Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-26 Thread Topher Gayle
One way to sort of politely say "no" is to claim your mandolin belongs to your cousin or something, and you can't actually get her permission to let anybody touch it since she's not even there I've done it. It's a lie, sure, But in some cases, I was just reluctant to let some drunk person handl

Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-26 Thread mistertaterbug
I actually had a fellow in NC once cuss me for putting scratches on my OWN mandolin. That was a new one on me. A funny story, an eyewitness account... I forget who told me this now, maybe Sonny Osborne. But as the story goes there was a fellow at one of the larger bluegrass festivals that had been

Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-26 Thread mistertaterbug
Eliot, Let's just say that besides being a decent guy and helluva songwriter, Steve is a bit...uhm..."heavy-handed". Think refinish... Tbug On Sep 26, 8:03 am, Eliot Greenspan wrote: > OK, someone please give me a Loar > and put me in a room w/ Steve Earle > I wanna see what he does w/ it --

Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-26 Thread Mark Halpin
In my opinion a person should ask permission before handling someone elses mandolin, just as a matter of respect. Even after that, i'll have no qualms about turning down their request if i think it in the best interests of my mandolin. Someone pointed out that a mandolin is a tool earlier on in th

Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-26 Thread Eliot Greenspan
OK, someone please give me a Loar and put me in a room w/ Steve Earle I wanna see what he does w/ it -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "Taterbugmando" group. To post to this group, send email to taterbugma...@googlegroups.com. To unsubscribe from th

Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-25 Thread bo'weavil
Well I don't like someone picking up my guitar with out permission but if I know the person I don't mind as I like hearing my guitar played by someone who can play. I get to hear how the guitar is sounding and can make adjustments as required. But if I don't know you and you can't play don't ask.

Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-24 Thread mandoholic
i always ask first, even with my best picking friends, even with my students. And i would expect someone to ask me before picking up my mandolin, if they want to live, chances are I'm going to say yes, i love to hear someone better than me play my box, but I still want them to ask first. But do

Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-24 Thread Linda
It does matter to me who does the asking. An experienced mandolin player who understands and values the instrument, is very different than someone who has not played much, and does not understand the value of the item he/she is holding, personal and intrinsic. I am honored if someone plays mine w

Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-24 Thread sgarrity
They're meant to be played but it's polite to ask first. My good pickin' buddies know that they can grab anything I own and play away but they almost always ask first anyway. It's nice to know that decent human behavior isn't completely gone! -- You received this message because you are subscri

Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-24 Thread nelsonpeddycoart
n Wireless BlackBerry > > -Original Message- > From: mistertaterbug > Sender: taterbugmando@googlegroups.com > Date: Fri, 24 Sep 2010 09:41:18 > To: Taterbugmando > Reply-To: taterbugmando@googlegroups.com > Subject: Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin > >

Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-24 Thread nelsonpeddycoart
@googlegroups.com Subject: Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin Well, I reckon a man would need to take stock of how much liquor his company can put away too. Are we talking about Old Grand Dad or Pappy VanWinkle? I mean, if we're talking about "good" whiskey, at the risk of sounding like a tight

Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-24 Thread mistertaterbug
om > > Date: Fri, 24 Sep 2010 09:41:18 > > To: Taterbugmando > > Reply-To: taterbugmando@googlegroups.com > > Subject: Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin > > > Ask before you touch. I think that Mark's point is good; instruments > > are meant to be

Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-24 Thread Mike Hoffmann
ginal Message- From: mistertaterbug Sender: taterbugmando@googlegroups.com Date: Fri, 24 Sep 2010 09:41:18 To: Taterbugmando Reply-To: taterbugmando@googlegroups.com Subject: Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin Ask before you touch. I think that Mark's point is good; instruments are mea

Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-24 Thread Mark Seale
My point is just that. Be respectful, asking is preferred, but they are meant to be played. I'm not going to cringe whether you're the best or a beginner. M On 9/24/10, mistertaterbug wrote: > Ask before you touch. I think that Mark's point is good; instruments > are meant to be played. But, yo

Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-24 Thread nelsonpeddycoart
t: Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin Ask before you touch. I think that Mark's point is good; instruments are meant to be played. But, you wouldn't go over to a carpenter's toolbox and pull out his hammer without asking without there being repercussions. It's the princip

Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-24 Thread mistertaterbug
Ask before you touch. I think that Mark's point is good; instruments are meant to be played. But, you wouldn't go over to a carpenter's toolbox and pull out his hammer without asking without there being repercussions. It's the principle of the thing. Also, I'd say it would be behoove the owner to t

Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-24 Thread 14strings
Touch without asking? Yes I would mind unless it's a friend.But honestly I like when other people play my instruments; you truly get to hear them that way. The other night a fellow played my guitar all night at a session and I was glad because 1) I got to hear it and 2) he was helping to break in

Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-24 Thread Mike Hoffmann
I agree with you , Mark. I play a few different mandolins, each of which is over 80 years old. They have made it this far and are in great shape. I can't imagine what a person who would want to check the mandolin out and play a tune or two could do to hurt my instrument. Then again, the

Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-24 Thread Linda
I agree, except for the time in an adult ed mando class when someone picked up my prize and proceeded to bang it against the table. Now it happens that kind of thing, accidents, I have em too, and he did ask, but if I pick up somebody else's then I want to first ask, get a yes and then touch it li

Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-24 Thread Holstein
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Re: Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-23 Thread Mark Seale
Instruments by definition are tools of music. They're meant to be touched, felt, strummed, whatever. If we make them more significant than their sound and capability then they deserve to be preserved in a glass case. I ask that you respect my instruments, just like I ask that you respect my tools,

Please DON'T touch my mandolin

2010-09-23 Thread Holstein
Don't you hate it when someone just picks up your instermint to 'have a look' or feel without asking first? Even when someone asks to 'have a bash', they seem to assume that it's ok before you can say No Thank You with a pursed smile. I remember seeing some guy hold and play "someone's" Gilchrist a