Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-25 Thread Marylyn
with their fellow man. St. Francis - Original Message - From: Kelley Saveika To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Sunday, March 25, 2007 9:58 AM Subject: Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long. I don't

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-25 Thread TenHouseCats
don't forget, too, that too many people buy the cats are neat and tidy public-relations campaign line.. they may be neat and tidy in their own personal hygiene, but can wreak total havoc on the human's surroundings. as most of us have learned to our chagrin and amazement. (who knew a cat

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-25 Thread Kelley Saveika
Thanks, but I'm trying to get away from home visits altogether, although I generally end up doing one informally anyway - I took Sapphire over to his new mom's house for a trial visit to make sure he didn't freak out around the kid or the (cat-friendly) dogs. I'm practicing, as well as I can

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-25 Thread [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Humm.. well, that's one option. Good luck (I will pray for your cats). I'm sure you will have much higher adoption numbers than I do. Phaewryn http://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.html Special Needs Cat Resources

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-25 Thread Kelley Saveika
No need to pray for them, they assure me they are much happier this way than they would be being killed. You know I always liked this list because it was a place to share freely without being attacked.I value that and I'd hope it would continue. On 3/25/07, [EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-25 Thread Beth Noren
Hi Kelley, I was surprised at how forgiving and positive you sounded when this adoption didn't work out. I just read your link to the Boulder Humane Society's open adoption program and now I understand. What a great approach! I know of many pet-worthy people in our area who have really been

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-23 Thread [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Now that I have read more of the topics... Whitey did this his first week here... when I had him quarantined in the bathroom. As soon as he was able to come into our room at night, he was happy. Of course, since then, we've discovered he's a toe attacker, so he's now been booted out at night... it

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-23 Thread TenHouseCats
yeah, that's me--keen powers of the obvious seriously tho, i've always suspected that crying behavior in a new environment is sort of like a sonar-thing, too the cat is trying to locate themselves in time and space, and listening to hear where he is by how his own voice bounces back

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-23 Thread [EMAIL PROTECTED]
I must somehow record Tigger at bath time, you've never heard a noise like he makes, LOL! Sonar indeed! Personally, I think it's kitty voo-doo, he's casting some terrible spell that will render me harmless and save him from the terrors of the sink! Phaewryn http://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.html

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-23 Thread TenHouseCats
well, it hasn't worked yet, so he'll need to try a lot harder! fleaing On 3/23/07, [EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I must somehow record Tigger at bath time, you've never heard a noise like he makes, LOL! Sonar indeed! Personally, I think it's kitty voo-doo, he's casting

OT - Help cat crying at night

2007-03-19 Thread lomaxturtle
Unfortunately your crowded little house probably made him feel more secure. He will have been aware of the other cats and could even be crying to try and communicate with the other cats and be distressed because they are not there. He is obviously distressed and I feel like everyone else needs

Re: OT - Help cat crying at night

2007-03-19 Thread Kelley Saveika
You know I agree with you and I wish all adopters would go to the sometimes great lengths that some of us do for our furbabies. The problem is that whether or not we think it has not been long enough, SHE feels it has been long enough. I think if he weren't so affectionate and sweet during the

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-19 Thread tamara stickler
He's suffering from separation anxiety. Even tho his person is there...when she sleeps...she leaves him. Its not uncommon for animals who have suffered a tramatic event (house burgler...fireabandonment) to go through this..(sometimes just moving from one home to another can do it).

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-19 Thread Kelley Saveika
She is going to buy Feliway. I also found a local source of Rescue Remedy. She is not willing to medicate him. I guess I can understand that (well, not really, I have all kinds of cats on all kinds of meds) but it isn't a physical problem, and I guess some people do not believe in medicating

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-19 Thread Kelley Saveika
She has not called me back. I have no idea what that means. Maybe he is fine now. Maybe it was so bad she had to call in sick to work and she'll be on my doorstep when I get home. On 3/19/07, Kelley Saveika [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: She is going to buy Feliway. I also found a local source

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-19 Thread Kelley Saveika
I finally called her back again. She says he did better last night. She is going to give him until the end of the week and see how he does. On 3/19/07, Kelley Saveika [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: She has not called me back. I have no idea what that means. Maybe he is fine now. Maybe it was

