[FairfieldLife] Re: The #1 Symptom of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

2013-06-30 Thread Richard J. Williams
> > > Barry, you need either to spruce up your game > > > considerably, or learn to lose gracefully. > > > > > So all of this is about "winning" and "losing" > > in your opinion? > > authfriend: > Well, for you it's about losing, yes. > Yeah, you loser, brother-puncher! LoL! > When you don't >

[FairfieldLife] Re: The #1 Symptom of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

2013-06-30 Thread Richard J. Williams
> > Why he didn't say, right from the start, "yes I have > > struck my students, and here's the context" > > authfriend: > Two reasons. One, he was accused of striking his students > in a very specific context in which he believed he had not > done so; and two--well, you'll need to read

[FairfieldLife] Re: The #1 Symptom of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

2013-06-29 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > > > Barry, you need either to spruce up your game > > considerably, or learn to lose gracefully. > > So all of this is about "winning" and "losing" > in your opinion? Well,

[FairfieldLife] Re: The #1 Symptom of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

2013-06-29 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > Barry, you need either to spruce up your game > considerably, or learn to lose gracefully. So all of this is about "winning" and "losing" in your opinion? And *that* is why you're so upset and why you've used up half of your allotted

[FairfieldLife] Re: The #1 Symptom of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

2013-06-29 Thread authfriend
Barry, you need either to spruce up your game considerably, or learn to lose gracefully. You are *always* going to lose if you don't tell your story, whatever it may be, straightforwardly, because lying and distortion signal to everyone that you have no confidence in the case you're trying to make

[FairfieldLife] Re: The #1 Symptom of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

2013-06-29 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: (snip) > > You can read them in full context in the repost I just > > made of Robin's Open Letter. > > In other words, "Go back and read what I wrote before, > Dummy." Er, no, B

[FairfieldLife] Re: The #1 Symptom of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

2013-06-29 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27" wrote: > > Why he didn't say, right from the start, "yes I have > struck my students, and here's the context" > > Wouldn't that have made a lot more sense, than issuing > a blanket denial? Why didn't Judy say, right from the start, "

[FairfieldLife] Re: The #1 Symptom of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

2013-06-29 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27" wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > > > > He didn't lie. As he said: > > > > > > "I did not deny something I knew was true. I denied > > >

[FairfieldLife] Re: The #1 Symptom of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

2013-06-29 Thread seventhray27
Thanks. (-: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba wrote: > > > Good to hear, Steve. > I like you, your posts. I was only trying to annoyingly put attention on something that has way too much attention. > If I was to post a bunch of crap that happened around my life on here, it would be

[FairfieldLife] Re: The #1 Symptom of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

2013-06-29 Thread obbajeeba
Good to hear, Steve. I like you, your posts. I was only trying to annoyingly put attention on something that has way too much attention. If I was to post a bunch of crap that happened around my life on here, it would become the same. Controversial, entertaining, fun, stupid and eventually anno

[FairfieldLife] Re: The #1 Symptom of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

2013-06-29 Thread seventhray27
Good news. I've got a better understanding of the situation and am ready to move on. I'm sorry if the process didn't move along at your prescribed time table. Perhaps I can do better next time. P.S. If you ever come to St. Louis, I recommend you try the toasted raviolis. We seem to be the onl

[FairfieldLife] Re: The #1 Symptom of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

2013-06-29 Thread obbajeeba
Ahh, nothing like a little animation to the alleged story, here, boys and girls. Let's go deeper into the rabbit hole http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BDxgvMHCDXA Stop, Steve! This whole thing is looking ridicules to us all and as you say, I am not Shakespeare, (Don't have a dick, like you say t

[FairfieldLife] Re: The #1 Symptom of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

2013-06-29 Thread authfriend
He did have his reasons, and he explains them in his letter. It's good of you to have read the letter and to respect his reasons; I can't imagine he'd ask any more of you than that. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27" wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend

[FairfieldLife] Re: The #1 Symptom of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

2013-06-29 Thread seventhray27
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27" steve.sundur@ wrote: > > > > Why he didn't say, right from the start, "yes I have struck > > my students, and here's the context" > > Two reasons. One, he was accused of stri

[FairfieldLife] Re: The #1 Symptom of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

2013-06-29 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27" wrote: > > Why he didn't say, right from the start, "yes I have struck > my students, and here's the context" Two reasons. One, he was accused of striking his students in a very specific context in which he believed he had not done so;

[FairfieldLife] Re: The #1 Symptom of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

2013-06-29 Thread seventhray27
Why he didn't say, right from the start, "yes I have struck my students, and here's the context" Wouldn't that have made a lot more sense, than issuing a blanket denial? As I've said, and others as well, it's not about the hitting, it's about the cover up, or the "appearance" of lying.

[FairfieldLife] Re: The #1 Symptom of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

2013-06-29 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27" wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > > He didn't lie. As he said: > > > > "I did not deny something I knew was true. I denied > > what I was accused of." > > Hey Judy, can you flesh this out a little. Prov

[FairfieldLife] Re: The #1 Symptom of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

2013-06-29 Thread seventhray27
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > He didn't lie. As he said: > > "I did not deny something I knew was true. I denied > what I was accused of." Hey Judy, can you flesh this out a little. Provide some examples where this would be a meaningful distinction?

[FairfieldLife] Re: The #1 Symptom of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

2013-06-29 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb wrote: > > One of my good friends in Santa Fe was a psychiatrist who had, over the > course of his career, treated many individuals suffering from > Naricissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). When I met him, he had already > given up on psychiatric t

[FairfieldLife] Re: The #1 Symptom of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

2013-06-29 Thread raunchydog
http://youtu.be/EI4mutjhwJI --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb wrote: > > One of my good friends in Santa Fe was a psychiatrist who had, over the > course of his career, treated many individuals suffering from > Naricissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). When I met him, he had alread