days and was very out of character for the Robin we 
all knew.
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: More Cult News

2013-02-08 Thread seventhray27

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27" wrote:

> > It would be interesting, for me at least, to know just how
> > this played out, because so often, exposes such as this have
> > little effect. I mean Andrew Cohen being one example. He
> > seems to be doing okay as far as I know. You know, they
> > chalk it up to disaffected students, who fell out of favor
> > with the teacher.
>
> Robin had to close up shop and left town (Vancouver) after
> the expose came out.
>
> Unlike Cohen, Robin had the courage and honesty to realize
> he had gone off the rails--not immediately, but not long
> thereafter. He then withdrew from all but one of his
> former associates and friends and spent the next 25 years
> working on himself with the assistance of this one friend,
> an exceptionally painful process, according to him, that
> he almost didn't survive.
>
> (This is all based on what he's said here in his posts.)
>
> He had come out of that isolation only a few months before
> he showed up on FFL.
>
Ok, thanks for timeline.


[FairfieldLife] Re: More Cult News

2013-02-08 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, navashok  wrote:
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, navashok  wrote:
(snip)
> > > > > I think you should read it, you can easily obtain
> > > > > a copy, I was trying to spare you the details,
> > > > > because I don't want to get into another dog fight
> > > > > here.
> > > > 
> > > > You won't get into a "dog fight" by simply reporting what's
> > > > in the book. You *are* likely to get into a dog fight if you
> > > > insist what's in the book must be the objective truth and
> > > > use it to attack Robin (again, in his absence, one of your
> > > > particularly dishonorable tendencies).
> > > 
> > > I only hint what is in the book and report it. Where on
> > > earth do I insist it is true?
> > 
> > In your post to Steve, you reported the "Caitlin" incident
> > as if it were factual (although you backed off after I
> > pointed out that we didn't have Robin's side of the story).
> 
> You have to first read what Steve wrote: Steve said: 'you do
> not hear complaints about financial, or sexual impropieties'

I know what Steve wrote. Here's what *you* wrote:

"Robins advances to Caitlin were interpreted by him as her
evil power of seduction later, when she had refused to give
in, when at the same time he had asked her husband Matthew
to give up the marriage and become a priest, as he himself
wanted to become. (names in the book the CULT, pages 325.)"

As I said, you reported it as if it were factual.

> Factually this is wrong because we hear about complaints
> of sexual improprieties in the book the CULT. That there
> are complaints IS a fact.

Right, I never suggested otherwise.

> If these complains correspond to the actual truth is up
> to everybody's belief.

Right.

> > > The book is there for all to read. It is your insinuations,
> > > pure fantasy by you, that is dishonest.
> > 
> > Oh, which "insinuations" were those, navashok?
> > 
> > > It can't be a taboo talking about this,
> > 
> > Of course not. Nowhere did I suggest it was. I was
> > addressing your silly contention that you'd get into
> > a "dog fight" if you mentioned any details.
> > 
> > > and I am not bringing it up from my site,
> > 
> > ("Side," not "site.") Again, I didn't say you were.
> > 
> > > I am just reacting to what Steve said. Nor do I get after
> > > you, as you continuously insinuate. If you are honest you
> > > will have to acknowledge this.
> > 
> > If you are honest, you'll have to acknowledge that you
> > have been doing precisely this since I called you on
> > your psychiatric pseudo-diagnosis of Robin last December.
> 
> I haven't.

Yes, navashok, you have.

> Just now, it was you responding to what I reported

That's right.

> and making a couple of unfounded insinuations, like my
> supposed antipathy toward Robin.

You need to check the meaning of "insinuation." I didn't
*insinuate* that you had antipathy toward Robin, I said
it right out. (Or perhaps you use the word "insinuate"
to falsely suggest sneakiness on my part.)

You haven't exactly hidden your antipathy toward Robin.
It's been evident for quite some time.

> Right now, and visible to everybody, it is YOU getting
> after me, just because I have dared to mention Robin.

It was because you described the "Caitlin" incident
as if it were established fact, not because you "dared
to mention Robin." Also because of your absurd claim
that you didn't want to start a "dog fight" by
mentioning details from the book, all the while hinting
darkly that about the terrible things that were in it.

> It is like you are ready to jump any time.

