Re: [Tango-L] (no subject)

2018-07-14 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
http://concept.olivermechanicalinc.com

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Re: [Tango-L] Women's power in tango

2015-06-06 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Once a woman embraces a man to dance with, she is not helpless to just obey 
-- unless a leader is so bad to be totally insensitive, in which case she would 
likely never again dance with him. With a little effort she can let the leader 
know what she (dis)likes in a dance, starting with an embrace to musicality to 
embellishments, etc.
On the other hand, there is a variety of reasons why we dance that are all 
individual and hardly debatable. So, what constitutes a good dance varies from 
situation to situation. What is most important is that there is a good 
communication between the partners so that they can adjust to each other's 
desires.
...dubravko
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Re: [Tango-L] heels on floor?

2015-04-28 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Now that the topic comes back again, let me add a few words. 

When I teach, I always emphasize, half in jest, that there is no Central 
Committee on tango (yet), so you do not go to a Gulag if in error of some 
sort. But then on a more serious note I state that I teach what I know, what 
works for me, and what I like. I also add, which bit of wisdom I inherited from 
another teacher (I think it was Jorge Torres) but agree with completely, that 
ultimately everyone must find their own dance since all bodies and minds and 
hearts are different. Of course, in pivot, the heel comes of the floor.
As an advice, I claim that studying with one teacher, hopefully a good one, one 
that teaches elements, concepts, techniques, ideas, for a long time is better 
for a novice than switching. Then also, taking private lessons is always 
preferred to group classes, if one can afford them, of course.

As a dancer I admire and welcome with great satisfaction when a lady/follower 
makes a deep forward step into the opening of my deep back step, usually in 
parallel feet system and usually with her left leg. I feel it as a complete 
trust and both a surrender and a strong opening as a partner dancer for 
whatever may come next. I never look, of course, but it feels like such a 
forward step is always made heel first. In most other cases, I feel that the 
heel is always slightly above the floor. However, I really do not care if it 
indeed is or is not, as long as the dance is good for both partners.

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Re: [Tango-L] shopping cart tango

2015-04-19 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JBWeyFML2Xc

 
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 From: meaning of life kushi_bu...@hotmail.com
To: tango list tango-l@mit.edu 
Sent: Monday, April 20, 2015 2:19 AM
Subject: [Tango-L] shopping cart tango
 

hello

does anyone have a link to the original shopping cart tango? the one that ends 
in the parking lot

thanx




dan
  
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Re: [Tango-L] shopping cart tango

2015-04-19 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
The trailer


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-629zssP21Y
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- Original Message -
 From: meaning of life kushi_bu...@hotmail.com
 To: tango list tango-l@mit.edu
 Cc: 
 Sent: Monday, April 20, 2015 2:19 AM
 Subject: [Tango-L] shopping cart tango
 
 hello
 
 does anyone have a link to the original shopping cart tango? the one that 
 ends 
 in the parking lot
 
 thanx
 
 dan
   
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Re: [Tango-L] Gustavo and Giselle

2015-04-17 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
I agree 100%. As I wrote in my tango blog recently, GG are uniquely wonderful 
as dancers, as teachers, and as people. Any chance I have to be around them, 
taking classes or not or just chatting about things tango, if I were you I'd do 
it.
...dubravko
 
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 From: Nussbaum, Martin (Law) mnuss...@law.nyc.gov

...
Gustavo and Giselle are the best living tango teachers in the world today. 
Their dance is a masterwork of interpretation, phrasing, musicality, and theme. 
The intimacy and joy they share on the dance floor is the reason I started 
dancing and a continued source of inspiration today.  Best, 
Martin

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Re: [Tango-L] RIP Juan Carlos Cáceres | 1936-2015

2015-04-11 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
A very nice write-up about Cáceres in Tangauta:
Juan Carlos Cáceres | 1936-2015 (Español)

|   |
|   |  |   |   |   |   |   |
| Juan Carlos Cáceres | 1936-2015 
(Español)https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pAchvzkBrJ8 Músico, cantante, 
compositor, pintor (Buenos Aires, Argentina 4 SET 1936 – Périgny, Francia 5 ABR 
2015)… |
|  |
| View on www.tangauta.net | Preview by Yahoo |
|  |
|   |

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  From: Christian Lüthen christian.luet...@gmx.net
 To: Tango L Tango-L@mit.edu 
 Sent: Saturday, April 11, 2015 2:48 AM
 Subject: [Tango-L] RIP Juan Carlos Cáceres | 1936-2015
   
RIP Juan Carlos Cáceres | 1936-2015

https://es.wikipedia.org/wiki/Juan_Carlos_C%C3%A1ceres

.

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Re: [Tango-L] Tango-L past and where we should be heading.

2015-04-11 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
What's lacking is participation, the medium is fine as it is. 
For example, J.C. Cáceres passed away. Any thoughts? I, for one, love his 
jazz-murga-candombe-milonga connection. As a DJ I love to play some of his 
music (beyond Tango Negro and Toca Tango). 

...dubravko
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  From: robert-b missingl...@cloud9.net
 To: tango-l@mit.edu 
 Sent: Saturday, April 11, 2015 5:44 PM
 Subject: Re: [Tango-L] Tango-L past and where we should be heading.
   
Concerning Reuven’s thoughts about a platform--what about something like 
Slashdot.org, which is a Web site that hosts various discussions organized into 
various independent discussion topics? I’m not sure what they’re using for 
software or how the site was designed, but it’s a nice option in that it 
provides the ease of access of a Web site and the ability to create and follow 
independent discussions. I’ve nothing against mailing lists per se, but there 
are options for more up-to-date interfaces that are less cumbersome and 
advertising heavy than Yahoo. Facebook is a non-starter as far as I’m 
concerned. It was never designed for extended discussion of any kind. 


Robert B. 


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Re: [Tango-L] Should Tango-L continue?

2015-04-06 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
I suspect I am not the only one on the list who is not a big fan of Facebook, 
but I do note that there are many people who rarely read email too. I responded 
to the survey and voted to keep Tango-L alive. It's all about priorities.

...dubravkoP.S. Now, there is something to discuss, eh?  
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  From: robin tara robinct...@gmail.com
 To: Keith Elshaw ke...@totango.net 
Cc: Tango L tango-l@mit.edu 
 Sent: Monday, April 6, 2015 8:47 PM
 Subject: Re: [Tango-L] Should Tango-L continue?
   
Keith,

Reflecting on things digital, after reading your message I immediately
looked for the 'like' button. Guess that sums it up.

Tango-L was great in its time, but I haven't read anything on it for years.



Robin Tara

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On Mon, Apr 6, 2015 at 2:43 PM, Keith Elshaw ke...@totango.net wrote:

 Tango-L was undeniably Very Important for years.  I am one of the many
 who appreciates today the friendships I made through Tango-L.

 In a perfect world, would I like to see it find a new relevancy? Yes, of
 course.

 Is that possible? I personally don’t see why not – although apparently a
 fresh model would be key to any hopes. That time has passed it by
 (through no fault of its own) is not an indictment of it’s original
 goals and ways.  But I think it would take people much smarter than me
 to figure out how to bring it back, given the way the world has changed.

 Shahrukh blessed and was mid-wife to the community as it began life in
 the digital age. I will always be grateful for his wisdom and
 generosity.

 I rue the day Tango-L went away.

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Re: [Tango-L] Questions about the individual leader's dance...

2013-04-08 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Hello Mario:

No repertoire; although, I do have certain relationships in the dance I like 
and on occasion may attempt to create an opportunity for. Notice I did not say 
steps but rather relationships as what happens depends on both dancers. 
What is sufficient depends on my partner. There may be those who are looking 
for excitement of the movement and novelty and then there are those who are 
looking for a trans (the two are not necessarily exclusive). I certainly prefer 
the latter in which case all that matters is the harmony I can help achieve 
with my partner where the music and the environment are the common vehicle for 
both of us.

But, if you insist, I would say that my repertoire consists of feeling the 
music, sensing my partner's spirit, and offering mine in exchange--everything 
else just happens (or not).

...dubravko
 
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 From: Mario sopel...@yahoo.com
To: TANGO-L tango-l@mit.edu 
Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 10:09 AM
Subject: [Tango-L] Questions about the individual leader's dance...
 
   At what point in your dance do you take a 'risk'..?  What comprises a 
'risk' for you?
   Do you have a repertoire that you dance each dance with?  What does it 
consist of ?
    Can you make your repertoire suffice for every song that you dance to?  
..How does that work?
    Are your collection of figures/movements sufficient for your followers...? 
..and when not, why not?
    Have you seen seasoned dancers with a limited repertoire and have they 
performed miracles with only four or five figures/movements ??   ..if not, 
here is one:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iIlSw-HNADQ
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Re: [Tango-L] Tango Meccas (WAS Re: Seminar review)

2011-10-11 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Yes, Berlin is wonderful for tango lovers of all kinds - all the way from those 
who are strictly golden age to those who are experimenting.
 
