Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread Vinyl Visions
Since he was asking 4x and agreed to $5 less than your offer of 3x, it probably 
has to do with the price. However, since he wants a video of the part actually 
being used in your restoration, who knows? A lot of people are using radio 
speakers for iPod docks and he might want to make sure that you aren't one of 
those people...

> From: chuc...@all2easy.net
> To: rich-m...@octoxol.com; phono-l@oldcrank.org
> Date: Wed, 8 May 2013 18:30:42 -0700
> Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
> 
> Well, all I know is that one dude in TX ordered
> some blanks from me, and paid using a U.S. Postal
> Service money order.  I just presented it to
> the clerk at the post office and she handed me the
> money.  Pretty slick, I thought!
> 
> Chuck
> 
> 
> >
> >
> > Original Message 
> >From: rich-m...@octoxol.com
> >To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
> >Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
> >Date: Wed, 08 May 2013 19:44:38 -0500
> >
> >>The validity of Postal Money Orders can be verified by taking the
> >serial 
> >>numbers to the USPS and they will call the fraud unit and verify
> >them. 
> >>Postal Money Orders are real popular for forgery.
> >>
> >>On 05/08/2013 06:08 PM, chuck richards wrote:
> >>> How about paying with a postal money order?
> >>> Just go to the post office, have it made
> >>> payable to the seller, purchase it, put it
> >>> in an envelope and mail it to him.  It's as good as
> >>> cash.  He can cash it right at his local post office.
> >>>
> >>> That way, it should not matter to him whether you exist
> >>> or not.  He gets his money and sends the part to you.
> >>>
> >>> Do you really exist or not?  Wow!!  Now I have heard
> >>> them all!!
> >>>
> >>> Chuck
> >>>
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>  Original Message 
> >>>> From: pjfra...@mac.com
> >>>> To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
> >>>> Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
> >>>> Date: Wed, 08 May 2013 14:40:48 -0700
> >>>>
> >>>>> I'm of course baffled by this.  In all my years of collecting,
> >I've
> >>>> never encountered anyone who is the slightest bit strange, odd,
> >>>> paranoid, socially awkward, difficult, maladjusted, or otherwise
> >>>> different from the accepted mainstream.
> >>>>>
> >>>>> And I know none of the rest of you ever ever have, either.
> >>>>>
> >>>>> (I'm NOT winking.  I must have something stuck in my eye.)
> >>>>>
> >>>>> -- Peter
> >>>>> pjfra...@mac.com
> >>>>>
> >>>>>
> >>>>>
> >>>>> On May 8, 2013, at 2:09 PM, Ron L'Herault 
> >wrote:
> >>>>>
> >>>>>> Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait
> >for
> >>>> the check
> >>>>>> to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can
> >post
> >>>> private
> >>>>>> video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to
> >>>> let you know
> >>>>>> when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.
> >>>>>>
> >>>>>> Ron L
> >>>>>>
> >>>>>> -Original Message-
> >>>>>> From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org
> >>>> [mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org] On
> >>>>>> Behalf Of Arvin Casas
> >>>>>> Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
> >>>>>> To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
> >>>>>> Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
> >>>>>>
> >>>>>> Hi All,
> >>>>>>
> >>>>>> I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or
> >acquiring
> >>>> pieces
> >>>>>> for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do "odd things"
> >>>> beyond
> >>>>>> cutting a check?
> >>>>>>
> >>>>>> I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and
> >found
> >>>> a guy on
> >>>>>> youtube who has a speaker that matches what

Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread chuck richards
Well, all I know is that one dude in TX ordered
some blanks from me, and paid using a U.S. Postal
Service money order.  I just presented it to
the clerk at the post office and she handed me the
money.  Pretty slick, I thought!