Only when you misbehave.

> > (And I don't "insinuate" this, I say it right up front.)
> > 
> > > And yes, I have no reason to believe that Bill Howell is not
> > > saying the truth.
> > 
> > You have no reason to believe he is telling the truth
> > either, other than your antipathy toward Robin.
> 
> You have no reason to believe I have any antipathy toward
> Robin. I have no agenda with him, this is just your fantasy.

No, it's not. Your denial is dishonest.

> > > You may disagree, that's okay.
> > 
> > Much more importantly, does Robin disagree?
> 
> But he didn't even read so far, he stopped after page 80
> or so. There are hardly any revelations up to this page.

(He also read the Epilogue.) I'm not sure what "revelations"
have to do with this. That's a red herring you've thrown in.

> > When he commented on the book, Robin was surprisingly
> > generous toward Howell; he didn't accuse him of lying.
> > He did say his own memory differed from Howell's in
> > several factual respects (he didn't say what they were).
> > 
> > But he also indicated he felt Howell's overall
> > presentation, albeit sincere, was significantly skewed.
> > I cited an amazing discussion between Ann and Robin in
> > which Robin gave his perspective on it all.
> > 
> > Of course, far be it from you to read that discussion
> > for balance.
> 
> We

[FairfieldLife] Re: More Cult News

2013-02-08 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27"  wrote:
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, navashok wrote:
> > >
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27" wrote:
(snip)
> > > > I guess, luckily for everyone, Robin's deal blew up, or
> > > > perhaps more accurately, petered out.
> >
> > No, it was blown up by a sensational expose in the local
> > newspaper that was instigated by Ann in collaboration
> > with several others of Robin's followers.
> 
> It would be interesting, for me at least, to know just how
> this played out, because so often, exposes such as this have
> little effect.  I mean Andrew Cohen being one example.  He
> seems to be doing okay as far as I know.  You know, they
> chalk it up to disaffected students, who fell out of favor
> with the teacher.

Robin had to close up shop and left town (Vancouver) after
the expose came out.

Unlike Cohen, Robin had the courage and honesty to realize
he had gone off the rails--not immediately, but not long
thereafter. He then withdrew from all but one of his
former associates and friends and spent the next 25 years
working on himself with the assistance of this one friend,
an exceptionally painful process, according to him, that
he almost didn't survive.

(This is all based on what he's said here in his posts.)

He had come out of that isolation only a few months before
he showed up on FFL.




[FairfieldLife] Re: More Cult News

2013-02-08 Thread navashok


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, navashok  wrote:
> > 
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
> > >
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, navashok  wrote:
> > > (snip>
> > > > I think you should read it, you can easily obtain a copy, I was 
> > > > trying to spare you the details, because I don't want to get
> > > > into another dog fight here.
> > > 
> > > You won't get into a "dog fight" by simply reporting what's
> > > in the book. You *are* likely to get into a dog fight if you
> > > insist what's in the book must be the objective truth and
> > > use it to attack Robin (again, in his absence, one of your
> > > particularly dishonorable tendencies).
> > 
> > I only hint what is in the book and report it. Where on
> > earth do I insist it is true?
> 
> In your post to Steve, you reported the "Caitlin" incident
> as if it were factual (although you backed off after I
> pointed out that we didn't have Robin's side of the story).

You have to first read what Steve wrote: Steve said: 'you do not hear 
complaints about financial, or sexual impropieties'

Factually this is wrong because we hear about complaints of sexual 
improprieties in the book the CULT. That there are complaints IS a fact. If 
these complains correspond to the actual truth is up to everybody's belief.


> > The book is there for all to read. It is your insinuations,
> > pure fantasy by you, that is dishonest.
> 
> Oh, which "insinuations" were those, navashok?
> 
> > It can't be a taboo talking about this,
> 
> Of course not. Nowhere did I suggest it was. I was
> addressing your silly contention that you'd get into
> a "dog fight" if you mentioned any details.
> 
> > and I am not bringing it up from my site,
> 
> ("Side," not "site.") Again, I didn't say you were.
> 
> > I am just reacting to what Steve said. Nor do I get after
> > you, as you continuously insinuate. If you are honest you
> > will have to acknowledge this.
> 
> If you are honest, you'll have to acknowledge that you
> have been doing precisely this since I called you on
> your psychiatric pseudo-diagnosis of Robin last December.

