[Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread Arvin Casas
Hi All,

I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring pieces
for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do odd things beyond
cutting a check?

I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found a guy on
youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.

I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send him payment
through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so many fees)
but he said he had been ripped off that way and refused payment.

Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a paper check
(this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he backed out
saying the whole thing was fishy.

This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own youtube video
showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more than I'm
comfortable doing.

(Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm not
particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them publicly.)

Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.

Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just for a part?
Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video yourself on
youtube?

My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness.  Just wondering
what others think and what other stories people might like to share, odd,
weird, or otherwise.

Best Wishes from Massachusetts!

Arvin


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Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread john robles
If you ask me, the seller is the fishy one.John Robles

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Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
Date: Wednesday, May 8, 2013, 11:57 AM

Hi All,

I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring pieces
for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do odd things beyond
cutting a check?

I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found a guy on
youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.

I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send him payment
through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so many fees)
but he said he had been ripped off that way and refused payment.

Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a paper check
(this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he backed out
saying the whole thing was fishy.

This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own youtube video
showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more than I'm
comfortable doing.

(Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm not
particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them publicly.)

Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.

Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just for a part?
Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video yourself on
youtube?

My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness.  Just wondering
what others think and what other stories people might like to share, odd,
weird, or otherwise.

Best Wishes from Massachusetts!

Arvin


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Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread Ron L'Herault
Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait for the check
to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can post private
video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to let you know
when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.

Ron L

-Original Message-
From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org [mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org] On
Behalf Of Arvin Casas
Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

Hi All,

I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring pieces
for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do odd things beyond
cutting a check?

I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found a guy on
youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.

I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send him payment
through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so many fees)
but he said he had been ripped off that way and refused payment.

Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a paper check
(this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he backed out
saying the whole thing was fishy.

This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own youtube video
showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more than I'm
comfortable doing.

(Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm not
particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them publicly.)

Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.

Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just for a part?
Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video yourself on
youtube?

My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness.  Just wondering
what others think and what other stories people might like to share, odd,
weird, or otherwise.

Best Wishes from Massachusetts!

Arvin


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Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread Peter Fraser
I'm of course baffled by this.  In all my years of collecting, I've never 
encountered anyone who is the slightest bit strange, odd, paranoid, socially 
awkward, difficult, maladjusted, or otherwise different from the accepted 
mainstream.

And I know none of the rest of you ever ever have, either.

(I'm NOT winking.  I must have something stuck in my eye.)

-- Peter
pjfra...@mac.com



On May 8, 2013, at 2:09 PM, Ron L'Herault lhera...@bu.edu wrote:

 Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait for the check
 to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can post private
 video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to let you know
 when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.
 
 Ron L
 
 -Original Message-
 From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org [mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org] On
 Behalf Of Arvin Casas
 Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
 To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
 Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
 
 Hi All,
 
 I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring pieces
 for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do odd things beyond
 cutting a check?
 
 I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found a guy on
 youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.
 
 I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send him payment
 through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so many fees)
 but he said he had been ripped off that way and refused payment.
 
 Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a paper check
 (this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he backed out
 saying the whole thing was fishy.
 
 This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own youtube video
 showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more than I'm
 comfortable doing.
 
 (Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm not
 particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them publicly.)
 
 Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.
 
 Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just for a part?
 Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video yourself on
 youtube?
 
 My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness.  Just wondering
 what others think and what other stories people might like to share, odd,
 weird, or otherwise.
 
 Best Wishes from Massachusetts!
 
 Arvin
 
 
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Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread Arvin Casas
I considered hosting a video on my website in a password protected
directory but then I thought it's a long way to go to prove I exist.

I fully understand not wanting to get ripped off because it's incredibly
easy these days, but at some point you have to take that Indiana Jones
leap of faith.

What struck me as odd was that even a cleared check was not enough.
YouTube ergo Sum. :)

Part of me is just sad it's come to this.  I've met some great phono pholk
here and on other virtual meeting grounds and at no time did I really
question who folks said they were (maybe some iffy advice, but not their
existence!).  That's why I was wondering If this odd little war story of
mine has any corollary or precedence with the good fellows here.  It's a
bit more than just promising to mow your grumpy neighbor's lawn for a
summer just to get a peek at his 78's, lol.

