Dear Netters:
 
It is with much remorse that I am obliged to write you this mail. As this mail is directly connected with  my posts on the Assam Net and also it may involve the whole community, I felt compelled to write and straighten the facts in this net only. Please bear with me.
 
I too received a very similar letter like C'da got, which also included some mis-interpreted choice personal references to my family + this letter below informing me that I have been dropped from the Texas host committee based on my postings on the Assam Net.
 
Sheer decency forbids me to replicate the whole letter here at this point. But I am enclosing one letter in full (and my response, below) about which I already informed Mr. Mano Hazarika and the committee that I would be putting in on the net.
 
Like C'da, I also waited until today for any kind of explanation or reason, after I wrote to Mr. Hazarika (I also made sure to CC all the other recipients listed by him). Apparently, till date, no one has seen it necessary or important to give any justification for their arbitrary and baseless action.
 
    "The Independent Minded Assamese Individuals in North America: We need
    your voiced support in ensuring that joint Assamese conferences (Asssam
    200X or 20XX) continue to become a tradition in North America for a
    long long time to come." --Jugal Kalita.
http://pikespeak.uccs.edu/pipermail/assam/2003-August/002267.html
 
Below (the indented text) is the part of what I wrote in the Assam Net in response to Jugal's letter on August 8th:
   

    "...I haven't been able to attend any of the meetings (though I must state that I was also included in the invitation         emails), but this kind of misleading releases to the press, does convince us that the 2004 Texas convention would
    likely be an all "AANA affair". If this is the case, then I am doubly convinced that I've no business going
    there. And if so, would the AANA
Texas organizers please remove me (and my husband) from your mailing list for     the meetings for organizing the Texas event next year? As we do not belong to AANA, we would like no part in any
    organizing activities. We wish them all success, and if possible will definitely try and attend the convention next year as a part of the Assamese community here.

    I am sure that level headed people like Aradhana b'deu, Dilip Deka, etc.,
will definitely be able to straighten out         the facts, and 
throw some light.    Jugal: Rest assured, FYI: there is at least one Assamese in Texas that is
    independent minded."
 

 
Didn't the above clearly indicate that I wanted out of the committee IF it was going to be an AANA (partisan instead of the whole community) affair? After this, if I get a mail like this saying that I will be kicked out of the host committee, what does it imply?
 
I expected that there would be at least ONE person in the Texas host committee who would rise above party affiliations and politics and straighten out the matter. Alas! not a single one bothered to rise above the fray.
 
I would expect a host committee which is supposed to represent all Assamese without the label of AANA/ASA attached. This committee does not belong to any particular organization and I fail to see what right Mr. Hazarika or anyone else has to remove me from the committee by conveniently misinterpreting what I had publicly posted in this forum.
 
In the other mail that I got from them, I was charged that I would like to be independent of the Assamese community in Houston.
See below:
   
     "Per Alpana's email, she would like to keep a distance from the other Assamese in Houston. She would like to be
    identified as independent in Houston and not participate in common activities including hosting the next convention."
 
I would assume that this was based on the last line of my mail above where I wrote that I was an "Independent minded Texan". Yes, I am still independent minded, but does that mean that I said that I would like to keep a distance from the other Assamese in Houston?
 
BTW, there are at least two people who have recieved copies of these letters written by Hazarika who have participated practically everyday in the Assam Net discussions so are well aware of the truth. But even THEY chose to keep quiet and avoid the truth.
 
I have lost a lot of faith in these individuals more than the sender himself. I thought these individuals would be open minded and would not stoop to such levels. Another thing that surprised me is the fact that with all the professionals in the Texas host committee, they would allow the "Publicity contact for Assam Convention 2004" to send out such unprofessional mails to a community member.
 
Finally, I would still urge that the Texas Host Committee to do everything possible to allay any apprehensions so that we have a smooth and fun filled convention in the best interests of the community.
 
We have had long standing and good relationships with the Assamese community in Houston, and would still like to maintain it. BUT it is a sad commentary of how party affiliations and politics can have precedence over personal relationships. 
This is bourne out by the sad example that a respected and upright individual in Houston thought it necessary to sabotage a poll put together by young people to gauge community preferences.
  
Even after all this, we harbor no ill feelings towards any individual of the Assamese community in Texas, including Mr. Hazarika. We wish them well.
 
Thank you for reading.
 
--A. Sarangapani
Houston, Texas.
 
 
 

 
 
----- Original Message -----
From: "Alpana Sarangapani" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: "Mano Hazarika" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; "Barada Sarma" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; "Barada Sarma" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; "Dhiraj Goswami" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; "Dilip Deka" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Cc: "Cynthia Hill" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; "Manjula Datta-Barua" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; "Rajen Barua" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; "Rana Gogoi" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; "Alpana Sarangapani" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Sent: Wednesday, September 10, 2003 1:10 AM
Subject: Re: Email Distribution List

> > I have been told that Alpana Sarangapani has
> > complained in Assam net for receiving emails from the
> > Texas host committee for the Assam Convention 2004.
> > Please omit her name from the list and advise the sub
> > committee leads to refrain from communicating to her.
>
> I don't think I personally asked to be removed, but since you brought it up,
> here is my clarification:
>
> If the object of the host committee for Assam 2004 is ONLY going to project
> AANA's objectives, in that situation I did not and still do not want any
> part of it, as I have no business there since I am not an AANA member.
>
> My question to you is: if you categorically state that this is a community
> affair, irrespective of organizational affiliation or lack thereof, why am I
> being dropped?
>
> PS: I just got another mail in my work email box, complaining about my being
> vocal about the unification of the entire Assamese community, please refrain
> from using my work email address for any of these mails and use this address
> instead:
[EMAIL PROTECTED], like you did on this one.
>
> If you were "told", "that I complained" in Assam Net, I wonder why you did
> not send a copy to Assam Net - for the entire community to see. I will, so
> that the entire community knows the whole story.
>
> Alpana B. Sarangapani
> Houston, Texas.
>
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Mano Hazarika" <
[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> To: "Barada Sarma" <
[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; "Barada Sarma" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>;
> "Dhiraj Goswami" <
[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; "Dilip Deka"
> <
[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> Cc: <
[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; "Cynthia Hill"
> <
[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>;
> <
[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> Sent: Tuesday, September 09, 2003 9:46 PM
> Subject: Email Distribution List
>
>
> > I have been told that Alpana Sarangapani has
> > complained in Assam net for receiving emails from the
> > Texas host committee for the Assam Convention 2004.
> > Please omit her name from the list and advise the sub
> > committee leads to refrain from communicating to her.
> >
> > Mano Hazarika
> > Publicity contact for Assam Convention 2004
> >
> > =====
> > Mano Hazarika
> > Sugar Land, Texas
> >
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> >
> >
> >
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