> I get you though...it strikes me as odd when others can't see the > patterns I do. For me I think it's due to my memory...it even scares > me sometimes....remembering line numbers or code above/below the code > you are remembering 5 years after writing it is just creepy.
Now that's some memory! Mine isn't that good. I have a darned good memory for technical details, but it's typically selective. So I remember the formula for the volume of a cone, which I've never used, but I misremember the release schedule for versions of ColdFusion. ;) In my case in particular, my skills are fairly slanted toward the technical, meaning that my people skills are rusty. Just means I have to work harder at them, but at least now I know why and I've been able to find some books that I think are really helping me to shore up my challenge areas. Just finished reading Words that Work, Crucial Conversations, Influencer, Carol Dweck's Mindset and a few others this year. And boy let me tell you, there are things in there I wish I'd known when I presentated at cf.Objective a few years ago. :) > Well if this application development thing doesn't work out I can > always be a circus freak ;-) Maybe we missed our calling. ;) -- s. isaac dealey :: AutLabs Creating meaningful employment for people with Autism http://www.autlabs.com ph: 817.385.0301 http://onTap.riaforge.org/blog ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Want to reach the ColdFusion community with something they want? Let them know on the House of Fusion mailing lists Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-talk/message.cfm/messageid:327648 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-talk/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.4