My hubby is "Boss of the Barbecue" here in Calgary.  We also can barbecue year 
round even when it snows.  Our barbecue is on the basement 'walk-out' patio so 
is undercover.  Of course we don't use it when the temps are below about minus 
10 or minus 15 Celcius.  It can take a little bit longer as you have to keep 
the barbecue temp up.  It is a nice break from 'comfort food' cooked in the 
house all winter to have a barbecued hamburger, steak or pork chop etc in the 
middle of winter.  :) 

Heather in Calgary 
  ----- Original Message ----- 
  From: Barbara Alma 
  To: elbobber...@earthlink.net ; tmic-list@eskimo.com 
  Sent: Monday, February 15, 2010 1:39 AM
  Subject: Re: [TMIC] TM and cooking


  We also grill a lot, and our son Daniel and his family live with us right now 
and when he isn't in class, working or having too much homework, he is great at 
helping with cooking or grilling.  I try to get him to take over 2 nights or 
more a week, but getting increasingly more difficult with his new schedule.  He 
makes such a huge deal out of meat prep and cooking though that he can hardly 
manage to get a whole meal done.  Mind you he's a great cook, nearly chef 
quality in some things that he prepares. I don't grill much myself since we 
have a 4 foot stainless steel grill and raising and then lowering the lid is 
very cumbersome for me and I get tired of asking for help.  It's wonderful 
though as we can cook a party load of meat and tons of corn at the same time.  
Daniel has smoked a salmon that he caught on it too. 

  Both of our boys are very good cooks, much better than their wives, so they 
really don't do much cooking since the guys do it much better.  And the boys 
take over when there's a party or family function going on, and that works for 
all of us.  I make a couple of dishes and they take care of the rest.  I taught 
them young, that if they were going to want to eat well, they needed to be able 
to cook well.  It's much easier on the wallet and healthier to know what's in 
your food.

  Living in California we can grill year round, and even do it sometimes in the 
rain, and long as it's not pouring too hard.  But some things you just need to 
cook inside the house.

  Hugs, Barbara A in Auburn CA



  -----Original Message-----
  From: bobby jim <elbobber...@earthlink.net>
  To: rj_ran...@yahoo.com; tmic-list@eskimo.com; Barbara Alma 
<balmat...@aol.com>
  Sent: Sun, Feb 14, 2010 5:54 pm
  Subject: Re: [TMIC] TM and Pilates


  Me missus too, being the foodie that she is, sometimes cooks to exhaustion, 
specially when it's our turn to host the semi-monthly birthday(s) party, those 
being where we bunch up several bee-dayze in close proximity and have one party 
for them all.  Plus there's also Thnxgvng and Xmas; luckily, her immediate 
family is only about from 10 to 12 (some can't come, etc..), so her turn to 
host is every three or four.

  My family is scattered all over 2 continents so I see them every now and then.

  Happy Valentine's Day to all y'all.               BobbyJim           
    From: Barbara Alma         To: rj_ran...@yahoo.com ; tmic-list@eskimo.com 
    Sent: Sunday, February 14, 2010 6:20       Subject: Re: [TMIC] TM and 
Pilates


    Hi Randy,

    Yes, I have residuals.  I can walk, but not well without aids.  When I do, 
I use up so much of my energy that I cannot function much after doing just a 
very small amount, so it's just not worth it.  Around the house I use a walker 
with wheels for household chores like laundry and while doing my cooking prep 
at the kitchen table, etc.  I can't walk and carry hardly anything unless it's 
like from one counter to another in the kitchen or if there isn't any weight to 
it.  It just doesn't work for me.  Like can't walk and chew gum, you know?  
It's just easier than using a cane or crutch and then going back and forth with 
just one thing at a time.  I can load it up and carry a bunch of stuff at once. 
 But, I really give myself a workout just trying to cook at the stove.  That's 
a real challenge for me to stand at the stove for very long and I really miss 
spending more time cooking.  My daughter in-law says when I start to look like 
a cowgirl, that's when you know that I'm in trouble and looking like I'm in 
danger of overdoing it.  So, I do as much as I can sitting.    

