Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-29 Thread Chris Bannister
On Tue, Sep 25, 2007 at 11:12:02PM -0400, Kevin Mark wrote: more likely to give better reports if asked by a nice dd. But since its not 'policy', its not something that is required. There is the obvious situation where DD have real lives and can not respond to every user, Apparently policy

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-29 Thread Kevin Mark
On Sat, Sep 29, 2007 at 10:30:29AM -0400, Chris Bannister wrote: On Tue, Sep 25, 2007 at 11:12:02PM -0400, Kevin Mark wrote: more likely to give better reports if asked by a nice dd. But since its not 'policy', its not something that is required. There is the obvious situation where DD have

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-29 Thread Manoj Srivastava
On Sat, 29 Sep 2007 10:30:29 -0400, Chris Bannister [EMAIL PROTECTED] said: On Tue, Sep 25, 2007 at 11:12:02PM -0400, Kevin Mark wrote: more likely to give better reports if asked by a nice dd. But since its not 'policy', its not something that is required. There is the obvious situation

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-29 Thread Manoj Srivastava
On Sat, 29 Sep 2007 07:44:58 -0400, Kevin Mark [EMAIL PROTECTED] said: On Sat, Sep 29, 2007 at 10:30:29AM -0400, Chris Bannister wrote: On Tue, Sep 25, 2007 at 11:12:02PM -0400, Kevin Mark wrote: more likely to give better reports if asked by a nice dd. But since its not 'policy', its not

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-29 Thread s. keeling
Mike McCarty [EMAIL PROTECTED]: Nate Bargmann wrote: keeling: Plenty of stuff, lots of replies and multipost threads. Can't see any bug reports. Guess it's off to the BTS to search there. Drat. How 'bout that? Search of the BTS for submitter reports no reports found. Huh? What

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-29 Thread s. keeling
Nate Bargmann [EMAIL PROTECTED]: * s. keeling [EMAIL PROTECTED] [2007 Sep 26 04:27 -0500]: Btw, THIS IS ALL VOLUNTEER WORK HERE. fyi. Yup. And I for one appreciate our Debian Volunteer Overlords. ;-) Ah geez. You made me laugh. I even considered typing LOL ... Crap! -- Any

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-29 Thread s. keeling
Mike McCarty [EMAIL PROTECTED]: Roger B.A. Klorese wrote: a lot of time working on non-goals; the question at hand is whether adoption by the level of user in question is or is not a goal. I'm satisfied to leave that up to the individual. It's none of my business. Caveat emptor

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-29 Thread s. keeling
s/Jones/West/g You gotta change your name to Steve. -- Any technology distinguishable from magic is insufficiently advanced. (*)http://blinkynet.net/comp/uip5.html Linux Counter #80292 - -http://www.faqs.org/rfcs/rfc1855.htmlPlease, don't Cc: me. -- To UNSUBSCRIBE, email to

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-29 Thread Kevin Mark
On Sat, Sep 29, 2007 at 10:28:38AM -0500, Manoj Srivastava wrote: On Sat, 29 Sep 2007 07:44:58 -0400, Kevin Mark [EMAIL PROTECTED] said: On Sat, Sep 29, 2007 at 10:30:29AM -0400, Chris Bannister wrote: On Tue, Sep 25, 2007 at 11:12:02PM -0400, Kevin Mark wrote: more likely to give

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-29 Thread s. keeling
Nate Bargmann [EMAIL PROTECTED]: * s. keeling [EMAIL PROTECTED] [2007 Sep 26 04:27 -0500]: Btw, THIS IS ALL VOLUNTEER WORK HERE. fyi. Yup. And I for one appreciate our Debian Volunteer Overlords. ;-) Ah geez. You made me laugh. I even considered typing LOL ... Crap! -- Any

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-29 Thread s. keeling
Mike McCarty [EMAIL PROTECTED]: Nate Bargmann wrote: keeling: Plenty of stuff, lots of replies and multipost threads. Can't see any bug reports. Guess it's off to the BTS to search there. Drat. How 'bout that? Search of the BTS for submitter reports no reports found. Huh? What

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-29 Thread s. keeling
Mike McCarty [EMAIL PROTECTED]: Roger B.A. Klorese wrote: a lot of time working on non-goals; the question at hand is whether adoption by the level of user in question is or is not a goal. I'm satisfied to leave that up to the individual. It's none of my business. Caveat emptor