C'est La Vie

Arvin


On 5/8/13 5:09 PM, Ron L'Herault lhera...@bu.edu wrote:

Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait for the
check
to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can post private
video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to let you
know
when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.

Ron L

-Original Message-
From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org [mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org]
On
Behalf Of Arvin Casas
Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

Hi All,

I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring pieces
for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do odd things beyond
cutting a check?

I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found a guy
on
youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.

I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send him
payment
through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so many
fees)
but he said he had been ripped off that way and refused payment.

Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a paper check
(this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he backed out
saying the whole thing was fishy.

This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own youtube video
showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more than I'm
comfortable doing.

(Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm not
particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them publicly.)

Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.

Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just for a part?
Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video yourself on
youtube?

My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness.  Just wondering
what others think and what other stories people might like to share, odd,
weird, or otherwise.

Best Wishes from Massachusetts!

Arvin


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Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread Jim Nichol
He says all the radio people do it.  I don't think so!  It might be logical 
for the seller to post a video of a machine, but not a buyer. Better steer 
clear of this wacko.

Jim

On May 8, 2013, at 5:52 PM, Arvin Casas it...@arvincasas.com wrote:

 I considered hosting a video on my website in a password protected
 directory but then I thought it's a long way to go to prove I exist.
 
 I fully understand not wanting to get ripped off because it's incredibly
 easy these days, but at some point you have to take that Indiana Jones
 leap of faith.
 
 What struck me as odd was that even a cleared check was not enough.
 YouTube ergo Sum. :)
 
 Part of me is just sad it's come to this.  I've met some great phono pholk
 here and on other virtual meeting grounds and at no time did I really
 question who folks said they were (maybe some iffy advice, but not their
 existence!).  That's why I was wondering If this odd little war story of
 mine has any corollary or precedence with the good fellows here.  It's a
 bit more than just promising to mow your grumpy neighbor's lawn for a
 summer just to get a peek at his 78's, lol.
 
 C'est La Vie
 
 Arvin
 
 
 On 5/8/13 5:09 PM, Ron L'Herault lhera...@bu.edu wrote:
 
 Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait for the
 check
 to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can post private
 video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to let you
 know
 when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.
 
 Ron L
 
 -Original Message-
 From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org [mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org]
 On
 Behalf Of Arvin Casas
 Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
 To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
 Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
 
 Hi All,
 
 I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring pieces
 for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do odd things beyond
 cutting a check?
 
 I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found a guy
 on
 youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.
 
 I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send him
 payment
 through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so many
 fees)
 but he said he had been ripped off that way and refused payment.
 
 Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a paper check
 (this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he backed out
 saying the whole thing was fishy.
 
 This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own youtube video
 showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more than I'm
 comfortable doing.
 
 (Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm not
 particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them publicly.)
 
 Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.
 
 Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just for a part?
 Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video yourself on
 youtube?
 
 My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness.  Just wondering
 what others think and what other stories people might like to share, odd,
 weird, or otherwise.
 
 Best Wishes from Massachusetts!
 
 Arvin
 
 
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Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread Vinyl Visions
Arvin,I have bought numerous things on eBay from all over the world, with no 
real problems, except one. I didn't want to use PayPal and offered to send cash 
or a money order drawn on a reputable bank. I know eBay frowns on this 
practice, but I hate to have the seller pay more fees to use PayPal and I have 
sent cash to sellers in Germany, Australia, Great Britain, the USA and 
fortunately have not been ripped off by a seller. The seller acted like this 
one and said it sounded fishy... I said how could it be fishy if I send you 
cash or a money order and you wait until you get paid to send me the item - 
she said she didn't trust money orders. That being said, I am the one taking 
the risk - she gets paid cash or a money order and I am trusting that she would 
send the part. I understand that money orders can be forged, but not if she 
takes it to her bank, deposits it and waits 7-10 days for it to clear, which I 
had no problem with. What I finally figured out, was that she was not
  happy with the price it sold for and couldn't think of any other reason to 
back out... This may be your problem with this seller, since he refused your 
payment. He probably asked someone else about it and they advised him that he 
was selling it too cheap. Could this be your issue?

 Date: Wed, 8 May 2013 17:52:20 -0400
 From: it...@arvincasas.com
 To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
 Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
 
 I considered hosting a video on my website in a password protected
 directory but then I thought it's a long way to go to prove I exist.
 