    Hugs, Barbara A in Auburn CA



    -----Original Message-----
    From: rj_ran...@yahoo.com
    To: Barbara Alma <balmat...@aol.com>; tmic-list@eskimo.com
    Sent: Sat, Feb 13, 2010 9:51 pm
    Subject: Re: [TMIC] TM and Pilates


    Barbara you helped restore some of my sanity. Do you still have residual 
problems? My same neuro suggested that it have been auto immunine disorder. I 
didn't know if he was suggesting a virus and when I asked I think that he might 
have thought that I just don't have enough background knowledge to understand. 
I know that I have been checked for a lot of pathogens and each time it was 
always negative. I did get eatten up by mosqiutoes in the deep woods of a 
national forrest 2 weeks before the tm experience set in. 
    Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry

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    From: Barbara Alma <balmat...@aol.com> 
    Date: Sun, 14 Feb 2010 00:39:33 -0500
    To: <rj_ran...@yahoo.com>; <tmic-list@eskimo.com>
    Subject: Re: [TMIC] TM and Pilates


    Hi Randy and all TMIC,

    I am another one who was originally told that I had TM and am now being 
told that I don't, and that's by the same doctor and another as well.  I've 
never been talked to about MS though.  I had only one attack, was paralyzed 
from waist to toes within 15 minutes, at lesion T8-10.  I even went to 2 
different hospitals, as I wanted a second opinion, both with a TM diagnosis.

    After about 3 yrs I was told by my first Neuro, who became my treating 
Neuro that I didn't have TM.  He didn't know what caused the paralysis and no 
other information as to why.  Not a spinal infarction or stroke, or anything 
else.  I had trouble with my disability claim and he was the cause so I changed 
Neuro's a few of years later and she had MRI's done and told me the same thing. 
 MRI's have come a long way and the lesion is not there any longer and they 
can't see any cause, like a bleed or anything.  She looked for evidence of a 
bleed because she wanted to rule out the possibility of it happening again and 
couldn't find it.

    So guys, since I've had 2 Neuro's both tell me that I don't have TM, I 
really don't care.  I'm sticking with it, and you are just stuck with me.  I'm 
happy here, I get the support that I need, I give it when I can, and I'm not 
going anywhere.  I really don't know what caused my problems, and I really 
don't care at this point.  It is what it is.  I've had this crap for over 10 
years and it's not going away.  I had TM symptoms and that's where I started, 
so I'm sticking with it.  

    Hugs, Barbara A in Auburn CA



    -----Original Message-----
    From: rj_ran...@yahoo.com
    To: Grace M. <grace...@gmail.com>
    Cc: Janice Nichols <jan...@centurytel.net>; tmic-list@eskimo.com
    Sent: Sat, Feb 13, 2010 1:18 pm
    Subject: Re: [TMIC] TM and Pilates


Janice its ok. I've actually been wondering if I should stay.  I feel very 
awkward these days. I've been told more than once that I had all the "textbook" 
signs for ms and I did loose my left foot followed by my right leg then my 
bladder was told I had tm and went through the most unbelievable facial pain. 
Had several doc all with different ideas and one that got me on my feet and 
another that got me in pt and walking again I've been hospitalized 4 times and 
now suddenly I am told that I don't have ms and show no signs of tm. I pray to 
God nothing comes back. I spent an entire summer pushing myself on a tread mill 
trying to rebuild my strenght but that was after the years of trying to cross 
my 
legs and do odd excercises on the bed floor and chair that the pt taught me. It 
sure has been a mentally brain warping experience. Tx grace for calling me fam. 
This is a great group of people and have helped me get through a lot of 
challenges as well as put up with my venting from time to time. I think we all 
have to vent. 
------Original Message------
From: Grace M.
To: rj_ran...@yahoo.com
Cc: Janice Nichols
Cc: tmic-list@eskimo.com
Subject: Re: [TMIC] TM and Pilates
Sent: Feb 13, 2010 2:26 PM

Randy, 
  
You're like family here at the site and have a lot of good input to offer.  I 
think that you and I came around the same time.  
  
Janice, we don't have to currently be ill in order to participate here.  ALL 
are 
welcome.  It's not an exclusive club.  
  
Respectfully, 
Grace 

Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry

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