Re: FUGLY takes aim

2010-03-11 Thread Heather Baskey
This message is from: Heather Baskey 


I wasn't going to reply to this thread anymore, but Beth - thank you.  That
was so very well written.
 
Heather
 
PS - the owner has written a letter to all of this and has commented on how
amazing "Barney" is doing to this very day.
 

 
So, say what you will, understand the tools and please show where the horse is
now. My bet is that he likes and trusts his humans much better now.

Beth

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RE: FUGLY takes aim

2010-03-11 Thread Steve Sessoms
This message is from: "Steve Sessoms" 


Well, this is my last bit on Parelli for a while, sorry if I come across harsh
in my earlier post but sometimes I feel I must defend my friends.  This is one
of the friends I speak of: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LYxUslXd7YQ  

The following paragraph is what I wrote to Debby [miss.am...@earthlink.net] in
private email, by the way we had a nice debate discussion off the list.  =)
This is my take on the video of LP and the half blind horse, and I was so
shocked when I first saw that bit on a Parelli dvd that I watched it over and
over until I thought I understood what the heck LP thought she was doing ... 

~~~

I don't think LParelli handled that half blind horse well either. I do not agree
with everything they do. I am not one of their blind followers. In her defense
though, the horse's owner had come out to join the group with his horse. The
horse put its head up and started looking out into the distance just looking for
something to spook at. The horse was behaving downright dangerously, too
dangerously to even lead it back to the barn. When LP took the lead she was
attempting (very badly I might add) to get the horse away from her and for it to
stand still until it decided it would rather be calm with its people than
frightened out by itself. Kinda like slapping someone who has gotten into a
complete screaming panic and won't stop! Only when it relaxed would she let it
stand with them. And I have never been a fan of those big metal clasps hanging
from the halters. I thought she had several chances to stop and see if the horse
would relax but she just kept whamming it ... maybe she saw something in its
behavior that I couldn't see though. I doubt the horse was harmed mentally or
physically from what I saw in the video. But I can't help but think there had to
have been a better way. The horses owner said that he is horrified that so much
negative has been made from that video, he said that Linda and the Parelli
course helped him and his horse a lot. 

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Re: FUGLY takes aim

2010-03-11 Thread Starfire Farm

This message is from: Starfire Farm 


pedfjo...@aol.com wrote:

I must say that someone just this week sent me a video of what appears to 
be this game. It was hard for me to watch all 4 + min. of it, I must say. 
The 
saint of a horse did not understandand the human spent all 4+ min. 
basically yanking his face off with a lead rope to get that space. Over 
and 
over. BAM. BAM. BAM, backing the horse, pulling it sideways. If the horse 
looked 
to or approched the human with his head, BAM. The horse kept looking to 
the 
human to " fix it " but clearly did not know what the human was looking 
for.


   

Well, I'm going to stick my neck out here and hopefullly not get it 
chopped off.Lisa? By your description, it sounded like the 
horse was being given NO time to settle and was CONSTANTLY being yanked, 
jerked and banged on. However, Linda did give the horse opportunities to 
focus on her, basically "center" itself in her presence, a number of 
times, by softening her body posture and energy, but the horse's 
behavior patterns kept coming into play, i.e. not trusting the human, or 
believing that the human had the capacity to take care of its 
surroundings for it (being the herd leader).


What I did NOT see from Linda were postural signals to draw the horse's 
attention back to her (essentially centering the horse) other than the 
use of the rope. There was a lot of directing the energy of her tools AT 
the horse's body, rather than the area surrounding the horse's body, 
which rather surprised me. In my opinion, Linda missed a number of 
opportunities to really explain to the horse what she was looking for 
using the tools that she was using in this tape. I don't know how old 
the tape was. I have seen them do things quite differently in a similar 
situation in the past couple of years. I used to be contacted by people 
to help them out of what they had learned from the Parelli system. The 
Parellis have "changed their message" and it's not that bad anymore.


I have worked with a number of horses like that one and they can be 
tough to work with on the ground without either 1) getting hurt yourself 
2) getting through to the horse without looking like you were really 
wailing on it. Would I have done things differently? Maybe a few years 
ago, no.  Like I said before, I don't know how old this tape is, but 
perhaps Linda is better now. I have certainly changed how I understood 
the use of these tools and the behavioral patterns and needs of the 
