Re: A soul moves on

2005-07-17 Thread Masud Sheikh
Dear Michael, Thank you for posting this message. I never knew Colin, and visited his Web site referred to a few days ago by Chris Corrigan (I think); I learnt quite a lot from it. Yesterday, I also visited the map referred to below, and the site where messages were posted after his passing away wa

Re: Culture survey

2005-07-17 Thread Masud Sheikh
Esther, After filling, analyzing, making action plans etc. in innumerable "opinion surveys", I believe that a crucial set of questions would be around relationships & trust - starting with employees and their immediate manager, and going onto external & internal customers. A second set of questions

Re: Halifax: Advice for new international travelers

2005-07-11 Thread Masud Sheikh
Douglas D. Germann, Sr. <76066@compuserve.com> wrote: > >Medicines: My wife has a whole pharmacy in the cabinet. Will it be >necessary for her to carry the actual written prescriptions from her >doctors with the medicines? Should she carry the original pharmacy bottles, or can she safely transf

Re: London calling

2005-07-10 Thread Masud Sheikh
Raffi Aftandelian wrote: >I am not sure Paul that I would want to join your conversation with >Masud on "muslims" in Halifax (as intrigued as I am by it). I am not sure >it will go anywhere. It is unlikely that I will join such a conversation myself, Raffi. I do not look at Muslims as being diff

Re: London calling--long reply

2005-07-09 Thread Masud Sheikh
On Sat, 9 Jul 2005 14:13:27 EDT, everett...@aol.com wrote: > Studying history can be instructive. >Sincerely, >Paul Yes, I am sure it can Paul. I usually have a problem with studying history, since what gets reported depends not as much on the facts, as perceptions about the facts. The most recen

Re: London calling--long reply

2005-07-09 Thread Masud Sheikh
Dear Paul, I was deeply disappointed to see Friedman's piece, and even more disappointed to see your support of it. I am afraid that the "Clash of Civilizations" (which is perhaps more a "Clash of haves and have nots") started with 9/11 & 911 (you can have your pick of the perceptions). Bush's resp

Re: Deep sadness, Love & Peace

2005-07-07 Thread Masud Sheikh
Gabriela Ender wrote: >In the middle of this "peaceful" silence ... news about terror in London >arrived today. > >In deep sadness I am sending Love & Peace to London and warmest regards to >our colleagues in the UK. > >Warmly, >Gabriela > Ah yes, the sadness - the profound sadness. Not too long

Re: Again: The World Cafe

2005-07-04 Thread Masud Sheikh
Katharine Armstrong <4pang...@sbcglobal.net> wrote: >There's room for another change process, truly, Harrison. ;-) > >Appreciatively, >Kate I couldn't agree more. And good for you Kate, to have said "Appreciatively" rather than, for instance, "Openly" or "In freedom". I had an email exchange wit

Re: thought for the day...and more

2005-07-01 Thread Masud Sheikh
Raffi Aftandelian wrote: >If OST is in part about high play, might it be appropriate to call OST >a Large Group Intervention Toy? > >Raffi >charter member, founder >Society for Constructive Obnoxiousness > >p.s. anyone else wanna join? > As you may know Raffi, in Pakistan some people can appoint

Re: the world tribunal on iraq

2005-06-29 Thread Masud Sheikh
Dear Paul, I do not know the genesis of this tribunal, but I expect that you do know that an International Criminal Court (ICC) is already in existence. The only major country opposing it is U.S.A. If this tribunal makes any impact on changing U.S. policy towards ICC, it would have been a worthwhil

What have I learnt

2005-06-28 Thread Masud Sheikh
Some weeks ago I had promised to write more about what have I learnt from OS. I have participated in a few OS programs spread over a few hours (less than half a day). I participated in one multi-day OS program, which was part of the annual conference of SoL (Peter Senge's initiated Society for Or

