Re: [MOPO] Leaving Bad Feedback

2008-07-17 Thread Erich Linder
As seller (when it was possible): I did maybe twice out of 400+
transactions.  Both times after a month or two or THREE of wrangling with a
lying jackass.

As a buyer: Only twice, when a French seller LIED about what he was selling
(conveniently cropping the photo to eliminate characteristics of the poster)
and when a UK seller threw a valuable LC in an envelope, apparently hoping
it would be destroyed on the way to the US.  His wish came true.

-Erich

www.posterdemic.com


On 7/17/08, Michael B [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 how often do you ACTUALLY leave bad feedback?  do you do it sparingly, and
 for what reason?

 deceptive description  grossly and deceptive?

 forever to ship or bad packahing causing damage?

 

 ???

 ??

 ?

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Re: [MOPO] Leaving Bad Feedback

2008-07-17 Thread Helmut Hamm
I recently left negative feedback on an italian seller who charged my 
15 Euros (almost $24) shipping for a locandina.


When the (recycled) tube arrived, it had stamps for 2 Euros (a bit 
over $3) on it.


The seller admitted that these were his actual costs but told me I 
should have read the item description and refused a refund.


There's nothing wrong with a 'handling fee', but there IS a limit, so 
I left him an appropriate negative feedback.



Helmut

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Re: [MOPO] Leaving Bad Feedback

2008-07-17 Thread Franc
I seldom leave bad feedback as a buyer. I only buy from people with high
ratings and I've almost NEVER had a problem with anything I've bought. I
had a problem with a totally inaccurate description of condition from a
respected dealer whom I'm sure you all know and instead of leaving bad
feedback I cut him a break and sent him an e-mail telling him that I
probably will not bid from him again. At least I got an apology. These
days an apology goes a long way. The only time in recent history that I
left a negative was for an electronics dealer who sold me a piece of
equipment that was sold as brand new and was totally defective. I called
him on the phone and he was defensive and rude and he refused to
exchange or refund the purchase price. He insisted I deal directly with
the manufacturer, so I left him a negative based on his poor customer
service. He sent me a form through Ebay begging for a retraction and I
would not comply. The guy was just a very bad businessman. 
 
As a seller the only time I would want to leave a bad feedback is for
non-payment and Ebay now does not allow this anymore. So the same stiffs
that never pay for anything they purchase on Ebay ---people like Nick
Ventola -- get a free pass. What I usually try to do is get other buyers
who have had recent non-payment problems with the same user to report
this to Ebay. After three non-payment complaints in a month, Ebay
usually kicks the offending buyer off Ebay. I also try to research their
contact information since they usually have a bogus phone number as
their Ebay contact. This too I report to Ebay, since it's a blatant
rules violation and that also gets the offending buyer kicked off.
Desperate times require desperate measures. 
 
FRANC 

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Sent: Thursday, July 17, 2008 9:47 AM
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Subject: [MOPO] Leaving Bad Feedback


how often do you ACTUALLY leave bad feedback?  do you do it sparingly,
and for what reason?

deceptive description  grossly and deceptive?

forever to ship or bad packahing causing damage?



???

??

?

michael



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Re: [MOPO] Leaving Bad Feedback

2008-07-17 Thread Erich Linder
I also try to research their contact information since they usually have a
bogus phone number as their Ebay contact.

Very true.  But it can be almost worse when it's real!

One particular buyer had a real phone number and I honestly called him 10+
separate occasions to attempt to get him to pay.  Excuses excuses excuses,
and this guy is an attorney!  Oh, did I mention the calls were to Australia
(I am in US), and that I attempted to be courteous by timing my calls during
business hours FOR HIM.  So, there's me, the idiot nice guy, staying up
until who knows what time in order to call some deadbeat on the other side
of the planet, only to hear that his credit card was stolen, or that his
friend would pay me, or whatever else he dreamed up in his twisted little
mind.

Lesson learned.

-Erich

www.posterdemic.com




On 7/17/08, Franc [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

  I seldom leave bad feedback as a buyer. I only buy from people with high
 ratings and I've almost NEVER had a problem with anything I've bought. I had
 a problem with a totally inaccurate description of condition from a
 respected dealer whom I'm sure you all know and instead of leaving bad
 feedback I cut him a break and sent him an e-mail telling him that I
 probably will not bid from him again. At least I got an apology. These
 days an apology goes a long way. The only time in recent history that I left
 a negative was for an electronics dealer who sold me a piece of equipment
 that was sold as brand new and was totally defective. I called him on the
 phone and he was defensive and rude and he refused to exchange or refund the
 purchase price. He insisted I deal directly with the manufacturer, so I left
 him a negative based on his poor customer service. He sent me a form through
 Ebay begging for a retraction and I would not comply. The guy was just a
 very bad businessman.