horse over the years. I've seen a number of "NH" clinicians (to coin a 
term) learn to work smarter, not harder, over the years, with more 
sensitivity to the needs of the horse. Some still churn out 
"robots"...maybe that will change with their maturity.


Now, I am not a Parelli fan or disciple, but I have watched them, as 
well as other NH clinicians, over the years so I could understand what 
they were doing and help folks understand what they were trying to learn 
from a clinic with any of these guys. Most of the time, folks get so 
wrapped up in the system, they leave the horse out of the 
equation..but that's another story.


They are as mad as me watching this poor display of " NH " Horsemanship. 
Tom Dorance is rolling over. Nuff said.   Lisa
 

Actually, Tom Dorrance did use some of the techniques in the tape. With 
more skill, timing and feel, of course, but he could be tough on a horse 
when it was necessary. As could Bill Dorrance and Ray Hunt...when 
necessary. And if you had seen one of their tougher sessions out of 
context, you would have been howling about that as well. What most folks 
don't get/aren't able to see is the communication/soft offer of support 
to the horse that was given prior to the handler "firming up" on the 
horse AND the offering for the horse to "get with"..or focus on...them. 
THAT is where most of us get into trouble. We go after the horse before 
we give it a little signal or indication of what we want. Really bad 
handling occurs when we keep going after the horse without giving it an 
opportunity to respond. Sometimes, these things happen so quickly that 
the uneducated/inexperienced person can't see those offerings. Clearly, 
this horse did not have any reason to trust humans throughout his life, 
hence the searching/distracted behavior.


This kind of mis-information...without showing the result of the 
session...without knowing the basis for the action, is a problem in this 
media-hyped-up-sensationalizing-frame of mind that is going on with the 
internet - as well as computer arm chair experts (who perhaps haven't 
had to deal with horses like this one...not that he's a bad horse, 
clearly a nice horse, that needed some help.)


So, say what you will, understand the tools and please show where the 
horse is now. My bet is that he likes and trusts his humans much better now.


Beth 



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Re: FUGLY takes aim

2010-03-10 Thread REENA GIOLA
This message is from: REENA GIOLA 


Thanks for posting the link to this.  All I have to say if I had been that
horse I sure would have wanted to kick the tarnation out of her.  I give
credit to the horse for being so kind and not doing that!!

Reena
On Mar 10, 2010, at 12:42 PM, coy...@acrec.com wrote:

> This message is from: "coy...@acrec.com" 
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> Here ya go: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CyF2QqP29DU

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Re: FUGLY takes aim

2010-03-10 Thread coy...@acrec.com

This message is from: "coy...@acrec.com" 


Here ya go: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CyF2QqP29DU

Amy Evers wrote:

Can someone post a link to this video? The Fugly Horse website says it's
"Account is Suspended" when I try to go there.


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RE: FUGLY takes aim

2010-03-10 Thread Gail Russell
This message is from: Gail Russell 


That would explain why it seemed a bit disjointed in the dialogue.


Not going to get into this one - but I have the originals Levels pack and I
know where this clip came from and it has been "skillfully edited" to show 4+
minutes of continuous reprimands (no releases) and has an explanation of what
was happening in the moment.??? 

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Re: FUGLY takes aim

2010-03-10 Thread Heather Baskey
This message is from: Heather Baskey 


Not going to get into this one - but I have the originals Levels pack and I
know where this clip came from and it has been "skillfully edited" to show 4+
minutes of continuous reprimands (no releases) and has an explanation of what
was happening in the moment.   
 
Not saying it is right or wrong - but what I DO feel is wrong, is someone
editing something to make it look different than the original to suit their
own agenda.
 
If that was my copyrighted material that was edited to suit someone
else's agenda, then I would be taking legal action for sure.
 
Heather



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RE: FUGLY takes aim

2010-03-10 Thread Gail Russell
This message is from: Gail Russell 


Could it be a bandwidth problem? 

Amy, unfortunately, it looks like Fugly-owner Kathy has stirred the s$#! pot a
little too hard and proably has had some legal repercussions taken against
her; it's not the 1st time this has happened w/ her blog; I'm sure we'll have
access again in due time or the blog is re-invented yet again...

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RE: FUGLY takes aim

2010-03-10 Thread Karen McCarthy
This message is from: Karen McCarthy 


I am sure Kathy/Fugly blogger has someone else besides You Tube breathing down
her neck...