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From: Siamak Tazari siamak.taz...@googlemail.com
To: tango-l@mit.edu
Sent: Tuesday, October 11, 2011 3:06 PM
Subject: Re: [Tango-L] Tango Meccas (WAS Re: Seminar review)

As far as Tango meccas go, if there need be any place outside of BsAs, it
would be Berlin, Germany. I think there are a lot of arguments supporting
that. I have repeatedly heard that it has the biggest and most lively tango
scene outside of BsAs and also seen that there is a lot of exchange
happening constantly between those two cities.

--Siamak
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Re: [Tango-L] Men's strategies (3)

2011-06-18 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Very nice write-up Steve. And, just in case anyone is questioning Steve's 
ability to remember all those details, I was sitting with him once or twice at 
a milonga - he was taking copious notes after every tanda and still managed to 
get the dances. Way to go Steve!
 
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From: Steve Littler s...@stevelittler.com
To: Tango-L List tango-l@mit.edu
Sent: Friday, June 17, 2011 9:44 AM
Subject: Re: [Tango-L] Men's strategies (3)

One time I met a formerly famous model/dancer/TV/Film personality (now 
starting to age and wrinkle but still quite fit and attractive to an 
...

Abrazos!

El Stevito de Gainesville



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Re: [Tango-L] Better? Worse? Just different

2011-04-24 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Well said, Jonathan. 
Incidentally, we just earlier today watched Si Sos Brujo in Cafe Pavadita, a 
forth Sunday of the month brunch/practice we hold in Gainesville, FL where we 
enjoy friendship through our love of Tango. Highly recommended.

...dubravko
 
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From: O Bardo obscureba...@gmail.com
To: tango-l@mit.edu
Sent: Saturday, April 23, 2011 8:59 PM
Subject: Re: [Tango-L] Better? Worse? Just different

On Thu, Apr 21, 2011 at 7:46 AM, hbboog...@aol.com wrote:
...

There is currently another thread discussing tango music. In case there is

anyone on the list who has not seen Si Sos Brujo I cannot recommend it
strongly enough. The documentary demonstrates the specialness of tango and
music like jazz that needs to personally transmit the music and techniques
from generation to generation. It is not enough to write in down. The
written music can only serve as a notational aid but doesn't capture the
music.

I do hope that if you see yourself as a tango dancer you will come to see
yourself as a lover of tango music first and then a dancer.

Jonathan Thornton
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Re: [Tango-L] proportions

2011-02-10 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Yes, sherrie, I agree, the length of the tanda should be a consideration more 
than the number of songs in it, although, folks get used to certain number of 
songs/tanda and are surprised if you deviate from the standard. I try to stay 
within 10 minutes/tangotanda when I DJ, which may be two, three, or four songs. 
There are many, many other consideration for creating tandas and sequencing 
them 
too, but that is a subject for a different e-mail list (TangoDJ).

I do agree that being a dancer should be helpful for DJ-ing, although it may 
introduce a very strong bias, which in and of itself is not bad as long as the 
DJ is known for it and is consistent. I think dancers do not like too many 
surprises. A DJ should not be educating the dancers, but should play the music 
most people would want to dance to.

...dubravko

P.S. The mail dancer in that Youtube clip I linked to before is Osvaldo Natucci 
who is also a very well known DJ.
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Re: [Tango-L] proportions

2011-02-09 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
- Original Message 
 From: sherp...@aol.com sherp...@aol.com
...
 I don't think I have ever seen a DJ in BA danceIt is sort of like a 

Oh, but they do indeed dance -- not every one of them, but many do.

See http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lQtItjJyMfU, for example.

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Re: [Tango-L] A Training Scale

2011-02-01 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
On the leader/follower issue. Would it be useful to think of the roles of the 
leader and follower (use any other substitute dichotomous terms you wish to 
describe the relationship) continuously and flawlessly changing between 
partners 
during the dance all the time?
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Re: [Tango-L] Cheryl Burke Forever Tango interviews

2011-01-08 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
- Original Message 
 From: Nina Pesochinsky n...@earthnet.net
...
 Tango is  exotic to all who don't understnad it.  It is sacred to all who  do.


Well said, Nina!

...dubravko

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Re: [Tango-L] The care and feeding of new leads.

2010-10-22 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Excellent questions Mario. Yes, I am a male. My first few months were really 
scary. During my first visit to Buenos Aires (by myself), year and a half after 
I started dancing it took me one hour to get enough guts to walk up to El Beso, 
etc. etc.

Why did I continue? Because I had the dance inside myself. The problem was 
inadequate technique for basic elements, all aspects of it: walk, posture, 
embrace, connection - I always had the musicality, which carried me through - I 
just had to dance, the music makes me dance.

Suggestion? Technique, technique, technique -- provided that there is a feeling 
for the music. Teach good walking and simple turns and you have the basics. 
Provide guided practice of technique. Get the leads to practice with each 
other - a lot. Do not show too many tango shows. Distinguish between those who 
dance just to get the girls (nothing particularly wrong with it in itself, 
but 

quite misplaced for tango) from those who just have to dance and focus on the 
latter. Have teachers who are enthusiastic and who love dancers. Teach how to 
treat the partner with care and respect. 

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Re: [Tango-L] Line of Dance

2010-10-12 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Thank you for pointing this out. When people know how to dance, strictly 
following line of dance rule is meaningless, because you end up dancing with 
other pairs on the floor co-creating a symbiotic dance of the whole group - 
that's when the whole new horizon of dancing opens up.

...dubravko
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- Original Message 
 From: NANCY ningle_2...@yahoo.com
 To: tango-l@mit.edu; Phil Seyer professionalsgu...@gmail.com
 Sent: Tue, October 12, 2010 9:05:34 AM
 Subject: Re: [Tango-L] Line of Dance
 
 
 
 --- On Sat, 10/9/10, Phil Seyer professionalsgu...@gmail.com  wrote:
 
 From: Phil Seyer professionalsgu...@gmail.com
 
 One  instructor points out in one of his videos that it's safe for him
 to dance  backwards
 into a certain space because he knows the space is available since  he
 has just been
 there himself moments 
 
 That might work in Buenos  Aires where the milongueros study the dance floor, 
sometimes for hours, before  they set foot on the pista and where they can 
count 
on all the other dancers  following the line of dance and staying in their own 
lanes.  I danced with a  gentleman who took seven ( count 'em) quick steps 
backward, on a diagonal, into  the center of the room without disturbing 
anyone. 
Anywhere else or in a milonga  full of tourists doing their own thing with no 
regard for the flow of the room,  it would be a disaster.
 
 JMHO
 Nancy
 
 
 
   
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Re: [Tango-L] social ethical behavior

2010-08-31 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
You may think of this what you wish, but here's an excerpt of my experience 
from 

a recent visit to Bs As dancing at a traditional afternoon milonga (3-10pm). 

My partner and I always set together and mostly danced with each other. On 
three 

occasions (out of four visits to that milonga), men (each older than 60, I 
estimate) signaled me from a distance to see if it is okay to invite my partner 
to dance; I affirmed, they then connected with my partner with a cabeceo and 
danced. 

On one occasion a young fellow stepped out in front of our table, which was at 
the edge of the floor so he was standing on the floor with no one else on the 
floor, and asked my partner to dance - she declined.

BTW, my partner and I had an agreement that if she wanted to dance with someone 
else, she would let me know (sometimes I suggested a good dancer to her as 
well), and I would facilitate the exchange by giving the gentleman a chance to 
confer with me first.

This all may seem quite anachronistic and chauvinistic but it worked well 
because it followed the unwritten rules of behavior and eliminated 
any embarrassment or discomfort.


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- Original Message 
 From: macfro...@aol.com macfro...@aol.com
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 Sent: Tue, August 31, 2010 1:40:13 PM
 Subject: [Tango-L] social ethical behavior
 
 
  Vince, this is so inaccurate!
 
 
  If the porteno is under 30, he  probably goes to practicas where anything 
goes. 

 
 As a dancer who has  lived and taught tango with my milonguero parter in BsAs 
for many years, let me  assure you that the codigos are still respected and 
observed in all of the  traditional milongas. 