 I fully understand not wanting to get ripped off because it's incredibly
 easy these days, but at some point you have to take that Indiana Jones
 leap of faith.
 
 What struck me as odd was that even a cleared check was not enough.
 YouTube ergo Sum. :)
 
 Part of me is just sad it's come to this.  I've met some great phono pholk
 here and on other virtual meeting grounds and at no time did I really
 question who folks said they were (maybe some iffy advice, but not their
 existence!).  That's why I was wondering If this odd little war story of
 mine has any corollary or precedence with the good fellows here.  It's a
 bit more than just promising to mow your grumpy neighbor's lawn for a
 summer just to get a peek at his 78's, lol.
 
 C'est La Vie
 
 Arvin
 
 
 On 5/8/13 5:09 PM, Ron L'Herault lhera...@bu.edu wrote:
 
 Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait for the
 check
 to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can post private
 video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to let you
 know
 when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.
 
 Ron L
 
 -Original Message-
 From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org [mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org]
 On
 Behalf Of Arvin Casas
 Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
 To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
 Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
 
 Hi All,
 
 I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring pieces
 for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do odd things beyond
 cutting a check?
 
 I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found a guy
 on
 youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.
 
 I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send him
 payment
 through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so many
 fees)
 but he said he had been ripped off that way and refused payment.
 
 Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a paper check
 (this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he backed out
 saying the whole thing was fishy.
 
 This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own youtube video
 showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more than I'm
 comfortable doing.
 
 (Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm not
 particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them publicly.)
 
 Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.
 
 Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just for a part?
 Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video yourself on
 youtube?
 
 My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness.  Just wondering
 what others think and what other stories people might like to share, odd,
 weird, or otherwise.
 
 Best Wishes from Massachusetts!
 
 Arvin
 
 
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Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread chuck richards
How about paying with a postal money order?
Just go to the post office, have it made
payable to the seller, purchase it, put it
in an envelope and mail it to him.  It's as good as
cash.  He can cash it right at his local post office.

That way, it should not matter to him whether you exist
or not.  He gets his money and sends the part to you.

Do you really exist or not?  Wow!!  Now I have heard
them all!!

Chuck



 Original Message 
From: pjfra...@mac.com
To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
Date: Wed, 08 May 2013 14:40:48 -0700

I'm of course baffled by this.  In all my years of collecting, I've
never encountered anyone who is the slightest bit strange, odd,
paranoid, socially awkward, difficult, maladjusted, or otherwise
different from the accepted mainstream.

And I know none of the rest of you ever ever have, either.

(I'm NOT winking.  I must have something stuck in my eye.)

-- Peter
pjfra...@mac.com



On May 8, 2013, at 2:09 PM, Ron L'Herault lhera...@bu.edu wrote:

 Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait for
the check
 to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can post
private
 video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to
let you know
 when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.
 
 Ron L
 
 -Original Message-
 From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org
[mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org] On
 Behalf Of Arvin Casas
 Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
 To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
 Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
 
 Hi All,
 
 I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring
pieces
 for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do odd things
beyond
 cutting a check?
 
 I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found
a guy on
 youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.
 
 I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send
him payment
 through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so
many fees)
 but he said he had been ripped off that way and refused payment.
 
 Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a
paper check
 (this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he
backed out
 saying the whole thing was fishy.
 
 This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own
youtube video
 showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more
than I'm
 comfortable doing.
 
 (Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm not
 particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them publicly.)
 
 Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.
 
 Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just for a
part?
 Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video
yourself on
 youtube?
 
 My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness.  Just
wondering
 what others think and what other stories people might like to
share, odd,
 weird, or otherwise.
 
 Best Wishes from Massachusetts!
 
 Arvin
 
 
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Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread William Zucca
I just have to make a comment about
collectors...WE are the weirdest bunch of folks
around.  Over the years of collecting phonos, radios, and records, I have
met paranoids, cheapskates, grumpy old guys, loony right-wingers, guys with
guns and/or big rolls of hundred dollar bills, hoarders, religious
fanatics, liars, cultists, shut-ins, guys with rats and roaches in their
houses, boasters, know-it-alls, snobs, and a bunch of really nice guys who
just love old stuff.

Hey, wait a minute!  That sounds a lot like the rest of the population!