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-29 Thread s. keeling
s/Jones/West/g You gotta change your name to Steve. -- Any technology distinguishable from magic is insufficiently advanced. (*)http://blinkynet.net/comp/uip5.html Linux Counter #80292 - -http://www.faqs.org/rfcs/rfc1855.htmlPlease, don't Cc: me. -- To UNSUBSCRIBE, email to

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-29 Thread Chris Bannister
On Sat, Sep 29, 2007 at 10:25:10AM -0500, Manoj Srivastava wrote: On Sat, 29 Sep 2007 10:30:29 -0400, Chris Bannister [EMAIL PROTECTED] said: Apparently policy does not list requirements but best practices. IOW policy is not (supposed to be(?)) used to enforce behaviour. No,

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-28 Thread Hugo Vanwoerkom
Mike McCarty [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote in message news:[EMAIL PROTECTED] I have some feedback about my GF who uses Debian at my suggestion. I have no irons in the fire on this one, as I don't use Debian, though I do administer her machine for her. So, please don't take this as a complaint from

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-28 Thread Kent West
Hugo Vanwoerkom wrote: ... (what' s a GF?) ... Girl-Friend. (I used to understand the concept of girlfriends better before Debian came along ) -- Kent -- To UNSUBSCRIBE, email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] with a subject of unsubscribe. Trouble? Contact [EMAIL PROTECTED]

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-28 Thread Mike McCarty
Kent West wrote: Hugo Vanwoerkom wrote: ... (what' s a GF?) ... Girl-Friend. (I used to understand the concept of girlfriends better before Debian came along ) The concept is not hazy, but the practice is. I don't understand THEM much at all. But, as I advised my son, I don't try too

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-28 Thread Preston Boyington
Kent West wrote: Girl-Friend. (I used to understand the concept of girlfriends better before Debian came along ) ...that lives in another town and can't come to dance (prom, graduation, party) because she always seems to get sick or help her parents. :D -- To UNSUBSCRIBE, email to

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-28 Thread David Brodbeck
On Sep 28, 2007, at 11:22 AM, Mike McCarty wrote: Kent West wrote: Hugo Vanwoerkom wrote: ... (what' s a GF?) ... Girl-Friend. (I used to understand the concept of girlfriends better before Debian came along ) The concept is not hazy, but the practice is. I don't understand THEM much

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-28 Thread steef
David Brodbeck wrote: On Sep 28, 2007, at 11:22 AM, Mike McCarty wrote: Kent West wrote: Hugo Vanwoerkom wrote: ... (what' s a GF?) ... Girl-Friend. (I used to understand the concept of girlfriends better before Debian came along ) The concept is not hazy, but the practice is. I

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-28 Thread Ron Johnson
-BEGIN PGP SIGNED MESSAGE- Hash: SHA1 On 09/28/07 16:31, steef wrote: David Brodbeck wrote: On Sep 28, 2007, at 11:22 AM, Mike McCarty wrote: Kent West wrote: Hugo Vanwoerkom wrote: ... (what' s a GF?) ... Girl-Friend. (I used to understand the concept of girlfriends better

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-27 Thread Douglas A. Tutty
On Wed, Sep 26, 2007 at 08:18:32PM -0700, Andrew Sackville-West wrote: On Thu, Sep 27, 2007 at 03:50:47AM +0200, s. keeling wrote: s/Jones/West/g You gotta change your name to Steve. Steve Sackville-Jones?? No, Andrew Steve Andrew Stevenson Steve Andrews Ann Drew :)) Doug. --

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-27 Thread Michelle Konzack
Am 2007-09-25 10:11:36, schrieb Mike Bird: On Tuesday 25 September 2007 09:55, Mike McCarty wrote: (big snip) Anyway, that's it, FWIW. Long message wth no specifics. No way to help you. --Mike Bird - END OF REPLIED MESSAGE - ACK! -- No

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-27 Thread Michelle Konzack
Am 2007-09-25 12:36:11, schrieb Mike McCarty: I wasn't asking for help. I'm telling you that due to perceived lack of help, a user is leaving (or at least it seems to me that she will). You have not ask for helb but wining At the time the problems were first reported, details were provided.

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-27 Thread Michelle Konzack
Am 2007-09-25 14:21:35, schrieb Hal Vaughan: That's an interesting point: We hear a description of someone that basically wants, for free, everything people pay hundreds of dollars for. Sometimes it's easy to forget that open source software companies often give away the software but make

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-27 Thread Michelle Konzack
Am 2007-09-25 20:33:33, schrieb Martin Marcher: Hello, I'm interested in the job offer you posted on [EMAIL PROTECTED] I have several years of experience in Desktop and Server systems with debian and other linux distributions. I charge by the hour, every started hour is normally EUR 50.

