i too am facing the same issue. My sister is not getting good matches due to my blindness. Most people asks about the support, i expect from sister after marriage. All times, we mentioned we are financially indipendent, still we doubt they consider it as serious issue. i have stopped worrying about this issue as problem is with them only.
On 22/12/2022, Yamuna Jivana dasa (Yogan) <ykhan...@gmail.com> wrote: > I am very happy to meet a blind community in India consisting of people who > > seem to care for each other, to support and comfort each other through these > > challenges. > This is very encouraging. Way to go everyone. Way to go! > > Hugs, > > Yamuna Jivana dasa > > -----Original Message----- > From: Sandeep Singh > Sent: Thursday, December 22, 2022 6:45 PM > To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in > Subject: Re: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your > disability. > > Just shows how insensitive, how selfish the people have become. > Earlier, people would appreciate someone looking after their > relatives, or even strangers, in need but now no one wants others, > however needy, to share their comfort and facilities. However, please > don't be too disheartened, Cauvery. You are capable enough to take > care of yourself and people will understand it soon enough. Then your > brother will get his right match, and so will you. > > Warm regards > Sandeep Singh > > On 12/22/22, BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA <bsvermad...@gmail.com> wrote: >> On blindness, the progression of the society is based upon perception >> not on truth. In your brother’s case, this perception has now become a >> bitter truth. Your brother have to wait and in-search until he get a >> right partner who don’t have faith on such perception. In my opinion, >> complete blindness for the society, is a matter of adjustment not a >> subject of acceptance, and it is a bitter truth. >> >> On 12/22/2022 6:08 AM, Cauvery Krishna wrote: >>> Hi, Access Indians, >>> This is a very personal thing but I don't have any other option but to >>> ask this. >>> I am a person with visual impairment; I have lost my vision at a later >>> stage of my life. >>> I am pursuing my post graduation at a reputed institution, I am good >>> with technology, and I am independent also. >>> But, when people come to see my elder brother for his arranged >>> marriage and they get to know about me and my disability, they cancel >>> the marriage with my brother. >>> They think that I am a burden on my brother but I am an independent >>> person and even I am studying on a 100% scholarship and that too with >>> monthly stipent, and I will soon be getting a good job. >>> They say that they don't want their daughter to do seva of me. >>> My brother is does not have a disability, he looks good and ernes good >>> as well. >>> But because of me and my disability he is not getting married. >>> If some one of you has faced this type of situation please suggest me >>> what can I do now. >>> Thank you. >>> Cauvery Krishna. >>> -- >>> Disclaimer: >>> 1. 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