I haven't. Just now, it was you responding to what I reported and making a 
couple of unfounded insinuations, like my supposed antipathy toward Robin. 
Right now, and visible to everybody, it is YOU getting after me, just because I 
have dared to mention Robin. It is like you are ready to jump any time.

> (And I don't "insinuate" this, I say it right up front.)
> 
> > And yes, I have no reason to believe that Bill Howell is not
> > saying the truth.
> 
> You have no reason to believe he is telling the truth
> either, other than your antipathy toward Robin.

You have no reason to believe I have any antipathy toward Robin. I have no 
agenda with him, this is just your fantasy.
> 
> > You may disagree, that's okay.
> 
> Much more importantly, does Robin disagree?

But he didn't even read so far, he stopped after page 80 or so. There are 
hardly any revelations up to this page.

> When he commented on the book, Robin was surprisingly
> generous toward Howell; he didn't accuse him of lying.
> He did say his own memory differed from Howell's in
> several factual respects (he didn't say what they were).
> 
> But he also indicated he felt Howell's overall
> presentation, albeit sincere, was significantly skewed.
> I cited an amazing discussion between Ann and Robin in
> which Robin gave his perspective on it all.
> 
> Of course, far be it from you to read that discussion
> for balance.

Well, Robin didn't even read the book which is all about him. He didn't really 
care to know, how what he did was reflected in the lives of the people who 
spend decades with him, and how they had to struggle to come to terms with it. 
I wish him the best and peace nevertheless, but I will give him no special 
credit over what others report here. 

> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/326991
> 
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/327053
> 
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/327243
> 
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/327546
> 
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/327566
> 
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/327058
> 
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/327442
> 
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/327572
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: More Cult News

2013-02-08 Thread seventhray27


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, navashok wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27" wrote:
> > >
> > > I don't think you could not be struck by the similiarties
> > > of Robin's gig.
>
> Possibly more apparent than real.
>
> > > I guess, luckily for everyone, Robin's deal blew up, or
> > > perhaps more accurately, petered out.
>
> No, it was blown up by a sensational expose in the local
> newspaper that was instigated by Ann in collaboration
> with several others of Robin's followers.


It would be interesting, for me at least, to know just how this played
out, because so often, exposes such as this have little effect.  I mean
Andrew Cohen being one example.  He seems to be doing okay as far as I
know.  You know, they chalk it up to disaffected students, who fell out
of favor with the teacher.


> > > As I've noted before, you do not hear complaints about
> > > financial, or sexual impropieties with Robin.
> >
> > No? What then was the story with Caitlin and Matthew?
>
> One would think it would be a good idea to hear Robin's
> side of this story. He was there; Howell was not.
>
> > Robins advances to Caitlin were interpreted by him as her
> > evil power of seduction later, when she had refused to give
> > in, when at the same time he had asked her husband Matthew
> > to give up the marriage and become a priest, as he himself
> > wanted to become. (names in the book the CULT, pages 325.)
> >
> > > It was mostly the "control" stuff, and emotional abuse.
>
> Just a reminder that this started happening only in the
> final couple of years.
>
> For Robin's perspective on the ten years of this group and
> his role in it, you can't do better than to read the
> extraordinary dialogue between Robin and Ann that begins
> with Ann's comments on posts of Robin to Xeno and raunchy.
> To be fair to Robin, if one has read "Cult," one should
> read this dialogue as well. It's quite long, but not nearly
> as long as "Cult."
>
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/326991
>
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/327053
>
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/327243
>
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/327546
>
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/327566
>
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>
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/327442
>
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[FairfieldLife] Re: More Cult News

2013-02-08 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, navashok  wrote:
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, navashok  wrote:
> > (snip>
> > > I think you should read it, you can easily obtain a copy, I was 
> > > trying to spare you the details, because I don't want to get
> > > into another dog fight here.
> > 
> > You won't get into a "dog fight" by simply reporting what's
> > in the book. You *are* likely to get into a dog fight if you
> > insist what's in the book must be the objective truth and
> > use it to attack Robin (again, in his absence, one of your
> > particularly dishonorable tendencies).
> 
> I only hint what is in the book and report it. Where on
> earth do I insist it is true?