Chuck


>
>
> Original Message 
>From: rich-m...@octoxol.com
>To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
>Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
>Date: Wed, 08 May 2013 19:44:38 -0500
>
>>The validity of Postal Money Orders can be verified by taking the
>serial 
>>numbers to the USPS and they will call the fraud unit and verify
>them. 
>>Postal Money Orders are real popular for forgery.
>>
>>On 05/08/2013 06:08 PM, chuck richards wrote:
>>> How about paying with a postal money order?
>>> Just go to the post office, have it made
>>> payable to the seller, purchase it, put it
>>> in an envelope and mail it to him.  It's as good as
>>> cash.  He can cash it right at his local post office.
>>>
>>> That way, it should not matter to him whether you exist
>>> or not.  He gets his money and sends the part to you.
>>>
>>> Do you really exist or not?  Wow!!  Now I have heard
>>> them all!!
>>>
>>> Chuck
>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>  Original Message 
>>>> From: pjfra...@mac.com
>>>> To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
>>>> Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
>>>> Date: Wed, 08 May 2013 14:40:48 -0700
>>>>
>>>>> I'm of course baffled by this.  In all my years of collecting,
>I've
>>>> never encountered anyone who is the slightest bit strange, odd,
>>>> paranoid, socially awkward, difficult, maladjusted, or otherwise
>>>> different from the accepted mainstream.
>>>>>
>>>>> And I know none of the rest of you ever ever have, either.
>>>>>
>>>>> (I'm NOT winking.  I must have something stuck in my eye.)
>>>>>
>>>>> -- Peter
>>>>> pjfra...@mac.com
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> On May 8, 2013, at 2:09 PM, Ron L'Herault 
>wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>> Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait
>for
>>>> the check
>>>>>> to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can
>post
>>>> private
>>>>>> video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to
>>>> let you know
>>>>>> when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Ron L
>>>>>>
>>>>>> -Original Message-
>>>>>> From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org
>>>> [mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org] On
>>>>>> Behalf Of Arvin Casas
>>>>>> Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
>>>>>> To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
>>>>>> Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Hi All,
>>>>>>
>>>>>> I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or
>acquiring
>>>> pieces
>>>>>> for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do "odd things"
>>>> beyond
>>>>>> cutting a check?
>>>>>>
>>>>>> I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and
>found
>>>> a guy on
>>>>>> youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to
>have.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send
>>>> him payment
>>>>>> through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not
>so
>>>> many fees)
>>>>>> but he said he had been "ripped off" that way and refused
>payment.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a
>>>> paper check
>>>>>> (this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he
>>>> backed out
>>>>>> saying the whole thing was "fishy."
>>>>>>
>>>>>> This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own
>>>> youtube video
>>>>>> showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more
>>>> than I'm
>>>

Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread Rich
The validity of Postal Money Orders can be verified by taking the serial 
numbers to the USPS and they will call the fraud unit and verify them. 
Postal Money Orders are real popular for forgery.


On 05/08/2013 06:08 PM, chuck richards wrote:

How about paying with a postal money order?
Just go to the post office, have it made
payable to the seller, purchase it, put it
in an envelope and mail it to him.  It's as good as
cash.  He can cash it right at his local post office.

That way, it should not matter to him whether you exist
or not.  He gets his money and sends the part to you.

Do you really exist or not?  Wow!!  Now I have heard
them all!!

Chuck




 Original Message 
From: pjfra...@mac.com
To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
Date: Wed, 08 May 2013 14:40:48 -0700


I'm of course baffled by this.  In all my years of collecting, I've

never encountered anyone who is the slightest bit strange, odd,
paranoid, socially awkward, difficult, maladjusted, or otherwise
different from the accepted mainstream.


And I know none of the rest of you ever ever have, either.

(I'm NOT winking.  I must have something stuck in my eye.)

-- Peter
pjfra...@mac.com



On May 8, 2013, at 2:09 PM, Ron L'Herault  wrote:


Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait for

the check

to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can post

private

video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to

let you know

when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.

Ron L

-Original Message-
From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org

[mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org] On

Behalf Of Arvin Casas
Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

Hi All,

I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring

pieces

for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do "odd things"

beyond

cutting a check?

I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found

a guy on

youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.

