i wish all of you the best of luck in your endeavours, but id predict over half of you come back in a few years and say, wow, he was right.
im jus' sayin' numbers don't lie. On Wed, Mar 31, 2010 at 12:01 PM, Eric Roberts <ow...@threeravensconsulting.com> wrote: > > My grandmother's family are Polish/Czech/Lithuanian Jews and my > grandfather's family is Italian, so I grew up with both...weddings, > funerals, bat/bat mitzvahs, confirmations...and yes...they both know how to > party and feast afterwards. It's no wonder I have a big belly these days > hehehe > > Eric > > -----Original Message----- > From: G Money [mailto:gm0n3...@gmail.com] > Sent: Wednesday, March 31, 2010 10:55 AM > To: cf-community > Subject: Re: popping the big question > > > That sounds really nice. > > I had to do the full Catholic thing, which was a headache.....but Catholics > can throw a pretty damn good party. > > Though, I must admit, they pale in comparison to a Jewish wedding. I got to > attend one of those for the first time a few years ago...holy crap was that > a good time, and I didn't know anyone there! They treat all guests as long > lost friends, and they just let the party rip! Plus I thought the Jewish > wedding vows were terrific...simple, elegant, and meaningful. > > On Wed, Mar 31, 2010 at 10:46 AM, Eric Roberts < > ow...@threeravensconsulting.com> wrote: > >> >> Exactly...my wife and I did it so that we would have to the legal benefits >> and protections. Otherwise, in our eyes and in the eyes of our gods, we >> were already married and have been so for quite some time. >> >> We did a nice outdoor ceremony in our back yard (we have a nice back yard >> with a garden area with trellises...very pretty setting in the spring and >> summer) >> >> Eric >> >> -----Original Message----- >> From: G Money [mailto:gm0n3...@gmail.com] >> Sent: Wednesday, March 31, 2010 10:39 AM >> To: cf-community >> Subject: Re: popping the big question >> >> >> I'll just give you the other side of that........marry her if marriage is >> nothing short of a mere formality. >> >> Marrying my then girlfriend changed nothing in our lives. We had a big >> ceremony and everyone had a great time, but nothing changed. Marriage >> should >> not change how you feel, how you interact, how you care for each >> other.....anything. If marriage changes something, or will change >> something, >> then that would be a red flag. >> >> If truly care for each other, and marriage is nothing more than a ceremony >> to emphasize it...then by all means get married. My wife and I have had >> nothing but good times....it IS possible to be "happily married" :) >> >> As for hte proposal, I went the traditional route. Nice restaurant, down > on >> one knee after the main course, before hte dessert. As for the >> anxiety...several drinks helped me :) >> >> On Wed, Mar 31, 2010 at 10:24 AM, Vivec <gel21...@gmail.com> wrote: >> >> > >> > I agree. Don't rush to marry. It complicates things. >> > Unfortunately most women expect and want it (and their families...and >> their >> > female friends..). >> > >> > Pre-nups work in the United States though. So it may be worthwhile to >> have >> > that discussion. >> > >> > On 31 March 2010 10:51, Ras Tafari <rastaf...@gmail.com> wrote: >> > >> > > >> > > if you love her dont marry her. >> > > if you never marry her, you can never get divorced. >> > > the odds are WAY in your favor if you dont. >> > > >> > > trust me. >> > > >> > > ive been to battle twice. >> > > trust me. >> > > >> > > >> > >> > >> > >> >> >> >> > > > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Want to reach the ColdFusion community with something they want? Let them know on the House of Fusion mailing lists Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/message.cfm/messageid:314620 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/unsubscribe.cfm
