Hi, I have been following this debate for sometime now and cannot but marvel at the debating skills of our fellow members.
I believe that it should never be a men v/s women case. Both the genders have contributed to the progress of the nation. And women, especially those in places like Mumbai, are, indeed, bringing substantial income and other values to the table. I know of many women who are bringing-up children single-handedly, without any help from the male parent. As a matter of fact, in many cases the father has simply walked-out of the family for liaison with another woman. Also, please ask yourself, has real power percolated to women ? I don't think so. Whether at gram panchayat level, vidhan sabha level or in the lok sabha, if you exclude the urban educated women : the Brinda Karats and the Sonia Gandhis, you will see that for every Rabri Devi there is a Laloo Prasad who calls the shots from behind. So much for women's emancipation. Thank you. Mukesh Srivastava B Tech (IIT Bombay), MMM (JBIMS) Mumbai -400 053. INDIA. Tel : +91-22-2630 3883 Mobile : +91-98702 15815 Alternative E-mail : [email protected] --- On Tue, 29/6/10, Rochana Devi Raavi <[email protected]> wrote: From: Rochana Devi Raavi <[email protected]> Subject: Re: [bm] Molestation To: [email protected] Date: Tuesday, 29 June, 2010, 5:03 PM Hi Rohan, this is rochana. i agree with very few points made by u and let me clear that.... How many of the 21st century women are ready and willing to protect and provide men? How many of the 21st century women are ready to marry unemployed men and support them? women look for a good person if i am right u r talking about girls but not of matured women.money is needed for leading a better life but money is not life. We men are treated as ATM machines, money-making machines and free security guards of society. who r treating men as ATM Machines. i too work for a company and making my bit for my family. did women made men ATM machines? long ago the male dominated society when u and i were not in this world ordered women to be in kitchen and men use to earn money for the family. even teh parents cannot afford for all their children education so only boy in teh family use to be educated to elad his family. at tht times also in villages women use to go for field works to earn for their family. LAST BUT NOT THE LEAST.... i agree with u in points where * men also will suffer not only women and u said men dont crib. and later u r saying men is stronger than women so u may not crib. see men and women in everybody 50% they r good and the remaining they are bad as well. i am not saying that all women are good. because of bad men women are suffering and as well due to arogant and poor attitude women men also suffer alot. * i also agree that women also misuse the domestic violence act as a result a innocent men will be suffered. *as u said women crib so many legislations came into force. may be men dont crib so no acts. in one of the previous posts i have studied an organisation came up namely "meri bewi se bachavo" (save me from my wife) in pink city and many branches also opened near by. please do not argue regarding the rights of women and men, who is strong and weak, who is doing best to the society, who is sacrificing and who not? that is not our issue. rohan if u feel that nuthen has written something wrong then point out the issues but dont say women does nothing in the society and men the one who is one and only running the society. right? Regards, Rochana