 
 In places like La Viruta, where the idea is to  meet someone for 
extracurricular activities after the milonga and not to dance  beautiful 
tangos, 

many men are aggressive and assault women at their tables (if  they're lucky 
enough at La Viruta to have a table) by grabbing their arms and  taking them 
to 

the dance floor. This works particularly well with foreigners and  young 
people 

who have not learned the codigos.
 
 But just try this at a  traditional milonga! The guy will be laughed out the  
door.
 
 Cherie
 http://tangocherie.blogspot.com
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 I have it on good authority from someone who has returned  and experienced
 
 
 *many* milongas in BsAs that most portenoes do not  use the codes.  In fact
 
 
 they approach women as men do so in  Australia.  And yes, there are sleazes
 
 
 amongst  them.
 
 
 
 
 
 The notions of romantic codes have been lost I  think upon the  modern
 
 
 generation.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 BTW, it is  Niki, not Nick
 
 
 
 
 
 Vince
 
 
 In  Melbourne
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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Re: [Tango-L] Tango's Cultural Heritage

2010-05-27 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Speaking for myself, it is the culture that is so unique which makes my tango a 
richer experience than it can be anywhere else. Having an inkling of the 
culture when listening to the music is then magnified 10-fold with the first 
breath of air inhaled upon arrival. Hearing the noise of traffic on Corrientes 
and of small children going to school across the street on Ayacucho, consuming 
cafe con leche y medialunas for breakfast in a local eatery, hearing Castellano 
on the radio, all that and much more is part of tango which can not be felt in 
too many other places (I have not been to other cities in Rio de la Plata 
region). 


Small addition, Romero: men from around the world are drawn to Buenos Aires to 
dance as well, not only women. And there are lousy porteno dancers as well.

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Re: [Tango-L] Tango's Cutural Heritage

2010-05-24 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Thanks Jack for this post. The (at least partial) answer to your question can 
be found here:

What is Intangible Cultural Heritage? at 
http://www.unesco.org/culture/ich/index.php?pg=2


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- Original Message 
 From: Jack Dylan jackdylan...@yahoo.com
 To: Tango-L@mit.edu
 Sent: Mon, May 24, 2010 7:02:02 AM
 Subject: [Tango-L] Tango's Cutural Heritage
 
 The Tango has been declared part of the 'World's Intangible Cultural Heritage 
 of 
 Humanity' 
by UNESCO, which aims to preserve a list of legacies under threat 
 from global change. 
An Argentine official said he was very proud that the 
 music and dance of the Tango have 
now been safeguarded for humanity. 
 
 
But has anyone wondered just what they intend to preserve and safeguard 
 and just how 
they intend to do this? The Tango that is danced in much of the 
 world is very different to 
what is danced in the traditional milongas of 
 Buenos Aires and, with the growth of tango 
tourists to Buenos Aires, is 
 there a danger that the traditional milongas will be unable to 
survive in 
 their present form? 
 
The Argentines themselves seem to understand that, 
 when they attend a traditional milonga, 
they adjust their behaviour and 
 dance and respect the codes and culture of those milongas. 
If they want to 
 behave differently and dance differently, they attend other venues such as 
 
the nuevo practicas and places like La Viruta and others. From my own 
 experience, many 
non-Argentines just don't seem to understand 
 this.
 
Will the situation get worse as time passes or do the milonga 
 organisers [or UNESCO] 
have some contingency plans to stop this from 
 happening?
 
Does anyone have any thoughts or information on 
 this?
 
Jack


  
 

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Re: [Tango-L] Tango's Cutural Heritage

2010-05-24 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
I do understand the feeling of emptiness, sadness, loss of something dear when 
you see things you love change. But, nothing, nothing ever remains the same. 
The fact that so many cry out in favor of preserving tango as we know it 
truly amazes me. That goal is truly impossible. 

Instead, let's just be constructive and contribute our own creativity into the 
river of energies causing tango to change. Change it will, whether we want it 
or not. 
The question is only whether we will passively see it happen and complain that 
it did not happen the way we want or actively affect the way it happens. The 
choice is ours.

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Re: [Tango-L] dreaded back step

2010-01-05 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
From: Alexis Cousein a...@sgi.com

...
 The Golden Rule: don't step where you don't know you have room, or adjust
 the step length to make sure you do have the room. Whether the
 step is sideways, to your back, to your front or turning doesn't change 
 that.
 
That is only part of the story. What is much more important is to be able to 
predict with a reasonable degree of certainty that no one else also sees that 
space and try to get into it just as you do. 

Also, watching other people dance, if they are good dancers with good 
navigation skills, it is quite possible to see when they will vacate a spot 
allowing you to get into it if desirable. That is how the dance becomes highly 
social and you end up dancing with more than just your partner, offering a lot 
more possibilities.

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[Tango-L] Berlin for NYE

2009-12-16 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Any (public) AT New Year's Eve milongas/parties in Berlin, Germany?

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Re: [Tango-L] Time signatures in tango music?

2009-10-09 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
A simple google search (or Tango-L search) would have, among others, yielded

http://pythia.uoregon.edu/~llynch/Tango-L/2001/msg02011.html

Do take a look!

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From: Zpetrovic zpetro...@cooltoad.com
To: tango-L@mit.edu
Sent: Thu, October 8, 2009 11:34:11 AM
Subject: [Tango-L] Time signatures in tango music?

Hello everyone,

I was wondering could you help me understand time signatures in tango music?
Is it 2/4, 4/4, 4/8 or...?
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Re: [Tango-L] What is Tango? (Or Tango Categories) - Part 3 Final

2009-08-05 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Thank you Bettina for writing what I imagine many are thinking to themselves. 
I would only like to add that tango is musical, lyrical, and dance expression 
of the culture which gave it and continues to give it its essence and so it 
evolves as the culture does.
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Re: [Tango-L] Refusing a dance... was Re: Is it Balls, or just a Heel?

2009-06-08 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi

From: Jack Dylan jackdylan...@yahoo.com
...
 You don't say what your response to the lady would be. In my case, I'd have 
 to be in real pain before I would turn down a lady's request to dance.

Right! I didn't. Only once did I flat out decline an invitation to dance. 

But, I must admit that sometimes I do employ certain evasive techniques. For 
example, there is this one particular lady with whom I dance and like to dance, 
actually, but not every single tanda - there are other dancers I'd like to 
dance with. Many times she comes and parks herself near me, standing there 
behind me, or something, waiting for the cortina/tanda and I know what's up. If 
I really do not wish to dance with her, I get up and go to the bar or to the 
restroom or something like that in order to avoid the potentially unpleasant 
situation before it even starts playing itself out. So far, there has been no 
problems with that. I rationalize that that, somewhat sneaky behaviour, is like 
a cabeceo situation where I simply do not look at her.

...dubravko
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From: Jack Dylan jackdylan...@yahoo.com
To: Tango-L Tango-L@mit.edu
Sent: Friday, June 5, 2009 9:46:13 PM
Subject: Re: [Tango-L] Refusing a dance... was Re:  Is it Balls, or just a 
Heel?


 From: Dubravko Kakarigi dubravko_2...@yahoo.com
 
 In the absence of cabeceo, I find the situation even more complicated when a 
 lady comes to ask me to dance and I do not want to dance with her or just do 
 not 
 wish to dance at the moment (tired, want to watch, not inspired by the music, 
 whatever).
 

Hi Dubravko,

You don't say what your response to the lady would be. In my case, I'd have 
to be in real pain before I would turn down a lady's request to dance.

Jack


  

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Re: [Tango-L] Is it Balls, or just a Heel?

2009-06-05 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
I suppose the use of good old cabeceo has its advantages, no?
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Re: [Tango-L] Refusing a dance... was Re: Is it Balls, or just a Heel?

2009-06-05 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
In the absence of cabeceo, I find the situation even more complicated when a 
lady comes to ask me to dance and I do not want to dance with her or just do 
not wish to dance at the moment (tired, want to watch, not inspired by the 
music, whatever).

I am also always utterly puzzled when some ask folks to dance the next tanda 
before they ever heard the first bar of the music, many times at the very end 
of the previous tanda/beginning of the cortina. It's totally amazing. I would 
not do it even with my most favorite dancing partner. How in the world do you 
know you'd want to dance at all? To me, if I do not like the music being played 
it is not likely that I would give my partner a good dance. So, what's up 
with that?

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Re: [Tango-L] improving discussion in our forum -- sugestions

2009-02-12 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
It just so happens that I was in that same class, Jack, when Susana shocked me 
too with her statement about the myth. But, when you look at her leading, she 
does it with her whole frame, of course, not only the arms (someone else 
mentioned that on this list), unless she is exaggerating to illustrate 
something. Also, I took quite a few private lessons with Ana Maria and I never 
ever heard her say to lead with arms (only).