I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send

him payment

through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so

many fees)

but he said he had been "ripped off" that way and refused payment.

Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a

paper check

(this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he

backed out

saying the whole thing was "fishy."

This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own

youtube video

showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more

than I'm

comfortable doing.

(Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm not
particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them publicly.)

Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.

Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just for a

part?

Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video

yourself on

youtube?

My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness.  Just

wondering

what others think and what other stories people might like to

share, odd,

weird, or otherwise.

Best Wishes from Massachusetts!

Arvin


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Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread Arvin Casas
That's an interesting thought.  When we were discussing price I finally
offered him 3x what he paid for (he mentions the price he found it for in
his video).  He had originally asked for 4x.  Oddly he settled on $5 LESS
than my final offer.  I wonder if he wants his $5?  He had already
calculated shipping before he said his price (based on my Zip Code which I
gave him with my ENTIRE address) so I don't think he is balking due to
shipping, I hope.

He did say he also wanted video proof to track my use of the part in my
restoration.  I can understand a reluctance to sell a whole unit to a chop
shop, but this is a part - an old, quite heavy speaker.  I don't plan on
repurposing the cone as a birthday hat and the metal for a door stop.

It's the weirdest buy I've encountered.  If anything, if I ever end up
with the piece, it'll be the highlight of my restoration tour!



On 5/8/13 7:00 PM, "Vinyl Visions"  wrote:

>Arvin,I have bought numerous things on eBay from all over the world, with
>no real problems, except one. I didn't want to use PayPal and offered to
>send cash or a money order drawn on a reputable bank. I know eBay frowns
>on this practice, but I hate to have the seller pay more fees to use
>PayPal and I have sent cash to sellers in Germany, Australia, Great
>Britain, the USA and fortunately have not been ripped off by a seller.
>The seller acted like this one and said it sounded fishy... I said "how
>could it be fishy if I send you cash or a money order and you wait until
>you get paid to send me the item" - she said she didn't trust money
>orders. That being said, I am the one taking the risk - she gets paid
>cash or a money order and I am trusting that she would send the part. I
>understand that money orders can be forged, but not if she takes it to
>her bank, deposits it and waits 7-10 days for it to clear, which I had no
>problem with. What I finally figured out, was that she was not
>  happy with the price it sold for and couldn't think of any other reason
>to back out... This may be your problem with this seller, since he
>refused your payment. He probably asked someone else about it and they
>advised him that he was selling it too cheap. Could this be your issue?
>
>> Date: Wed, 8 May 2013 17:52:20 -0400
>> From: it...@arvincasas.com
>> To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
>> Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
>> 
>> I considered hosting a video on my website in a password protected
>> directory but then I thought it's a long way to go to prove I "exist."
>> 
>> I fully understand not wanting to get ripped off because it's incredibly
>> easy these days, but at some point you have to take that Indiana Jones
>> leap of faith.
>> 
>> What struck me as odd was that even a cleared check was not enough.
>> YouTube ergo Sum. :)
>> 
>> Part of me is just sad it's come to this.  I've met some great phono
>>pholk
>> here and on other virtual meeting grounds and at no time did I really
>> question who folks said they were (maybe some iffy advice, but not their
>> existence!).  That's why I was wondering If this odd little "war story"
>>of
>> mine has any corollary or precedence with the good fellows here.  It's a
>> bit more than just promising to mow your grumpy neighbor's lawn for a
>> summer just to get a peek at his 78's, lol.
>> 
>> C'est La Vie
>> 
>> Arvin
>> 
>> 
>> On 5/8/13 5:09 PM, "Ron L'Herault"  wrote:
>> 
>> >Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait for the
>> >check
>> >to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can post
>>private
>> >video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to let you
>> >know
>> >when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.
>> >
>> >Ron L
>> >
>> >-Original Message-
>> >From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org
>>[mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org]
>> >On
>> >Behalf Of Arvin Casas
>> >Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
>> >To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
>> >Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
>> >
>> >Hi All,
>> >
>> >I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring
>>pieces
>> >for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do "odd things" beyond
>> >cutting a check?
>> >
>> >I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found a
>>guy
>> >on
>> >youtube who has a sp

Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread john robles
I think the word money order scared her,. I get offered money orders on 
Craigslist all the time, alone with offers of extra money to hold the item, 
etc. Stolen money orders are a big business and the basis of a lot of scams.She 
could have taken cash though.John

--- On Wed, 5/8/13, Vinyl Visions  wrote:

From: Vinyl Visions 
Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
To: "phono-l@oldcrank.org" 
Date: Wednesday, May 8, 2013, 4:00 PM

Arvin,I have bought numerous things on eBay from all over the world, with no 
real problems, except one. I didn't want to use PayPal and offered to send cash 
or a money order drawn on a reputable bank. I know eBay frowns on this 
practice, but I hate to have the seller pay more fees to use PayPal and I have 
sent cash to sellers in Germany, Australia, Great Britain, the USA and 
fortunately have not been ripped off by a seller. The seller acted like this 
one and said it sounded fishy... I said "how could it be fishy if I send you 
cash or a money order and you wait until you get paid to send me the item" - 
she said she didn't trust money orders. That being said, I am the one taking 
the risk - she gets paid cash or a money order and I am trusting that she would 
send the part. I understand that money orders can be forged, but not if she 
takes it to her bank, deposits it and waits 7-10 days for it to clear, which I 
had no problem with. What I finally figured
 out, was that she was not
  happy with the price it sold for and couldn't think of any other reason to 
back out... This may be your problem with this seller, since he refused your 
payment. He probably asked someone else about it and they advised him that he 
was selling it too cheap. Could this be your issue?

> Date: Wed, 8 May 2013 17:52:20 -0400
> From: it...@arvincasas.com
> To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
> Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
> 
> I considered hosting a video on my website in a password protected
> directory but then I thought it's a long way to go to prove I "exist."
> 
> I fully understand not wanting to get ripped off because it's incredibly
> easy these days, but at some point you have to take that Indiana Jones
> leap of faith.
> 
> What struck me as odd was that even a cleared check was not enough.
> YouTube ergo Sum. :)
> 
> Part of me is just sad it's come to this.  I've met some great phono pholk
> here and on other virtual meeting grounds and at no time did I really
> question who folks said they were (maybe some iffy advice, but not their
> existence!).  That's why I was wondering If this odd little "war story" of
> mine has any corollary or precedence with the good fellows here.  It's a
> bit more than just promising to mow your grumpy neighbor's lawn for a
> summer just to get a peek at his 78's, lol.
> 
> C'est La Vie
> 
> Arvin
> 
> 
> On 5/8/13 5:09 PM, "Ron L'Herault"  wrote:
> 
> >Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait for the
> >check
> >to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can post private
> >video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to let you
> >know
> >when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.
> >
> >Ron L
> >
> >-Original Message-
> >From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org [mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org]
> >On
> >Behalf Of Arvin Casas
> >Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
> >To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
> >Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
> >
> >Hi All,
> >
> >I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring pieces
> >for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do "odd things" beyond
> >cutting a check?
> >
> >I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found a guy
> >on
> >youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.
> >
> >I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send him
> >payment
> >through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so many
> >fees)
> >but he said he had been "ripped off" that way and refused payment.
> >
> >Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a paper check
> >(this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he backed out
> >saying the whole thing was "fishy."
> >
> >This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own youtube video
> >showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more than I'm
> >comfortable doing.
> >
> >(Despite the fact that I

Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread William Zucca
I just have to make a comment about
collectors...WE are the weirdest bunch of folks
around.  Over the years of collecting phonos, radios, and records, I have
met paranoids, cheapskates, grumpy old guys, loony right-wingers, guys with
guns and/or big rolls of hundred dollar bills, hoarders, religious
fanatics, liars, cultists, shut-ins, guys with rats and roaches in their
houses, boasters, know-it-alls, snobs, and a bunch of really nice guys who
just love old stuff.

Hey, wait a minute!  That sounds a lot like the rest of the population!