Re: turkish at osworld.org web page

2005-06-22 Thread Masud Sheikh
On Tue, 21 Jun 2005 21:24:08 +0300, Funda Oral wrote: Merhaba Funda, mabruk (is mabruk the correct word here?) The three years (1989-92) I lived in Istanbul were fascinating. This was as much for the city itself as the wonderful country (both for its scenic diversity, and its people) in which you

Re: Reflections at 100--# 26

2005-06-21 Thread Masud Sheikh
On Sun, 12 Jun 2005 23:08:42 -0400, Douglas D. Germann, Sr. wrote: >Masud-- > >U, I missed the doubting Thomas version of the principle about people. >Would you kindly bring me up to date, Masud? > > :-Doug. > Who needs to be heard? >

After dinner conversations

2005-06-09 Thread Masud Sheikh
Dear all, There is something I wish to share with you: A couple of weeks ago, I invited some friends for dinner. At the end of the dinner, I suggested a topic for conversation, and to channel the conversation, used a modified process to what I had seen used for Scott Peck's "Community Building Wo

Re: Reflections at 100--# 26

2005-06-08 Thread Masud Sheikh
On Tue, 7 Jun 2005 18:11:07 -0400, Douglas D. Germann, Sr. wrote: >Thanks, Masud for this expansion of space. > >Do you see "transformation/al" as an oxymoron, too? In what way? > > :-Doug. > Who needs to be heard? I don't know if it is an

Re: FW: Buzzards, Bats, and Bumblebees

2005-06-08 Thread Masud Sheikh
On Tue, 7 Jun 2005 19:41:50 EDT, everett...@aol.com wrote: >> what do you do with completely close-minded >> individuals who won't even consider anything but sucking the energy out of other individuals for their own gain?? >> >Judy, > >Peter Block advises that we 'name the behavior' to the person,

Re: Fw: FW: Buzzards, Bats, and Bumblebees

2005-06-06 Thread Masud Sheikh
Good to hear from you Judy, When talking of animals, the parable that often comes to my mind is the one about the "boiling frog". For those who may not have heard it, here it is: When you try and put a frog into water that it is already boiling, the frog jumps out. When the frog is put into water

Re: Reflections at 100--# 26

2005-06-05 Thread Masud Sheikh
On Fri, 27 May 2005 06:31:09 -0600, Masud Sheikh wrote: >Where another sees the "whole system", I see a "holed system" >Together, we may be able see the simplicity at the other side of >complexity. >Masud > While Doug Germann was kind enough to say that the abo

The NEW Question(s)

2005-05-31 Thread Masud Sheikh
On Sun, 29 May 2005 07:27:40 -0600, Masud Sheikh: >It is a sad fact of life that one cannot treat all humans as "Thou" all of >the time. I guess it is good enough if we can treat most humans as "Thou" >some of the time. > And on May 31st, Masud added: The questio

Limerick

2005-05-30 Thread Masud Sheikh
I am sitting at my desk drinking red wine, and eating wasabi nuts (got them from Toronto Chinatown). Anyone who thinks that Pakistani cuisine (also called 'Indian", even though the original "Indians" did not eat meat. The barbecue stuff that you guys like, only came to India after the Mughals invad

Re: Only "so long" (Long)

2005-05-30 Thread Masud Sheikh
Ralph Copleman wrote: > On some level, though, I think my trip will be about a search for > community in America, this troubled, deeply divided, seductive Gargantua > of a country I love, and which has broken my heart so often of late. Ralph, Thank you for this personal and moving note. 'Breakin

Re: The Question(s)

2005-05-29 Thread Masud Sheikh
s to serve one's purpose > >Always seeking the self-serving advantage -- I would like to think that I operated within the primary definitions. :-) > >Harrison > - Original Message - > From: Masud Sheikh > To: osl...@listserv.boisestate.edu > Sent: Sunday, May

Re: The Question(s)

2005-05-29 Thread Masud Sheikh
Harrison Owen wrote: >Masud -- the word "manipulative" is a curious one. In the circles that you and I usually move in -- it is a "bad word." But if I go to a chiropractor or a therapeutic massage person -- and am not "manipulated" I should be very unhappy. I think the significant issue is not t

Re: Reflections at 100--# 27

2005-05-29 Thread Masud Sheikh
Hypothetical questions make you reflect Questions from children are mostly hypothetical * * == osl...@listserv.boisestate.edu -- To subscribe, unsubscribe, change your options, view the archives of osl...@listserv.

