Yeah, bad analogy because I love to eat icing straight from the bowl.
On 7/28/05, Ben Doom <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > I dated a bisexual woman for a while. She didn't (that I remember) tell > me who she preferred, but based on the relationships I know about > (preceeding and following me) I'm pretty sure it's men. > > Anyway, I looked at it this way: For me, relationships aren't about > sex. Sex is like icing on the cake. Without good cake, the icing isn't > much use. Okay, that's a terrible analogy. But you know what I mean. > Anyhow, I just willfully assumed that even if I wasn't her ideal, I was > good enough. > > Of course, since she never told me she preferred women, that might have > been an easier stance to take. > > --Ben > > Deanna Schneider wrote: > > Hm...I had a brief relationship with a bi man. The major issue that I > > had was that he had told me early on that he "preferred men." To which > > my reaction was, "hm....well, my lack of penis doesn't seem to be an > > issue right at this here moment." But, the comment needled its way > > into my brain and planted itself there - growing into a nagging > > ragweed in our happy field of daisies. Finally, I just had to say, > > "you know, I can't always be wondering if you're actually fulfilled - > > gotta go." > > > > I think that's often the issue - the idea that no one person can be > > both sexes for someone. So, unless you're into the poly thing, you're > > always left wondering if you're truly doing it for your partner - > > which is an icky place to be. > > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Discover CFTicket - The leading ColdFusion Help Desk and Trouble Ticket application http://www.houseoffusion.com/banners/view.cfm?bannerid=48 Message: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=i:5:166982 Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/threads.cfm/5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=s:5 Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5 Donations & Support: http://www.houseoffusion.com/tiny.cfm/54