Regards,
GreenMountainBill


On Wed, May 8, 2013 at 5:52 PM, Arvin Casas  wrote:

> I considered hosting a video on my website in a password protected
> directory but then I thought it's a long way to go to prove I "exist."
>
> I fully understand not wanting to get ripped off because it's incredibly
> easy these days, but at some point you have to take that Indiana Jones
> leap of faith.
>
> What struck me as odd was that even a cleared check was not enough.
> YouTube ergo Sum. :)
>
> Part of me is just sad it's come to this.  I've met some great phono pholk
> here and on other virtual meeting grounds and at no time did I really
> question who folks said they were (maybe some iffy advice, but not their
> existence!).  That's why I was wondering If this odd little "war story" of
> mine has any corollary or precedence with the good fellows here.  It's a
> bit more than just promising to mow your grumpy neighbor's lawn for a
> summer just to get a peek at his 78's, lol.
>
> C'est La Vie
>
> Arvin
>
>
> On 5/8/13 5:09 PM, "Ron L'Herault"  wrote:
>
> >Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait for the
> >check
> >to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can post private
> >video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to let you
> >know
> >when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.
> >
> >Ron L
> >
> >-Original Message-
> >From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org [mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org]
> >On
> >Behalf Of Arvin Casas
> >Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
> >To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
> >Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
> >
> >Hi All,
> >
> >I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring pieces
> >for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do "odd things" beyond
> >cutting a check?
> >
> >I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found a guy
> >on
> >youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.
> >
> >I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send him
> >payment
> >through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so many
> >fees)
> >but he said he had been "ripped off" that way and refused payment.
> >
> >Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a paper check
> >(this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he backed out
> >saying the whole thing was "fishy."
> >
> >This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own youtube video
> >showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more than I'm
> >comfortable doing.
> >
> >(Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm not
> >particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them publicly.)
> >
> >Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.
> >
> >Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just for a part?
> >Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video yourself on
> >youtube?
> >
> >My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness.  Just wondering
> >what others think and what other stories people might like to share, odd,
> >weird, or otherwise.
> >
> >Best Wishes from Massachusetts!
> >
> >Arvin
> >
> >
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Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread chuck richards
How about paying with a postal money order?
Just go to the post office, have it made
payable to the seller, purchase it, put it
in an envelope and mail it to him.  It's as good as
cash.  He can cash it right at his local post office.

That way, it should not matter to him whether you exist
or not.  He gets his money and sends the part to you.

Do you really exist or not?  Wow!!  Now I have heard
them all!!

