[I apologize in advance to others - I don't want to prolong this
further/at all, but I think the specific Agoran context is important to
lay out.]

Madrid wrote:
> - To further illustrate how the current push for neopronouns/neolanguage
> isn't natively Spanish but (mostly) orginated in the US as a movement, 

This is an Agoran thing, not a broader language question.  Back in 1993,
well before it was a big "U.S." thing, Agorans collectively decided to use
e and eir, for specific and conscious reasons.  It is part of the *Agoran*
culture (if it matters, the game at the time was dominated by Aus/NZ
players, not the US).  It was also out of specific respect to Grand Hero
of Agora Douglas Hofstadter, who, back in the 1980s, dedicated Scientific
American columns (the same column in which e popularized Nomic) to the
pernicious effects of inherent linguistic sexism. It was a subject e was
passionate about, and one that we found important back in the 1990s when
almost nobody else did.

In 2017, when we had several new players, we gently corrected those
who joined, when they didn't use the lingo. Just as others have been,
including myself, for the whole history of the game.  Yours is the only
response I remember that was basically "I'm going to keep using it because
my convenience as a new player is more important that your long-running
culture":

https://mailman.agoranomic.org/cgi-bin/mailman/private/agora-business/2017-June/035225.html

And nix called you out then, too:

https://mailman.agoranomic.org/cgi-bin/mailman/private/agora-business/2017-June/035228.html

After 5 years of this not getting any better.  Literally no one else since
I joined again in 2001, in my memory, has had any issues once it was
explained.  I'm really really tired of arguing the point, it's not why I
come here to play this game.

Madrid wrote:
> To someone who isn't in the neopronouns/neolanguage camp, it feels like
> some external ideology (be it Sharia Law or neopronouns) barging in to
> claim that they're correct to some degree and that certain things need
> to change to a certain amount to accommodate them.

You're partially correct, except for the key point that this is *internal*
not *external*.  A voluntary group that has been running for over 27 years
is asking a single relative newcomer to respect its traditions, traditions
that were carefully thought out and defended for years when it was a weird
oddity and harder to explain.  I'm glad the cultural zeitgeist has caught
up in some places.

And no other newcomer has had issues, or if they have they've quietly
ducked out.  If you want to compare that to a oppressive regime - well the
difference (and what makes it an insulting comparison) is that unlike many
under Sharia Law, you are 100% free and privileged to leave with no
consequences.

This is just a simple matter:  THIS IS HOW THIS PARTICULAR GAME IS
PLAYED.  If you don't like it, there's plenty of other games to enjoy.
This one probably just isn't a good fit.

-G.

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