On the other hand I followed a few milongueros in various classes to feel what 
their lead feels like and occasionally I did feel a strong hand lead - perhaps 
they felt that otherwise I would not get the lead, I don't know.

In my view, there may be some very exceptional cases of dancing chest-to-chest 
when some more action of arms may be a bit helpful, but in general it should 
not be necessary at all.

So, no big deal. Whatever works and is comfortable to both partners is fine 
with me. There is no Central Committee on tango, no?

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From: Jack Dylan jackdylan...@yahoo.com
To: Tango-L tango-l@mit.edu
Sent: Thursday, February 12, 2009 7:20:25 AM
Subject: Re: [Tango-L] improving discussion in our forum -- sugestions

Certainly not from Buenos Aires! I'm currently taking classes with Susanna 
Miller in Mlongueando 2009. Almost her first statement was that  the idea 
that milongueros lead from the chest is a myth - they use their hands and 
arms. For the last 2 days, after years of leading from the chest, I've been 
struggling to lead a lady's Back Ocho while keeping my chest perfectly still. 

I also take privates with Ana Maria Schapira. Same thing. She says to lead the 
Ocho Cortado, I need to use a strong inward pressure with my right forearm, 
otherwise the lady is likely to cross behind and not in front.

And please don't flame me and tell me thing EVERYTHING can be led from chest 
only. I also believed that, but I'm not about to argue with Susanna Miller or 
Ana Maria Schapira. 

Jack


 From: Myk Dowling poli...@gmail.com
 
 And what on Earth is _wrong_ with using your arms to dance? Where did 
 this whole no arms schtick come from, and how has it become elevated 
 to such a high level of worthiness?  

 


  


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Re: [Tango-L] what's going on here?

2008-11-07 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
My way of seeing this:

(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eNWC76wPGOo)

One thing I like about this context for dancing
is the backdrop character of the music. 

This music is not danced (tango music is 
danced) -- it provides a channel, a basis, 
an opportunity to amplify a mood. And 
then that mood is danced out in a very 
personal way, just as the amplified mood 
is a very personal matter.

Another point about this music is that,
for me, it has an equalizing effect on 
dancing partners in a sense that allows 
both partners to fully and simultaneously 
create. It presents an enormous 
playground for improvisation.

In other words,  when it is danced 
well (I have a long way to go, but desire to 
get there), it allows for a continuous 
change of traditional roles and thus the 
product, the whole spectrum of dance 
sensations,  is co-creative. Very, very 
different from classic tango dancing. 

As a mater of fact, if you dance to this 
music in a classic way, you will almost 
certainly get bored quickly. But venture 
into co-creation and you will be amazed by 
the whole new set of sensations. Certainly,
some of the classic sensations are
out the window too. Hence, you gain 
some and you lose some.

Of course, the classic tango is in a way 
co-creative as well, but with the roles 
very defined and maintained throughout the 
dance, with very few exceptions.

I am sure there are those on this list who see
this in a very different light. I hope we realize
that we should not be seeking the truth 
about it, but are simply sharing our own 
attitude about it which can not be right or 
wrong - it is very personal.

Finally, should this be called tango? I do not
really care and do not wish to discuss at all.

There is more to be said about it, but I am 
afraid the message size limit would then 
reject the post

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Re: [Tango-L] Milongueando 2009

2008-10-26 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
I participated in Milongueando 2008 and have my flight and registration paid 
for for Milongueando 2009. I had a great time this past February and hope for 
the same this coming February. If' you'd like more info, let me know in 
personal e-mail.

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From: Jack Dylan [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: Tango-L@mit.edu
Sent: Saturday, October 25, 2008 1:29:10 PM
Subject: [Tango-L] Milongueando 2009

Does anyone know anything about Milongueando 2009? It's quite expensive but is 
it worth attending since I could be in BsAs at that time? Their website says 
it's the 3rd International Encuentro of Tango Milonguero in Buenos Aires. Did 
anyone attend either of the first two? Their website is at:

 http://www.milongueandoenba.com/new/english/home.html

Jack


  


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Re: [Tango-L] (no subject)

2008-09-11 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
- Original Message 
From: David Thorn [EMAIL PROTECTED]
...
 Ernest:  Thank you for your posting.  I have very much enjoyed watching you 
 dance, both on youtube and in person.  You do actually dance!  It looks like 
 fun!

I second the above notion. I too enjoyed very much Ernest and Maricela's 
dancing both on YouTube and in person. Plus they are both very nice and above 
all humble persons. Kudos!

Now, I really got intrigued by what they and others call milonga candombera. 
Ernest, what would you say is the main few characteristics of milonga 
candombera? It does not quite follow the candombe as such, does it? given that 
candombe is not a couple's dance and the rhythms are different, aren't they?

I read Jean-Pierre's on-line article where he talks, among other things, about 
'the “floating” quarter of the beat ending the phrase,' but it did not help me 
much. I am familiar with and am actually an aficionado of milonga c/ traspie. 
But there is much more to it in Jean-Pierre's and Ernest/Maricela's dancing. I 
sort of get the feeling of it, but hesitate to let loose lest it become a 
caricature of a milonga c/ transpie. You might say - so what. I just don't 
know. Please help.

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Re: [Tango-L] 30 seconds of chit-chat

2008-09-05 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
This is all very interesting. And I am sure the 30 sec chat serves various 
intended purposes. However, all I need/want to know about my dance partner I 
learn through dancing with her, not through talking with her. Actually having 
any spoken conversation is very distracting for me. But, hey, my purpose for 
dancing is not to meet people but to dance and enjoy music ... so I go ahead 
and dance.

Does anyone know if it is considered rude to dance (in place) during those 30 
chat seconds? I never had anyone tell me so, but perhaps people might just be 
too polite to complain.

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Re: [Tango-L] 30 second chit-chat an Argentine custom

2008-09-05 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi

If there were any ladies on this list who might have danced with me, they could 
testify that I do not just start like a robot.

There are way too many assumptions here about how and why I dance (I won't 
argue about that, not important what you may think of me personally) and why I 
do not care for the prolonged chatting (how long does it take for you to 
recognize a song, after all? 30 seconds? I don't think so. Robot? I don't think 
so). I must add, though, that I just can not see how I can focus on feeling the 
music while chatting. I must be deficient in that, multitasking, department. Oh 
well, different strokes for different folks.

- Original Message 
From: Sergio Vandekier [EMAIL PROTECTED]
...
 It
is not bad manners to dance in place, it is different, a good
follower may think she did not have time to immerse herself in the
music.

However, one good reason for the pause for (at least) the first song in a tanda 
was given above -- consideration for the partner's way for getting into the 
music. Thank you. That was a good and welcome insight (when applicable). Why 
not? If that is what it takes for the lady to feel comfortable, it is worth it. 
Especially if it is part of the alure of dancing in the first place.
 

...dubravko

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Re: [Tango-L] Robot dancing

2008-09-05 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Dear Sergio (and other members of this group):

Thank you for your kind words -- no offense was taken, indeed. I fully support 
everything you said. 
Regardless of how proficient one is with anything, luckily, there is always 
more to learn. I really came to believe that the more you know, the more you 
know you don't know is not just an empty saying.

Dear Nancy, I'd love to see you at a milonga. I cherish those few electrifying 
moments of slow connection, the eye contact, the smile as we approach each 
other to dance; the slow, give-and-take completion of the embrace; feeling my 
partner breathe. I am very grateful to any woman who dances with me, it is 
quite a gift. So, yes, when you dance with me, you are definitely very special, 
those moments with you as we dance never ever to be repeated.

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Re: [Tango-L] Cadencia y ritmo, an example

2008-09-01 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
As an example of cadencias, one can take just about any clip of a dance by Tete 
(and Silvia, but not necessarily), especially when he (they) dance a vals. For 
example full of cadencias (at least as Tete teaches and explains and dances 
them) see:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tMgv5kSRWZo

especially two short ones starting at about 2:11. Does that fit your 
understanding of cadencias?

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Re: [Tango-L] Tangozone (was dull, dull, dull)

2008-08-27 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
I suppose one needs to (re)define this thing referred to here as tangozone. 
I bet it means different things to different people. 

I can tell you that I too have been there, but I am usually far from being 
relaxed, etc ... As a matter of fact there usually is (1) no thinking 
involved, (2) plenty of creative tension, (3) excitement, and most of all (4) 
heightened sensitivity to everybody and everything around me.

So, tangozone for me really means being one with everything around and inside 
of me and all the senses being on the high end of the scale. 

