Re: [lace-chat] Another interesting bit on surnames

2006-08-25 Thread Steph Peters
On Thu, 24 Aug 2006 17:50:14 +0100, Jean wrote: When letters are addressed jointly, ours are to Mr and Mrs William Nathan (William being my husband's first name). I believe that strictly speaking I should be address as Mrs William Nathan - think again! That implies the old idea of a wife

[lace-chat] First names

2006-08-25 Thread Jean Nathan
After such an interesting chat on surnames, what about first names. I was taken aback when doing the weekly shop last week to hear a very young mum (about 17) calling out to her toddler of about 2 years old Britney! Britney! Didn't know whether to laugh or feel sorry for the little girl. It's

Re: [lace-chat] First names

2006-08-25 Thread Helen Ward
My brother-in-law and his wife decided when their first was on the way, that what ever names they chose, they wouldn't be able to be shortened. The first one was named Annabelle, the second Lucretia, then Kingsley, Madeline and Hayden. Not sure what happened to names that couldn't be

[lace-chat] RE: surnames

2006-08-25 Thread Margery Allcock
Nova wrote: - but they began to find it awkward for their little children to try to teach them to use the *Mr and Mrs* title when speaking to the other adults so they elected to use the first names (the children were already familiar with) - but adding Mr. or Mrs. for a sign of

Re: [lace-chat] First names

2006-08-25 Thread Malvary J Cole
From: Helen Ward wrote The first one was named Annabelle, the second Lucretia, then Kingsley, Madeline and Hayden. Not sure what happened to names that couldn't be shortened... People like to try to shorten my name, but most ask what do I get called for short. I smile and say Malvary. If

[lace-chat] first names

2006-08-25 Thread Thurlow Weed
This is certainly a very interesting thread! When my parents met, which was in Rome, Italy, the Italians didn't quite know what to do with my fathers names, Thurlow Weed. Somehow it became Carlo Guidi. Some time ago I joined the local Dutch Club (since I'm half Dutch), and joined up in as

Re: [lace-chat] Name not known

2006-08-25 Thread Lorri Ferguson
Okay Jean, What is a Trilby? This is new to me (on this side of the pond). Lorri Washington State, USA , Mr Trilby (wears one). To unsubscribe send email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] containing the line: unsubscribe lace-chat [EMAIL PROTECTED] For help, write to [EMAIL PROTECTED]

Re: [lace-chat] First names

2006-08-25 Thread Alice Howell
My parents decided to name us so that they couldn't be shortened. So Jean for me and John for my older brother. You reminded me of a young couple that didn't like shortened names, so named their son Jaz. I often wondered if he grew up being called Red or Buddie or Scooter or some such

[lace-chat] Trilby

2006-08-25 Thread Jean Nathan
A trilby is a man's hat described by Wikepedia as softer than a homberg and similar to a fedora, but with a narrower brim: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trilby Not worn by many nowadays. Jean in Poole, Dorset, UK To unsubscribe send email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] containing the line:

Re: [lace-chat] RE: surnames

2006-08-25 Thread Brenda Paternoster
On 25 Aug 2006, at 12:47, Margery Allcock wrote: I was born to Dorothy and William Burgh. My father said that, with a surname like Burgh, nobody needed a middle name for identification, so I never had one. My Mother used to be Dorothy May Smith; as a child there was another Dorothy May

Re: [lace-chat] First names

2006-08-25 Thread Brenda Paternoster
On 25 Aug 2006, at 08:30, Jean Nathan wrote: I was taken aback when doing the weekly shop last week to hear a very young mum (about 17) calling out to her toddler of about 2 years old Britney! Britney! Didn't know whether to laugh or feel sorry for the little girl. It's not unusual for

[lace-chat] Names and titles

2006-08-25 Thread Rosemary Naish
Seeing all these comments about married women being addressed by their husbands name prefixed with Mrs set off one of my pet niggles. My family background is Quaker, and I taught to address people by their given name family name and not to use titles as everyone is equal, and using titles

[lace-chat] Names Titles

2006-08-25 Thread Thurlow Weed
Rosemary's post got me thinking a bit about my upbringing. I was discussing this thread with my mother by phone this morning, and she too, despised being addressed as Mrs Thurlow Weed. She had her own name, thank you very much. Shortly after she was married, she encountered Mrs Thurlow Weed,

[lace-chat] Women's married names

2006-08-25 Thread Martha Krieg
The etiquette book I used to pore over in the 1960s specified that a married woman's letter should always be addressed to Mrs. John Doe. Only a divorced woman would become Mrs. Jane Doe; a widow would continue to use her husband's name. And that's how I still address letters to widows of my

[lace-chat] Re: Names Titles

2006-08-25 Thread Tamara P Duvall
On Aug 25, 2006, at 17:07, Thurlow Weed wrote: Rosemary's post got me thinking a bit about my upbringing. I was discussing this thread with my mother by phone this morning, and she too, despised being addressed as Mrs Thurlow Weed. She had her own name, thank you very much. Precisely

[lace-chat] Surnames, PS

2006-08-25 Thread Tamara P Duvall
In Poland, the divorced woman always reverted to her maiden surname; the widow kept her husband's. Possibly because most divorces were initiated by males, who either wanted to repudiate the wife or who wanted to remarry and didn't want to look like bigamists :) But, under no circumstances did

Re: [lace-chat] Women's married names

2006-08-25 Thread David in Ballarat
Martha, The etiquette book I used to pore over in the 1960s specified that a married woman's letter should always be addressed to Mrs. John Doe. Only a divorced woman would become Mrs. Jane Doe; a widow would continue to use her husband's name. And that's how I still address letters to widows