Sally,
   
  I can't take the flu shots due to allergies......but I take the pneumonia 
shot when due cause I had pneumonia in the weeks prior to onset of tm, and they 
told me the virus from that
  was what had attacked my spine.    Know you have a rough job being his 
caretaker, but I think in this instance, he was correct to have the 
shot............also I consider the fact that he shared this with you shows 
strength in your relationship!!   Hope you can get past this soon, added stress 
isn't good for you with all you have on your plate!!
   
  And, don't ever feel you need to apologize for sharing your concerns....like 
you said,
  we understand where you're coming from while your friends don't really have a 
clue as to what your life is now, compared to pre-tm........
   
  janh

In a message dated 1/22/2007 5:37:10 AM Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL 
PROTECTED] writes:
        Hi Guys
   
  I really need to run something by you please. My husband who you may remember 
got TM in Dec 2000, and who can walk with a stick, got TM from a flu jab we are 
sure. He went to the Doc’s on Thursday and the nurse in the surgery said he 
should have a jab for pneumonia. He ran that past the Doctor who said “I 
don’t see why 
not”???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
 So he had it done there and then. He then told me he’d had it done.
  How could anyone be so incredibly stupid?
  Why would he tell me? And how can I work through this?
  I have not lost my health to TM but I have lost a lot of my husband to TM. My 
life has been devastated by TM too.
   
  As you can tell I’m very hurt, angry and frightened. You can also get 
horrific side effects from this 2nd jab so I am terrified for his health and 
wondering how our marriage can carry on if he suffers no adverse side effects 
or further disability as he has been so stupid and did not even discuss it with 
me 1st. I do know this though I will run as far and as fast as I can if 
something else happens to him coz as far as I’m concerned its self inflicted 
this time.
   
  I would really welcome your thoughts and 
comments…………………….especially if you can shed any light on wot 
might of motivated him to have this jab, and then to tell me?
   
  I have been awake crying since 4am and now I’m at work I keep getting upset 
again. Sorry to come to the list with all of this but my other friends do not 
quite understand the implications here!
   
  Sally in the UK

  
   

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