Regards,
GreenMountainBill


On Wed, May 8, 2013 at 5:52 PM, Arvin Casas it...@arvincasas.com wrote:

 I considered hosting a video on my website in a password protected
 directory but then I thought it's a long way to go to prove I exist.

 I fully understand not wanting to get ripped off because it's incredibly
 easy these days, but at some point you have to take that Indiana Jones
 leap of faith.

 What struck me as odd was that even a cleared check was not enough.
 YouTube ergo Sum. :)

 Part of me is just sad it's come to this.  I've met some great phono pholk
 here and on other virtual meeting grounds and at no time did I really
 question who folks said they were (maybe some iffy advice, but not their
 existence!).  That's why I was wondering If this odd little war story of
 mine has any corollary or precedence with the good fellows here.  It's a
 bit more than just promising to mow your grumpy neighbor's lawn for a
 summer just to get a peek at his 78's, lol.

 C'est La Vie

 Arvin


 On 5/8/13 5:09 PM, Ron L'Herault lhera...@bu.edu wrote:

 Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait for the
 check
 to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can post private
 video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to let you
 know
 when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.
 
 Ron L
 
 -Original Message-
 From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org [mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org]
 On
 Behalf Of Arvin Casas
 Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
 To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
 Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
 
 Hi All,
 
 I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring pieces
 for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do odd things beyond
 cutting a check?
 
 I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found a guy
 on
 youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.
 
 I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send him
 payment
 through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so many
 fees)
 but he said he had been ripped off that way and refused payment.
 
 Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a paper check
 (this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he backed out
 saying the whole thing was fishy.
 
 This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own youtube video
 showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more than I'm
 comfortable doing.
 
 (Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm not
 particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them publicly.)
 
 Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.
 
 Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just for a part?
 Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video yourself on
 youtube?
 
 My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness.  Just wondering
 what others think and what other stories people might like to share, odd,
 weird, or otherwise.
 
 Best Wishes from Massachusetts!
 
 Arvin
 
 
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Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread john robles
I think the word money order scared her,. I get offered money orders on 
Craigslist all the time, alone with offers of extra money to hold the item, 
etc. Stolen money orders are a big business and the basis of a lot of scams.She 
could have taken cash though.John

--- On Wed, 5/8/13, Vinyl Visions vinyl.visi...@live.com wrote:

From: Vinyl Visions vinyl.visi...@live.com
Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
To: phono-l@oldcrank.org phono-l@oldcrank.org
Date: Wednesday, May 8, 2013, 4:00 PM

Arvin,I have bought numerous things on eBay from all over the world, with no 
real problems, except one. I didn't want to use PayPal and offered to send cash 
or a money order drawn on a reputable bank. I know eBay frowns on this 
practice, but I hate to have the seller pay more fees to use PayPal and I have 
sent cash to sellers in Germany, Australia, Great Britain, the USA and 
fortunately have not been ripped off by a seller. The seller acted like this 
one and said it sounded fishy... I said how could it be fishy if I send you 
cash or a money order and you wait until you get paid to send me the item - 
she said she didn't trust money orders. That being said, I am the one taking 
the risk - she gets paid cash or a money order and I am trusting that she would 
send the part. I understand that money orders can be forged, but not if she 
takes it to her bank, deposits it and waits 7-10 days for it to clear, which I 
had no problem with. What I finally figured
 out, was that she was not
  happy with the price it sold for and couldn't think of any other reason to 
back out... This may be your problem with this seller, since he refused your 
payment. He probably asked someone else about it and they advised him that he 
was selling it too cheap. Could this be your issue?

 Date: Wed, 8 May 2013 17:52:20 -0400
 From: it...@arvincasas.com
 To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
 Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
 
 I considered hosting a video on my website in a password protected
 directory but then I thought it's a long way to go to prove I exist.
 
 I fully understand not wanting to get ripped off because it's incredibly
 easy these days, but at some point you have to take that Indiana Jones
 leap of faith.
 
 What struck me as odd was that even a cleared check was not enough.
 YouTube ergo Sum. :)
 
 Part of me is just sad it's come to this.  I've met some great phono pholk
 here and on other virtual meeting grounds and at no time did I really
 question who folks said they were (maybe some iffy advice, but not their
 existence!).  That's why I was wondering If this odd little war story of
 mine has any corollary or precedence with the good fellows here.  It's a
 bit more than just promising to mow your grumpy neighbor's lawn for a
 summer just to get a peek at his 78's, lol.
 