 As a seller the only time I would want to leave a bad feedback is for
 non-payment and Ebay now does not allow this anymore. So the same stiffs
 that never pay for anything they purchase on Ebay ---people like Nick
 Ventola -- get a free pass. What I usually try to do is get other buyers who
 have had recent non-payment problems with the same user to report this to
 Ebay. After three non-payment complaints in a month, Ebay usually kicks the
 offending buyer off Ebay. I also try to research their contact information
 since they usually have a bogus phone number as their Ebay contact. This too
 I report to Ebay, since it's a blatant rules violation and that also gets
 the offending buyer kicked off.  Desperate times require desperate
 measures.

 FRANC

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 *From:* MoPo List [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] *On Behalf Of *Michael
 B
 *Sent:* Thursday, July 17, 2008 9:47 AM
 *To:* MoPo-L@LISTSERV.AMERICAN.EDU
 *Subject:* [MOPO] Leaving Bad Feedback

 how often do you ACTUALLY leave bad feedback?  do you do it sparingly, and
 for what reason?

 deceptive description  grossly and deceptive?

 forever to ship or bad packahing causing damage?

 

 ???

 ??

 ?

 michael

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Re: [MOPO] Leaving Bad Feedback

2008-07-17 Thread Patrick Michael Tupy
Michael, I left bad feedback for the first time and did it three  
times with three different Sellers.


The reason:  They got paid on time, but never responded to email and  
never shipped the items.


Ebay has suspended two of these Sellers.  So weird that they had  
great feedback right up to the
time I'd purchased items.  Then they had a string of 8-10 Buyers  
leaving Neg feedback due to

never receiving the items purchased.

Claims filed, but I have even less faith in PayPal than I do in Ebay,  
so that $ is likely gone.


Patrick

ps: I should note that none of these Sellers were selling posters.


On Jul 17, 2008, at 6:47 AM, Michael B wrote:

how often do you ACTUALLY leave bad feedback?  do you do it  
sparingly, and for what reason?


deceptive description  grossly and deceptive?

forever to ship or bad packahing causing damage?



???

??

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Re: [MOPO] Leaving Bad Feedback

2008-07-17 Thread pj Angel
And you Michael, how often have *you* ACTUALLY left negative feedback and
the reasons.

Just curious.

Me, I left only a couple of negs since 1998 for reasons of which I no longer
recall.

That's not to say I haven't been disappointed, or misled, buy an item
received, but have always been able to communicate with the seller to
resolve the transaction with either money returned, an replacement item, or
(in one case) credit on future auctions. That's happened a dozen or so
times.

And as a seller I found the best way to retain good relationships, and a
solid customer base, was to let the buyer keep the item they were
disappointed with and return all the money, including shipping. No questions
asked. That happened maybe 5 times over the years. It was amazing that after
I gave them that option, the item in question was no longer quite so
disappointing.

pj
bigtownfilmposters.us
On Thu, Jul 17, 2008 at 10:58 AM, Patrick Michael Tupy [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 Michael, I left bad feedback for the first time and did it three times with
 three different Sellers.
 The reason:  They got paid on time, but never responded to email and never
 shipped the items.

 Ebay has suspended two of these Sellers.  So weird that they had great
 feedback right up to the
 time I'd purchased items.  Then they had a string of 8-10 Buyers leaving
 Neg feedback due to
 never receiving the items purchased.

 Claims filed, but I have even less faith in PayPal than I do in Ebay, so
 that $ is likely gone.

 Patrick

 ps: I should note that none of these Sellers were selling posters.


  On Jul 17, 2008, at 6:47 AM, Michael B wrote:

 how often do you ACTUALLY leave bad feedback?  do you do it sparingly, and
 for what reason?

 deceptive description  grossly and deceptive?

 forever to ship or bad packahing causing damage?

 

 ???

 ??

 ?

 michael

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Re: [MOPO] Leaving Bad Feedback

2008-07-17 Thread Richard Halegua Comic Art

I have left negs in only a few occasions

once the ebay buyer/seller JohnBarrymoreUK cheated me  took my money
she may be a huge barrymore fan, but she wanted me to pay the paypal 
fees, I told ebay who warned her she couldn't do that.. but I never 
got my items.
so for $30 I found out that JohnBarrymoreUK was  thief.. that's okay. 
Now all of you know it too. Anyway I left her a neg to find that at 
the very last minute that she could leave feedback, she had negged me 
too. But I did get her back.. for months I checked her bidding list  
drove her up about $1000 total before I got bored with it. she has 
since changed her ebay name..
if she's reading this.. well, seeing as she is a woman and I still 
see something wrong with insulting a woman - if she is a lady or as 
in this case, not - I will hold my tongue.


another time, Superposters ripped me off and was an a**hole, so I negged him

I know there were a few times I left other negs.. not too often.