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-26 Thread Nate Bargmann
* s. keeling [EMAIL PROTECTED] [2007 Sep 26 04:27 -0500]: Mike McCarty [EMAIL PROTECTED]: Mike Bird wrote: On Tuesday 25 September 2007 12:45, Mike McCarty wrote: I'm not trying to be mean, either. I'm reporting a single event. We're all volunteers here. You too. If you find

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-26 Thread Mike McCarty
Nate Bargmann wrote: Plenty of stuff, lots of replies and multipost threads. Can't see any bug reports. Guess it's off to the BTS to search there. Drat. How 'bout that? Search of the BTS for submitter reports no reports found. Huh? What address did you submit them from? H, methinks

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-26 Thread Andrew Sackville-West
On Wed, Sep 26, 2007 at 06:39:37AM -0500, Nate Bargmann wrote: Yup. And I for one appreciate our Debian Volunteer Overlords. ;-) In soviet russia, debian volunteers you! A signature.asc Description: Digital signature

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-26 Thread s. keeling
Nate Bargmann [EMAIL PROTECTED]: * s. keeling [EMAIL PROTECTED] [2007 Sep 26 04:27 -0500]: Btw, THIS IS ALL VOLUNTEER WORK HERE. fyi. Yup. And I for one appreciate our Debian Volunteer Overlords. ;-) Ah geez. You made me laugh. I even considered typing LOL ... Crap! -- Any

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-26 Thread s. keeling
Mike McCarty [EMAIL PROTECTED]: Nate Bargmann wrote: keeling: Plenty of stuff, lots of replies and multipost threads. Can't see any bug reports. Guess it's off to the BTS to search there. Drat. How 'bout that? Search of the BTS for submitter reports no reports found. Huh? What

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-26 Thread s. keeling
Mike McCarty [EMAIL PROTECTED]: Roger B.A. Klorese wrote: a lot of time working on non-goals; the question at hand is whether adoption by the level of user in question is or is not a goal. I'm satisfied to leave that up to the individual. It's none of my business. Caveat emptor

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-26 Thread s. keeling
s/Jones/West/g You gotta change your name to Steve. -- Any technology distinguishable from magic is insufficiently advanced. (*)http://blinkynet.net/comp/uip5.html Linux Counter #80292 - -http://www.faqs.org/rfcs/rfc1855.htmlPlease, don't Cc: me. -- To UNSUBSCRIBE, email to

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-26 Thread Andrew Sackville-West
On Thu, Sep 27, 2007 at 03:50:47AM +0200, s. keeling wrote: s/Jones/West/g You gotta change your name to Steve. Steve Sackville-Jones?? A signature.asc Description: Digital signature

Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Mike McCarty
I have some feedback about my GF who uses Debian at my suggestion. I have no irons in the fire on this one, as I don't use Debian, though I do administer her machine for her. So, please don't take this as a complaint from me, as it isn't. I'm simply informing the Debian forum of a situation.

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Mike Bird
On Tuesday 25 September 2007 09:55, Mike McCarty wrote: (big snip) Anyway, that's it, FWIW. Long message wth no specifics. No way to help you. --Mike Bird -- To UNSUBSCRIBE, email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] with a subject of unsubscribe. Trouble? Contact [EMAIL PROTECTED]

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Mike McCarty
Mike Bird wrote: On Tuesday 25 September 2007 09:55, Mike McCarty wrote: (big snip) Anyway, that's it, FWIW. Long message wth no specifics. No way to help you. I wasn't asking for help. I'm telling you that due to perceived lack of help, a user is leaving (or at least it seems to me that

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Mark Phillips
On Tue, 2007-09-25 at 12:36 -0500, Mike McCarty wrote: Mike Bird wrote: On Tuesday 25 September 2007 09:55, Mike McCarty wrote: (big snip) Anyway, that's it, FWIW. Long message wth no specifics. No way to help you. I wasn't asking for help. I'm telling you that due to perceived

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Hal Vaughan
On Tuesday 25 September 2007, Mike McCarty wrote: Mike Bird wrote: On Tuesday 25 September 2007 09:55, Mike McCarty wrote: (big snip) Anyway, that's it, FWIW. Long message wth no specifics. No way to help you. I wasn't asking for help. I'm telling you that due to perceived lack of