 C'est La Vie
 
 Arvin
 
 
 On 5/8/13 5:09 PM, Ron L'Herault lhera...@bu.edu wrote:
 
 Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait for the
 check
 to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can post private
 video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to let you
 know
 when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.
 
 Ron L
 
 -Original Message-
 From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org [mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org]
 On
 Behalf Of Arvin Casas
 Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
 To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
 Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
 
 Hi All,
 
 I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring pieces
 for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do odd things beyond
 cutting a check?
 
 I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found a guy
 on
 youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.
 
 I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send him
 payment
 through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so many
 fees)
 but he said he had been ripped off that way and refused payment.
 
 Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a paper check
 (this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he backed out
 saying the whole thing was fishy.
 
 This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own youtube video
 showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more than I'm
 comfortable doing.
 
 (Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm not
 particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them publicly.)
 
 Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.
 
 Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just for a part?
 Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video yourself on
 youtube?
 
 My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness.  Just wondering
 what others think and what other stories people might like to share, odd,
 weird, or otherwise.
 
 Best Wishes from Massachusetts!
 
 Arvin

Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread Arvin Casas
That's an interesting thought.  When we were discussing price I finally
offered him 3x what he paid for (he mentions the price he found it for in
his video).  He had originally asked for 4x.  Oddly he settled on $5 LESS
than my final offer.  I wonder if he wants his $5?  He had already
calculated shipping before he said his price (based on my Zip Code which I
gave him with my ENTIRE address) so I don't think he is balking due to
shipping, I hope.

He did say he also wanted video proof to track my use of the part in my
restoration.  I can understand a reluctance to sell a whole unit to a chop
shop, but this is a part - an old, quite heavy speaker.  I don't plan on
repurposing the cone as a birthday hat and the metal for a door stop.

It's the weirdest buy I've encountered.  If anything, if I ever end up
with the piece, it'll be the highlight of my restoration tour!



On 5/8/13 7:00 PM, Vinyl Visions vinyl.visi...@live.com wrote:

Arvin,I have bought numerous things on eBay from all over the world, with
no real problems, except one. I didn't want to use PayPal and offered to
send cash or a money order drawn on a reputable bank. I know eBay frowns
on this practice, but I hate to have the seller pay more fees to use
PayPal and I have sent cash to sellers in Germany, Australia, Great
Britain, the USA and fortunately have not been ripped off by a seller.
The seller acted like this one and said it sounded fishy... I said how
could it be fishy if I send you cash or a money order and you wait until
you get paid to send me the item - she said she didn't trust money
orders. That being said, I am the one taking the risk - she gets paid
cash or a money order and I am trusting that she would send the part. I
understand that money orders can be forged, but not if she takes it to
her bank, deposits it and waits 7-10 days for it to clear, which I had no
problem with. What I finally figured out, was that she was not
  happy with the price it sold for and couldn't think of any other reason
to back out... This may be your problem with this seller, since he
refused your payment. He probably asked someone else about it and they
advised him that he was selling it too cheap. Could this be your issue?

 Date: Wed, 8 May 2013 17:52:20 -0400
 From: it...@arvincasas.com
 To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
 Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
 
 I considered hosting a video on my website in a password protected
 directory but then I thought it's a long way to go to prove I exist.
 
 I fully understand not wanting to get ripped off because it's incredibly
 easy these days, but at some point you have to take that Indiana Jones
 leap of faith.
 
 What struck me as odd was that even a cleared check was not enough.
 YouTube ergo Sum. :)
 
 Part of me is just sad it's come to this.  I've met some great phono
pholk
 here and on other virtual meeting grounds and at no time did I really
 question who folks said they were (maybe some iffy advice, but not their
 existence!).  That's why I was wondering If this odd little war story
of
 mine has any corollary or precedence with the good fellows here.  It's a
 bit more than just promising to mow your grumpy neighbor's lawn for a
 summer just to get a peek at his 78's, lol.
 
 C'est La Vie
 
 Arvin
 
 
 On 5/8/13 5:09 PM, Ron L'Herault lhera...@bu.edu wrote:
 
 Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait for the
 check
 to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can post
private
 video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to let you
 know
 when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.
 