In your post to Steve, you reported the "Caitlin" incident
as if it were factual (although you backed off after I
pointed out that we didn't have Robin's side of the story).

> The book is there for all to read. It is your insinuations,
> pure fantasy by you, that is dishonest.

Oh, which "insinuations" were those, navashok?

> It can't be a taboo talking about this,

Of course not. Nowhere did I suggest it was. I was
addressing your silly contention that you'd get into
a "dog fight" if you mentioned any details.

> and I am not bringing it up from my site,

("Side," not "site.") Again, I didn't say you were.

> I am just reacting to what Steve said. Nor do I get after
> you, as you continuously insinuate. If you are honest you
> will have to acknowledge this.

If you are honest, you'll have to acknowledge that you
have been doing precisely this since I called you on
your psychiatric pseudo-diagnosis of Robin last December.

(And I don't "insinuate" this, I say it right up front.)

> And yes, I have no reason to believe that Bill Howell is not
> saying the truth.

You have no reason to believe he is telling the truth
either, other than your antipathy toward Robin.

> You may disagree, that's okay.

Much more importantly, does Robin disagree?

When he commented on the book, Robin was surprisingly
generous toward Howell; he didn't accuse him of lying.
He did say his own memory differed from Howell's in
several factual respects (he didn't say what they were).

But he also indicated he felt Howell's overall
presentation, albeit sincere, was significantly skewed.
I cited an amazing discussion between Ann and Robin in
which Robin gave his perspective on it all.

Of course, far be it from you to read that discussion
for balance.

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[FairfieldLife] Re: More Cult News

2013-02-08 Thread navashok


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, navashok  wrote:
> (snip>
> > I think you should read it, you can easily obtain a copy, I was 
> > trying to spare you the details, because I don't want to get
> > into another dog fight here.
> 
> You won't get into a "dog fight" by simply reporting what's
> in the book. You *are* likely to get into a dog fight if you
> insist what's in the book must be the objective truth and
> use it to attack Robin (again, in his absence, one of your
> particularly dishonorable tendencies).

I only hint what is in the book and report it. Where on earth do I insist it is 
true? The book is there for all to read. It is your insinuations, pure fantasy 
by you, that is dishonest. It can't be a taboo talking about this, and I am not 
bringing it up from my site, I am just reacting to what Steve said. Nor do I 
get after you, as you continuously insinuate. If you are honest you will have 
to acknowledge this. And yes, I have no reason to believe that Bill Howell is 
not saying the truth. You may disagree, that's okay.




[FairfieldLife] Re: More Cult News

2013-02-08 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, navashok  wrote:
(snip>
> I think you should read it, you can easily obtain a copy, I was 
> trying to spare you the details, because I don't want to get
> into another dog fight here.

You won't get into a "dog fight" by simply reporting what's
in the book. You *are* likely to get into a dog fight if you
insist what's in the book must be the objective truth and
use it to attack Robin (again, in his absence, one of your
particularly dishonorable tendencies).




[FairfieldLife] Re: More Cult News

2013-02-08 Thread navashok


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27"  wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, navashok  wrote:
> >> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27"  wrote:
> 
> > > As I've noted before, you do not hear complaints about financial, or
> > > sexual impropieties with Robin.
> >
> > No? What then was the story with Caitlin and Matthew?  Robins advances
> to Caitlin were interpreted by him as her evil power of seduction later,
> when she had refused to give in, when at the same time he had asked her
> husband Matthew to give up the marriage and become a priest, as he
> himself wanted to become. (names in the book the CULT, pages 325.)
> 
> Sorry, didn't read the book.  I am going by what's been reported on this
> site both by detractors and supporters.  But even still, if this is your
> solitary example, it sounds  a little weak.  Usually the sexual
> improprieties tend to be a  little more rampant.
>
I think you should read it, you can easily obtain a copy, I was trying to spare 
you the details, because I don't want to get into another dog fight here.Surely 
the sexual component was not the dominant with Robin, but what he tried to do 
with Caitlin wasn't between two consenting adults, as far as the story goes. 
But I wasn't there, I have to depend on what is written in the book. Just if 
you say there is no accusation of sexual misbehavior, it is not true, there is.