Re: The Question(s)

2005-05-28 Thread Masud Sheikh
Thank you Harrison, I understand and accept what you are saying - that your client is the organization, and that some people may need to move on. I am glad that you did not use the word "caring" in this note. In the example you gave, I suppose the facilitators and sponsors did not know the reasons

Re: The Question(s)

2005-05-28 Thread Masud Sheikh
Harrison Owen wrote: The ticket of admission is CARE -- Careing for The Question. And of course, those who care (enough) will be there -- which is why in my experience -- whoever comes are the right people. No ifs, ands, or buts. > This of course is making the HUGE ASSUMPTION that the host CARED

Re: Reflections at 100--# 26

2005-05-27 Thread Masud Sheikh
Where another sees the "whole system", I see a "holed system" Together, we may be able see the simplicity at the other side of complexity. Masud * * == osl...@listserv.boisestate.edu -- To subscribe, unsubscribe, c

Re: leverage points

2005-05-25 Thread Masud Sheikh
Therese Fitzpatrick wrote: >The principle "whoever comes are the right people" is, for me, the >most important principle in open space. And beyond open space, I >believe it is an essential principle for the solutions to intractable >human problems to emerge. Therese, I understand what you are sa

Re: leverage points

2005-05-24 Thread Masud Sheikh
That's OK, OH As long as you don't insist that there is only one "flavour" - and accept that doubting Thomas who went to Goa, had as much (OK, perhaps not exactly "as much", perhaps more, maybe less) value as Peter, who went to Rome. But it was wonderful, the way your words "blinding flash of the

Re: leverage points

2005-05-24 Thread Masud Sheikh
Harrison Owen wrote: >Actually, I don't think it is as much of an "assumption" as a blinding flash of the obvious. Those who came are the only ones there! And the reason they are there is that they cared enough to come. That does not make all those who didn't come bad, immoral, or terrible -- but

Re: leverage points

2005-05-24 Thread Masud Sheikh
Pat Black wrote: >I would say that the unstated assumptions of the OS network are the same as any other network that includes living beings and in this case humans and they are: >That humans are self revealing in all their actions and communications. >pat Thank you Pat, but is that all? The point

Leveraging the power of self-organizing in systems

2005-05-23 Thread Masud Sheikh
Temperamentally, I am something of a heretic (what Tom Watson Jr. of IBM used to call a "wild duck"), and often have unresolved questions on my mind. Here is the background to the questions I am going to ask now. Last year, I wrote an article (named "Journeying as a Systems Thinker) for Shambhala I

Re: theology, teachings and OST

2005-05-18 Thread Masud Sheikh
0400, Harrison Owen wrote: > One of the interesting things to me is that over the years people of a > broad range of traditions (Buddhist, Hindi, Islam (at least the Sufi > version), Judaism, Christianity, Taoism, Native American - to name a > few) have remarked on the similarities between what h

Re: Community Building (Transformative and Otherwise)

2005-05-14 Thread Masud Sheikh
Harrison, I guess I just have to meet with you, and the best way to do that seems to be to come to OSonOS in Halifax - AND it is an opportunity to meet so many of you who are planning to come, and experience the opening of space. My experience with OS (limited though it is) until now has not been i

Re: Transformative Community Building

2005-05-12 Thread Masud Sheikh
Cheryl Honey wrote: >Where can I learn more about Scott Peck's approach to "Community >Building"? >Cheryl Honey, Community Weaver Here are two Web sites, Honey: http://www.communityx-roads.com/index.html http://www.fce-community.org/index.php And please do read some of Scotty's books. The one t

Re: Open appreciatve community cafe world building inquiry space AND stories

2005-05-12 Thread Masud Sheikh
Dear Glory, Thank you for sharing this wonderful story. Is Avalon the name of your daugther, and is this story behind the name "Edge of Avalon"? With love * * == osl...@listserv.boisestate.edu -- To subscribe, unsu

Re: your thoughts on really big invitations?

