Kevin, I know first hand after years of working in nursing homes, first as a nurses aide then as an RN that falls are the biggest issue they all have. It is not that they don't care if people fall and get hurt, but with state regulations, atleast here in Michigan, it is very difficult to prevent the falls. According to our state guide lines they all have the "right to fall". Preventing falls without the use of any type of restraint was one of the most time consuming and difficult parts of my job. Please understand that not all nursing homes are bad, and that alot of the people who work in them care alot about what happens to the people staying there, but alot of times their hands are tied. Lynne
--- On Wed, 1/5/11, Janice Nichols <jan...@centurytel.net> wrote: From: Janice Nichols <jan...@centurytel.net> Subject: Re: [TMIC] REHAB To: "Kevin Wolfthal" <wolft...@optonline.net>, "Akua" <a...@artfarm.com>, tmic-list@eskimo.com Date: Wednesday, January 5, 2011, 12:44 PM Kevin, you did all you could for your mom - don't beat yourself up about it. I would imagine there was I shift that was sloppy with patients and the others were pretty good. This was something you could not help. Janice -----Original Message----- From: Kevin Wolfthal Sent: Tuesday, January 04, 2011 3:36 AM To: Akua ; tmic-list@eskimo.com Subject: Re: [TMIC] REHAB I am furious when I think about how my Mother was treated in rehab after her stroke. She was allowed to fall out of her wheelchair at least 3 times that I know of. They refused to belt her in the chair even though she was paralyzed on one side. When I called a nurse once to ask how my Mom was doing she said: "why are you worried about her, she's old...". I am NOT kidding! When my Mom was brought home for hospice, she was black and blue all over. The hospice nurse was wondering why, so I told her, "because the rehab let her fall out of her wheelchair three times". My Mom passed away on her one day back home. I will do anything I can to avoid that kind of "care". I wish I could have done more for my Mom. Kevin