[FairfieldLife] Re: More Cult News

2013-02-08 Thread seventhray27
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, navashok  wrote:
>> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27"  wrote:

> > As I've noted before, you do not hear complaints about financial, or
> > sexual impropieties with Robin.
>
> No? What then was the story with Caitlin and Matthew?  Robins advances
to Caitlin were interpreted by him as her evil power of seduction later,
when she had refused to give in, when at the same time he had asked her
husband Matthew to give up the marriage and become a priest, as he
himself wanted to become. (names in the book the CULT, pages 325.)

Sorry, didn't read the book.  I am going by what's been reported on this
site both by detractors and supporters.  But even still, if this is your
solitary example, it sounds  a little weak.  Usually the sexual
improprieties tend to be a  little more rampant.


[FairfieldLife] Re: More Cult News

2013-02-08 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, navashok  wrote:
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27"  wrote:
(snip) 
> > As I've noted before, you do not hear complaints about
> > financial, or sexual impropieties with Robin. 
> 
> No? What then was the story with Caitlin and Matthew?  Robins
> advances to Caitlin were interpreted by him as her evil power
> of seduction later, when she had refused to give in, when at
> the same time he had asked her husband Matthew to give up the
> marriage and become a priest, as he himself wanted to become. 
> (names in the book the CULT, pages 325.)

Navashok, yesterday:

"It is just amazing what kind of drama is revealed in the
book, going much beyond what we knew here, but I won't get
into it, I don't want to stir up all the mud here once
again."

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/334705




[FairfieldLife] Re: More Cult News

2013-02-08 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, navashok  wrote:
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27"  wrote:
> > 
> > I don't think you could not be struck by the similiarties
> > of Robin's gig.

Possibly more apparent than real.

> > I guess, luckily for everyone, Robin's deal blew up, or
> > perhaps more accurately, petered out.

No, it was blown up by a sensational expose in the local
newspaper that was instigated by Ann in collaboration
with several others of Robin's followers.

> > As I've noted before, you do not hear complaints about
> > financial, or sexual impropieties with Robin. 
> 
> No? What then was the story with Caitlin and Matthew?

One would think it would be a good idea to hear Robin's
side of this story. He was there; Howell was not.

> Robins advances to Caitlin were interpreted by him as her
> evil power of seduction later, when she had refused to give
> in, when at the same time he had asked her husband Matthew
> to give up the marriage and become a priest, as he himself
> wanted to become. (names in the book the CULT, pages 325.)
>
> > It was mostly the "control" stuff, and emotional abuse.

Just a reminder that this started happening only in the
final couple of years.

For Robin's perspective on the ten years of this group and
his role in it, you can't do better than to read the
extraordinary dialogue between Robin and Ann that begins
with Ann's comments on posts of Robin to Xeno and raunchy.
To be fair to Robin, if one has read "Cult," one should
read this dialogue as well. It's quite long, but not nearly
as long as "Cult."

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/326991

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/327053

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/327243

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/327546

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/327566

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/327058

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/327442

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/327572




[FairfieldLife] Re: More Cult News

2013-02-08 Thread navashok


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27"  wrote:
>
> 
> I don't think you could not be struck by the similiarties of Robin's
> gig.
> 
> I guess, luckily for everyone, Robin's deal blew up, or perhaps more
> accurately, petered out.
> 
> As I've noted before, you do not hear complaints about financial, or
> sexual impropieties with Robin. 

No? What then was the story with Caitlin and Matthew?  Robins advances to 
Caitlin were interpreted by him as her evil power of seduction later, when she 
had refused to give in, when at the same time he had asked her husband Matthew 
to give up the marriage and become a priest, as he himself wanted to become. 
(names in the book the CULT, pages 325.)

