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Exactly, which in a roundabout way is what I've been saying. Now the
first guy I ever dated, if I even looked at another guy he felt it was
unacceptable, although the same standard didnt apply to him. But for the most
part, YOU have to decide what is right for YOUR relationship (along with your
SO)
Just thought I would butt my opinion in here of
course. :-) Partly because I had the same opinion that Angela has *until* I
entered into the relationship that I am in now.
It basicly comes down to the relationship. Those
two people have to determine what is acceptable and what is not. And of course
every relationship is different. Angela, you and Neil, as well as a lot of
couples I know, pretty much have an agreement of what is going too far and
what is not. That works for you guys and you are secure in your
relationship.
In my relationship, I am sure that something much
more harmless would be considered crossing that line. But that is what works
for us, we chose not to concentrate attention on other members of the opposite
sex, but on each other. We believe that we have a closer relationship because
of it. But again, that is us.
It just comes down to your SO, as Tim
said.
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Monday, September 29, 2003 7:59
PM
Subject: RE: [Sndbox] Pick one
(immorality glamorized)
So
when I'm out with friends or even hubby, and I'm just harmlessly flirting,
then I'm doing wrong and showing I'm not cherishing my husband, even though
he's the one I go home with/to at night and the only one I ever want to be
with sexually.
My personal thoughts: I just don't
think it is even okay to go out and "flirt" and carry on. That is
putting attention that I feel is appropriate to another woman other then
your spouse. Can you do that and still show you are
cherishing?
AJ
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Monday, September 29, 2003
12:39 PM
Subject: Re: [Sndbox] Pick one
(immorality glamorized)
In a
message dated 9/29/2003 1:38:46 PM Eastern Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED]
writes:
Ahhh, a
smart man.
<applause>
No, not smart but honest! When
my wife and I split, it was hard for both of us. We tried to fix
things, but it just wasn't there for us anymore. We just both got
lost in our careers. Don't know exactly when it happened, but it
happened. We are still very close and great friends. We even
go out to dinner every now and then and have a great time, of course we
have a daughter that drives us both crazy. LOL I know and go
out with a lot of guys whose wives want them to go out and play and give
them the space to do those things. Not one of them in that kind of
marriage has ever cheated as far as I know. It's all trust!
Oh, they flirt and carry on, but go home to their wives with open
arms.
Gary
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