Thank you so much everyone for your messages. It helped me. On Fri, Dec 23, 2022, 08:49 rituraj meena <riturajmeena1...@gmail.com> wrote:
> Nothing can happen to such poor and small minded people. I am a resident > of Alwar, Rajasthan. I also get to hear this many times that their children > will also be blind. > > On December 23, 2022 8:17:11 AM Aravind R <aravind.andhrab...@gmail.com> > wrote: > > correct. >> I have mentioned about my banking job, decent salary and my own >> investment power without any borrowing. >> Still people has their own fears like this which we cannot resolve and >> they wont openly express also. >> 1. first fear is their children might develope disability which nobody >> can proove. >> 2. Eventhough we are financially independent, our jobs might be at >> risk as if, their job is the safest heaven. >> 3. today we may sound as independent, but tomorrow, we may ask some >> help by emotionally attacking our siblings. >> These kind of negative assumptions cannot be cured as its the effect >> of their own psychological problems, masked as expressing like our >> defects. >> >> On 23/12/2022, BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA <bsvermad...@gmail.com> wrote: >> >>> it is good to read! that >>> >>> If you get a very good job, people will understand that you are not a >>> dependent to your brother. >>> >>> it is dificult to prove that you are in good job even if you get a good >>> one. blindness is blindness, it has nothing to do with your good job >>> outside your office building. I have 30 years of banking job, but, still >>> some of my far relatives don't believe it. A complete blind person has >>> to struggle with the perception in society. only wait and watch rule >>> works. >>> >>> >>> >>> On 12/22/2022 10:26 PM, kannan balasubramanian wrote: >>> >>>> If you get a very good job, people will understand that you are not a >>>> dependent to your brother. >>>> >>>> >>>> Thank you. >>>> >>>> B. KANNAN >>>> Mobile: +919444049216. >>>> >>>> On 12/22/22, Cauvery Krishna <cauverykrishna...@gmail.com> wrote: >>>> >>>>> Hi, Access Indians, >>>>> This is a very personal thing but I don't have any other option but to >>>>> ask >>>>> this. >>>>> I am a person with visual impairment; I have lost my vision at a later >>>>> stage of my life. >>>>> I am pursuing my post graduation at a reputed institution, I am good >>>>> with >>>>> technology, and I am independent also. >>>>> But, when people come to see my elder brother for his arranged marriage >>>>> and >>>>> they get to know about me and my disability, they cancel the marriage >>>>> with >>>>> my brother. >>>>> They think that I am a burden on my brother but I am an independent >>>>> person >>>>> and even I am studying on a 100% scholarship and that too with monthly >>>>> stipent, and I will soon be getting a good job. >>>>> They say that they don't want their daughter to do seva of me. >>>>> My brother is does not have a disability, he looks good and ernes good >>>>> as >>>>> well. >>>>> But because of me and my disability he is not getting married. >>>>> If some one of you has faced this type of situation please suggest me >>>>> what >>>>> can I do now. >>>>> Thank you. >>>>> Cauvery Krishna. >>>>> >>>>> -- >>>>> Disclaimer: >>>>> 1. 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Sometimes I feel like this world is not for > us so Kaveri don't consider yourself alone because you are not the only one > who is facing such things there are almost everyone like you who are > facing these things. > > -- > Disclaimer: > 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of > the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; > > 2. 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