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-19 Thread Kelley Saveika
I think she is likely to give him the time she needs as long as she can sleep at least a little. And I am grumpy as heck when I get no sleep. I stayed with some friends of mine years and years and years ago who had a newborn. I think that is when I decided I didn't want children. Oh my LORD

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-19 Thread TenHouseCats
if she has to, for her own health and safety, she can always get earplugs and shut him out of her room til he gets the message. not the best option, perhaps, but sleep-deprivation isn't a good way to begin a relationship, either. On 3/19/07, Kelley Saveika [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-19 Thread Pam Norman
I would still want her to leave a light on somewhere near her bedroom. Bathroom maybe, or even another bedroom. Pam TenHouseCats wrote: if she has to, for her own health and safety, she can always get earplugs and shut him out of her room til he gets the message. not the best option,

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-18 Thread Marylyn
will deal likewise with their fellow man. St. Francis - Original Message - From: Kelley Saveika To: felvtalk Sent: Sunday, March 18, 2007 1:14 PM Subject: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long. Hi all, I adopted

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-18 Thread Nina
Kelley, Just by your brief explanation it sounds like this guy is confused and scared. Since he's affectionate during the day, and you hinted that she's not giving him attention at night, I'm guessing he's calling out for reassurance. Do you remember me telling the list about Sophie

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-18 Thread Kelley Saveika
@felineleukemia.org *Sent:* Sunday, March 18, 2007 1:14 PM *Subject:* OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long. Hi all, I adopted out a cat on Thursday night. The adopter called me today and said he has been crying all night every night and she hasn't been able to sleep at all. He is fine during

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-18 Thread Kelley Saveika
Nina, he can sleep whereever he wants. She says he gets in bed with her for 20-30 minutes, then gets tired of that and gets out of bed and starts pacing and crying and does that until 5 am.. It almost broke my heart. She says she can't live without sleep forever, and I see her point. He

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-18 Thread TenHouseCats
i, of course, say he's lovely after leaving kelley's menagerie there's no one to PLAY with in the middle of the night at his new house, so of course he wants to wake mommy up! On 3/18/07, Kelley Saveika [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Nina, he can sleep whereever he wants. She says he gets in

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-18 Thread Gloria Lane
. Francis - Original Message - From: Kelley Saveika To: felvtalk Sent: Sunday, March 18, 2007 1:14 PM Subject: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long. Hi all, I adopted out a cat on Thursday night. The adopter called me today and said he has been crying all night every night and she hasn't

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-18 Thread Kelley Saveika
She has tried catnip. She really did try a bunch of different things before calling me. I wish she had called a little sooner. He didn't seem attached to anyone in particular. Sometimes he slept with me. I haven't heard him so I am not sure. She says he is fine and a wonderful cat during

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-18 Thread wendy
Hi Kelley, Is this cat neutered? If not, could it have something to do with that? Also, does the cat have the run of the house at night? If so, maybe he needs a smaller space, like just the bedroom with the door closed and with his food and litter box in there until he feels safe, for a few

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-18 Thread Marylyn
Message - From: Kelley Saveika To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Sunday, March 18, 2007 5:11 PM Subject: Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long. Nina, he can sleep whereever he wants. She says he gets in bed with her for 20-30 minutes, then gets tired of that and gets

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-18 Thread Marylyn
, Cat crying all night long. Hi Kelley, Is this cat neutered? If not, could it have something to do with that? Also, does the cat have the run of the house at night? If so, maybe he needs a smaller space, like just the bedroom with the door closed and with his food and litter box in there until

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-18 Thread Pam Norman
Kelley, Are there any other pets in the household? Also what do they (the woman the kitty) do just before she turns out the light? Is he with her on the bed? Napping? Dozing? What happens when she turns out the light? When she turns off her light, at that point are ALL the lights in

Re: OT - HELP, Cat crying all night long.

2007-03-18 Thread Pam Norman
But does he lie in bed with her while the light is on she is still basically up? When does he start pacing relative to her turning off the light going to sleep, or trying to? Pam Kelley Saveika wrote: He lies with her in bed for about 20-30 minutes, then gets bored and starts pacing and