2005-05-12 Thread Masud Sheikh
Michael Herman wrote: >more and more we are in this open appreciative cafe world inquiry >space. Michael & other friends: Has anyone thought of putting M. Scott Peck's "Community Building" process into the muddle in the middle? In which case, it could become: "Open appreciatve community cafe wor

Re: stammtische

2005-05-02 Thread Masud Sheikh
Ah yes, when broadband is really cheap (across geographical boundaries) and handhelds would have the power of desktops, the thing to do would be to drop in to Budapest, Paris or Berlin from my home in Oakville, which is a suburb of Toronto. And "Paris, France" reminds me of our early days in Canad

Re: What a facilitator does when she holds space

2005-04-25 Thread Masud Sheikh
On another thread, I wrote that OS evokes the following thought in me 'That it a way to peace, where we submit to the power of self- organizing'. That does not make a facilitator into God, but if humans are vice-regents of God on Earth, then the ideal facilitator tries to develop as many attribute

Re: On conflict

2005-04-25 Thread Masud Sheikh
Thank you for having taken the time and effort to write, Pat As soon as I hit SEND, I regretted having said "I don't understand women" when as you say, I was really talking about Therese. I even thought of sending a correction, but finally did not do so. And you are absolutely right about being th

To Raffi: On Conflict (mainly)

2005-04-24 Thread Masud Sheikh
WARNING: The poster of this note will use the law of two feet and walk away immediately after posting this note. (And who can quibble with laws, even if they are followed only in the letter, and not in the spirit?) Anyone feeling angry would only be in a one-sided conflict - it will feel like tilt

Re: A little help -- Please

2005-04-24 Thread Masud Sheikh
Harrison Owen wrote: >My Inbox is a rich source of adventure. This little note from a CEO for >example: "XXX Inc. has a highly skilled team of ~100 people doing great >work [SNIP] > Basically I'm looking for techniques, methods, tools, and or simple ways > to create an open environment of trust w

Re: Learning to expand our NOW

2005-04-22 Thread Masud Sheikh
think you read way too much into this as you were obviously waiting for a baited response from her. > >Just my 2 cents worth... > >Judy Spady > - Original Message - > From: Masud Sheikh > To: osl...@listserv.boisestate.edu > Sent: Friday, April 22, 2005 9:28 AM

Learning to expand our NOW

2005-04-22 Thread Masud Sheikh
Dear all, In the interest of expanding my "NOW", I request a favour/favor (being Canadian, I can use both spellings): Yesterday, I had a conflict with Therese Fitzpatrick, when I posted the following note: ">Funda, such an event would not be negative...it could be wonderful and life affirming.

Re: Learning to expand our NOW

2005-04-22 Thread Masud Sheikh
Thank you Tolga, Lisa and Therese for your responses - Thanks also to anyone else who may respond subsequently Lisa, in response to your question about my participation in OSonOS in Halifax: I am still not sure, so have not yet booked. Take care, all of you Masud * *

Re: Raffi, genocide and OST

2005-04-21 Thread Masud Sheikh
On Wed, 20 Apr 2005 12:01:01 -0700, Therese Fitzpatrick >Funda, such an event would not be negative. .. it could be wonderful >and life affirming. And it could unleash new, positive initiatives in >the world. Please forgive me for reacting, Therese. "Would not be negative." - Is that not highl

Re: access...to space

2005-04-13 Thread Masud Sheikh
john engle wrote: >or maybe those who couldn't come were: [Spaces] >and while many among these seven categories might overlap, i'm sure that >others on this list could come up with other categories of people who >don't have the luxury of "caring" for anything beyond survival in the >moment. I am