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Joe
Mike McCarty wrote: I provide this only to let you know that it looks like Debian is going to lose a user to Windows shortly, due to perceived lack of concern over user's difficulties shown by those who do support for Debian. I have gently nudged her in the direction of sticking with it a

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Andrew Sackville-West
On Tue, Sep 25, 2007 at 12:36:11PM -0500, Mike McCarty wrote: Mike Bird wrote: On Tuesday 25 September 2007 09:55, Mike McCarty wrote: (big snip) Anyway, that's it, FWIW. Long message wth no specifics. No way to help you. I wasn't asking for help. I'm telling you that due to perceived

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Hal Vaughan
On Tuesday 25 September 2007, Joe wrote: Mike McCarty wrote: I provide this only to let you know that it looks like Debian is going to lose a user to Windows shortly, due to perceived lack of concern over user's difficulties shown by those who do support for Debian. I have gently nudged

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread John Hasler
Mark Phillips writes: If you want a telephone number, and (almost) instant gratification, then your GF should use Windows. No, she should contract for paid support for Debian. It is available. -- John Hasler -- To UNSUBSCRIBE, email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] with a subject of unsubscribe.

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Martin Marcher
Hello, I'm interested in the job offer you posted on [EMAIL PROTECTED] I have several years of experience in Desktop and Server systems with debian and other linux distributions. I charge by the hour, every started hour is normally EUR 50. Contact me privately if you are interested. I also do

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Larry Irwin
On: Tuesday, September 25, 2007 2:21 PM Hal Said: There are always those who want everything and won't be happy no matter what they get. Oddly enough, I find a lot of people complain more about something they get for free than something they pay for. I've only had one item I've ever identified

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Steve Lamb
Mike McCarty wrote: I provide this only to let you know that it looks like Debian is going to lose a user to Windows shortly, due to perceived lack of concern over user's difficulties shown by those who do support for Debian. The real problem here is that Linux is losing a user to

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Ron Johnson
-BEGIN PGP SIGNED MESSAGE- Hash: SHA1 On 09/25/07 11:55, Mike McCarty wrote: I have some feedback about my GF who uses Debian at my suggestion. I have no irons in the fire on this one, as I don't use Debian, though I do administer her machine for her. So, please don't take this as a

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Mike McCarty
Mark Phillips wrote: Mike, you have to realize that support is provided by volunteers who have lives (families, children, jobs, little league, etc.) outside of supporting the software. There is no guarentee of any support when you install Debian. But it is there. You have to learn how to ask,

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Mike McCarty
Hal Vaughan wrote: [...] On the other hand, I did not see a statement in your original letter that said she (or you) actually asked for help on a mailing list or similar forum. Every problem she's had has been reported here with details as well. just before this one, I seriously doubt

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Mike Bird
On Tuesday 25 September 2007 12:45, Mike McCarty wrote: I'm not trying to be mean, either. I'm reporting a single event. We're all volunteers here. You too. If you find time I guess some of us would appreciate your posting links to the previous problems you discussed. And if you don't find

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Mike McCarty
Martin Marcher wrote: Why is it that simple statments, preceded by disclaimers indicating that they are not complaints, get treated as complaints? Hello, I'm interested in the job offer you posted on [EMAIL PROTECTED] I have several years of experience in Desktop and Server systems with

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Mike McCarty
Mike Bird wrote: On Tuesday 25 September 2007 12:45, Mike McCarty wrote: I'm not trying to be mean, either. I'm reporting a single event. We're all volunteers here. You too. If you find time I guess some of us would appreciate your posting links to the previous problems you discussed. And

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Hal Vaughan
On Tuesday 25 September 2007, Mike McCarty wrote: Mike Bird wrote: On Tuesday 25 September 2007 12:45, Mike McCarty wrote: I'm not trying to be mean, either. I'm reporting a single event. We're all volunteers here. You too. If you find time I guess some of us would appreciate your

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread John Hasler
Mike writes: I provide this information only as an indicator of where there might be an opportunity to win more Windows users and lose fewer. I don't see that you provided any useful information. -- John Hasler -- To UNSUBSCRIBE, email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] with a subject of unsubscribe.