> It was mostly the "control" stuff, and
> emotional abuse.
> 
> On the other hand, with Andrew, there wasn't any mention of the teacher
> taking advantage of students sexually either.
> 
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "salyavin808" wrote:
> >
> >
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb wrote:
> > >
> > > This time about Andrew Cohen:
> > >
> > > Making Sense of Post-Cult Trauma & the Relational System of
> > > the Traumatizing Narcissist
> > >
> > > My Thirteen Years at EnlightenNext
> > > by William Yenner
> > >
> > >
> http://americanguru.net/news-and-reviews/making-sense-of-post-cult-traum\
> a-the-relational-system-of-the-traumatizing-narcissist/
> > >
> >
> > Amazing story, I wonder just how many groups like this there are
> > at any one time? There ought to be a govt department keeping
> > tabs on them all. If you include all the christian fundy cults
> > there must be a significant shift of the nations money into the
> > pockets of maniacs.
> >
> > Read a good book called "Spying in guru land" by William Shaw,
> > he's a journalist who spent a year joining as many cults and
> > secret religious/spiritual groups as he could find. Fascinating
> > stuff, they range from multi-million pound organisations
> > formed by early defectors from the TMO to a plumber and his
> > girlfriend waffling shallow new age garbage in their council
> > flat in Peckham. All of them have devoted members who will
> > do pretty much anything to be near their teachers (and spend
> > any amount of money).
> >
> > The cunning thing is the way they hide behind a screen of
> > offering acceptable sounding relaxation techniques or just
> > philosophy discussion classes and then they slowly reel you
> > in to the belief system and the hidden Truth and before you
> > know it you're standing on a hill at midnight waiting for
> > UFO's, speaking in tongues with the master of the galaxy, or
> > even hopping around on bits of foam thinking you are creating
> > world peace! Nowt so queer as folk
> >
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: More Cult News

2013-02-08 Thread seventhray27

I don't think you could not be struck by the similiarties of Robin's
gig.

I guess, luckily for everyone, Robin's deal blew up, or perhaps more
accurately, petered out.

As I've noted before, you do not hear complaints about financial, or
sexual impropieties with Robin.  It was mostly the "control" stuff, and
emotional abuse.

On the other hand, with Andrew, there wasn't any mention of the teacher
taking advantage of students sexually either.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "salyavin808" wrote:
>
>
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb wrote:
> >
> > This time about Andrew Cohen:
> >
> > Making Sense of Post-Cult Trauma & the Relational System of
> > the Traumatizing Narcissist
> >
> > My Thirteen Years at EnlightenNext
> > by William Yenner
> >
> >
http://americanguru.net/news-and-reviews/making-sense-of-post-cult-traum\
a-the-relational-system-of-the-traumatizing-narcissist/
> >
>
> Amazing story, I wonder just how many groups like this there are
> at any one time? There ought to be a govt department keeping
> tabs on them all. If you include all the christian fundy cults
> there must be a significant shift of the nations money into the
> pockets of maniacs.
>
> Read a good book called "Spying in guru land" by William Shaw,
> he's a journalist who spent a year joining as many cults and
> secret religious/spiritual groups as he could find. Fascinating
> stuff, they range from multi-million pound organisations
> formed by early defectors from the TMO to a plumber and his
> girlfriend waffling shallow new age garbage in their council
> flat in Peckham. All of them have devoted members who will
> do pretty much anything to be near their teachers (and spend
> any amount of money).
>
> The cunning thing is the way they hide behind a screen of
> offering acceptable sounding relaxation techniques or just
> philosophy discussion classes and then they slowly reel you
> in to the belief system and the hidden Truth and before you
> know it you're standing on a hill at midnight waiting for
> UFO's, speaking in tongues with the master of the galaxy, or
> even hopping around on bits of foam thinking you are creating
> world peace! Nowt so queer as folk
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: More Cult News

2013-02-08 Thread Richard J. Williams


> > More Cult News
> >
Bhairitu: 
> The CW's new series "The Cult" starts on the 19th.  
> They've been running a short 15 second or so promo 
> during commercial breaks...
> 
You guys seem to just love being in cults and reading 
about cults - obsessed with the comings-and-goings of 
the Maharishi. Go figure.

You've started your own Cult Awareness Network' (CAN). 

LoL!

"I'd be interested in hearing anything you might have 
heard in your studies about these guys and how they 
are regarded in comparison to other religions or 
belief systems of the time or in any time." - Unc



[FairfieldLife] Re: More Cult News

2013-02-08 Thread doctordumbass
Yeah, the trick is not throwing the baby out with the bathwater. There are tons 
of "teachers" out there, with the credence of infomercial hucksters. There is 
some value, IMO, in reflecting back on any spiritual context we are exposed to, 
and seeing it for what it is, or simply questioning everything that went on.

