[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread raunchydog
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > I found this video quite instructive about BPD, possibly explaining some > things we observe here. > > Please don't see this as an attempt to denigrate anybody, this is not my > intention. I just want to share a source of backgrou

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "raunchydog" wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > I found this video quite instructive about BPD, possibly explaining some > > things we observe here. > > > > Please don't see this as an attempt to denigrate a

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread Robin Carlsen
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > I found this video quite instructive about BPD, possibly explaining some > things we observe here. > > Please don't see this as an attempt to denigrate anybody, this is not my > intention. I just want to share a source of backgrou

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread khazana108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Robin Carlsen" wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > I found this video quite instructive about BPD, possibly explaining some > > things we observe here. > > > > Please don't see this as an attempt to denigrat

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Robin Carlsen" wrote: > > One thing we know, khazana: psychology and psychiatry have > > penetrated the mystique of mental illness. Two thousand years > > ago, God (as Jesus) seemed to indicate it

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread khazana108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Robin Carlsen" wrote: > > > > One thing we know, khazana: psychology and psychiatry have > > > penetrated the mystique of menta

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Robin Carlsen" > > > wrote: > > > > > > One thing we know,

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread khazana108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yah

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread Robin Carlsen
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Robin Carlsen" > > > wrote: > > > > > > One thing we

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread raunchydog
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Robin Carlsen" > > > wrote: > > > > > > One thing we

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread khazana108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Robin Carlsen" wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > > > > > --- In

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yaho

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread khazana108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "raunchydog" wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > > > > > --- In Fa

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Robin Carlsen" wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Starbucks invitation still stands. > > > > > > > > > > Look, I wouldn't mind if it was close by. But I think that > > > > > you should have understanding

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "raunchydog" wrote: > > Robin offered a friendly invitation to prove he is a normal > > human being. > > To whom? To anyone who is interested, obviously. > Obviously I am not in question. I am

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread khazana108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Robin Carlsen" wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > Starbucks invitation still stands. > > > > > > > > > > > > Look, I wouldn't mind

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread raunchydog
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "raunchydog" wrote: > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > > > > >

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread khazana108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "raunchydog" wrote: > > > > Robin offered a friendly invitation to prove he is a normal > > > human being. > > > > To whom? >

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread khazana108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "raunchydog" wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "raunchydog" wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > > >

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread Robin Carlsen
Dear Khazana, It is not possible for you to understand any of this. You have your fixed point of view--and you don't even know how all this (my past, me, what has happened) can been seen in a different way. You are not capable of a form of sophistication and complexity of apprehension that woul

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread raunchydog
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "raunchydog" wrote: > > > > > > Robin offered a frien

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread raunchydog
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "raunchydog" wrote: > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "raunchydog" wrote: > > > > > >

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > Howell, "Brahmi," and Lord Knows have claimed he has not > > changed. Why would Robin "own up" to what they claim if > > he believes he *has* changed? Why would he accept wh

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread Robin Carlsen
Dear Khazana, It may seem impossibly predictable that I would say this, but authfriend and raunchy and Ann (to name three persons: there are others), THEY DO UNDERSTAND ME, KHAZANA. Of course that is very convenient for me to say this, because they have a positive and merciful view of me. But w

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread khazana108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Robin Carlsen" wrote: > > Dear Khazana, > > It is not possible for you to understand any of this. You have your fixed > point of view--and you don't even know how all this (my past, me, what has > happened) can been seen in a different way. You are not c

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread Robin Carlsen
No, Khazana, the Starbucks invitation stands. Robin --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Robin Carlsen" wrote: > > > > Dear Khazana, > > > > It is not possible for you to understand any of this. You have your fixed > > point

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread khazana108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "raunchydog" wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > > > > > --- In F

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread khazana108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > Do you even know what "offer" means? Yup sure, Lady, like in Special Offer, Sell out in the Supermarket, right? > It's something that is > *made available* that you can take advantage of or not as > you choose. Or even sometimes bein

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > Look, Raunchy, you and Judy, you two are actually with your > constant twisting and reinterpreting what a person has said, > messing it all up. No, we are UNtwisting the tangled mess you've made of this. > I mean, do you want to help Rob

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread khazana108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > Cite some of that "black and white logic," please. Yep, Misses. What about: You either hate Robin or you love him. If you don't agree with his version of truth you must hate him. If you feel manipulated by him, it is because you ar

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread raunchydog
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" > wrote: > > > Do you even know what "offer" means? > > Yup sure, Lady, like in Special Offer, Sell out in the Supermarket, > right? > Give it up, khazana. Did you actually read

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread awoelflebater
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Robin Carlsen" > > > wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > >

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > What's the point in trying to 'prove' anything at all, > > > especially to people who were harmed once? Do

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > > Cite some of that "black and white logic," please. > > Yep, Misses. What about: Finish the job, khazana. Cite examples of either raunchy or I making any of these assertio

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread khazana108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > Regardless, it is UNACCEPTABLE and INEXCUSABLE and totally > INAPPROPRIATE to even *speculate* about a DSM-IV diagnosis > in a person who is present to hear the speculation. It's > just completely out of line and is NEVER motivated b

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "raunchydog" wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" > > wrote: > > > > > Do you even know what "offer" means? > > > > Yup sure, Lady, like in Special Offer, Sell out in

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread laughinggull108
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > Where's the compassion you spoke of? Diagnosing Robin with BPD is a > heaping pile of inappropriateness on your part, IMO. > > I didn't even mention Robin when posting t

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > > Regardless, it is UNACCEPTABLE and INEXCUSABLE and totally > > INAPPROPRIATE to even *speculate* about a DSM-IV diagnosis > > in a person who is present to hear the specul

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread raunchydog
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, khazana108 wrote: > > > > > > > > --- In

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread seventhray1
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > Yes, that's black and white thinking. That abusing children > or animals is wrong is another example. Swindling elderly > widows out of their pensions is another. A guru sleeping with > his followers is another. Dumping untreated sewage

[FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread seventhray1
Goddamnit Ravi. Stop being nice. But really, I appreciate your comments. I empathize with what you have gone through. I think you have been courageous to post all that you have posted online. I would extend my hand in assistance in any way I could. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread Ravi Chivukula
Khazana baby what is this madness, in a quest to get back at Judy and Robin you don't even mind enabling the tactics of someone with psychological issues like Barry. I disagree with Robin - from my perspective there are two people who have psychological issues based on their posts here - Barry and

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Back From the Edge

2012-12-08 Thread Ravi Chivukula
On Sat, Dec 8, 2012 at 7:57 PM, seventhray1 wrote: > ** > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > Yes, that's black and white thinking. That abusing children > > or animals is wrong is another example. Swindling elderly > > widows out of their pensions is another. A gu