I do not expect to hear anyone else's definition to coincide with mine. The art 
of tango dancing for me includes discovery of what that tangozone means for 
my partner and trying to collaborate. Many times it just does not work since we 
may seek vastly different and perhaps incompatible things to put us in the 
tangozone. However, it may be possible that in such cases things other than 
the tangozone can be pursued and come out of the dance very satisfied.

...dubravko

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Re: [Tango-L] Very Interesting Video

2008-08-27 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
You know, whenever I see a message like this, I wish there was some indication 
from the author as to what makes the clip whatever attribute the author of the 
post assigned to the clip.

What makes this clip very interesting for you, m i l e s?
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- Original Message 
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Subject: [Tango-L] Very Interesting Video

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Us-MpnYgQac
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Re: [Tango-L] song's name?

2008-08-09 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Well, am I the only seeing the credits page on the clip which says that the 
first song is La melodía del corazón? And is todotango web site wrongly 
labeling the same song as such?

http://www.todotango.com/audio/wax/3840.wax

Or, did I misunderstand the question? 

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- Original Message 
From: marquerito tjanos [EMAIL PROTECTED]
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Sent: Friday, August 8, 2008 11:06:51 PM
Subject: [Tango-L] song's name?

hi all
would anyone be able to figure out what the name of the first song is in the 
following youtube clip?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=22ZkO6fQJ2Yfeature=related

i recognize the last two but not the first one. a little frustrating...

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Re: [Tango-L] Different feeling in tango

2008-07-23 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
- Original Message 
From: Sergio Vandekier [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: Tango-L List tango-l@mit.edu
Sent: Wednesday, July 23, 2008 9:52:21 AM
Subject: [Tango-L] Different feeling in tango


 Jack says:  Don't we talk a lot about the feeling of tango. 
 I know
it's very important to me [understatement!] and the 
 feeling I have when
I watch a man and a woman is completely 
 different to when I watch a man
and a man. They can both 
 be fabulous and very enjoyable, but different.

Here's perhaps another angle of looking at the questions of feeling in tango. I 
mentioned before that I have recently learned how to really enjoy dancing as a 
follower. After some thinking about it (because all of this discussion has 
actually inspired me to do that) I have some clues as to what's going on.

It seems to me that, in general, part of my attraction to tango is due to the 
fact that it allows me to express my sensuality safely. I think that in dancing 
as a follower I have allowed myself to let my feminine side express its own 
sensuality. I am rather enjoying the opportunities to express the feeling of 
beauty from a softer, warmer side of life. I am not sure I know how to explain 
this well, I am just exploring this whole idea as I write.

I can tell that the man I often practice with (most often together with our 
female partners), when he follows, he does not allow himself that same 
feminine, expressive avenue. He still dances with masculine expressiveness 
being dominant which feels totally different to me then dancing with a woman -- 
it feels more like sparring. However, when we exchange roles, I let go of my 
masculine side and let the feminine flourish. Quite a nice feeling. And that 
has nothing to do with the fact I am dancing with a man.

On the other hand, one of my female partners often likes to practice leading 
with me. I can tell that she does all the right moves but her energy is still 
predominantly feminine. Nothing wrong with that per se, but it is quite 
different.

I am not a bisexual man by any means, but am a firm believer that each one of 
us has those two components in us and have learned to enjoy my own feminine in 
tango dance as much as I do my masculine. Does that make any sense?

Is it still tango? I will let the authorities decide on that. I know that 
when there are opportunities for me to dance with women in traditional roles, I 
will take them. If there aren't, I will welcome an opportunity to dance as a 
follower with a good leader regardless of the gender of the leader. If there is 
masculine energy present so much the better because it is complementary to the 
feminine which makes the whole experience more complete and enjoyable.

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Re: [Tango-L] Would you like to lead or follow?

2008-07-19 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Since about a year ago I started venturing into the follow role and, as I got 
better at it, I discovered that it is another world, it is almost like a 
different dance altogether, equally fabulously enjoyable. Every man should 
experience a wonderful dance of tango as a follower -- highly recommended.
 
Nowadays I regularly practice with a woman who also likes switching roles and 
we often switch between the roles during a single dance -- changing the 
embrace on the fly and all without any interruption. It is a great experience.
 
...dubravko

P.S. I use quotes to signify the use of quoted terms only for the lack of a 
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Re: [Tango-L] Changes of direction

2008-06-27 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
The way I look at it and teach it is that the so-called ochos are fundamentally 
examples of change of direction themselves whereby a movement in one direction 
is interrupted and the movement in the more or less opposite direction is 
initiated.

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- Original Message 
From: David [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: tango-l@mit.edu
Sent: Friday, June 27, 2008 7:37:55 PM
Subject: Re: [Tango-L] Changes of direction

My understanding of the so called Change of Direction in it's original and 
simplest form, was a way of going from a back ocho step directly to a front 
ocho step, as well as the other way around.  Typically from a Back ocho, one 
might do things like another back ocho, a side step (molinette), or a boleo.  
Similiarly, from a fromt ocho, the typical next steps are another front ocho, a 
side step, a boleo, or even a parada.  Going from a front ocho step directly to 
a back ocho, would be an example of the change (as is a back ocho directly to a 
front ocho step).

David
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Re: [Tango-L] fwiw my 2 cents

2008-06-24 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
- Original Message 
From: Mario [EMAIL PROTECTED]
...
 I've been told that posting a link to a youtube video and not saying much is 
NOT adding content to Tango-L 
...
  What is 'content' anyway? ..are 'changing directions' full of content 
because they are full of words? 
 
Content to me would be for you to tell us what it is that you got ouf of it 
specifically when you watched a particular video clip. (BTW, most of the videos 
you point out I have seen before and so have, I am sure, many others.) But, I 
am interested in what you find in those clips for yourself. What questions 
might come to your mind and such. Then, we can have a possibly constructive 
discussion, rather than pontification.
Does that make sense?
BTW, I have studied many a video of Julio and Corina (both on Youtube and on 
their instructional DVDs and other sources), have admired much and adopted 
ideas I liked. If you are interested, I can tell you what specifically I liked 
and disliked. For example, I like very much their flow of dance. Their giros 
flow is nothing short of spectacular. I do not like thier embrace and posture. 
I saw a video my friend took of them dancing in a milonga in Buenos Aires and 
it was truly spectacular the way they danced in such confined quarters. I would 
never want to dance the way they dance, it is not my dance, but many ideas in 
their dance are beautiful, very useful, and wiorth studying. One more thing 
about Julio and Corina. they seem to dance all different dances pretty much the 
same (spectacularly technically well done) way. 
It is my experience that every dancer must find his or her body which will lead 
them to dance the best they can. No amount of imitation will give them that. 
Ideas - yes; copying - no. Some time ago I found out that what I thought to be 
a drawback (my height) I was able to turn into advantage and now I take full 
advantage of it and can thus give my partner a unique experience of dancing - 
not better, but unique. I still use the following quote as a motto: 
http://dubravko.kakarigi.net/graham.htm (you might need to copy and paste the 
link into your browser's URL window)
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Re: [Tango-L] Milonga - inspiration for the weekend

2008-06-06 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
- Original Message 
From: Joe Grohens [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: tango-l@mit.edu
Cc: Joe Grohens [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Friday, June 6, 2008 11:47:07 AM
Subject: [Tango-L] Milonga - inspiration for the weekend

  most instructors (usa) cannot dance the Milonga

 Interesting. I did not know that! I learn so much from tango-l.

WHAT? I mean, you can't be serious! Are you not mocking the original 
inspiration for the weekend post? I mean, I like and encourage Mario's asking 
questions and such and apparently wanting to learn, but he displayed absolutely 
no substantial knowledge so far on any subject of tango to make him any sort of 
authority to pass judgment like most instructors (usa) cannot dance the 
Milonga..this guy can.
It is not so much that Mario's judgment is right or wrong but that someone 
fairly new to the subject should not volunteer his or her opinions before 
paying the proper dues. There are those on this list who, with even less 
knowledge, can not discard the misjudgments and, in this respect, Mario is 
doing them a disfavor.
 
This whole Mario thing sounds like one big joke. Mario, please do continue to 
participate but resist the urge to pass general sort of judgements unless they 
are clearly just personal preferences to which you are certainly entitled.
 
...dubravko
 
P.S. I have communicated with Igor in private about that milonga clip and our 
views on it coincide. Since it was a private communication, it will remain so.

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Re: [Tango-L] Tango who needs it?