Positive Deviance

2005-04-12 Thread Masud Sheikh
Dear Lisa and other friends, I am posting some information on Dr. Akhtar Hameed Khan and Muhammad Yunus. Lisa, please feel free to write to me off list, in case you wish to continue this conversation. It may not be of general interest to the list. Dr. Akhtar Hameed Khan joined the Indian Civi

Re: FW: 1st OS in Vietnam

2005-04-12 Thread Masud Sheikh
Do we need to use "right" or "appropriate" for people? If we say "whatever happened is the only thing that could have happened" (if I remember the words correctly) why can we not also say; "Whoever came are the only people who could have come" Masud On Tue, 12 Apr 2005 09:28:45 -0700, Elwin and J

Re: boston conference

2005-04-12 Thread Masud Sheikh
Dear Lisa, This is wonderful. I was particularly struck by the comment: "It use was pioneered in developing countries and has led to sustainable improvements in seemingly intractable organizational and social issues." Two examples immediately came to mind: Mohammad Younus in Bangladesh on micro-cr

Re: What I have Learned

2005-04-04 Thread Masud Sheikh
While I shall ("Insha-Allah", with a request for forgiveness to those who may be sick of such words) write a longer note later, something I have learnt about OS is that it is a "Way to peace, by submitting to the power of self-organizing" On another thread, I noticed the conversation about "Presen

Yahoo! News Story - World Photos - Reuters

2005-03-24 Thread Masud Sheikh
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Re: On self-organizing

2005-02-15 Thread Masud Sheikh
Harrison Owen wrote: >Masud -- I know the devil made me do it -- but when I saw your words, "For >instance, do we give more respect to "non-living" weapons systems or to >living "human systems"?" -- I found myself answering, "Human Systems, of >course, at least usually -- but what happens when the

Re: On self-organizing

2005-02-15 Thread Masud Sheikh
Esther Ewing wrote: > >Masud: > I would say that what happens on TV and the behind-the-scenes > interactions people producing the shows is evidence of a system in > action. [SNIP] >So I would hesitate to categorize TV or other media as a non-living system. > Quite right Esther, The larger media sys

Re: On self-organizing

2005-02-15 Thread Masud Sheikh
Filiz Telek wrote: >Masud, > >I guess you are referring TV as non-living in the physical sense...well, >doesn't it all depend on how we define living versus non-living? :) >Maybe I am taking your comment too literally...but here are some quotes >that might be interesting... > Thank you for the quot

Re: On self-organizing

2005-02-15 Thread Masud Sheikh
Hi Ralph, Perhaps I understand what you are saying, but am not sure, so let me ask a question. Is there need to differentiate between a TV and a human? They are both systems, and I categorize TV as a 'non-living' system. Take care Masud On Mon, 14 Feb 2005 08:39:03 -0500, Ralph Copleman wrote:

Re: Turtles (short)

2005-02-14 Thread Masud Sheikh
ith increase in its Spanish speaking population - to which debate, of course there are is more than one side Masud Sheikh Harrison Owen wrote: >Masud > >I see where you are going, but would suggest that the real issue is what I >might call "degrees of freedom" -- or maybe

Re: Turtles (short)

2005-02-13 Thread Masud Sheikh
HO wrote: "Or put rather bluntly - there is no such thing as a non-self-organizing system. There are only some mildly deluded folks who think they did the organizing. Outrageous for sure, and possibly a break with reality, but that is pretty much where I found myself." I believe the statement "the

Re: Open Space & Anti-Americanism

2005-02-09 Thread Masud Sheikh
ation, the U.S. has made many mistakes. All we seek is to share our liberty. I look forward to future discussions with you. Steve Gawron - Original Message - From: "Masud Sheikh" To: Sent: Tuesday, February 08, 2005 11:57 AM Subject: FW: Open Space & Anti-Americanism &g

