Re: [lace-chat] Women's married names

2006-08-26 Thread Alice Howell
Following my Father's death in 1983, my mother absolutely refused to be known as anything other than Mrs. A. Keith COLLYER - that is in written correspondence, including the phone book - During my years with the local utility service, we gave widows their choice of how they wanted the name

[lace-chat] addressing other people

2006-08-26 Thread Rosemary Naish
I should add, perhaps, that I do realise that not everyone has the same opinion as me (what a boring world it would be) so I address people as they introduce themselves to me, so if Mary Jane Smith introduced herself as Mary I'd call her Mary, if it was Mary Jane I'd call her Mary Jane, if it

Re: [lace-chat] Women's married names

2006-08-26 Thread Malvary J Cole
Alice Howell wrote During my years with the local utility service, we gave widows their choice of how they wanted the name on the account. I think it was about even in the numbers that kept the husband's name and the ones that changed the first name. That practice is ok if you knew them as

[lace-chat] RE: lace-chat-digest V2006 #68

2006-08-26 Thread Margery Allcock
Thurlow, an old-fashioned person from Lancaster, OH, wrote: Recently though, I'm finding younger people (in their 20s, I'm 40) are addressing me as Sir. And here I was, thinking that Thurlow (a name unfamiliar to me) was female! I'd maybe have guessed correctly if you'd been Mr Thurlow

Re: [lace-chat] Names Titles

2006-08-26 Thread H. Muth
Hello all, Like Mr. Weed, (or perhaps I should call him 'young Thurlow' as I am 3 years older) I too, deplore the use of first names of adults by children. However, it is sometimes difficult to insist that my children call others by their titles. We had some friends who insisted that they

RE: [lace-chat] Names Titles

2006-08-26 Thread liz thackray
I find it quite interesting how strong our feelings are about names and titles (there is an almost identical discussion going on at the moment in another group I am involved with). I am in that camp which abhors titles and has no problems with children addressing adults by their first names. I

Re: [lace-chat] Name not known

2006-08-26 Thread Jeanette Fischer
- Original Message - From: Jean Nathan [EMAIL PROTECTED] The small children at the local riding stables had difficulty remembering people's names, although they could remember the names of the horses and ponies without any trouble at all We live in a small village with mainly retired

[lace-chat] Names Titles

2006-08-26 Thread Elizabeth Ligeti
My father had 3 Christian names, and they were such a pain to write out in full on any Official form, that he insisted I only have one - to spare me that problem! One title' I hate is Ms. - However I do use it when I don't know if the person is a Miss or Mrs! But everyone knows I am a Mrs,

[lace-chat] Re: addressing other people

2006-08-26 Thread Tamara P Duvall
On Aug 26, 2006, at 7:40, Rosemary Naish wrote: I address people as they introduce themselves to me, so if Mary Jane Smith introduced herself as Mary I'd call her Mary, if it was Mary Jane I'd call her Mary Jane, if it was as Mrs Smith, then I'd call her Mrs Smith, etc. I'd never introduce

Re: [lace-chat] Names Titles

2006-08-26 Thread Helen Ward
Since I've been divorced since 1977, I don't consider myself a Mrs, nor am I a Miss. Unless I'm forced to use a 'title' I don't use one - I'm just 'Helen Ward'. If I'm forced to use one I use Ms. I don't see why in this day and age, that when men don't need to use a title, that women have to.

[lace-chat] :) Fwd: Persimmons

2006-08-26 Thread Tamara P Duvall
From: J.O. There was a church down in Texas that had a very big-busted organist.  Her breasts were so huge that they bounced and jiggled while she played the organ.  Unfortunately, she distracted the congregation considerably. The very proper church ladies were appalled.  They said