That isnt what I said. The husband should be held accountable too. What I said is in a real life scenario, if it was your sister or a close friend or relative, its easy to say you wouldnt blame them also, but when it actually happens, you would hold her accountable also. I never said not blame the husband at all. I have yet to say in any of my posts on this subject that the husband isnt responsible too. And for the record, I have been through this. My husband cheated on me with someone I thought was a friend. I wasnt *desperate* to hold onto him and I dont consider myself pathetic. He was held accountable as was the *friend* he had the affair with. They were both just equally guilty. Him for saying yes and her for even trying in the first place. I'm still married to him and things are going great. I dont even speak to that so called friend anymore.
thats you i still talk to the women i knew that neil cheated on me with i got rid of him. you know why i talk to em? because if he was that stupid to cheat when he vowed to be faithful then i hold him responsible they didnt hold a gun to his head. they actually did me a favor by letting me know he wasnt worth my fidelity and love
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