I respond to a lot of my email directly to the person who wrote it, even though it was sent to the List. I also write directly to the List and would like to know if I am one of the persons this email is written about? If I am making a problem for someone I would like to offer an apology and will remove myself from the List, even though it is a life saving group for me. Without the support from the friends I have made from this List, I don't think that I would have recovered from the pneumonia and staff infection last year. I still have the "bug" and rely on my friends more than ever. Please let me know if I am part of the problem and I will say my goodbyes so that others will be able to use the List for what they need it to be. Sincerely, Jude In a message dated 1/10/2009 1:01:05 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, rj_ran...@yahoo.com writes:
David, What can be done about some of the unnecessary discussions that have been occurring on this site in the past 8 or so months. They have been many people who have left this group and I believe it might be because of the bantering back and forth. Is it possibly that the ones doing the bantering can be removed off the list or blocked instead? The type of discussions in the past weeks have bothered me just a touch. I joined the group because I lost the use of my leg, followed by my bladder and recently had an attack on my brain stem that resulted in trigeminal neuralgia. I joined the group for help and because I was out there in the world without answers and in fear and desperation. I can handle a lot of the stuff that is said but I have noticed that when I read this bantering back and forth that it creates a negative focus in my mind and clogs up my email. I have thought that I might just get a new email account just for this TM group or just talk to friendly members using another Internet service so that I don't have to read the drama. I get enough of the drama from high school students where I work. **************A Good Credit Score is 700 or Above. See yours in just 2 easy steps! (http://pr.atwola.com/promoclk/100000075x1215855013x1201028747/aol?redir=http://www.freecreditreport.com/pm/default.aspx?sc=668072%26hmpgID=62%26bcd=De cemailfooterNO62)