2008-05-30 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
- Original Message 
From: Nina Pesochinsky [EMAIL PROTECTED]
...
 But there is one thing that shows up in tango more than in any other  part of 
 life, in my experience, and it is betrayal.  Many different kinds.
Is there a story here? I am curious ...
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Re: [Tango-L] What is the name of the song in the video

2008-05-29 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Tigre Viejo, Osvaldo Fresedo

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- Original Message 
From: uja [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: tango-l@mit.edu
Sent: Thursday, May 29, 2008 8:47:34 PM
Subject: [Tango-L] What is the name of the song in the video

Hi,
Does someone know the name of the FIRST song and orchestra that Miguel Angel 
Zottonbsp;amp; Daiana Guspero are dancing to in the following video:nbsp; 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IJwWnzODU20
nbsp;
Thank you.
nbsp;


      
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Re: [Tango-L] Why YouTube alone, isn't enough.

2008-05-21 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
- Original Message 
From: Mario [EMAIL PROTECTED]
...
 when I see a dancer whose style I'd like to emulate..the bag of tricks is 
 right there on YouTube..not that that makes it easy, it's just that; OK, 
 maybe if I learn these five movements, I can have as much fun as he is.. it's 
 a start.

And herein lies the trick, Mario. You will really start dancing only when you 
discover your own style. Eventually, your own body will tell you what it is 
capable of doing. Not everything you see (on YouTube or elsewhere) is 
appropriate for you (and any particular partner you may be dancing with). Do 
you think that those dancers you see on YouTube, if they are any good, actually 
emulate anyone? I don't think so. 
To evolve into a good dancer, focus on basic technique (walk/steps, 
posture/balance, embrace, connection, and musicality) and not on any of the 
movements you see. Add to these technical elements some concepts like change 
of direction, change of front, cadencia, arrepentida, ways to switch between 
parralel/normal and cross system, using and sharing tracks (thanks 
Oscar), pausing, etc.
With time, and it does take time - years, you will find yourself dancing 
movements which come from within yourself and your partner and not from 
YouTube or anyewhere else. Some you will like, some you will not and so you 
evolve. You will really not be dancing tango unless it comes from within, 
unless the movements are generated by the music (taking into account 
conditions on the dance floor as well as your partner, of course).
Watching video clips can serve as an inspiration, though, it can give you 
ideas, but do not try emulating them, you will most likely not be able to 
really do it and will waste your time and get frustrated.

Be patient with yourself and dance, dance, dance, practice, practice, practice, 
listen to the music, listen, listen ... and have fun doing it.

...dubravko

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Re: [Tango-L] More Nuevo bashing. Why??

2008-05-12 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
I am curious Mario (and others of like mind), what exactly is it that you do 
not like about the so-called Tango Nuevo? I know that many object to the 
apparent lack of musicality exhibited by tango-nuevo dancers (absolutely not 
inherently true in my mind), some object to many tango-nuevo dancers not 
observing dance floor etiquette (likewise, not special to tango nuevo). What 
else? There are many really bad dancers in all dancing and not that many good 
ones. However, we all have the right to our own expression, don't we? I know, I 
know, but that does not give us the right to disturb others in enjoying their 
own right, etc. etc. I have seen classic dancers and nuevo dancers co-existing 
on the same floor rather nicely, however.

A beautifully danced nuevo -- to some of Libedinsky's music, for
example -- can be very poetic, artistic. and romantic. And it can feel really
wonderful -- the interplay between the partners, the whole expanded way
of dance conversation.

I believe that it takes quite a skill to dance tango-nuevo well. I also believe 
that many shift to it from the start mistakenly believing that it is easier to 
dance that way. etc. etc. There are many reasons why people drift to it or 
simply choose to dance it, including myself who is just scratching the surface 
in that area.

Is it possible that those who bash tango nuevo never looked at it with open 
eyes and open heart and open mind?

I think that this may be an age old dynamic where the followers of old, 
established forms have hard time accepting the legitimacy of the new 
explorations.

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- Original Message 
From: Mario [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: tango-l@mit.edu
Sent: Monday, May 12, 2008 3:54:39 PM
Subject: [Tango-L]  More Nuevo bashing. Why??

Hi David,  you're right it is unseemly and unkind.
   I have to confess that I have a really strong negative feeling towards all 
that is Nuevo.
  I too am a close embrace dancer and if Nuevo takes over the Milongas ..I quit 
dancing.
  its as simple as that ...I would just as soon cha cha or salsa...and Tango is 
my passion..
  so, what am I to do..pretend it's nice??? I hate it..I don't even like to 
look at it, let alone
  be on the same dance floor with it...why such an inability to 'understand' 
the negativity?? 
  OK there it is and here I am..out there in all of my non nice ugliness..I 
started off wanting
  to make this a nicer post but why hide the truth..I hope others won't hate me 
and I hope
  Tango L.. won't punish me...hey, maybe I can be cured?? Maybe I need some 
mental
  adjustments??   sincerely but unkindly  Mario

  
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Re: [Tango-L] Middle of the floor

2008-05-12 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Have you ever seen Tete dance in line of dance How would you classify his 
dancing? I do not particularly care to classify it as anything at all, but it 
seems that there is a tendency to imply that those who dance in the middle of 
the floor are not good dancers. Not necessarily so. The only obvious thing is 
that they, for one reason or another, just do not follow line of dance. And 
that's just fine with me as long as they do not interfere with the line of 
dance where I like to be most of the time. 
A few weeks ago I was asked to dance at an afternoon milonga by someone I never 
saw dance before and I said sure - I just really wanted to dance. It turned out 
that for some readon she and I just could not fit well in the traditional, 
close embrace, line-of-dance sort of a dance. So, we drifted toward the 
middle where we could experiment a bit without bothering anyone. From then on I 
had a great dance with her. I am so happy I did not feel forced to fit into a 
line-of-dance where we did not belong.
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Re: [Tango-L] Alberto Dassieu

2008-05-12 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
- Original Message 
From: Mario [EMAIL PROTECTED]
...
 Anytme that I can find a new video on this guy, I'm going to post it.

Frankly Mario, I think that in this clip Alberto's posture and footwork are way 
below average. 
...  
  Lots and lots of pauses in this slooo tango..would it be ok to dance like 
this with most follows here in the US? He seems to wait and wait.
His waiting is really not waiting, as in doing nothing. There could be lots 
of dancing happening while it seems like nothing going on to those watching.

 Would that be un nerving to some follows?  

I am sure it would be to some.
At a recent Chicago mini tango festival. I had the overall best tanda with a 
woman who let me know at the very beginning with her body language that she 
preferred the slow and deliberate, very expressive movements filled with loads 
of emotional tension. From then on it was heaven. (And of course we moved to 
the middle in order not to disturb others and no, we did not dance the nuevo 
or show tango.) When the tanda was over, I told her that that was the best 
dance I had for the whole weekend -- she thanked me that I created the space 
for her to express herself in her own way. The whole thing was enormously 
satisfying for both of us.

Every dancer is different, hopefully.
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Re: [Tango-L] Ladies Leading

2008-05-06 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
I danced tango with my daughter a couple of years ago when I was 56 and she was 
32 ( we live far apart and do not have a chance to dance together more 
frequently) and it was extremely emotional and beautiful for both of us. In 
many ways, it was even more beautiful than dancing with someone else because of 
that added dimension.

The other day, during a practice, I danced as a follower with a male friend of 
mine. And that dance had its beautiful moments for me too. So, I suppose the 
bottom line for me is that tango dance is about beauty and ways to discover, 
create, and share beauty.

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Re: [Tango-L] Hiding weight changes

2008-04-26 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Agreed! It is certainly possible to change weight without the lady noticing it. 
It is also possible, alhough more difficult, to fake a weight change thus 
inviting the lady to change weight without the man doing it and thus change 
from/to cross to/from parallel system. Great fun!

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- Original Message 
From: Trini y Sean (PATangoS) [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: Tango-L Tango-L@mit.edu
Sent: Saturday, April 26, 2008 4:20:17 PM
Subject: [Tango-L] Hiding weight changes

--- Keith [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

I've always believed that the man should change weight so
that the lady doesn't even feel it. If she does feel it,
she should follow it unless the man prevents that in some
way, eg. 'suspension'.
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Re: [Tango-L] Speak up if you are uncomfortable

2008-04-11 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Without seemingly trying to minimize the problem, let me point out that it is 
not only the male (teachers) who may be abusive. Please let us not lose sight 
of the fact that sexual harassment and abuse come from all directions. I am 
speaking out of personal experience both as a child and as an adult. Stay 
vigilant and do not tolerate it!

...dubravko

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Re: [Tango-L] Apology

2008-04-04 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Mario:
 
Yes, indeed. Your post was a real shocker. But, why would you stop posting? 
I personally welcome your probing questions, your enthusiasm, and yes, you 
naivete at times. Just leave out the foul language and we are okay.
 