After a while, though, it is the individuals, you and me, each of us, 
undertaking the spiritual journey, who are the central characters in it. So, if 
the objective in questioning a spiritual organization is a means to move 
forward in the journey, by all means, go for it.

However, if the purpose of questioning a spiritual organization goes on long 
after one has left, perhaps the focus on such an organization, is no longer 
moving the person forward. Perhaps what was once a legitimate criticism of a 
past association, has now become a fixation, triggered emotionally - a screen 
preventing forward momentum on the spiritual journey.  

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "salyavin808"  wrote:
>
> 
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
> >
> > This time about Andrew Cohen:
> > 
> > Making Sense of Post-Cult Trauma & the Relational System of 
> > the Traumatizing Narcissist
> > 
> > My Thirteen Years at EnlightenNext
> > by William Yenner
> > 
> > http://americanguru.net/news-and-reviews/making-sense-of-post-cult-trauma-the-relational-system-of-the-traumatizing-narcissist/
> >
> 
> Amazing story, I wonder just how many groups like this there are
> at any one time? There ought to be a govt department keeping
> tabs on them all. If you include all the christian fundy cults
> there must be a significant shift of the nations money into the
> pockets of maniacs.
> 
> Read a good book called "Spying in guru land" by William Shaw,
> he's a journalist who spent a year joining as many cults and
> secret religious/spiritual groups as he could find. Fascinating
> stuff, they range from multi-million pound organisations
> formed by early defectors from the TMO to a plumber and his
> girlfriend waffling shallow new age garbage in their council
> flat in Peckham. All of them have devoted members who will
> do pretty much anything to be near their teachers (and spend
> any amount of money). 
> 
> The cunning thing is the way they hide behind a screen of 
> offering acceptable sounding relaxation techniques or just 
> philosophy discussion classes and then they slowly reel you 
> in to the belief system and the hidden Truth and before you
> know it you're standing on a hill at midnight waiting for
> UFO's, speaking in tongues with the master of the galaxy, or 
> even hopping around on bits of foam thinking you are creating
> world peace! Nowt so queer as folk
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: More Cult News

2013-02-08 Thread Richard J. Williams
turquoiseb
> More Cult News
>
"I studied with a guy who could turn huge rooms
in convention centers gold, to the point where
even the security guards saw it, but that never
made me think he was enlightened, only that he
could do cool things with light." - Unc

LoL!

> This time about Andrew Cohen:
> 
> Making Sense of Post-Cult Trauma & the Relational 
> System of > the Traumatizing Narcissist
> 
> My Thirteen Years at EnlightenNext
> by William Yenner
> 
> http://americanguru.net/news-and-reviews/making-sense-of-post-cult-trauma-the-relational-system-of-the-traumatizing-narcissist/
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: More Cult News

2013-02-08 Thread salyavin808


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
>
> This time about Andrew Cohen:
> 
> Making Sense of Post-Cult Trauma & the Relational System of 
> the Traumatizing Narcissist
> 
> My Thirteen Years at EnlightenNext
> by William Yenner
> 
> http://americanguru.net/news-and-reviews/making-sense-of-post-cult-trauma-the-relational-system-of-the-traumatizing-narcissist/
>

Amazing story, I wonder just how many groups like this there are
at any one time? There ought to be a govt department keeping
tabs on them all. If you include all the christian fundy cults
there must be a significant shift of the nations money into the
pockets of maniacs.

Read a good book called "Spying in guru land" by William Shaw,
he's a journalist who spent a year joining as many cults and
secret religious/spiritual groups as he could find. Fascinating
stuff, they range from multi-million pound organisations
formed by early defectors from the TMO to a plumber and his
girlfriend waffling shallow new age garbage in their council
flat in Peckham. All of them have devoted members who will
do pretty much anything to be near their teachers (and spend
any amount of money). 

The cunning thing is the way they hide behind a screen of 
offering acceptable sounding relaxation techniques or just 
philosophy discussion classes and then they slowly reel you 
in to the belief system and the hidden Truth and before you
know it you're standing on a hill at midnight waiting for
UFO's, speaking in tongues with the master of the galaxy, or 
even hopping around on bits of foam thinking you are creating
world peace! Nowt so queer as folk