Hi all,

This is an interesting subject and here are my views:

First, It does not matter whether we fumble around to find our ways or
not. What matters is our ability to reach our destination on time
without hurting our-self. In relation to that, who cares about others
thinking when we fumble around to find our ways? Ones we adopt that
mentality, then words like social dignity will make very little sense.
Second, I would like to draw the attention to the point that Jean
made. There is a significant cultural difference in terms of holding
someone else's hand. I am sure that visually challenged people in
India will agree with the fact that we don't mind holding hands not
only in terms of sighted assistance, but also among friends who may be
visually challenged. but among the blind people here in the US there
is a slight difference in terms of holding hands as if holding others
hands is undesirable or something like that. So one has to be aware of
such cultural differences in this regard. My final point is to do with
mobility during conference. As Jean pointed out, we should certainly
make use of the cane since it will be a new surrounding, but at the
same time there is nothing wrong in asking for directions. Just a
passing comment about my attitude towards others assistance: Either
guide me by holding my hands or leave me alone. I am intelegent enough
to find my ways around.

Vetri.

On 22/09/2011, Anirban Mukherjee <sparsha.anir...@gmail.com> wrote:
> actually, escort becomes necessity at some times as far as i'm
> concerned. but, i agree, that we must look for self-reliance. but what
> i would like to draw every body's attention is that the point that Mr
> Rajesh sir made regarding escort in the other thread is absolutely
> valid. it is insulting to say the least. there should be discretion of
> making my own choices for me.
>
> On 9/22/11, mahendra <gal...@chello.at> wrote:
>> Dear Rajesh
>>
>> i only agree with your thurd point,
>>
>> to think that escort is there, and we don't need mobility is very much
>> wrong.
>> sighted people can also put your life in to denjare, we must take
>> responsibility
>> for our life, and not totaly put responsibility  on the shoulders of
>> others.
>>
>> secondly  because of dependence on sighted, social dignity is compromised,
>> and not because you have to fumble around, it shows you are trying your
>> best.
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>> At 09:21 AM 9/22/2011, you wrote:
>>>Dear Srinivasu
>>>Rightly said that low vision people don't face as much problems in
>>>mobility as totally blind do.
>>>It is not impossible to manage without escort, I have done it
>>>myself, travelling on Nagpur Roads in student days, and even
>>>travelling all alone in trains in UP, bringing my elder sister who
>>>is herself blind with her kids from Lucknow to Nagpur, all by myself.
>>>My point is, without escort,
>>>1. The mobility is fraught with inherent risks, sometimes of life.
>>>2. More often than not, social dignity is compromised, as you have
>>>to fumble around.
>>>3. Your freedom, particularly in new surroundings, is greatly curtailed.
>>>
>>>As a result, one should opt for an escort, if one is able to afford,
>>>and escort is available, except in situations where privacy is of
>>>utmost importance.
>>>
>>>
>>>-----Original Message-----
>>>From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in
>>>[mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of
>>>Srinivasu Chakravarthula
>>>Sent: Thursday, September 22, 2011 1:25 PM
>>>To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
>>>Subject: [AI] Tips to manage without escort?
>>>
>>>Hi All,
>>>Honestly, I got this curiosity with recent thread raised by Rajesh.
>>>
>>>I know, there area lot of members in the group, who widely travel and I
>>> see
>>>them traveling all alone. I even see people like Jean, who never ask for
>>>help at the venues. I am curious how would people with total blindness can
>>>manage to be alone at conferences etc.Also, any of you come across tips to
>>>network with the people in the events.I don't consider myself to answer
>>> any
>>>of the above, although I travel a lot, but I could fairly see. So I don't
>>>think, this would be of any problem to people with low vision.
>>>
>>>Any tips would also help me to share with our students at NAB.
>>>
>>>Thanks a lot,
>>>-Srinivasu
>>>
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