My guess? She recently outed & PO'd a very affluent woman who dumped her nice,
lame (but fixable) TB @ a Wa. state auction. Hubby is a shyster dentist
(busted for false billing) who owns multiple Ferrari's & other very high $$$
toys, woman is a totally spoiled DQ w/ a very bad 'tude & terrible rep amongst
local horsepeople, I bet Kathy is battling their sharks Hmm, I'm sure
we'll hear something soon.

Just my guess.






> From: g...@zeliga.com
> To: fjordhorse@angus.mystery.com
> Date: Wed, 10 Mar 2010 09:29:10 -0800
> Subject: RE: FUGLY takes aim
>
> This message is from: Gail Russell 
>
>
> OoopsThey had the youtube video ON the site. I wonder if You tube went
after them.
>
>
>
> Can someone post a link to this video? The Fugly Horse website says it's
> "Account is Suspended" when I try to go there.
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RE: FUGLY takes aim

2010-03-10 Thread Karen McCarthy
This message is from: Karen McCarthy 


Amy, unfortunately, it looks like Fugly-owner Kathy has stirred the s$#! pot a
little too hard and proably has had some legal repercussions taken against
her; it's not the 1st time this has happened w/ her blog; I'm sure we'll have
access again in due time or the blog is re-invented yet again...

Kmac in Oregon - a solid FHOTD follower





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> To: fjordhorse@angus.mystery.com
> Subject: Re: FUGLY takes aim
> Date: Wed, 10 Mar 2010 11:53:01 -0500
> From: fjord...@aol.com
>
> This message is from: Amy Evers 
>
>
> The tape in question has made the rounds of alot of Internet sites this
> eek I guess. Today, it made the front page of the FUGLY Horse Of The Day.
>
>
> Can someone post a link to this video? The Fugly Horse website says it's
> "Account is Suspended" when I try to go there.
>
> Anyone know the name of the "trainer" in the video? Inquiring minds want to
> know
>
> Amy Evers
> Dun Lookin' Fjords
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RE: FUGLY takes aim

2010-03-10 Thread Gail Russell
This message is from: Gail Russell 


OoopsThey had the youtube video ON the site.  I wonder if You tube went 
after them. 



Can someone post a link to this video? The Fugly Horse website says it's
"Account is Suspended" when I try to go there.

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Re: FUGLY takes aim

2010-03-10 Thread Kathleen Prince
This message is from: Kathleen Prince 


I watched it earlier today. It was Linda Parelli doing the training.  
Sure didn't look right to me, she just kept whacking the poor horse.
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On Mar 10, 2010, at 11:53 AM, Amy Evers wrote:

> This message is from: Amy Evers 
>
>
> The tape in question has made the rounds of alot of Internet sites  
> this
> eek I guess. Today, it made the front page of the FUGLY Horse Of  
> The Day.
>
>
> Can someone post a link to this video? The Fugly Horse website says  
> it's
> "Account is Suspended" when I try to go there.
>
> Anyone know the name of the "trainer" in the video? Inquiring minds  
> want to
> know
>
> Amy Evers
> Dun Lookin' Fjords
> Cottage Grove OR 97424
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Re: FUGLY takes aim

2010-03-10 Thread Amy Evers
This message is from: Amy Evers 


The tape in question has made the rounds of alot of Internet sites this
eek I guess. Today, it made the front page of the FUGLY Horse Of The Day.


Can someone post a link to this video? The Fugly Horse website says it's
"Account is Suspended" when I try to go there.

Anyone know the name of the "trainer" in the video? Inquiring minds want to
know

Amy Evers
Dun Lookin' Fjords
Cottage Grove OR 97424

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FUGLY takes aim

2010-03-09 Thread Pedfjords
This message is from: pedfjo...@aol.com


In a message dated 3/9/2010 10:33:24 AM Mountain Standard Time, 
owner-fjordhorse-dig...@angus.mystery.com writes:

> 
> I must say that someone just this week sent me a video of what appears to 
> be this game. It was hard for me to watch all 4 + min. of it, I must say. 
> The 
> saint of a horse did not understandand the human spent all 4+ min. 
> basically yanking his face off with a lead rope to get that space. Over 
> and 
> over. BAM. BAM. BAM, backing the horse, pulling it sideways. If the horse 
> looked 
> to or approched the human with his head, BAM. The horse kept looking to 
> the 
> human to " fix it " but clearly did not know what the human was looking 
> for.
> 


*

The tape in question has made the rounds of alot of Internet sites this 
week I guess. Today, it made the front page of the FUGLY Horse Of The Day. 

Not a good place to be, just saying. There are 2 pages of comments tonight 
already, almost 300 of them, and its good to know that all except for 2 
brave people trying to make excuses or justify this mess, there are alot more 
gonna get thrown from the peanut gallery before this is quiet. 

Heads up, hide the kiddies and Nuns. FUGLY is not a place for those who 
dont want to read some bad lauguage. Esp. when the natives are riled up. 

They are as mad as me watching this poor display of " NH " Horsemanship. 
Tom Dorance is rolling over. Nuff said.   Lisa

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