Friends,
There are always intelligent, thoughtful and broad-minded people out there, even in India.
But like anything in this world, the good is harder to find.
The right person will come along, either for your sighted sibling or for yourself. Take heart. And pray while dedicating oneself to the path of spiritual life.
My story I shared yesterday is proof that God listens, but in his own time.

Kind regards,

Yamuna Jivana dasa

-----Original Message----- From: BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA
Sent: Friday, December 23, 2022 8:04 AM
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Subject: Re: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your disability.

it is good to read! that

If you get a very good job, people will understand that you are not a
dependent to your brother.

it is dificult to prove that you are in good job even if you get a good
one. blindness is blindness, it has nothing to do with your good job
outside your office building. I have 30 years of banking job, but, still
some of my far relatives don't believe it. A complete blind person has
to struggle with the perception in society. only wait and watch rule works.



On 12/22/2022 10:26 PM, kannan balasubramanian wrote:
If you get a very good job, people will understand that you are not a
dependent to your brother.


Thank you.

B. KANNAN
Mobile: +919444049216.

On 12/22/22, Cauvery Krishna <cauverykrishna...@gmail.com> wrote:
Hi, Access Indians,
This is a very personal thing but I don't have any other option but to ask
this.
I am a person with visual impairment; I have lost my vision at a later
stage of my life.
I am pursuing my post graduation at a reputed institution, I am good with
technology, and I am independent also.
But, when people come to see my elder brother for his arranged marriage and they get to know about me and my disability, they cancel the marriage with
my brother.
They think that I am a burden on my brother but I am an independent person
and even I am studying on a 100% scholarship and that too with monthly
stipent, and I will soon be getting a good job.
They say that they don't want their daughter to do seva of me.
My brother is does not have a disability, he looks good and ernes good as
well.
But because of me and my disability he is not getting married.
If some one of you has faced this type of situation please suggest me what
can I do now.
Thank you.
Cauvery Krishna.

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