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Re: [MOPO] Leaving bad feedback

2008-07-17 Thread JOHN REID Vintage Movie Memorabilia
WHEN CHECKING A TRADING PARTNER, I BELIEVE THAT IS IS IMPORTANT TO SEE THE 
FEEDBACK LEFT FOR OTHERS.  Often, very insightful.

Not so insightful now under the new system with sellers being unable to leave 
anything but positive feedback. eBay has also warned sellers that they will be 
committing a policy violation if the leave false positives ie a seller who 
leaves a positive feedback but with a comment like warning - non paying 
bidder. eBay has said that comments like these will be removed and violations 
could result in suspension.


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  - Original Message - 
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  To: MoPo-L@LISTSERV.AMERICAN.EDU 
  Sent: Friday, July 18, 2008 10:17 AM
  Subject: [MOPO] Leaving bad feedback




And you Michael, how often have you ACTUALLY left negative feedback and the 
reasons.

Just curious.
  i have two ebay accounts:  dialmbbmbb  witnessfor

  let my feedback history speak for itself.  

  WHEN CHECKING A TRADING PARTNER, I BELIEVE THAT IS IS IMPORTANT TO SEE THE 
FEEDBACK LEFT FOR OTHERS.  Often, very insightful.

  i believe that neg feedback should be left for collectors or dealers (posters 
or otherwise) who are purposefully deceitful by words or tiny, cropped images.  
 i have had several situations of sellers outside the poster collecting hobby 
that did not have a clue as to what defects to disclose; yet, despite 
disappointment, i still left good feedback because they seemed sincere and 
honest.  collectors  dealers are to be held to a higher standard.
   
  i have also left the proverbial retaliatory feedback.  

  i told MOPOers this morning of the terrible flimsy damaged tube that i 
received a few weeks ago.  seller left me advance fgood eedback.  i have left 
none.

  i have returned posters that did not meet the description, and sometimes left 
good feedback.  it is all about sincerity, honesty and decency.  

  i have never received any feedback as a seller for misrepresenting.

  michael



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Re: [MOPO] Leaving bad feedback

2008-07-17 Thread Phil Edwards
It's all a bit like ALICE IN WONDERLAND now.
Phil

  - Original Message - 
  From: JOHN REID Vintage Movie Memorabilia 
  To: MoPo-L@LISTSERV.AMERICAN.EDU 
  Sent: Friday, July 18, 2008 11:13 AM
  Subject: Re: [MOPO] Leaving bad feedback


  WHEN CHECKING A TRADING PARTNER, I BELIEVE THAT IS IS IMPORTANT TO SEE THE 
FEEDBACK LEFT FOR OTHERS.  Often, very insightful.

  Not so insightful now under the new system with sellers being unable to leave 
anything but positive feedback. eBay has also warned sellers that they will be 
committing a policy violation if the leave false positives ie a seller who 
leaves a positive feedback but with a comment like warning - non paying 
bidder. eBay has said that comments like these will be removed and violations 
could result in suspension.


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  Australia
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From: Michael B 
To: MoPo-L@LISTSERV.AMERICAN.EDU 
Sent: Friday, July 18, 2008 10:17 AM
Subject: [MOPO] Leaving bad feedback




  And you Michael, how often have you ACTUALLY left negative feedback and 
the reasons.

  Just curious.
i have two ebay accounts:  dialmbbmbb  witnessfor

let my feedback history speak for itself.  

WHEN CHECKING A TRADING PARTNER, I BELIEVE THAT IS IS IMPORTANT TO SEE THE 
FEEDBACK LEFT FOR OTHERS.  Often, very insightful.

i believe that neg feedback should be left for collectors or dealers 
(posters or otherwise) who are purposefully deceitful by words or tiny, cropped 
images.   i have had several situations of sellers outside the poster 
collecting hobby that did not have a clue as to what defects to disclose; yet, 
despite disappointment, i still left good feedback because they seemed sincere 
and honest.  collectors  dealers are to be held to a higher standard.
 
i have also left the proverbial retaliatory feedback.  

i told MOPOers this morning of the terrible flimsy damaged tube that i 
received a few weeks ago.  seller left me advance fgood eedback.  i have left 
none.

i have returned posters that did not meet the description, and sometimes 
left good feedback.  it is all about sincerity, honesty and decency.  

i have never received any feedback as a seller for misrepresenting.

michael




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