 Ron L
 
 -Original Message-
 From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org
[mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org]
 On
 Behalf Of Arvin Casas
 Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
 To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
 Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
 
 Hi All,
 
 I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring
pieces
 for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do odd things beyond
 cutting a check?
 
 I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found a
guy
 on
 youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.
 
 I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send him
 payment
 through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so many
 fees)
 but he said he had been ripped off that way and refused payment.
 
 Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a paper
check
 (this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he backed
out
 saying the whole thing was fishy.
 
 This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own youtube
video
 showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more than
I'm
 comfortable doing.
 
 (Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm not
 particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them publicly.)
 
 Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too

Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread Rich
The validity of Postal Money Orders can be verified by taking the serial 
numbers to the USPS and they will call the fraud unit and verify them. 
Postal Money Orders are real popular for forgery.


On 05/08/2013 06:08 PM, chuck richards wrote:

How about paying with a postal money order?
Just go to the post office, have it made
payable to the seller, purchase it, put it
in an envelope and mail it to him.  It's as good as
cash.  He can cash it right at his local post office.

That way, it should not matter to him whether you exist
or not.  He gets his money and sends the part to you.

Do you really exist or not?  Wow!!  Now I have heard
them all!!

Chuck




 Original Message 
From: pjfra...@mac.com
To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
Date: Wed, 08 May 2013 14:40:48 -0700


I'm of course baffled by this.  In all my years of collecting, I've

never encountered anyone who is the slightest bit strange, odd,
paranoid, socially awkward, difficult, maladjusted, or otherwise
different from the accepted mainstream.


And I know none of the rest of you ever ever have, either.

(I'm NOT winking.  I must have something stuck in my eye.)

-- Peter
pjfra...@mac.com



On May 8, 2013, at 2:09 PM, Ron L'Herault lhera...@bu.edu wrote:


Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait for

the check

to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can post

private

video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to

let you know

when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.

Ron L

-Original Message-
From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org

[mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org] On

Behalf Of Arvin Casas
Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

Hi All,

I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring

pieces

for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do odd things

beyond

cutting a check?

I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found

a guy on

youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.

I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send

him payment

through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so

many fees)

but he said he had been ripped off that way and refused payment.

Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a

paper check

(this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he

backed out

saying the whole thing was fishy.

This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own

youtube video

showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more

than I'm

comfortable doing.

(Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm not
particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them publicly.)

Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.

Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just for a

part?

Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video

yourself on

youtube?

My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness.  Just

wondering

what others think and what other stories people might like to

share, odd,

weird, or otherwise.

Best Wishes from Massachusetts!

Arvin


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Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread chuck richards
Well, all I know is that one dude in TX ordered
some blanks from me, and paid using a U.S. Postal
Service money order.  I just presented it to
the clerk at the post office and she handed me the
money.  Pretty slick, I thought!

Chuck




 Original Message 
From: rich-m...@octoxol.com
To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
Date: Wed, 08 May 2013 19:44:38 -0500

The validity of Postal Money Orders can be verified by taking the
serial 
numbers to the USPS and they will call the fraud unit and verify
them. 
Postal Money Orders are real popular for forgery.

On 05/08/2013 06:08 PM, chuck richards wrote:
 How about paying with a postal money order?
 Just go to the post office, have it made
 payable to the seller, purchase it, put it
 in an envelope and mail it to him.  It's as good as
 cash.  He can cash it right at his local post office.

 That way, it should not matter to him whether you exist
 or not.  He gets his money and sends the part to you.

 Do you really exist or not?  Wow!!  Now I have heard
 them all!!

 Chuck



  Original Message 
 From: pjfra...@mac.com
 To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
 Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
 Date: Wed, 08 May 2013 14:40:48 -0700

 I'm of course baffled by this.  In all my years of collecting,
I've
 never encountered anyone who is the slightest bit strange, odd,
 paranoid, socially awkward, difficult, maladjusted, or otherwise
 different from the accepted mainstream.

 And I know none of the rest of you ever ever have, either.

 (I'm NOT winking.  I must have something stuck in my eye.)

 -- Peter
 pjfra...@mac.com



 On May 8, 2013, at 2:09 PM, Ron L'Herault lhera...@bu.edu
wrote:

 Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait
for
 the check
 to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can
post
 private
 video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to
 let you know
 when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.