FW: Open Space & Anti-Americanism

2005-02-08 Thread Masud Sheikh
rting the truth of this path is the best way that they can participate in this process." He sounds like a re-incarnated founding father of America. Take care, Masud Sheikh The world will be saved by individuals of integrity freely joining together - Buckminster Fuller -Original Message- F

? on chosing a facilitator - Isr - Pal Open Space

2005-01-26 Thread Masud Sheikh
spot of the world might be good candidates. My apologies for these "helicopter-view" pronouncements. It is both a strength and a weakness in me Best wishes for the event Masud Sheikh Oakville, Ontario (Until five years ago, in Pakistan) The world will be saved by individuals of integr

An ending..and a beginning

2004-12-31 Thread Masud Sheikh
loved ones And best wishes to the community on this listserv With love and prayers Masud Sheikh There is something called learning at a rather small level of organisation. At a much higher gestalt level, learning is called evoluti

FW: Shambhala Institute program coupon

2004-12-02 Thread Masud Sheikh
Dear all, I attended the summer program of the Shambhala Institute of Authentic Leadership (Halifax, Nova Scotia) in 2003. I enjoyed and appreciated it. They have offered an additional "alumni referral" discount. I am forwarding the note about it. If someone is genuinely interested, and has addi

FW: Muddling Through

2004-11-05 Thread Masud Sheikh
A true ideologue (religious or secular) cannot be true learner. A time may come when future generations will cycle back from an excess of muddling through. Put another way, we may get to "simplicity the other side of complexity", but we are not there today. Masud Sheikh Those who elect

Re: Systems Thinking

2004-03-02 Thread Masud Sheikh
A comment on Peter Senge and Systems Thinking. Peter's initial interest in Systems Thinking started because he studied Systems Dynamics (SD) with Jay Forrester at MIT. And certainly, the emphasis in the Fifth Discipline is on SD. In his subsequent books, and certainly his articles, one sees a defin

Re: Systems Thinking

2004-03-01 Thread Masud Sheikh
e of these sites. Please feel free to respond on-list or off-list, depending on your preference, and the value our conversation might have for others. Take care Masud Sheikh -Original Message- From: OSLIST [mailto:osl...@listserv.boisestate.edu] On Behalf Of Esther . Sent: March 1, 2004 9:06

Re: spontaneous order, markets & open space

2004-02-26 Thread Masud Sheikh
s of the circle, the MUCH LARGER part has to do with the process of circle formation, i.e. who has the visibility to be invited into the circle? In terms of markets, who gets to play in the market? Masud Sheikh -Original Message- From: OSLIST [mailto:osl...@listserv.boisestate.edu] On Beha

Re: spontaneous order, markets & open space

2004-02-26 Thread Masud Sheikh
ers' in open space, what happens to the vulnerable, many of whom would stay out of the 'space'? Masud Sheikh -Original Message- From: OSLIST [mailto:osl...@listserv.boisestate.edu] On Behalf Of Michael Herman Sent: February 26, 2004 4:45 PM To: osl...@listserv.boisestate.edu S

Re: Instruments for teamwork

2004-02-18 Thread Masud Sheikh
To my way of thinking, the main value (as with so many other instruments) is the self-awareness it brings - and the opportunity to balance personal weaknesses. When I undertook the questionnaire myself for the first time, one role came out quite clearly for me. When I did this again many months lat

Re: Instruments for teamwork

2004-02-16 Thread Masud Sheikh
I have used it for forming teams in training programs. Too many 'shapers' in one team, for instance, can be disastrous. I have not used it for teams in longer running projects. I guess the people in longer projects found other means for team-building, such as spending time in the 'pub' together Ma

Re: Instruments for teamwork

2004-02-16 Thread Masud Sheikh
I have used Belbin. It was used quite regularly in IBM Europe at one time. Don't know if it is still being used, since I no longer work there. Masud Sheikh mashe...@cogeco.ca ma...@masud.ca 1-905-338-9583 Ontario, Canada -Original Message- From: OSLIST [mailt