There is another point to be made about Astrid's observation, however. Not only 
is it that the feet are not the only thing happening, but they are indeed 
happening (in social dancing) only to facilitate something else, which is the 
bodies which dance and move about - it is not the other way around. 
Consequently by focusing on the footwork, one who is not experienced can easily 
miss the whole dance.
 
When I teach and demonstrate something, either with a group or individually, I 
insist on folks paying attention to my torso (including my embrace) and my 
hipwork (is there such a word? like footwork?) and only secondarily to my legs 
and feet
 
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- Original Message 
From: Mario [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: tango-l@mit.edu
Sent: Friday, April 4, 2008 10:51:47 AM
Subject: [Tango-L] Apology

Yes, Astrid's post reads differently this morning. What she is saying about
  the feet not being the only thing happening makes a lot of sense.
  And I wish that she hadn't kept introducing my name as an example of a dummie.
  It just was the wrong thing for me to be reading at that moment and I went
  ballistic.  
  So, my apologies to the list and to Astrid.
  I won't be posting as I did in the past but I will check in from time to 
time. thanks 

      
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Re: [Tango-L] leading cruzada

2008-04-04 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
I actually think that woman's cross with all the possiblities and variations is 
the most beautiful and sensual of steps. I love to dance with a woman who 
lets me completely guide her cross, including the degree of tiwst (if any -- 
prior, during and after crossing) and especially the speed of it and the timing 
of the weight transfer, pausing and the cadence. It is indeed a very sexy step. 
It reflects total communication and unity in diversity.

Just look at all those various cross situations which Gavito and Marcela used 
to create. I mean they all all so absolutely delicious, full of suspense, 
expectation, and passion!
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Re: [Tango-L] Where are her feet and where is her weight?

2008-04-02 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Okay Mario:

First, dancing tango is not a cerebral activity. If you end up thinking what 
you are doing or what you will or want to do as you dance, it's already too 
late and you loose the impact of both the music and your partner.

So, where is the magic trick? It is in dancing, dancing, dancing and 
experiencing the dance, number 1. I hope you do not expect to become a good 
dancer in six months or any predetermined amount of time. Everyone is 
different. Continuous dancing will let you start feeling where your partner is 
at all times without thinking about it. There are times when you will feel 
ambiguous about where she is with her balance so then you make one or two 
little mini steps or just change your own weight to (re)establish the balance 
or knowledge of where she is exactly. Never, ever rush into a step without 
being reasonably sure that your partner can actually participate in it. If you 
are not sure, do those mini steps or weight changes (btw, I consider those to 
be steps), so that if she is not on the foot you think she is on, you will feel 
it without crashing. It is of crucial importance to know both where your 
partner's axis and her free foot are (as someone else
 mentioned here).

Perhaps you will feel a need to start dancing some more complicated sequences 
or advanced steps fearing that your parters will get bored. Don't! Make sure 
that you dance to the music from the get-go. Add bits to your dance as you 
improve, but do not rush. Just about any dancer worth dancing with will 
appreciate you dancing musically even if in a very simple way. If you dance to 
the music with pausing (by all means do pause when music asks for it, but 
pausing does not equal stopping) every dance will be different because every 
tango is different from the next. Even if you just walk, there is plenty of 
possibilities in just walking (change of front, change of direction) to make it 
interesting. 

Number 2, do not plan a sequence as you dance. On a crowded floor you will 
almost never be able to dance it anyway. As a related notion, do not concern 
yourself with what you want to do, but rather what you'd like your partner to 
do. Then make it possible by placing yourself adequately.Remember that in 
tango, from the outside, it is the woman who shines and you support it. But, by 
all means make sure that she is comfortable in your arms--no surprises until 
you are sufficiently good to make novel steps so natural for you partner so 
that they are no longer surprises.

Number 3, practice on your own, do over and over the exercises which improve 
your balance under various conditions (these are not steps but exercises). This 
is like doing scales for a musician. Those exercises are done daily regardless 
of your overall level of dancing. Muscles eventually learn what to do to put 
your body in a desired position. Perhaps some day I will videotape various 
exercises I do on my own whenever I have a chance--sometimes adding new ideas 
to them--and share with the list ...

Number 4, listen to lots of tangos music all the time you can. This will help 
you build up, what I call, tango attitude. And that attitude must be 
genuinely yours and will add to your appeal as a dance partner. It goes without 
saying that listening to music will also help you dance better to it.

There is more but gotta stop at some point.

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Re: [Tango-L] Not leading vs.leading the cross

2008-04-01 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Okay, now that this discussion is quite nice and respectful of different views, 
let me put in my two centavos...

Here is how I see those and related things. In principle, we dance tango with 
our bodies/torsos -- not with our legs or other parts (I hope you do not 
understand this as me saying that we leave those other parts at the table :-). 
So a leg moves as a result of the torso moving (or sometimes in preparation for 
a torso movement, mostly true for men -- although, even then the beginning of 
the movement is done my torso). The foot is placed at the optimal place on the 
floor so that a dynamic balance is maintained. In chest-to-chest embrace sort 
of dancing, the two torsos move as one. The initiation of the move is usually 
done by the man. 

The consequence of this paradigm is that the woman will (or has a good 
opportunity to) cross (the kind where her left leg ends up in front of the 
right, her left foot to the right of her right foot--although, the same holds 
true for all other cross situations) because her torso is moving in such a 
direction that makes it, the cross, the most comfortable and natural step. In 
that context, ultimately the cross step happens as a result of the invitation 
to cross and is not made because it is some kind of a rule.

Of course, there are many variations on this theme. There is also much to be 
said about the energy (not only the kinetic kind) that a movement projects and 
is felt that also hopefully affects where the leg/foot goes.

...dubravko

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Re: [Tango-L] heel / Toe

2008-03-27 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
I was waiting and waiting for this subject to go away, but it wouldn't. So, 
I've got to say my piece. 
 
It'salmost as if those who are preoccupied with this so-called 
toe/heeldilemma really do not wish to dance but only to make that perfect 
step.Too many rules, folks!
 
Whenever I hear you should always dosuch and such and a step or a part of a 
step or a foot position istalked about I cringe. The only always I can stand 
is always let themusic, connection with your partner, and your heart guide 
you. I knowthis sounds so esoteric but is very real and you can't get it 
byimitating anyone, teacher or dancer alike. So, do not worry about is itthe 
toe or is it the heel first. For the time being do whatever isnatural or 
easier, but never ever loose the music and the partnerconnection. With time you 
will find out what works best for you andnurture it and polish it. 

Sure, there are reasons why in someinstances you will step toe first, or heel 
first, or with the fullsurface of your foot, for that matter. But, the best is 
if you discoverthose for yourself. Experiment, practice and you will find them 
in duetime if you look for them.
 
Someone posted a link to tangoandchaos.org- great site. One of the dancers 
discussed there is Tete. Some of hissteps are really terrible, in my mind, if 
you focus on the toe/heelfirst thing (and many other things, as a matter of 
fact, like posture,embrace and all), but his dancing is superb. Why? He really 
dances themusical phrases and knows at any time exactly where his partner is 
andmakes her movements almost inevitable and easy. He dances candenciasand 
pausas like no one else I know.

To be sure, not every woman likes to dance with him -- so I was told by some 
notable milongueras and given the reasons. So what?

So,I suggest - music, your heart, and your partner first! Everything elsewill 
follow. No partner will refuse to dance with you because you gotoe/heel first, 
but those who like to dance to the music will not dancewith you if you do not 
(or at least I hope they won't so that you canlearn and focus on the right 
thing). The choice is yours.

Boy, I did get carried away with this. I hope the list-gods will let it through.

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Re: [Tango-L] Origin of Tandas

2008-03-14 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
This may be of interest. I recently attended two milongas in Buenos Aires with 
Los Reyes del Tango playing live - not the whole evening but they played for 
about two hours in total (it was great, by the way - their live performance is 
much, much better than their CDs). And while they played, there were no tandas, 
they just played streight through with one large break during which two or 
three CD-powered tandas were danced. 

While I loved dancing to (good) live music, I prefer tanda system especially 
where I am new and do no know the dancers in which case I usually ask to dance 
the last song of the tanda whereby we both do not have to suffer through more 
than one song if things just do not work for us. 

BTW, Los Reyes played just one milonga in the whole set, from what I can 
remember. 

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Re: [Tango-L] tall men in close embrace

2008-03-11 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
- Original Message 
From: Carol Shepherd [EMAIL PROTECTED]
...
 It is very difficult for many women to dance comfortably while being held in 
 the small of the back, particularly if the lead pulls his arm in towards 
 himself.
 
