RE: [Sndbox] Pick one (immorality glamorized)

Sat, 27 Sep 2003 12:55:27 -0700

I dont think that is what anyone is saying. One time of being mean is no excuse. Years of verbal or even physical abuse and a non existent sex life could weaken a guy into having an affair. It's not right but its the way it is. Now there are guys out there that have affairs b/c they just dont care then there are others that love their wives and dont want to leave them, but miss the closeness of sex and just someone being nice to them. They are weak from the circumstances of their marriage so if someone shows them a little attention they are weak and will give in. (and alot of times feel like crap about it later)
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From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]On Behalf Of Jen --
Sent: Friday, September 26, 2003 5:28 PM
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Subject: Re: [Sndbox] Pick one (immorality glamorized)

I guarantee she will tell you that it is not my fault. I didnt hold a gun to Toms head, he choose not to tell me no.
 
Charles, say, if you got in a fight with Beth and called her a name out of anger, is it even if she sleeps with Mick ? Lol.
 
 
 
----- Original Message -----
From: Charles
Sent: Friday, September 26, 2003 11:11 AM
Subject: RE: [Sndbox] Pick one (immorality glamorized)

Since we are going hypothetical….

 

Suppose you and Tom love each other, and further suppose you are doing everything right.  You are the perfect wife.

 

Ok.  Jen (I choose her because she is your sister, and the last person you would expect to poach your man) decides she takes a shine to Tom.  She sets out on a course to seduce/woo/entice (choose your own word) him.  She ultimately succeeds and he cheats.

 

He’s guilty, and responsible for that action.  No one is denying that, or even saying it isn’t so.

 

Is she free and clear of blame, or does she have some responsibility in the scenario.  What you seem to be saying is that no, she does not have any responsibility in it at all. 

 

From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Friday, September 26, 2003 2:05 PM
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Subject: Re: [Sndbox] Pick one (immorality glamorized)

 

In a message dated 9/26/2003 2:01:59 PM Eastern Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:


You both won't answer the question....
Do only the Man's vows count?



to the man yes    the woman is responsible for her own vows not his   so if she bad mouths him then shes guilty of not honoring him but if he cheats on her hes guilty of adultery   

how about this?  if shes bad mouthing him is it his fault she broke the vow of honoring him ?

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