What
I'm saying is if a friend was a true friend, she wouldnt have agreed to the
affair in the first place so the husband wouldnt have to worry about breaking
his vows. If the husband tries to start up an affair with a friend or sister,
and the friend or sister agreed to it then they are not a true friend to you.
They would come to you and tell you "hey your husband made a pass at me" and if
they tried to initiate the affair themselves then they arent a true friend.
Granted the husband *should* say no, but sadly that isnt always the case. In a
perfect relationship, the husband would come and tell you "hey your
friend/sister made a pass at me" But not all men have high morals when it comes
to things like that. And no that isnt a man hater comment, unfortunatly it is
true that some men have no morals, the same goes for women. They just want to
have their good time and be damned on any vows they made in a church in front of
God. But the fact of the matter is a true friend would not agree to an affair or
try to seduce your husband, therefore if one does, then yes she should be held
accountable in the affair also.
-----Original Message-----In a message dated 9/27/2003 8:05:45 PM Eastern Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
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But would a real friend try to have an affair with your husband? Thats the way I look at it. If they were a friend to me, they wouldnt have agreed to the affair or even tried to seduce my husband.
after its over and done your sister is still your sister a cheating husband can be replaced by someone more worthy and deserving of love.
i just cant buy this list theory of the man cant say no put in certain situations. and i cant see God standing there saying lets see you committed adultery but hey your wife was mistreating you so its her fault too you cant be held solely responsible. hes gonna say why didnt you say no. sure shes guilty of mistreating him sure the mistress is guilty of sex with someone shes not married too but he alone is guilty for the adultery because he alone broke the vow the mistress didnt take the vow he did
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