Chuck

>
>
> Original Message 
>From: pjfra...@mac.com
>To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
>Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
>Date: Wed, 08 May 2013 14:40:48 -0700
>
>>I'm of course baffled by this.  In all my years of collecting, I've
>never encountered anyone who is the slightest bit strange, odd,
>paranoid, socially awkward, difficult, maladjusted, or otherwise
>different from the accepted mainstream.
>>
>>And I know none of the rest of you ever ever have, either.
>>
>>(I'm NOT winking.  I must have something stuck in my eye.)
>>
>>-- Peter
>>pjfra...@mac.com
>>
>>
>>
>>On May 8, 2013, at 2:09 PM, Ron L'Herault  wrote:
>>
>>> Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait for
>the check
>>> to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can post
>private
>>> video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to
>let you know
>>> when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.
>>> 
>>> Ron L
>>> 
>>> -Original Message-
>>> From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org
>[mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org] On
>>> Behalf Of Arvin Casas
>>> Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
>>> To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
>>> Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
>>> 
>>> Hi All,
>>> 
>>> I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring
>pieces
>>> for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do "odd things"
>beyond
>>> cutting a check?
>>> 
>>> I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found
>a guy on
>>> youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.
>>> 
>>> I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send
>him payment
>>> through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so
>many fees)
>>> but he said he had been "ripped off" that way and refused payment.
>>> 
>>> Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a
>paper check
>>> (this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he
>backed out
>>> saying the whole thing was "fishy."
>>> 
>>> This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own
>youtube video
>>> showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more
>than I'm
>>> comfortable doing.
>>> 
>>> (Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm not
>>> particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them publicly.)
>>> 
>>> Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.
>>> 
>>> Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just for a
>part?
>>> Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video
>yourself on
>>> youtube?
>>> 
>>> My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness.  Just
>wondering
>>> what others think and what other stories people might like to
>share, odd,
>>> weird, or otherwise.
>>> 
>>> Best Wishes from Massachusetts!
>>> 
>>> Arvin
>>> 
>>> 
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Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread Vinyl Visions
Arvin,I have bought numerous things on eBay from all over the world, with no 
real problems, except one. I didn't want to use PayPal and offered to send cash 
or a money order drawn on a reputable bank. I know eBay frowns on this 
practice, but I hate to have the seller pay more fees to use PayPal and I have 
sent cash to sellers in Germany, Australia, Great Britain, the USA and 
fortunately have not been ripped off by a seller. The seller acted like this 
one and said it sounded fishy... I said "how could it be fishy if I send you 
cash or a money order and you wait until you get paid to send me the item" - 
she said she didn't trust money orders. That being said, I am the one taking 
the risk - she gets paid cash or a money order and I am trusting that she would 
send the part. I understand that money orders can be forged, but not if she 
takes it to her bank, deposits it and waits 7-10 days for it to clear, which I 
had no problem with. What I finally figured out, was that she was not
  happy with the price it sold for and couldn't think of any other reason to 
back out... This may be your problem with this seller, since he refused your 
payment. He probably asked someone else about it and they advised him that he 
was selling it too cheap. Could this be your issue?

> Date: Wed, 8 May 2013 17:52:20 -0400
> From: it...@arvincasas.com
> To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
> Subject: Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
> 
> I considered hosting a video on my website in a password protected
> directory but then I thought it's a long way to go to prove I "exist."
> 
> I fully understand not wanting to get ripped off because it's incredibly
> easy these days, but at some point you have to take that Indiana Jones
> leap of faith.
> 
> What struck me as odd was that even a cleared check was not enough.
> YouTube ergo Sum. :)
> 
> Part of me is just sad it's come to this.  I've met some great phono pholk
> here and on other virtual meeting grounds and at no time did I really
> question who folks said they were (maybe some iffy advice, but not their
> existence!).  That's why I was wondering If this odd little "war story" of
> mine has any corollary or precedence with the good fellows here.  It's a
> bit more than just promising to mow your grumpy neighbor's lawn for a
> summer just to get a peek at his 78's, lol.
> 
> C'est La Vie
> 
> Arvin
> 
> 
> On 5/8/13 5:09 PM, "Ron L'Herault"  wrote:
> 
> >Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait for the
> >check
> >to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can post private
> >video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to let you
> >know
> >when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.
> >
> >Ron L
> >
> >-Original Message-
> >From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org [mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org]
> >On
> >Behalf Of Arvin Casas
> >Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
> >To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
> >Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
> >
> >Hi All,
> >
> >I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring pieces
> >for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do "odd things" beyond
> >cutting a check?
> >
> >I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found a guy
> >on
> >youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.
> >
> >I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send him
> >payment
> >through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so many
> >fees)
> >but he said he had been "ripped off" that way and refused payment.
> >
> >Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a paper check
> >(this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he backed out
> >saying the whole thing was "fishy."
> >
> >This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own youtube video
> >showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more than I'm
> >comfortable doing.
> >
> >(Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm not
> >particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them publicly.)
> >
> >Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.
> >
> >Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just for a part?
> >Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video yourself on
> >youtube?
> >
> >My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness.  J

Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread Jim Nichol
He says "all the radio people do it".  I don't think so!  It might be logical 
for the seller to post a video of a machine, but not a buyer. Better steer 
clear of this wacko.