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Kent West
Mike McCarty wrote: So, please don't take this as a complaint from me, as it isn't. I'm simply informing the Debian forum of a situation. Wow. Mike takes the time to offer a common courtesy of informing the Debian community of how it's being perceived by Jane Average Girlfriend, and the

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Mike McCarty
John Hasler wrote: I tried to reply off-list, but the email bounced. Mike writes: I provide this information only as an indicator of where there might be an opportunity to win more Windows users and lose fewer. I don't see that you provided any useful information. Then it wasn't directed

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Roger B.A. Klorese
Kent West wrote: Like he said, he's not complaining, or asking for help, or asking for information; he's just saying that we have room for improvement. Well, yes, but it remains to be seen whether everyone considers this room for improvement. A lot of projects and products spend a lot of

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Miles Bader
Kent West [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Wow. Mike takes the time to offer a common courtesy of informing the Debian community of how it's being perceived by Jane Average Girlfriend, and the community jumps all over him about various aspects. Why was it courteous? Despite the polite tone, it

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Charlie
On Wed, 26 Sep 2007, Mike McCarty shared this with us all: --} Anyway, that's it, FWIW. --} As interesting as this appears Mike, it again shows the main difference between operating systems that supply everything a user requires, and one that supplies everything, but the user has to be willing

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread John Hasler
Mike writes: There are those here who have expressed a desire for Linux to be a viable alternative to Windows for more users. It was directed at those people. You told us that some unnamed person had unidentified problems which they reported in some unknown way with reportedly unsatisfactory

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Mike McCarty
John Hasler wrote: Mike writes: There are those here who have expressed a desire for Linux to be a viable alternative to Windows for more users. It was directed at those people. You told us that some unnamed person had unidentified problems which they reported in some unknown way with

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread John Hasler
Mike writes: Once again, mail to you has bounced. ?? If you read here regularly, then you would have seen the reports, I most likely did. So what? How am I to know which of the innumerable reports posted here you refer to? My only point was this: She's leaving Debian because she perceives

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread s. keeling
Mike McCarty [EMAIL PROTECTED]: Mark Phillips wrote: Mike, you have to realize that support is provided by volunteers who have lives (families, children, jobs, little league, etc.) outside of supporting the software. There is no guarentee of any support when you install Debian. But it

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Mike McCarty
s. keeling wrote: [snip] fwiw, I've found a really good place to ask difficult questions is in debian-mentors. Thanks for the pointer. If I can convince her not to wipe Debian from the disc, I think I'll subscribe there as well. I don't have much hopes on that point, however. Mike --

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread s. keeling
Mike McCarty [EMAIL PROTECTED]: Mike Bird wrote: On Tuesday 25 September 2007 12:45, Mike McCarty wrote: I'm not trying to be mean, either. I'm reporting a single event. We're all volunteers here. You too. If you find time I guess some of us would appreciate your posting links to

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread s. keeling
Mike McCarty [EMAIL PROTECTED]: Martin Marcher wrote: Why is it that simple statments, preceded by disclaimers indicating that they are not complaints, get treated as complaints? Hello, I'm interested in the job offer you posted on Sarcasm is unbecoming, especially since I

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread cothrige
Mike McCarty [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: John Hasler wrote: I don't see that you provided any useful information. Then it wasn't directed at you. There are those here who have expressed a desire for Linux to be a viable alternative to Windows for more users. It was directed at those

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread s. keeling
Roger B.A. Klorese [EMAIL PROTECTED]: Kent West wrote: Like he said, he's not complaining, or asking for help, or asking for information; he's just saying that we have room for improvement. Well, yes, but it remains to be seen whether everyone considers this room for improvement. A

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Mike McCarty
cothrige wrote: After walking in from a day of my kids' soccer matches I noticed this thread and feel I really must post a comment. I may be very late to It seems like just one of those things, doesn't it :-) [snip] which posts or questions were those being talked about here. Really,

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Mike McCarty
Roger B.A. Klorese wrote: Well, yes, but it remains to be seen whether everyone considers this room for improvement. A lot of projects and products spend a lot of time working on non-goals; the question at hand is whether adoption by the level of user in question is or is not a goal. I'm

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Kevin Mark
On Tue, Sep 25, 2007 at 11:55:26AM -0500, Mike McCarty wrote: I have some feedback about my GF who uses Debian at my suggestion. I have no irons in the fire on this one, as I don't use Debian, though I do administer her machine for her. So, please don't take this as a complaint from me, as it

Re: Debian may lose a user

2007-09-25 Thread Kevin Mark
On Tue, Sep 25, 2007 at 09:17:05PM -0500, cothrige wrote: Mike McCarty [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: snip I believe that is what the poster above was saying, and most likely you understood him as being defensive or confrontational. I really don't think the people here are trying to be in any