On Fri, Apr 17, 2009 at 1:20 PM, Rick Archer <r...@searchsummit.com> wrote: > > > > I like this post. Explains a lot about Bevin, IMO. It's interesting > that it's been 5 years and FFL just goes round and round discussing > the same subjects, only with a whole lot more b.s. now. > > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/11128 > > Except that there are quite a few women, some of them married (or now > divorced) who would attest that Bevin isn't gay, at least not exclusively. >
Rick, Bevin doesn't have to be gay. My world would not fall apart around me if he isn't. But I've spoken over many beers with guys who tell me that their wives, girlfriends, team buddies all believed that they were absolute studs. Then they finally decided they had enough and outed themselves. Others have no intention of outing themselves. They are happy with things the way they are. They love their wives, they love their kids, they don't want to lose it all because they prefer guys. They just pretend that they're studs. One guy I know developed prostate cancer at an early age, had his prostate excised and now is no longer potent unless he threads a prosthetic device in place so he has what appears to be an erection. So now he no longer has to appear to be a stud, even in front of his wife. That, plus his traveling on business gives him a perfect cover. There are Yahoo groups I've happened upon which deal entirely with how guys can pass as hetero studs while making their golf or racketball partners something more than just that. I have some friends who are the product of extreme physical and mental child abuse. They can very easily say one thing and do another and because they're masters of the dissociative state, it's not problem for them. So while you keep bringing up Bevin's being a proven home destroyer and stud, my gardar, such as it is, and the True Confessions told in absolute confidence (I tend to elicit that in people in a one on one situation) tell me otherwise.