 Ron L

 -Original Message-
 From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org
 [mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org] On
 Behalf Of Arvin Casas
 Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
 To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
 Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

 Hi All,

 I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or
acquiring
 pieces
 for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do odd things
 beyond
 cutting a check?

 I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and
found
 a guy on
 youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to
have.

 I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send
 him payment
 through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not
so
 many fees)
 but he said he had been ripped off that way and refused
payment.

 Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a
 paper check
 (this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he
 backed out
 saying the whole thing was fishy.

 This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own
 youtube video
 showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more
 than I'm
 comfortable doing.

 (Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm
not
 particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them
publicly.)

 Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.

 Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just
for a
 part?
 Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video
 yourself on
 youtube?

 My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness. 
Just
 wondering
 what others think and what other stories people might like to
 share, odd,
 weird, or otherwise.

 Best Wishes from Massachusetts!

 Arvin


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Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread Vinyl Visions
Since he was asking 4x and agreed to $5 less than your offer of 3x, it probably 
has to do with the price. However, since he wants a video of the part actually 
being used in your restoration, who knows? A lot of people are using radio 
speakers for iPod docks and he might want to make sure that you aren't one of 
those people...

 From: chuc...@all2easy.net
 To: rich-m...@octoxol.com; phono-l@oldcrank.org
 Date: Wed, 8 May 2013 18:30:42 -0700
 Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
 
 Well, all I know is that one dude in TX ordered
 some blanks from me, and paid using a U.S. Postal
 Service money order.  I just presented it to
 the clerk at the post office and she handed me the
 money.  Pretty slick, I thought!
 
 Chuck
 
 
 
 
  Original Message 
 From: rich-m...@octoxol.com
 To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
 Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
 Date: Wed, 08 May 2013 19:44:38 -0500
 
 The validity of Postal Money Orders can be verified by taking the
 serial 
 numbers to the USPS and they will call the fraud unit and verify
 them. 
 Postal Money Orders are real popular for forgery.
 
 On 05/08/2013 06:08 PM, chuck richards wrote:
  How about paying with a postal money order?
  Just go to the post office, have it made
  payable to the seller, purchase it, put it
  in an envelope and mail it to him.  It's as good as
  cash.  He can cash it right at his local post office.
 
  That way, it should not matter to him whether you exist
  or not.  He gets his money and sends the part to you.
 
  Do you really exist or not?  Wow!!  Now I have heard
  them all!!
 
  Chuck
 
 
 
   Original Message 
  From: pjfra...@mac.com
  To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
  Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
  Date: Wed, 08 May 2013 14:40:48 -0700
 
  I'm of course baffled by this.  In all my years of collecting,
 I've
  never encountered anyone who is the slightest bit strange, odd,
  paranoid, socially awkward, difficult, maladjusted, or otherwise
  different from the accepted mainstream.
 
  And I know none of the rest of you ever ever have, either.
 
  (I'm NOT winking.  I must have something stuck in my eye.)
 
  -- Peter
  pjfra...@mac.com
 
 
 
  On May 8, 2013, at 2:09 PM, Ron L'Herault lhera...@bu.edu
 wrote:
 
  Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait
 for
  the check
  to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can
 post
  private
  video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to
  let you know
  when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.
 
  Ron L
 
  -Original Message-
  From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org
  [mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org] On
  Behalf Of Arvin Casas
  Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
  To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
  Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
 
  Hi All,
 
  I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or
 acquiring
  pieces
  for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do odd things
  beyond
  cutting a check?
 
  I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and
 found
  a guy on
  youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to
 have.
 
  I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send
  him payment
  through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not
 so
  many fees)
  but he said he had been ripped off that way and refused
 payment.
 
  Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a
  paper check
  (this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he
  backed out
  saying the whole thing was fishy.
 
  This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own
  youtube video
  showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more
  than I'm
  comfortable doing.
 
  (Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm
 not
  particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them
 publicly.)
 
  Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.
 
  Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just
 for a
  part?
  Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video
  yourself on
  youtube?
 
  My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness. 
 Just
  wondering
  what others think and what other stories people might like to
  share, odd,
  weird, or otherwise.
 
  Best Wishes from Massachusetts!
 
  Arvin
 
 
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