You guys dont seem to be understanding that Im not
for one minute saying I wouldnt be upset. Its not like Im going to run up, give
her a hug, and say thank you. Shes my sister, she will always be there. And
again, my major beef is with the person I am married to, the person who swore
that he would love and cherish me until death do us part.
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Saturday, September 27, 2003 8:11
PM
Subject: RE: [Sndbox] Pick one
(immorality glamorized)
But
dont you also think any self confident woman would think a sister or friend
that entered or initiated that kind of affair should be considered just as
much of scum for doing something like that to you. The sister/friend could say
no too. I just couldnt be so nice towards a friend that did something like
that to me. Thankfully I dont have to worry about my sister doing it
since I dont have a sis and if my brother ever had an affair with my
husband......ick....dont even wanna go there....
Well, Im going to answer this because I said
the same thing she did. She is not the one that I wwould be blaming.
Females that are self confident and that think
highly of themselves will realize that any guy that would sleep with your
sister or anyone outside of the marriage for that matter is scum. Its as
simple as that. That female will realize that she deserves someone who can
stay faithful to her, even under not so great circumstances. It is HIS lack
of control, HIS inability to say no that is the problem. Not the "other"
girls.
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Saturday, September 27, 2003
12:46 PM
Subject: RE: [Sndbox] Pick one
(immorality glamorized)
Unfortunatly it is easy to say you wouldnt hold her responsible,
but in real life scenarios things go a little different than how you
think. As much as you say you wouldnt hold her responsible, there is a
good chance that if that situation actually ever happened (not saying it
would) you would hold her somewhat accountable for trying to seduce your
husband.
In a message dated 9/26/2003 2:12:35 PM Eastern
Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
Is she free and
clear of blame, or does she have some responsibility in the
scenario. What you seem to be saying is that no, she does not
have any responsibility in it at all.
did she hold him down and make him sleep with
her? if not then he shouldve been true to me and kept his vow. and
nope i wouldnt hold her responsible. now lets take it a step
further if I didnt sleep with him for a couple weeks and talked
bad about him is it my fault he cheated with jen or could he have
said no and came to me and said jackie i dont like whats happening with
us we have to fix it?
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