Re: [RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-12-25 Thread Toby Whitfield
Fatherhood is pretty great, as far as I am concerned. My 3 year old daughter figured out the push bike this year. Last year she didn't want to try it - she was comfortable on her scooter, and we didn't push her. This year she was gung ho and blasting along after a couple of weeks. I find she doe

Re: [RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-12-25 Thread Bob K.
It was great re-reading this thread and seeing everyone's advice and ideas for the OP. My daughter just turned two and I gave her a Strider bike for Christmas. She immediately hopped on and started moving. That lasted about 15 seconds. She loves her trailer and will (literally) ride for hours wi

Re: [RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-12-24 Thread Jim Bronson
On Thu, Feb 11, 2016 at 9:01 AM, 'Mark in Beacon' via RBW Owners Bunch < rbw-owners-bunch@googlegroups.com> wrote: > m Circling back to this thread, what front mount bike carrier did you buy? I haven't seen one like yours in my Google searches. --

[RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-12 Thread Wayne Naha
Congratulations, new Father! Yes, your life will be different, but better. Many people will offer advice, lots of it good advice, but choose your own way. People have been raising children for a long time now, what works is not rocket science. It is a privilege to be blessed with the childre

[RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-12 Thread dstein
Congrats! Once you get over the initial 'what the hell did am I doing phase' (lasts 1-2 months) you'll want to negotiate with your spouse on weekend time to get some bike riding in, at least till they turn 4 or 5 and they start filling your calendar with activities, b-day parties, etc. My wife

Re: [RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-11 Thread Eric Daume
What Rene says is very true. My older (9 year old) son likes to point out that I like bikes, but he likes "sports." So we throw the football back and forth, and it's good. My younger son is all about bike camping, though! On Thu, Feb 11, 2016 at 4:22 PM, René Sterental wrote: > The great storie

Re: [RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-11 Thread Ron Mc
You did good, too, Patrick. On Thursday, February 11, 2016 at 4:10:05 PM UTC-6, Patrick Moore wrote: > > Ron -- great photos! > > This is edging away from the original thread, but whatthehell: here is > Catie, freshman, at a friend's house, ready for the Christmas ball. > > [image: Inline image

Re: [RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-11 Thread Patrick Moore
Ron -- great photos! This is edging away from the original thread, but whatthehell: here is Catie, freshman, at a friend's house, ready for the Christmas ball. [image: Inline image 1] On Thu, Feb 11, 2016 at 3:03 PM, Ron Mc wrote: > Rene, I've always taken the approach with my daughter to be a

Re: [RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-11 Thread Ron Mc
Rene, I've always taken the approach with my daughter to be a facilitator, not a teacher. Growing up fly fishing at the creek, we might not fish at all. Sometimes she would fish 10 minutes, sometimes none, sometime

Re: [RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-11 Thread Patrick Moore
Congratulations on the new (forthcoming?) child. My daughter is one of the best things that happened to me, joy far outweighing grief. But be aware: daughters, at least my daughter, became less of a handful but a lot more expensive as she got older! I bought my now 14 1/2 year old daughter some pr

Re: [RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-11 Thread René Sterental
The great stories of kids who have gone on to embrace the love of bikes (and other passions) from their parents are wonderful. However, IMO, one of the hardest things one has to do as a parent (two daughters in their 20s and a teenage son) is deal with the reality when one (or all) of your kids dev

[RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-11 Thread Dan
When my first daughter was born (19 years ago, time flies) I ran out and got a Burley trailer. I was really excited to get her into the fun of biking with me, but the first few times we rode around the local lake she fussed and complained. The highlight for her was getting out at the park at t

Re: [RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-11 Thread Bill Lindsay
In my opinion, one high point of father son riding is going on father son overnighters conspired by Manny! Photo Proves Manny Approves On Thursday, February 11, 2016 at 11:32:50 AM UTC-8, ttoshi wrote: > > It doesn't

[RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-11 Thread Matt Gilkey
Congratulations and Good luck Jim!! As a father of two sons, two and four, and working full time while going to grad school I have to say that becoming a parent is the single most difficult thing I have ever done. But it is by far the most rewarding thing I have ever done, and has changed me

Re: [RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-11 Thread 'Mark in Beacon' via RBW Owners Bunch
BTW, that shot with the Ibert was taken right after my non-drive side pedal snapped off! Equipment checks and a steady and aware riding style are extra important with precious cargo, but some things cannot be foreseen. Forgot to mention the Hooptie accessory for the Big Dummy, fantastic!

[RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-11 Thread Deacon Patrick
Some things to consider that in our experience with four children eliminate the "brutal" so many parents experience: -- Breast feeding -- Co-sleeping (no drugs or alcohol or soft beds) Baby and mom quickly learn to sleep all night, even as nursing. It's the lugged steel of parenting. Grin. Wit

[RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-11 Thread Andrew Patteson
Congratulations! And great comments here. Everything that Toby said is entirely accurate, in my experience. Andrew in SLC On Wednesday, February 10, 2016 at 8:09:31 PM UTC-

Re: [RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-11 Thread 'Mark in Beacon' via RBW Owners Bunch
Even before a trailer, I found a front mount baby carrier to be a great option, starting at year 1. Eventually moved on to rear carrier, trailer, strider bike, Big Dummy, Burley Piccolo, and his own two wheels. He is six now. All the systems are good at various times and for various applicati

[RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-11 Thread Toby Whitfield
Good luck! My wife and I have a 2 year old and a 2 month old. Definitely busy, and hard, but worthwhile. Less time for riding, tinkering with bikes, less spending on bike bits etc... Especially in the newborn infant stage. Almost all of my riding right now is commuting, and it isn't a very lon

Re: [RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-11 Thread 'Mark in Beacon' via RBW Owners Bunch
Even before a trailer, I found a front mount baby carrier to be a great option, starting at year 1. Eventually moved on to rear carrier, trailer, strider bike, Big Dummy, Burley Piccolo, and his own two wheels. He is six now. All the systems are good at various times and for various applicati

Re: [RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-11 Thread Doug Williams
I means that your life is going to change in many ways, but for the better. As for biking, start looking for a trailer. I suggest a larger (100 pound capacity) Burley trailer. The baby won't ride in it right away, but you can the seat out and use it for cargo. You will be making many emergency

[RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-11 Thread Ron Mc
Jim, btw, this is what it's all been about. Erl, thanks, I'm just in awe. The drive is all her (she's always charged at everything and hated to squirm) - she gets all the support she wants. She's the same way in grades - when she was little she got mad at the teacher if she didn't get 100.

[RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-11 Thread WETH
Ron, Congratulations on her wrestling achievements! Jim, Congratulations. In part in means family rides in your future: https://flic.kr/p/f8XTFU and https://flic.kr/p/o47xfw Enjoy the ride, Erl On Thursday, February 11, 2016 at 7:45:20 AM UTC-5, Ron Mc wrote: > > I forgot to add, she built her

[RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-11 Thread Ron Mc
I forgot to add, she built her go-fast -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "RBW Owners Bunc

[RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-11 Thread Ron Mc
It gets better

[RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-11 Thread Jeffrey Marco
It means get your riding in while you can! On Wednesday, February 10, 2016 at 10:09:31 PM UTC-5, Jim Bronson wrote: > > Yep yep yep > -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "RBW Owners Bunch" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails f

Re: [RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-10 Thread Jim Bronson
Wife gets induced on Friday. What will it all mean? On Feb 10, 2016 9:40 PM, "Deacon Patrick" wrote: > Awesome! > > With abandon, > Patrick > > On Wednesday, February 10, 2016 at 8:09:31 PM UTC-7, Jim Bronson wrote: >> >> Yep yep yep >> > -- > You received this message because you are subscribed

[RBW] Re: Pondering fatherhood

2016-02-10 Thread Deacon Patrick
Awesome! With abandon, Patrick On Wednesday, February 10, 2016 at 8:09:31 PM UTC-7, Jim Bronson wrote: > > Yep yep yep > -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "RBW Owners Bunch" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send