When dancing with any woman in chest-to-chest embrace, it is very important for 
me to have full contact with my right arm, not to control but to sense my 
partner's movement better (there are those miniature muscle movements in your 
back which indicate even more what is happening than what the frontal contact 
can do on its own). I desire to envelope my partner's upper back as much as it 
is comfortable and possible given our relative body configurations.
 
When there is a big height difference (I am taller), it is not physically 
possible for me to achieve that contact with my right hand high up in the 
immediate vicinity of my partner's right shoulder blade or on it, so, out of 
necessity I move it lower to wherever it needs to go to achieve as much 
comfortable contact as possible. But, I still do not apply any pressure, so I 
really do not hold my partner, but rather follow her back with my arm in 
order to achieve a full contact sensation.
 
Also, if a woman is very slender, another necessity dictates me to lower my 
hand and arm -- lest I violate, what is usually considered an area reserved for 
personal, intimate hand contact only, I am sure you know what I mean.
 
...dubravko
 
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Re: [Tango-L] Why Tango?

2008-03-05 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Music makes me dance and the dance allows me to improvisationally co-create 
beauty with another human being and be in the moment - which seems to last 
forever when it happens.
 
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Re: [Tango-L] The basic 8 count

2008-02-21 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Right! and why not introduce very early on change of front, which allows 
moving ahead in the line of dance without senselessly walking forward/back? 
This way you introduce early on a useful technique/concept which can be used 
over and over in all sorts of situations. It also introduces many other 
concepts with it. I stay away from any patterns, especially those which are not 
really usable on the dance floor.
 
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- Original Message 
From: lenl [EMAIL PROTECTED]
...
 Why bother teaching a bad move if your going to have the student stop using 
 it? You can get the same effect by a side step holding a beat and continuing. 
 It's hard enough on the new student just trying to learn a move that he/she 
 willwant to keep. To me the basic 8 makes no sense.



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Re: [Tango-L] Osvaldo Centeno -- his exhibition in El Beso during Encuentro Tango Milonguero

2008-02-15 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
 Original Message 
From: Janis Kenyon [EMAIL PROTECTED]
...
 Osvaldo was overwhelmed by the response to his dancing on Monday night in El 
 Beso.  He has never done an exhibition because he dances for himself, not an 
 audience. 
 
That explains it to some extent. He did not look to be in a mood to dance at 
all. He looked busy, tired, working hard. I mean the dance was good, but the 
impression was that something was wrong. Plus he left Ana Maria in the middle 
of the floor, both times, returning to his table quickly and leaving Ana Maria 
to go to her table by herself. Not a very good example for many of us attending 
Milongueando 2008.

The high point for me was the dance of the elderly couple toward the end of the 
demo set who danced several dances including a milonga. I think they danced to 
El Acomodo which was absolutely fabulous. I wish I could remember their 
names. Perhaps Janis would know.


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Re: [Tango-L] Osvaldo Centeno -- his exhibition in El Beso during Encuentro Tango Milonguero

2008-02-15 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
 Original Message 
From: Janis Kenyon [EMAIL PROTECTED]
...
 Osvaldo was overwhelmed by the response to his dancing on Monday night in El 
 Beso.  He has never done an exhibition because he dances for himself, not an 
 audience. 
 
That explains it to some extent. He did not look to be in a mood to dance at 
all. He looked busy, tired, working hard. I mean the dance was good, but the 
impression was that something was wrong. Plus he left Ana Maria in the middle 
of the floor, both times, returning to his table quickly and leaving Ana Maria 
to go to her table by herself. Not a very good example for many of us attending 
Milongueando 2008.

The high point for me was the dance of the elderly couple toward the end of the 
demo set who danced several dances including a milonga. I think they danced to 
El Acomodo which was absolutely fabulous. I wish I could remember their 
names. Perhaps Janis would know.


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[Tango-L] Marcela

2008-02-05 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Does anyone know what Marcela Duran is doing these days? 

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Re: [Tango-L] Apts?...Belle Epoque

2008-01-23 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi

If you are talking about the ones on Ayacucho and Lavalle owned by
Elizabeth, apart from occasional unforeseen snag which can happen
anywhere, I have had nothing but the best experience. As a matter of
fact I am returning there in two weeks. Location is perfect - I love it.



...dubravko

P.S. This advert paid in full by . just kidding :-)
 

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- Original Message 

From: Jerry Combs [EMAIL PROTECTED]

To: tango-l@mit.edu

Sent: Wednesday, January 23, 2008 11:27:57 AM

Subject: [Tango-L] Apts?...Belle Epoque



 Does  anybody  know  anything  about  these  apartments?

I've  heard  several  unhappy  stories  that  they  are  not

what  they  seem.  I'm  curious  because  a  tanguera  friend

from  Minnesota  is  planning  her  first  trip  to  BA  and

saw  the  ads  for  these  places  on  Tango-A.  Good  deal,

bad  deal  -any   feedback  would  be  much  appreciated.



saludos,

Jerry





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Re: [Tango-L] Belle Epoque apartments for temporary rental in Buenos Aires

2008-01-23 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi

 
- Original Message 

From: Tom Stermitz [EMAIL PROTECTED]

...

 It  is  quite  centrally  located.  Easy  to  walk  downtown  or  to  several 
  milongas.  Not  easy  to  walk  to  Nino  Bien,  but  you  probably  want  
 to  use  
a  taxi  to  that  neighborhood.  Corrientes  is  one  block  over.



Talking about milongas in the neighborhood - El Arranque, an excellent
afternoon milonga, is just three blocks away on the other side of
Corrientes. Also, there are several places within easy walking distance of 
Ayachucho y Lavalle where various good teachers teach group
classes.

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Re: [Tango-L] 'Milonga is a guy thing?'

2008-01-12 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Milonga is a very different dance from tango, not only in speed/tempo, 
emphasis, steps, figures, etc. but also, and more importantly, in the nature 
of the embrace and the overall body movement and general attitude. Many 
currently recognized male milonga dancers (like Casas, El Flaco, Rodriguez) 
while all displaying superb technique, are too smooth for my liking. Good thing 
there is no central committee on milonga (or on tango, for that matter), but 
milonga dancing is different from tango dancing in some fundamental ways.
 
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Re: [Tango-L] 'Milonga is a guy thing?'

2008-01-12 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi

 Milonga is a very different dance from tango, not only in speed/tempo, 
emphasis, steps, figures, etc. but also, and more importantly, in the nature 
of the embrace and the overall body movement and general attitude. Many 
currently recognized male milonga dancers (like Casas, El Flaco, Rodriguez) 
while all displaying superb technique, are too smooth for my liking. Good thing 
there is no central committee on milonga (or on tango, for that matter), but 
milonga dancing is different from tango dancing in some fundamental ways.


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[Tango-L] A comparison that works - was Re: tell me why someone can not stand comparison of a dancer to a musical instrument

2007-12-23 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
If I wanted to compare, I would compare certain aspects of tango to going to a 
park and throwing a frisbee back and forth with a friend. If you think about 
it, I am sure you'll find many similarities.

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Re: [Tango-L] Juan D'Arienzo -- Still the King

2007-12-17 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
Thanks for the post, Janis (and for others as well). Here's a direct link for 
Pedro Ochoa's article:

http://www.10tango.com/interior/detalle_nota.php?idx=161seccion=4

...dubravko
 
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- Original Message 
From: Janis Kenyon [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: Tango-L Tango-L@mit.edu
Sent: Sunday, December 16, 2007 11:15:04 PM
Subject: [Tango-L] Juan D'Arienzo -- Still the King


Article by Pedro Ochoa
http://www.10tango.com/interior/detalle_nota.php

Nobody likes to follow rules. It is much better to break them. But
 there is
one thing that tops breaking rules: making them. D'Arienzo was a rule
 maker.
In 1935 he invented the orchestra for tango dancing. Just at a time
 when it
was needed. And he kept his success for forty years. The details of
 what
Juancito's process of discovery of his identity was like are lost in
 the
mists of time. It is certain that D'Arienzo would have preferred this
 loss
of memories of this transition, so that his orchestra would be forever
remembered as an expression of an eternal essence that does not change
 or
evolve.


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Re: [Tango-L] To lead or not to lead

2007-08-24 Thread Dubravko Kakarigi
A cross, which can happen in many, many situations and in many ways, is for me, 
as a man, the most beautiful and sensual moment in tango if done well. I 
absolutely love it when a woman allows me to co-design it, because then I can 
play with it, with its many elements. It is a moment of absolute unification of 
the two dancers - it is a bliss of tango for me, the most magical moment in its 
simple and yet so extraordinary beauty. Yes, you guessed it, I could go on and 
on talking about it, but I'd rather dance it. Anyone?
 
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