i entirely agree with what Himanshu sir has said. i work in a rural
area in pashchimbanga and day in and day out have to encounter
difficulties like coliding with someone or with some object which
really hurt due particularly to the irresponsibility of some persons
without visual impairment. the rail station where i usually board my
train from becomes almost inaccessible in the evenings because of the
abundance of small shops where things of use are sold. there were
times when i nearly fell to the railway tracks.

moreover many people don't know how to use a pavement. pavements in
larger cities here are dangerous to say the least for even a sighted
person; for a visually challanged person it is almost a nightmare. in
rural roads, there are no pavement or anything. so escort becomes a
necessity. but undoubtedly, moving alone is the most satisfying thing
irrespective of fumbling or no fumbling. but there is no heroism in
falling down and injuring oneself.

we can enough philosophise regarding independence. but under the
present circumstance it is an illusive thing for us. hope one day will
come when this topic itself will become redundant.

with thanks and regards, Anirban Mukherjee.
cell: 09433305139

On 9/23/11, BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA <bsvermad...@gmail.com> wrote:
> if a word hold is objectionable, the word grip can be replace withit.
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Raj Debbarma" <rdbbarma...@gmail.com>
> To: <accessindia@accessindia.org.in>
> Sent: Friday, September 23, 2011 8:58 AM
> Subject: Re: [AI] Tips to manage without escort?
>
>
>> hi sir,
>> i agree with all your point.
>> i don't find anything wrong to use cane specially in new surrounding
>> and also belief nothing wrong  to ask direction to  find  our way.  in
>> terms of holding hand, what i think  there might be cultural
>> differences reguarding this.  but if you are caring cane  its
>> automatically represent your blindness twards the society  that point
>> of time if  anyone hold your hand, i don't think  anybody should have
>> any sort of problem.
>> its raj, have a nice day ahead  to all of you. cheers
>> thank you..
>>
>> On 9/22/11, Adhimoolam Vetrivel Murugan <vadhimoo...@gmail.com> wrote:
>>> Hi all,
>>>
>>> This is an interesting subject and here are my views:
>>>
>>> First, It does not matter whether we fumble around to find our ways or
>>> not. What matters is our ability to reach our destination on time
>>> without hurting our-self. In relation to that, who cares about others
>>> thinking when we fumble around to find our ways? Ones we adopt that
>>> mentality, then words like social dignity will make very little sense.
>>> Second, I would like to draw the attention to the point that Jean
>>> made. There is a significant cultural difference in terms of holding
>>> someone else's hand. I am sure that visually challenged people in
>>> India will agree with the fact that we don't mind holding hands not
>>> only in terms of sighted assistance, but also among friends who may be
>>> visually challenged. but among the blind people here in the US there
>>> is a slight difference in terms of holding hands as if holding others
>>> hands is undesirable or something like that. So one has to be aware of
>>> such cultural differences in this regard. My final point is to do with
>>> mobility during conference. As Jean pointed out, we should certainly
>>> make use of the cane since it will be a new surrounding, but at the
>>> same time there is nothing wrong in asking for directions. Just a
>>> passing comment about my attitude towards others assistance: Either
>>> guide me by holding my hands or leave me alone. I am intelegent enough
>>> to find my ways around.
>>>
>>> Vetri.
>>>
>>> On 22/09/2011, Anirban Mukherjee <sparsha.anir...@gmail.com> wrote:
>>>> actually, escort becomes necessity at some times as far as i'm
>>>> concerned. but, i agree, that we must look for self-reliance. but what
>>>> i would like to draw every body's attention is that the point that Mr
>>>> Rajesh sir made regarding escort in the other thread is absolutely
>>>> valid. it is insulting to say the least. there should be discretion of
>>>> making my own choices for me.
>>>>
>>>> On 9/22/11, mahendra <gal...@chello.at> wrote:
>>>>> Dear Rajesh
>>>>>
>>>>> i only agree with your thurd point,
>>>>>
>>>>> to think that escort is there, and we don't need mobility is very much
>>>>> wrong.
>>>>> sighted people can also put your life in to denjare, we must take
>>>>> responsibility
>>>>> for our life, and not totaly put responsibility  on the shoulders of
>>>>> others.
>>>>>
>>>>> secondly  because of dependence on sighted, social dignity is
>>>>> compromised,
>>>>> and not because you have to fumble around, it shows you are trying your
>>>>> best.
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> At 09:21 AM 9/22/2011, you wrote:
>>>>>>Dear Srinivasu
>>>>>>Rightly said that low vision people don't face as much problems in
>>>>>>mobility as totally blind do.
>>>>>>It is not impossible to manage without escort, I have done it
>>>>>>myself, travelling on Nagpur Roads in student days, and even
>>>>>>travelling all alone in trains in UP, bringing my elder sister who
>>>>>>is herself blind with her kids from Lucknow to Nagpur, all by myself.
>>>>>>My point is, without escort,
>>>>>>1. The mobility is fraught with inherent risks, sometimes of life.
>>>>>>2. More often than not, social dignity is compromised, as you have
>>>>>>to fumble around.
>>>>>>3. Your freedom, particularly in new surroundings, is greatly
>>>>>>curtailed.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>As a result, one should opt for an escort, if one is able to afford,
>>>>>>and escort is available, except in situations where privacy is of
>>>>>>utmost importance.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>-----Original Message-----
>>>>>>From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in
>>>>>>[mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of
>>>>>>Srinivasu Chakravarthula
>>>>>>Sent: Thursday, September 22, 2011 1:25 PM
>>>>>>To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
>>>>>>Subject: [AI] Tips to manage without escort?
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Hi All,
>>>>>>Honestly, I got this curiosity with recent thread raised by Rajesh.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>I know, there area lot of members in the group, who widely travel and I
>>>>>> see
>>>>>>them traveling all alone. I even see people like Jean, who never ask
>>>>>>for
>>>>>>help at the venues. I am curious how would people with total blindness
>>>>>> can
>>>>>>manage to be alone at conferences etc.Also, any of you come across tips
>>>>>> to
>>>>>>network with the people in the events.I don't consider myself to answer
>>>>>> any
>>>>>>of the above, although I travel a lot, but I could fairly see. So I
>>>>>>don't
>>>>>>think, this would be of any problem to people with low vision.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Any tips would also help me to share with our students at NAB.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Thanks a lot,
>>>>>>-Srinivasu
>>>>>>
>>>>>>--
>>>>>>Best regards,
>>>>>>
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