Now that I’ve had the time to read the entire article, I wouldn’t agree that Nolte lacks ego integrity. The article ends with this quote:
You learn acceptance and humility. You learn how to find happiness on your own terms. Just because I cry every day, doesn't mean I don't laugh every day, too. Linda Tollefsrud UW Colleges Rice Lake, WI From: Beth Benoit [mailto:beth.ben...@gmail.com] Sent: Thursday, February 19, 2015 4:31 PM To: Teaching in the Psychological Sciences (TIPS) Subject: Re: [tips] Oliver Sacks José Ferreira-Alves sent a link to the original interview with Nick Nolte in GQ. http://www.gq.com/blogs/the-feed/2015/01/nick-nolte-interview.html?mbid=social_retweet Beth Benoit Plymouth State University Plymouth NH On Thu, Feb 19, 2015 at 9:56 AM, José Ferreira Alves <al...@psi.uminho.pt<mailto:al...@psi.uminho.pt>> wrote: I agree fully with your interpretation, Beth. I think your quote of Nick Nolte as well all the paper of Sacks are fabulous to teach Erikson Integrity vs despair elements Best wishes jose ___________________________ José Ferreira-Alves, PhD Assistant Professor School of Psychology University of Minho Campus de Gualtar 4710-057 Braga Portugal Tel.cel. +351919378514<tel:%2B351919378514> Tel. office: 253604233 Email: al...@psi.uminho.pt<mailto:al...@psi.uminho.pt> http://escola.psi.uminho.pt/docentes_investigadores/falves.html http://orcid.org/0000-0003-1967-0074 Skype name: feralves6180 De: Beth Benoit [mailto:beth.ben...@gmail.com<mailto:beth.ben...@gmail.com>] Enviada: 19 de fevereiro de 2015 14:49 Para: Teaching in the Psychological Sciences (TIPS) Assunto: Re: [tips] Oliver Sacks Oliver Sacks continues to inspire and present a brave and beautiful attitude toward life. Interesting contrast in this week's The Week, quoting from a boohooing GQ interview with Nick Nolte: "Nick Nolte has found getting old to be a painful experience, said Davy Rothbart in GQ. "I cry every day," says the actor, 74. "It's nothing tragic or anything - it's just life. I cry when I try to get out of bed, because I'm in my 70s and my body hurts like hell. Once my joints are moving, I'm all right, but those are my first tears in the morning." Nolte's acute sense of mortality is reinforced every time an old friend dies. "That'll always bring on a good cry..." But Nolte says that perhaps the most painful consequence of growing old is seeing your children become involved in their own lives and slowly drift away. "My son is 28. We've had a close relationship all my life, but now that he's gotten married and had his own family, he's much more secretive. He'll say, 'That's none of your business, Dad. Leave me alone.' And that's a sad one - letting go of your children...." After reading the above I concluded that Sacks is a good example of ego integrity in Erikson's final psychosocial stage, while Nolte might be a pretty good example of the failure of it: despair. Beth Benoit Plymouth State University Plymouth NH On Thu, Feb 19, 2015 at 7:17 AM, Lilienfeld, Scott O <slil...@emory.edu<mailto:slil...@emory.edu>> wrote: Sad news about Oliver Sacks; I had not known this. http://mindhacks.com/2015/02/19/oliver-sacks-now-i-am-face-to-face-with-dying/ ……Scott Scott O. Lilienfeld, Ph.D. Samuel Candler Dobbs Professor Department of Psychology Emory University Atlanta, Georgia 30322 --- You are currently subscribed to tips as: beth.ben...@gmail.com<mailto:beth.ben...@gmail.com>. 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