Jim

On May 8, 2013, at 5:52 PM, Arvin Casas  wrote:

> I considered hosting a video on my website in a password protected
> directory but then I thought it's a long way to go to prove I "exist."
> 
> I fully understand not wanting to get ripped off because it's incredibly
> easy these days, but at some point you have to take that Indiana Jones
> leap of faith.
> 
> What struck me as odd was that even a cleared check was not enough.
> YouTube ergo Sum. :)
> 
> Part of me is just sad it's come to this.  I've met some great phono pholk
> here and on other virtual meeting grounds and at no time did I really
> question who folks said they were (maybe some iffy advice, but not their
> existence!).  That's why I was wondering If this odd little "war story" of
> mine has any corollary or precedence with the good fellows here.  It's a
> bit more than just promising to mow your grumpy neighbor's lawn for a
> summer just to get a peek at his 78's, lol.
> 
> C'est La Vie
> 
> Arvin
> 
> 
> On 5/8/13 5:09 PM, "Ron L'Herault"  wrote:
> 
>> Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait for the
>> check
>> to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can post private
>> video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to let you
>> know
>> when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.
>> 
>> Ron L
>> 
>> -Original Message-
>> From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org [mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org]
>> On
>> Behalf Of Arvin Casas
>> Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
>> To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
>> Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
>> 
>> Hi All,
>> 
>> I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring pieces
>> for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do "odd things" beyond
>> cutting a check?
>> 
>> I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found a guy
>> on
>> youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.
>> 
>> I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send him
>> payment
>> through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so many
>> fees)
>> but he said he had been "ripped off" that way and refused payment.
>> 
>> Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a paper check
>> (this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he backed out
>> saying the whole thing was "fishy."
>> 
>> This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own youtube video
>> showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more than I'm
>> comfortable doing.
>> 
>> (Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm not
>> particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them publicly.)
>> 
>> Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.
>> 
>> Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just for a part?
>> Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video yourself on
>> youtube?
>> 
>> My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness.  Just wondering
>> what others think and what other stories people might like to share, odd,
>> weird, or otherwise.
>> 
>> Best Wishes from Massachusetts!
>> 
>> Arvin
>> 
>> 
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Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread Arvin Casas
I considered hosting a video on my website in a password protected
directory but then I thought it's a long way to go to prove I "exist."

I fully understand not wanting to get ripped off because it's incredibly
easy these days, but at some point you have to take that Indiana Jones
leap of faith.

What struck me as odd was that even a cleared check was not enough.
YouTube ergo Sum. :)

Part of me is just sad it's come to this.  I've met some great phono pholk
here and on other virtual meeting grounds and at no time did I really
question who folks said they were (maybe some iffy advice, but not their
existence!).  That's why I was wondering If this odd little "war story" of
mine has any corollary or precedence with the good fellows here.  It's a
bit more than just promising to mow your grumpy neighbor's lawn for a
summer just to get a peek at his 78's, lol.

C'est La Vie

Arvin


On 5/8/13 5:09 PM, "Ron L'Herault"  wrote:

>Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait for the
>check
>to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can post private
>video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to let you
>know
>when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.
>
>Ron L
>
>-Original Message-
>From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org [mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org]
>On
>Behalf Of Arvin Casas
>Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
>To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
>Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
>
>Hi All,
>
>I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring pieces
>for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do "odd things" beyond
>cutting a check?
>
>I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found a guy
>on
>youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.
>
>I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send him
>payment
>through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so many
>fees)
>but he said he had been "ripped off" that way and refused payment.
>
>Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a paper check
>(this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he backed out
>saying the whole thing was "fishy."
>
>This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own youtube video
>showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more than I'm
>comfortable doing.
>
>(Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm not
>particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them publicly.)
>
>Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.
>
>Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just for a part?
>Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video yourself on
>youtube?
>
>My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness.  Just wondering
>what others think and what other stories people might like to share, odd,
>weird, or otherwise.
>
>Best Wishes from Massachusetts!
>
>Arvin
>
>
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Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread Peter Fraser
I'm of course baffled by this.  In all my years of collecting, I've never 
encountered anyone who is the slightest bit strange, odd, paranoid, socially 
awkward, difficult, maladjusted, or otherwise different from the accepted 
mainstream.

And I know none of the rest of you ever ever have, either.

(I'm NOT winking.  I must have something stuck in my eye.)

-- Peter
pjfra...@mac.com



On May 8, 2013, at 2:09 PM, Ron L'Herault  wrote:

> Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait for the check
> to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can post private
> video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to let you know
> when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.
> 
> Ron L
> 
> -Original Message-
> From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org [mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org] On
> Behalf Of Arvin Casas
> Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
> To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
> Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
> 
> Hi All,
> 
> I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring pieces
> for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do "odd things" beyond
> cutting a check?
> 
> I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found a guy on
> youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.
> 
> I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send him payment
> through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so many fees)
> but he said he had been "ripped off" that way and refused payment.
> 
> Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a paper check
> (this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he backed out
> saying the whole thing was "fishy."
> 
> This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own youtube video
> showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more than I'm
> comfortable doing.
> 
> (Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm not
> particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them publicly.)
> 
> Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.
> 
> Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just for a part?
> Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video yourself on
> youtube?
> 
> My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness.  Just wondering
> what others think and what other stories people might like to share, odd,
> weird, or otherwise.
> 
> Best Wishes from Massachusetts!
> 
> Arvin
> 
> 
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Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread Ron L'Herault
Boy, this Gary guy seems a bit paranoid.  He could always wait for the check
to clear before sending the speaker.   OTOH, I think you can post private
video to Youtube.   You'd send the link to Gary and tell him to let you know
when he'd seen it.  Then you could remove it, I would think.

Ron L

-Original Message-
From: phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org [mailto:phono-l-boun...@oldcrank.org] On
Behalf Of Arvin Casas
Sent: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 2:58 PM
To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

Hi All,

I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring pieces
for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do "odd things" beyond
cutting a check?

I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found a guy on
youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.

I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send him payment
through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so many fees)
but he said he had been "ripped off" that way and refused payment.

Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a paper check
(this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he backed out
saying the whole thing was "fishy."

This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own youtube video
showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more than I'm
comfortable doing.

(Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm not
particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them publicly.)

Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.

Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just for a part?
Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video yourself on
youtube?

My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness.  Just wondering
what others think and what other stories people might like to share, odd,
weird, or otherwise.

Best Wishes from Massachusetts!

Arvin


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Re: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.

2013-05-08 Thread john robles
If you ask me, the seller is the fishy one.John Robles

--- On Wed, 5/8/13, Arvin Casas  wrote:

From: Arvin Casas 
Subject: [Phono-L] Weird things to do just for a part.
To: phono-l@oldcrank.org
Date: Wednesday, May 8, 2013, 11:57 AM

Hi All,

I have a weird question.  In the process of restoring or acquiring pieces
for your phonographs, have sellers asked you to do "odd things" beyond
cutting a check?

I'm trying to restore my Columbia-Kolster Viva-Tonal 950 and found a guy on
youtube who has a speaker that matches what my 950 used to have.

I contacted the seller, we negotiated a price.  I tried to send him payment
through my bank's electronic system (kinda like Paypal but not so many fees)
but he said he had been "ripped off" that way and refused payment.

Complying with his wishes, I was in the midst of cutting him a paper check
(this time written by my bank and delivered by courier) when he backed out
saying the whole thing was "fishy."

This seller, Gary in Wisconsin, now wants me to shoot my own youtube video
showing me and my 950 to prove that I exist. It's a little more than I'm
comfortable doing.

(Despite the fact that I'm often compared to Cary Grant, I'm not
particularly fond of videoing myself and posting them publicly.)

Gary says all the radio people do it, so I should too.

Has anybody else been put through the wringer like this just for a part?
Those of you who cross dabble with Radios, do you often video yourself on
youtube?

My faith in humanity was sucker punched by this weirdness.  Just wondering
what others think and what other stories people might like to share, odd,
weird, or otherwise.

Best Wishes from Massachusetts!

Arvin


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